#faes gender TED talks

[faenemy]

Gender (CW:Vent)

ive had gender dysphoria for almost my whole life, i never really felt like a girl even though thats what everyone called me. sometimes i did feel like a girl, but those sometimes were rare. others i felt like a boy, some weird third thing, or a combination of them. years later and i have words to describe those feelings, nonbinary and genderfluid respectively. so i started to call myself nonbinary, cause thats what i am most of the time, and i felt happier, i felt more free. then last night i was laying in bed, reading something, and i realized fuck, i am a girl, like in this moment i am. and it made me feel wrong to call myself nonbinary, because i wasnt. i felt like a fraud, but at the same time i was mourning that i wasnt, a girl. and then it hit me like a fucking truck. i had shoved myself into a box again. in my desperate attempt to make my existence describable to other people, i had made my own prison. i cried when i couldnt be nonbinary, i cried when i couldnt be a boy, i cried when i couldnt be a girl. i like it when things are simple, and im not found of change. but to be a person is to be everchanging, and maybe i can find beauty in that

i just think we all need a reminder from time to time, that lablels should help describe you, not feel like a box youre crammed into. i went to bed a she/her woke up a she/they and thats alright, it may be confusing to others, and not as simple as people would like, but it fits me perfectly, and thats what matters most :]

[evenlessstablebish]

Heyheyheyheyhey

Quick rant because I saw something on TikTok that has me TWEAKING

before I begin i would like to say that I’m an ally to the LGBTQ community and in no way am I targeting them, this is just something I saw that genuinely confuses me.

ok so to begin, when we first started learning english we were taught the he/him, she/her, and they/them pronouns. Then they introduced xe/xem/xyr pronouns (I hope I said it correctly). Anyways I was on TikTok and this girl says “my pronouns are Moonlight/sunshine”

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MAM WHAT THE FUCK

(No offense to anyone but)

pronouns were made to REPLACE nouns, not BE nouns!

anyways thank you for coming to my Ted talk and pls no one kill me for this

Update for the fans:

We got boba and he carried me around the butterfly park cuz I was scared of the butterflies

Also quick question what’s the difference between gender fluid and non-binary?

Welcome to the education special, my favorite!

So the Xe/xem/xyr and the moonlight/sunshine are forms of neopronouns. Fae/faer, Ze/hir and ey/em are also forms of neopronouns. Normally these type of pronouns are used by non binary people that don't feel they fit within most used pronouns. Though longer pronouns like moonlight/sunshine can be more difficult to use, they ultimately aren't harming anyone and you can always just move past it.

As for the difference between gender fluid and non binary that's simple. Non binary means outside of the male/female gender binary. They are neither male, nor female. Gender fluid is where someone's gender and prefered pronouns can change based off the day, or feel. They may be female one day, male another or non binary at times and can move between them depending on how they feel at that point in time.

As always if there is anything wrong with what I said please correct me in the comments or if you have something to add 💖

Also, not an attack on you at all but saying no offence doesn't negate the offense in a statement. There's no actual point in saying it because the offense will be taken either way.

(Sincerely an autistic that doesn't understand why people say no offense then say something offensive. Just be offensive or don't? What's the point? The only okay time is if you say something like "no offense but the sky is blue" because yeah, that's not offensive at all that's fact. This has been my noodle talk)

[proseka-headcanons]

mod ena gender hcs list (project girls transfeminine stage edition)

i wasn't lying when i said they're all trans girls. btw

miku agender she / it

rin pangender he / she / it

len pangender she / he / it

luka girlgender (/silly) she / her

meiko bigender she / her

kaito omnigender she / they / he

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ichika transbinary she / her

saki nonbinary she / it (an exception can be made for saki as i also see her as cis she / her depending on the day)

honami girlflux she / they / fae

shiho transbinary she / her

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minori transbinary she / her (i can also make an exception for her as cisgender)

haruka nonbinary she / they

airi girlflux she / her

shizuku nonbinary they / she

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kohane unlabeled gender any pronouns

an bigender she / he

akito transbinary she / her (however i hc her as plural and with headmates that use different pronouns!!)

toya transbinary GNC she / they / he

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tsukasa xenogender she / star

emu xenogender she / any neos

nene agender she / they / he

rui transbinary she / her

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kanade agender they / them (cis exceptions can be made, then she / they)

mafuyu agender they / she

ena bigender she / he

mizuki nonbinary she / her

thank you for coming to my ted talk about girls who kiss girls

[fru1tt0ast]

hay guys!! im Lilah!! :3 i claim to be an art blog but i'm so very incosistent with posting art and i also yap a ton so im really not...

some cool swag basic information about me and fun facts

* i am an adult! this does not mean i'm ok with nsfw directed at me or my ocs

* i am a transsexual my pronouns are fae/he/it (and more) please do not use they/them for me (unless you're ted or my mom). i'm also a bisexual gay lesbian boydyke girlfag... ask me about the nuances of gender and sexuality i will blow ur mind with my knowledge

