#definitely not with transitioning
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my mother is a horrible person and there's nothing i can do about it. i can't stop her from hurting me or from hurting others. i can only watch. it feels like a rock on my stomach
#and there goes my optimism again#i dont think my mom will support me ever no matter what i want to do#definitely not with transitioning#but it doesn't even matter when i have to watch her abuse my little sister like she abused me and i can do fucking nothing#its all her fault. but what am i gonna do. its so unfair. so fucking unfair#i dont like being alive
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it is funny when people act as though no transitional program for family abolition exists when cuba’s family code is right there
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i dont really understand why people are so against ridding of the concept of AGAB/ASAB altogether in the name of "well, how would we define being trans then?"
a woman is "someone who identities as a woman." there is no other definition that does not exclude people who are women.
why does it make people uncomfortable to define trans people as "someone who identifies as trans"? trying to force it into some other definition will always exclude or include someone who either does or does not identify with the label. even if we are defining transness using AGAB/ASAB to say "someone who is transitioning away from/does not identify with their AGAB/ASAB", this is already true; there are GNC binary men who were AMAB who identify as trans and bigender women who were AFAB who identify as cis.
we do not need to keep around an oppressive concept that harms thousands of people in systemic and medical fashions because it would be harder to define some words. words that are used for identification are already going to be nearly impossible to define due to the complexity of human identity.
#transgender#intersex#< even though i intentionally did not include intersexness in the post so people can see how the definition already Doesnt Work as it is#i am not even including the lack of usefulness of ASAB in the context of someone who was first AFAB and then at 3 years old gets reassigned-#-to male. like if they transition to female after that and identify as trans female are they magically now a cis woman. is that really what-#-we think happens there. idek
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Occasionally I find it mildly annoying when Palpatine is posited as the one Anakin had always trusted the most, tbh. There's a noticeable shift in how he interacts with Obi Wan and Palpatine in between aotc and rots, and there's an obvious reason why: the events of aotc themselves. He and Obi Wan had plenty of friction, but they were still close, and Anakin did in fact confide in him in his grumpy teenager way. About his feelings for Padme, about his worries for his mother. It's after his trip to Tatooine that he turns to Palpatine instead.
#flashback to that time i ran a poll and someone was very earnestly arguing that anakin had always been closer to palpatine#they got as far as basically saying palpatine cared more and by that point i was finding the vibes so rancid that i had to block them#whatever#anakin and palpatine's interactions in aotc are blatantly more stilted and lack the real intimacy there is between obi wan and him#obi wan and anakin are not communicating well but they are definitely communicating#they interact like two people who are together 24/7 and get on each others nerves sometimes#palpatine is visibly courting. and anakin is flattered#then by rots anakin is confiding his deepest secrets and shutting obi wan out of them#and it's not a mystery why that is.#i low key suspect that the reason why not everyone likes to think about there being a transition is because that would mean acknowledging#that anakin massacred that village of tusken people. it gives the ick so it's edited out. it's 'bad writing' so it doesn't count or#or it's 'understandable' so it doesn't count#if you need to downplay it or low-key pretend it doesn't exist or you just don't want to think about it#then of course you need to think things were always a certain way. things that aren't important don't have an impact#....but this is speculation i guess. just a vibe i get.
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posts inspired by the orv yuri discord's discussions about yoo joonghyuk's long journey of exploring her identity and learning to understand herself, which results in a coming out that kim dokja responds to in the most insane case of monkey see monkey do by going 'well, i guess we're women now' and trying to subtly copy yoo joonghyuk's outfits.
