#end of the queue spam

[goldkirk]

hey this isn’t aimed at anyone in particular but I’m saying it for the record here: if I tell you no, please stop messaging me about fundraisers and mutual aid.

I get enough messages that it’s impossible for me to keep up without devoting at least half an hour each day, when I’m not even on tumblr that long most days. Me having a boundary about this isn’t a moral failing, it’s a lifeboat for me on my own blog.

In my personal life I’m already advocating and donating literally as much as I can spare. This is not me not caring, it’s just me not willing to interact with that on the one place I go online to not interact with irl news and world events for the most part.

I cannot be upset all the time. I cannot be upset everywhere. I cannot use all my emotional and mental energy fielding my own upset from ongoing events. My options are to hold boundaries about this or stop coming online at all.

I’m all for sharing information and signal boosting to reasonable extents, but the scale of it this year is so large and so enduring that it is literally not possible to for me to participate on every account I have. I’ve previously shared links to Gaza eSIM donations and a major hub of verified Go Fund Mes here and elsewhere online. We, the online humans, know how to look those things up ourselves by now. There are many, many people choosing to do advocacy work, and right now, I can’t be one of them.

If you’re extremely upset when I tell you I can’t share/donate right now about a Gaza family or personal fundraiser you ask me to share here, just unfollow and block me. That’s what those buttons are for. Protect your own emotions and energy and get me off your feed instead of staying upset and continuing to engage with online people or content that upsets you.

Please don’t send repeated angry messages based on manufactured purity politics and moral outrage into my messages and inbox when I exercise the right to run my own blog.

[melrosing]

👀 (Catelyn?)

yes actually! also lysa.

end of year wips asks

[fly-sky-high-bug-games]

This is only for folks who consider to reblog a artwork they like but are worried about it for what ever (and I do mean what ever) reason or don't know that reblogs are a common here:

This is a thumbs up 👍 that it's 100% alright for you to do that~ artists and writers would appreciate it, even!

[arimiaromage]

"Dead fandom this and dead fandom fandom that" communities only feel like they're dying on here because no one wants to reblog anymore. when I made my first blog over a decade ago everyone would do reblog spams or have queues a mile long. it was not uncommon to wake up one day to your notification being one person mass reblogging your blog, including your own posts and your reblogs. I basically never see that anymore.

your fandom experience should be curated by you but if you want more fandom content made by fanartists, fan writers, fan creators, then you have to reblog shit. likes are nice! but if everyone only likes fan media instead of reblogging then it's not really an active fandom.

I'm not talking about just fan art here, I'm talking about gif sets, memes, whatever you do like but just don't reblog. and don't misconstrue this as "you have to reblog everything", that's not what this is, this is plain and simple if you like something then share it. if your blog isn't really "for that", make a side blog! make all the side blogs you want for specific niches, it's your space.

go on reblog spams again. it's not annoying, that's how fandom is cultivated and survives.

p.s. adding nice small tags to created media like "so cool!" or "really cute" will make the OP feel like a million bucks

[askfairyromano]

ITS BEEN FOREVER HOWS IT GOING BABE. i hope youve missed me! wouldnt blame you if you didn't, but i mean who else is teasing you about your (lack of) sex life? speaking of, have you gotten into any mischief since ive been away? please, spare no detail if you have! especially if it involved discovering more about this hand kink you totally don't have going on! ah, my schedule as finally calmed down a little, so now i have plenty of time to torment you <3 or joking poke, if that makes you feel better! now, as for this golden cage of yours, my darling. i think you need to give yourself more credit. youre older than you were when things happened back then, right? stronger, too. smarter. youre more capable, more intelligent, more perceptive. i think maybe you should consider your ability to get out of situations like that. youre not so weak anymore, and you shouldnt doubt your capabilities. now thats not to say totally throw away everything you have! thats a huge decision that shouldnt be taken lightly. but i dont know, don't let your doubt in yourself be the thing that holds you back from considering all the options you have at your disposal, hmm? you deserve to give yourself every available option~ and who knows. maybe that is your way of finding someone with those big hands to make you feel safe, right? at least give yourself the freedom to consider it.

(i gotta say, with how busy my schedule has been lately, checking your art has been such a highlight for me, so thank you for updating so promptly. you really have been carrying my will to power through this adult bullshit lately 😭♥️ if i want to send in one of those nsfw prompts for you, do you want me to specify a character to go with roma or would you prefer free reign and you can do whoever you want? im down for whatever, i want you to have fun! hope youve been well, dear!!)

[wallcrawld]

a few announcements and housekeeping updates :D - my work has started up again (YUCK AHAH) so i'll be mostly shifting things to a queue focus in order to stop these long stretches of sporadic writing and then spamming dash with all my replies that i have a bad habit of doing - related to the above, i'll be slower during the day replying to messages, i unfortunately don't get a ton of opportunities to check my phone throughout the day so most of my time online will be nights/weekends - i have another blog that i haven't had time to make an official promo for yet so i'm gonna plug it here ! you can also find me @streetsrot — it's a c.yberpunk 2.077 rp blog but miss v DOES have a marvel verse ( i'm working on her verses page on her carrd i PROMISE the deets will be up soon HAHA you can always ask me directly tho ehehe ) and you should totally follow me there wink wink nudge nudge

final notes : i appreciate you all for your endless patience, kind words, and general greatness, i hope you all are taking care of yourselves !

[troublewithvampires]

//if it isn't obvious lol i'm trying to make a dent in my inbox today. i won't be posting everything today, but i'll be queueing up responses to post throughout the week :3c

[fruitypieq]

WAYY too excited for these to post on my stim blog omg... I love them sm

(Stim blog btw if you're interested -> @fruitypiestims)

[kylermalloy]

I just realized you use a queue. I was really worried about your circadian rhythm for a while lmao

Yes I have a completely normal sleep schedule nothing to worry about at all nothing to sleep—I mean to see here

[manneatcrarc]

I think it’s about time to shut my inbox down this weekend, but feel free to slide me some things in the meantime! x

[omni-scient-pan-da]

WJXOWKSIWIE DAYS AFTER SAYING I THOUGHT POST LIMIT WAS A MYTH HERE I AM HAVING HIT POST LIMIT IM GOING TO CRY

[tigeristired]

hi can we tell i listened to another dnd campaign today

[victoriousfidelity]

"Don't lie to me." The words are firm, a stark contrast to her usually unfailingly gentle demeanour. "How many times has this happened?"

inbox inspired starter for @amreality (Rhett) (inspo)

[superbaby]

bedtime :)

[doodlingwren]

Aughhghghh still busy <3 sorry for the late replies to comments and such lol bye <33333

[dearthshine]

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