* i am VERY white and a lot of my ocs are poc,, please please please correct me if i get something wrong 🙏🙏🙏

* i am jewish 🖖🤧🥯

* MY BEST FRIENDs are @abstract-hellbender and @protocolghost and we fart around with eachother a lot 💥💥💥💥 :3

* i am unapologetically autistic and cringe 😝

* my special interests are history (specifically queer and other marginalized groups history), entomology, clowns, the magnus archives, the red dead franchise, star trek, fashion & pop culture history, theater, and cowboys.. i mostly will yap about those

* i am in school for wildlife biology!! :D

* i loveeeee baking and sewing and shit

* my favorite musicians are kate bush, car seat headrest, mitski, and the front bottoms :3

* i've seen american psycho 65 times 🦐 (active counter)

* i have no eyebrows (i shave them off)

my tags explained... 😱😱😱 be aware sometime i forget to tag stuff 👽

#fruit toasts cool art tag btw >> pretty self explanatory i thinky oh thinky? it's just my art and stuff lolziez

#you should've been a poet >> where i put all my writing... my essays and shit are included too its not just poetry

#fruity ocs🐛 > where i post my swagtacular ocs

#fruittoast gets real €>>> me talking about serious/semi-serious shit like politics and my opinions on real life things... some of my essays will get tagged with this probably

#goblin 5 >>>> guys. this one is fucjed up and evil. it's me farting around with my bestie cool buddy of ever.. or just things i think are silly enough

#freakybobposting >>>> for complaining. 🗣

#yapper 9 million >>>> all my other posts if i rememenr to

i think that's all.. yah... ily so much!!! mwah mwah!!! bye bye my poops!!

[multifaceted-musings]

Hello and welcome to my dumpster fire blog!! My name is A and my pronouns are she/nov/lyr/star/maple/hx/fae in order of preference.

I also have a sideblog for writing prompts!! You don’t have to, but I’d love if you could spare a minute to check it out- @prompt-and-splendor

This is a multifandom blog!! I’m in many fandoms, a few of which are dracula, danganronpa, kirby, fnaf, sonic, masa works design and death note. I keep forgetting the fandoms I’m in half the time lol

Please use tone tags when talking to me. I really can’t gauge tone otherwise. Also note that I am a maladaptive daydreamer.

DNI if you fall under these groups-

• Racists/Trump supporters

• P3dophiles/(No)MAP

• Lgbtq+phobes/gender critical/ace(spec) and aro(spec) phobes and terms in the same vein

• Discourse blogs

• Self harm blogs

• NSFW blogs

• TERFS/SWERFS/truscum/transmed

• Syscourse blog/support syscourse

• Pro-ana/ed/thinsp0 or it’s supporter

• Proshippers/anti-antis

• Believe that maladaptive daydreaming is not real or not a disorder

I block default blogs due to bots. If you are a real person with a default header and icon, please change at least one of them so that people know you’re a real person.

I hope that you enjoy your stay!!

Taglist under cut—

#kirby for our fav pink blob

#meme and #meme tag for that memey goodness

#shitpost for shitposts. duh /lh

#maladaptive daydreaming for “Fuck you, my child is perfectly fine!” No. No she isn’t.

#biomed because mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell :)

#death note for all your dn needs

#dracula daily and #dracula for lizard boi and his Very Confused Roomate

#masa works design to see the most obscure fandom ever. it’s literally me and like 5 other blogs on here

#danganronpa for kokichi. and kaito. and mitsunari koga. thanks for coming to my ted talk—

#bnha for shiggy and our resident green guy

#desiblr because I just sit in the dhoop instead of going to therapy

#serious for the actual shit

#saiki k and #sakamoto desu ga for those respective fandoms. I haven’t got very much there tho

#shadow the hedgehog for the ONLY character I will die for hands down

#personal post for the Vent(tm)

I feel like I’m forgetting something. Oh well I’m sure it’ll come to me eventually🤷🏻‍♀️

[metalheadsforblacklivesmatter]

just wanted to drop off some extra kimberlé crenshaw lore for all the work you've been doing!

1) yes, black/indigenous feminist and womanist scholars had all been integrating race into their analysis throughout the late 20th century, but crenshaw was the first to coin intersectionality, and it was specifically born as a legal theory to describe how black women had been essentially treated as a lesser class than white women or black men by civil rights laws. there were specific workplace discrimination cases where courts ruled that, because these companies hired (white) women and (male) black people, there wasnt a case and for black women to stop bothering them by creating more specific claims that were supposedly absent from the law.

2) even in the 90's, crenshaw saw that there were wider problems that intersectionality addressed than the justice system. ever since 1989, she's never stopped working on this theory, both as a professor of law and as a public figure, so she has been around to see it make the jump from legal journals to the wider culture we live in. she has a podcast called "intersectionality matters" where she interviews politicians and activists to talk about how contemporary issues are shaped by their social locations.

