#conversation style

[stuckinapril]

Reprogrammed my own brain by realizing that people don’t just get your devotion outright, but have to work for it. You do not go from 100 to 0 as people fault u. You go from 0 to 100 as they prove bit by bit that they are worthy of ur trust and patience. I used to be infinitely patient & understanding bc I thought that was my “gambit”—an initial investment I was hoping would beget more investment from the other party. I don’t do that shit anymore bc it has never served me once. I will show kindness and compassion to someone, but unless they prove they’re willing to put in the work to make a relationship work (platonic or romantic alike), I’m not going out of my way to emulate patience bc I’m hoping that somehow that will change them. Never ever ever. Humans almost always never work like that. They either give a fuck when they see you’re on the outs w them and change, or they don’t and you’re better off. It’s not “you’re worthy of my time until proven otherwise.” It’s “you’re not worthy of extra effort by me until proven otherwise.” And that may sound harsh but it’s healthier than the opposite approach

[elitisim]

DARTE77 - OVERSIZED PUFFER

All credits goes to @darte77! Original here

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[dina-caliente]

6 clay hairs in remi colors and maxis textures

Maxis Textures by Remi linked here and colors linked here

Mila by TwistedCat | converted to ts2 by kestrelteens | TF-EF

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Michiru by Miiko (no headband) | converted to ts2 by kestrelteens | TF-EF

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Blair by Miiko | converted to ts2 by kestrelteens | TF-EF

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[pikoeatsglue32]

Here’s my Junko enoshima redesign. The old version is under the cut.

[serialunaliver]

saw this tiktok of a girl frustrated about people having self-centered conversations, i.e. someone not responding to anything you say about yourself, only expecting you to show interest in what they say, and speaking as if you're not there. well you can actually beat this one folks! there was a guy I talked to for a while who had the most self-centered conversations with me ever, but so did I with him. so we went back and forth talking to ourselves until one day he gets bored and asks me a question about...things I shared?! and now he converses 'normally' for the most part. because I didn't give him the satisfaction he wanted so he straight up gave up. now I no longer speak to him in a self-centered in response as I feel like i'm no longer the only person expected to try.

ultimately if you match someone's self-centeredness they will be forced to change their behavior in order to engage with you. or get bored and leave you, of course, but it's not a huge loss if the relationship isn't enjoyable.

i'm sure everyone has had a conversation like this before. it's pretty common due to the simple fact that everyone likes to feel acknowledged by the person they're talking to. it will only become a problem if you have zero response to what the other person is saying. at that point it's barely a conversation between two people.

[puppyeared]

fake ep idea + doodles

[hometoursandotherstuff]

1800s store converted - part home/part commercial. Victor, CO, 3bds, 3ba. $679K

Industrial loft style. Lovely French doors and exposed brick, plus industrial lighting.

The kitchen is very nicely done. Lots of storage, casual dining counter on the island.

They have it beautifully decorated, don't they? Lovely quartz countertops.

Nice little desk area.

Bedroom #1.

En-suite bath #1 is a nice shower room with 2 separate sinks.

Bd. #1 is lovely.

It has a beautiful vintage en-suite.

Oh, wow, love bd. #3. This is a very well-done conversion.

Look at that cute teeny pedestal sink.

Great laundry room.

This is very cool- a wonderful rec room.

Love the walls.

Family room area.

They have all of these sofas and chairs that convert to beds for guests.

Huge fenced yard around the back.

Plenty parking.

Love this place. The 50% commercial space is currently a real estate office. Such a well-done conversion.

https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/120-S-3rd-St-Victor-CO-80860/2093156151_zpid/

[cuartoretorno]

Kurt Cobain (Nirvana) 1987 - 1994

Grunge Style - Grunge Sound

[y2kmagazines]

Shut up. (Converse ad, 1995)

[grungeprincess2]

[kylejsugarman]

“jesse. i don’t know. WHAT would make you think that i would EVER sell you to one direction. really, just calm down and think about this logically, think about it. what would i possibly gain from selling you to one direction?? i don’t even know how one would get into contact with them. please, just take a moment and think—really think—about who WOULD be able to contact such a famous band. a man of high social standing, right?? a notable businessman, who—what?? this envelope of loose british pounds in my hand?? jesse, ive always had this—”

[thedesertdove]

[toyastales]

Embroidered Converse All Stars

[generallyjl]

the long, long shadow of ally beardsley falls once again over the dome, regardless of their physical absence...

LET'S GET SLAMMED DOWN BIG STYLE, FOLKS!!!!

[jordanjump-scare]

These are so fucking cute.