#don’t blame yourself

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

[koukishinkat]

Recommended For:

Anyone who has experienced relationship or family betrayal

Memorable Quotes:

“Even though it was done to you, it wasn’t about you.”

“Trauma is the setup for transformation.”

@koukishinkat

[proudfreakmetarusonikku]

but also like. guys you don’t need to leave the minecraft youtube community bc one person is bad to clarify. like. shelby is a minecraft youtuber. a lot of her friends are minecraft youtubers. those friends are supportive and as far as we know all believe her. the vast majority of minecraft youtubers are like. fine. this shit is something that Happens because Abusers are Manipulative, going to another hobby will Not shield you from anything and you’re not immoral for liking something bad people also liked. which is. one of the biggest video games ever. like in this situation no one was knowingly harbouring an abuser and it seems everyone was supportive. this is just a case of some people being shit, not anything to do with mcyt. hell, the guy hasn’t been on minecraft in like a year lmao.

i fully understand why the content might be uncomfortable to you guys now but like, please don’t self flagellate and cut yourself off from an entire genre of media because of one guy again. i saw that happen after the dream stuff and a lot of people ended up losing important things because they made rash decisions and felt like they Had to leave. but please. take one deep fucking breath. this has happened before. this has happened so much before, and in ways far worse than this. because abusers, unfortunately, exist. you should not feel guilty for being manipulated by a manipulative abuser, don’t blame yourself. do what you have to, but please, please keep in mind that the majority of minecraft youtube is fine. it is fine to continue engaging with it. it’s fine to be manipulated by an abuser and it’s not your fault. please don’t make rash decisions and end up losing things you care deeply about and being unable to get them back. distance yourself all you want, but please be careful to not do so out of emotional self harm from the guilt. that’s something this fandom encourages far too much- even outside of this- and it’s unhealthy and anyone expecting it of you is cruel.

[spirkbitch]

what kind of life was Gillian Taylor leading that she didn’t even need to consider it a little bit before just hopping on the spaceship to go to the future with her whales?

[abstract-venus]

Yo, why did they have to make Edwin look so heartbreakingly beautiful when he was absolutely covered in his own blood? Like calm down please

[idiotwithoutagoodname]

Oscar: The only thing I regret was leaving him alive.

Arthur:

[medicineteeth]

I know you didn’t mean to not notice the abuse.

You say it almost every time we talk,

“If only you had told me.”

That would’ve helped,

But a little girl isn’t supposed to be so good at hiding her wounds.

If only you had noticed.

I know you didn’t mean to,

But why is it my fault

For “hiding things so well.”

Dear god,

I didn’t even know what I was doing.

I don’t want to be angry,

I know you didn’t mean to,

But mom,

It is not my fault

For being a scared little girl,

With no one she can trust.

[daggerhobbit]

that helpless feeling is back again

[scuderia-hamilton]

oh hey hi @ some lh fans on my dash wishing actual harm and death on a driver because of something the team did is actually crazy behavior and you should get yourself checked 🫶🏻

[zaddyazula]

257 leaks are crazy 😭😭😭

[bpd-thefallen]

The thing about letting people know you have BPD is that they’ll make every issue about you and forget to look at themselves, too

[noodleblade]

After a day of a pretty depressing road trip, it’s time to tuck into bed and finish some wips

Also fuck tumblr and it’s AI bullshit.

[myrabbitistrying2killme]

“Bla bla bla bla xyz is only done by MENTALLY ILL people and therefore INVALID” well maybe if you fucking saw us as people-

[no1ryomafan]

Whenever I think back to the very obvious fact in canon Ryoma basically becomes one with a god machine in most of the canons he’s in, it’s probably not a shock that while I would’ve never saw this coming, that a character I like experiences such a weird fate given the fucks I was obsessed with prior to him turned into THESE:

Not even mad about this btw even if it’s weird but wondering if Ryoma’s case is better or worse then being a floating toku device lmao.

[guardioland]

yes pep, yes u look hot in the suit, yes u look attractive and sexy as fuck in that blazer and tie but u know what would be sexier? Wearing your normal turtleneck and winning games. But nonetheless it is what it is, don’t u ever DARE harp over today. We go again next year and your big 4 of trophies will come next year 🩵🩵🩵🩵

[milo-is-rambling]

Need to stop making jokes about my grief and depression but then literally who would I be anymore.