#kim dokja the woman you are <3#her black hole of identity <3#what do you do when the person you've based your entire identity around transitions? well of course you transition too.#its just the sort of thing you do. and there is absolutely zero self reflection going on here by the way#yoo joonghyuk transitioning is a sign of self exploration and discovery#kim dokja transitioning is the opposite of that. somehow. even though she is definitely a woman. sigh
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TW heavy subject stuff and blood like LOTS
Well…wanted to see if I could animate something in one day……I did not…but I was close to lol
#gravity falls#stanley pines#mullet stan#grunkle stan#stan pines#animation#animatic#god this is definitely my most like frames I’ve worked on#super proud of the transition thou#and I’m glad how it turned out#also I think Stan would relate to all the Matt Maeson songs#especially in his mullet era#hope y’all have a good day :)
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#jewelry#locket#this 1900-1910ish style of jewelry intrigues me. so minimalist it’s a smidge art deco but the curved swooping lines are pure nouveau#definitely transitional#fave jewelry#this style would make for lovely tattoos
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I like how I gave Frida two flags when she only needed one, meanwhile David has to squish both flags together. To be fair, it’s just like Frida to be incredibly organised and bring multiple back up flags, and for David to panic and not do that.
#which direction is his transgenderism? don’t ask me complicated questions#look all I know is that little guy ain’t cis#we as a fandom do make him mtf a lot which is AWESOME#but it’s also really sweet to imagine him as ftm#especially since he grew up with Frida#I imagine she helped him a lot when transitioning when they were little kids#frida is totally the kind of little kid to angrily correct adults misgendering people#David is probably too shy to correct people but frida is not#Hilda probably doesn’t know what being trans is until she moves to Trolberg and she thinks it’s so cool when she finds out#also nb Hilda! I think she uses she/they#she’s just like yeah I’m sort of a girl and I’m proud of that but I’m also definitely nothing close to a girl#like she doesn’t have a preference for either#I could see her using any pronouns other than he#I don’t think she’d use he#idk why#anyways those r just my headcanons happy pride!#hilda#hilda the series#netflix hilda#hilda netflix#art#my art#digital art#fanart#drawing#Hilda (Hilda)#David hilda#Hilda david#frida hilda#Hilda frida
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quick little thing of femsniper because idk leave me alone tf
#dont even#they dony call sniper bushman for nothing#LEAVE ME ALONE#”traditional artist slowly transitioning to doing more digital art” warning#stop#im so embarrassed#femsniper has a wild bush#who siad that#thats disgusting#im not getting into college oh my g#hey hey anatomy studies#tf2#fem sniper#sniper tf2#fem fortress#ignore whatever my last fem sniper post was#it was definitely an attempt but i wouldnt say it was a good one#:: art
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I wanna be like you when I'm middle aged
Thank you for sharing the things you love and your experiences on your blog! You inspire me to take charge of my life and do what I want
Thank you!
I'm hoping people avoid some of the regrets I have at my age about not doing enough in my 20s and 30s. And I'm not talking about the Big Stuff like transitioning earlier or having a Career.
No, looking back, I wish I had done more of the little things I do now, like drive to a park an hour away just to hike a trail, read more books, stop at the ridiculous roadside attraction and check it out, go to the small-town festival, learn a new craft skill, try new foods, etc.
These are the things that help keep life from spinning away in a grey blur. Have as many mini adventures as you can, it really does make life worth living.
#chit chat#I mean yeah I wish I had transitioned earlier#but going on little hikes consistently was definitely something easier to achieve with what I had at the time
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005 :: DETAILS — DELAINEY HAYLES as Claudia Eparvier
Interview with the Vampire, AMC - Season 2, Episode 2
#baby girl !!!!!!#i love her sm ur honour#also lets pretend the camera gif is like a super smooth transition and there definitely wasnt a louis clip between it#iwtv#amc iwtv#amc interview with the vampire#interview with the vampire#delainey hayles#the vampire claudia#claudia de pointe du lac#claudia eparvier#claudia de lioncourt#megan makes
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The Amateur (2025), dir. James Hawes
#the amateur#the amateur 2025#james hawes#rami malek#lawrence fishburne#there weren't any gifsets I could find... so I made my own! :)#all of this is from the trailer so I had to get creative with 'cutting' scenes around transitions/fades#I could definitely make another of these. it was fun
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I just randomly searched up pressure tickle not thinking I'd get much if at all BUT BOY WAS I WRONG 😅 Your style though is by far my favorite! Anyways I might've had a couple cute ideas that might peak your interest. For one, I've been wondering what would happen if Sebby was introduced to SCP-999 the Tickle Monster. Especially since it's used to treat trauma and such. And then one thing I found the tag to be lacking... content with past Seb and his siblings tickling the crap out of eachother!
