#exclusive gender

[pride-flag-fag]

errofluid

errofluid/erroflux/errogender: a neurogender that shifts or fluctuates in some way depending on one’s psychotic symptoms. exclusive to people with psychosis.

term coined by: tumblr user punk-dorian on or before february 22, 2017

flag designed by: tumblr user xeno-aligned.png on march 10, 2019

[cipheramnesia]

Tumblr stop recommending me horny sapphic blogs that all say men dni in the pinned post, go back to sending me posts from the one that's just horny all the time please, I want the fat furries and the queer freaks that are way less respectably normal about me and my body.

[just-your-average-tangerine]

The line between binary and nonbinary trans people is nowhere near as clean as some of yall think it is

[lotus-pear]

have you ever done . . . . genderbend dazai . . . . . . ebef ore .e.e. ... . .

when i tell you i speedran coloring this,,,,,,I LOVE WOMEN SO FUCKING MUCH

[rioblitzle]

this is how people talk about pokemon

[mothcpu]

mirror to mirror face to face

[river-taxbird]

Reminder that I am a homosexual, and that is always the case no matter what I'm doing.

[pocketramblr]

see if Yoichi is trans, then i think AfO is too, not because they're identical but because one of the following things would happen:

Yoichi would say he's trans, AfO would say he can't be because they weren't even given names at birth, let alone assigned gender. They're cis guys they just got it later. Yoichi decides its not worth an argument as long as AfO uses the right pronouns and thinks absolutely nothing of calling him big brother now. AfO doesn't care about switching anything as long as he can be the winner of whatever conversation is happening.

Yoichi would say she's trans and AfO would get offended about being abandoned as a brother, Yoichi would explain that has nothing to do with it its a personal identity thing, AfO figures that Yoichi's the one that carries the emotions between them so if his first possession and heart says they're women, then they're both women now. Yoichi is happy to share that and AfO doesn't care as long as she's not being abandoned or argued with.

Yoichi would have no gender identity and his pronoun usage got picked up exclusively from reading comics, not interacting with and having conversations with actual people, so he gets more of the literary sense behind each pronoun use rather than personal identity, and he liked Captain Hero best so he just used the same personal pronouns CH did. AfO learned language the same way and did eventually figure out more of what gender is but doesn't care because he has a cult to run and a quirk to track down.

[maggiecheungs]

“utena is a bit like a shoujo equivalent of evangelion” = a common and inevitable comparison that is admittedly not a bad elevator pitch, giving an idea of utena's symbolism and the genre tropes it engages without requiring an essay-length summary of its plot and themes

“utena is evangelion for the girlies” = SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UPPPP

[pride-flag-fag]

vaguefluidflux

vaguefluidflux: when one’s gender can not be defined with words due to their neurodivergent status, but it is fluid between being an approximation of/around multiple genders and the level of vagueness fluxuates.

term coined by: tumblr user arco-pluris on april 15 2018

flag designed by: the same user

see also:

gendervague, vagueboy, vaguegirl, vaguefluid, vagueflux

[the-phantom-peach]

scribbled a Him™️ between classes

[stupot]

I feel like, regrettably, this website needs a crash course in recognizing a particular brand of post about female martyrdom and suffering that is really, at its core, based on OP's views on a holistic level, a post about hating """men""" in disguise. Female anger is righteous and does come a from a place of personal and historical suffering, and should be expressed. I truly do think that. But I guess Tumblr's userbase sucks because then you go on these blogs and it's post after post about how men are ontologically evil and sex work should be criminalized and women are these broken shattered creatures unilaterally scorned by MALES with no hope for justice. Just the absolute most childish reductive way of analyzing misogyny in our culture that always boils down to racism, prejudice against sex workers, and transphobia

[san-sews-seams]

While I understand the goal with gender-inclusive/'gender expansive'/unisex adult clothing patterns, I kinda hate them. Like. That's just now how human bodies are. One-size-fits all just doesn't!

A garment that is designed to fit well on a body without breasts will, by definition, fit like shit on me, no matter how boxy/oversized the style lines are! A garment designed to fit someone with by body (or the closest common approximation of my body, with like 3" less breast full bust circumference) will, by its very nature, fit very badly on someone flat-chested. See also, shit like shoulder width, and waist/hip raios, and I'm sure various other aspects.

Like, I get that there's a lot of baggage surrounding body shape and social expectations of gender! But you can't get around that baggage by pretending that various physical differences just don't exist!

If I want to dress more masc, the shape of my body does not change. The fit adjustments that I need to make don't change. I would in fact need to make additional tweaks and adjustments to get a traditionally masculine silhouette. And while it would be interesting and valuable to have guidelines on how to do that, unisex pattern designs move the whole process back in the opposite direction.

[codgod]

chips gender to me is like. he just has other shit to worry about. better shit to do

[depressedandasian]

I will never clown on Gay Astarion enjoyers for hating him being paired with women, because seeing Minthara shipped with men fills me with the same feeling of puzzlement.

[fromtheseventhhell]

I also find it funny that fandom will only accept Lyanna being her non-conforming, wild self in the context of saying that Arya isn't meant to be pretty; Any other day we get back-to-back posts about how Lyanna is actually super traditionally feminine cause she sniffled at a song once, so she's actually more like Sansa. Instead of constantly speaking on Arya and Lyanna, how about you guys reflect on why your standards of beauty for women are attached to how well they perform feminity within the patriarchy?