3) though trans rights aren't her area of legal specialty, she has explicitly incorporated trans women into her analyses for at least the past three years, including #SayHerName with the case of kayla moore and discussing the impact of the trump administration's transphobic healthcare discrimination with imara jones (founder of translash). there's probably more earlier than this but i haven't read ALL her work (yet).

4) her theories influenced the south african constitution of 1994(!!) and the CROWN act in california, and she's currently proposing a major update to the US constitution(!!) that explicitly includes reproductive rights AND gender identity, among many other axes of oppression.

women's history month is a perfect time to learn more!

"Demarginalizing the Intersection of Race and Sex [etc.]" (her original 1989 work)

"Mapping the Margins [etc.]" (1991 expansion of her thoughts, probably her most famous and accessible piece)

"Black Girls Matter [etc.]" (2015)

and of course her TED talk, her podcast, her twitter @/sandylocks, everything she's written for the nyt or the washington post over the past few years, and basically any interview you can find is gold. her work is so fundamental, so accessible, and so easy to understand, and it's so annoying when reactionaries pretend she's about stuff she clearly isn't about.

We have submissions too. You don't have to info drop our asks. 😅😅

This actually pairs well with the ask I just responded to about Audre Lorde.

It's women's history month, and I'm CLEARLY lacking in knowledge in Black Feminists, intersectionality, misogynior knowledge.

So like, this is amazing. I've learned so much.

If anyone else has amazing Black women you want me to highlight, asks are open for anything you want me to look up (I absolutely will. This is amazing.) And submissions are open for knowledge you want to share.

😅😅

-fae

[nachosforfree]

as a newly diagnosed janus kinnie, janus uses gender neutral pronouns (including neopronouns, id say fae/faer/lun/lunself), they are gnc, they are lithromantic greysexual, and they are in a QPR with logan, thank you for coming to my sleep deprived ted talk ~ Remy 🐀

I dont remember what a couple of those terms mean but hell yeah

[lexiconcatalog]

I don’t get why people shit on neopronouns. They usually say “IT MAKES THE TRANS* COMMUNITY LOOK LIKE A JOKE!” or “IT MAKES OUR COMMUNITY LOOK BAD” but never explain why or just say “BC I DON’T LIKE IT/UNDERSTAND IT”. 

it’s very Western to boldly assume that he/him, they/them and she/her are the only pronouns where in different cultures there’s completely different pronouns and gender identities that you erase with your ignorance. so unless you GENUINELY  are gonna try to 1v1 me on this topic (which, you’re wrong about) don’t interact if you don’t support neopronouns

besides. if you don’t like neopronouns maybe just mind your own business. if my homie wants to go by fae/faeself pronouns I’m gonna RESPECT my homie bc I ain’t the one using them and I support all trans* people thanks for coming to my TED talks  

[girldraki]

doctor glass or gerald?

two perfect boys i do not talk about enough!

glass:

gender: fun fact of the day is that i heavily associate them with warm gray and pink so i keep thinking of the demigirl flag when i think of them even though i don’t actually feel that way whatsoever. anyway one of those fun mogai xenogenders baby we’re talking “fuck dude i can only explain my gender through this modern sculpture” type shit. he/she/they/fae/whatever they see and like. we stan a pronoun hoarder

sexuality: pan, aro+aceflux. it’s fun.

ship: qpp lightbulb! they love their awful best friend who they also kiss sometimes.

friendship: the special and beautiful relationship that is simon glass and benjamin kondraki bonding over how completely apeshit their (shared) partners are. and then because kondraki is only mature and tired relative to alto clef and jack bright they say something completely off the wall and glass instinctively shifts into ben affleck smoking mode

notp: none really???? i guess i prefer them + diogenes as friends

headcanon: actually knows how to do their job. jesus fucking christ. understands and is capable of diagnosing what’s going on with their coworkers and is mostly hitting roadblocks in treatment due to everyone’s sheer unwillingness to actually acknowledge or work on their problems. once everyone starts wanting to get help, they absolutely will be able to help them. and like they can’t Force them all to get therapy but. but. h

general opinion: a surprise projection fav solely because i can identify a good deal of what’s probably going on with the essie p characters and i want to shake everyone on the shoulders and make them get treated. good god.

doctor gerald:

gender: disaster nonbinary

sexuality: chaotic something??? he just goes with gay as a general term. easier to find pride stuff which is good because all his shit gets destroyed like 24/7

ship: idk? ive seen him and iceberg which is cute i guess. the only problem is that they will definitely burn down an entire site by their powers combined

friendship: also him and iceberg but this one ive thought about previously. a funny level twos cause an explosion

notp: ehhhhhhh i dont... know? theres not a lot of ways to make a fucked up dynamic, hes just  gerald bro

headcanon: despite literally everything happening to him all the time, he is one of the most well adjusted people at the foundation. glass loves talking with him he is so polite and willing to put in the work to improve himself. if only he didnt keep accidentally destroying their office

general opinion: gee doctor gerald how come mod lets you have rights? its because i love him and hes done nothing wrong thank you for coming to my ted talk