o7 happy to provide boss
dialogue provided as always by sunshine and kindly translated by @fluffymary you're a real one ;;
sometimes it's nice to reminisce with someone who understands
#my art#mine#my ocs#pressure tickles#roblox pressure tickles#sebastian solace#solace family#viorel#improvised the designs for his siblings lmao#sebastian definitely had annoying middle child syndrome#and bullied his little brother (lovingly) a lot#and his big sister. who already bullied him before his little brother was born. doubled down in his defense all the time#poor mama solace had her hands full with the three of them lmao#oh also just to prevent misgendering. viorel is he/him transmasc#but he didnt transition until he was an adult#so when he says he was a big sister. he's deadass. he Was#now hes a big brother (nothing has changed)
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john as a heir who inherits the narrative freely, doesnt even know that he has the narrative, and barely changes it unless hes being directed to by some outside force (breath as directionless, independent, detatched, free). john as a character whos never existed at the same time as an alternate version of him, a character who never has to face himself and remains largely unchanged by the end of the narrative even as it changes around him
ult dirk as a prince who destroys the narrative and destroys through the narrative, who is determined to reshape it in his own image and 'fix' it, who will make himself the villain if thats what it takes and do whatever he has to in order to help everyone, even if it means hurting them (heart as putting on and taking off masks when needed, inflexible, cold, building a coherent narrative of their own story). dirk as a character who constantly has to face himself via one of his many alternate selves, who can only gain control by uniting those alternate selves into one coherent whole
john is homestuck and ult dirk is homestuck post canon and one of the first things he does when he gains power is kill john (kill homestuck) through the narrative. destroying the (previously free, directionless, detatched) narrative and destroying that narrative through your own (inflexible, cold) narrative. theyre so yaoi
#i have a point here#its not coherent but its there#arguably#ult dirk and john parallels driving me insane#and how they represent the differences between homestuck and post canon#ult dirk as a representation for post canon as a whole works far too well imo#she should transition and kick his ass#the former bearer of the narrative vs the current bearer who had to FIGHT for it while john just had it handed to him#the guy who faces himself constantly vs the definition of repression#orange vs blue#this doesnt even have to necessarily be a dirkjohn post tbh its just interesting to me#it is also yaoi in my mind though#dirkjohn#ult dirkjohn#me.txt#homestuck#homestuck beyond canon#john egbert#ult dirk#dirk strider
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Transfem Ralsei has some interesting ideas in terms of subverting Ralsei’s role as the PRINCE of the dark and thus holds quite a bit of merit, however. Transmasc Ralsei kind of implies Ralsei saw the prophecy and was like “fuuuuuck, I gotta be a guy? Fine. Whatever.” and that is hilarious to me
#Deltarune#Ralsei#utdr#I definitely don’t think this is the direction Deltarune is going but Transmasc Ralsei detransitioning because internally he’s a girl#And felt forced to transition to fit in the prophecy#Would be a really interesting combination of those headcanons.#Like you can imagine it right? Ralsei being like ‘ugh. The prophecy says I’m a guy so I will be. I’ll just be a feminine guy.’#And further character development convinced him he doesn’t have to obey the prophecy and he can be a girl again
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I love the transitions that the Saw films pull out at times: a car driving right past Danny Glover's face into the next scene, yup, sure, why not, Rigg throwing a Women with her scalp half removed from her head through time and space into a police precinct in Saw 4? LOVE IT!
#is there more? theres definitely more.#reminds me of that final destination transition of the girls in the sauna to the caskets#saw#saw fandom#saw franchise#saw movies#sawposting#saw 2004#saw films#sawtism#jigsaw#saw memes#saw brainrot#saw 1#saw i#saw movie franchise#saw movie#saw moodboard#saw post#saw posting#saw series#lol#movies#saw fan#saw fans#saw lovers#saw lover#saw reference#horror films#horror film
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