any company that advertises itself as specializing in “transmasc clothing” is so full of shit if any of yall buy jeans for 99 dollars bcoz obviously as a beautiful afab you need clothing accomodating of your voluptuous hips and thighs then im sorry but you are a little poser bitch and an idiot. 99 dollars for jeans like fuck offffffff you cannot convince me that theres not a mens cut of jeans that fits you. 99 dollars. fuck you
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I don't know which skinny person needs to hear this but, you're not "discriminated against" for being skinny.
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Grabs you by the shoulders. Listen to me. All image is a form of advertisement in an age where, subconsciously or not, we are constantly building "brands" around ourselves which tell the world how we should be marketed towards even if its just a genuine expression of our interests. The goal of the image is to advertise two separate things; one being the place or thing or article of clothing displayed and the second being the values that have shaped it into being desirable. You cannot trust the image without investigation you should not trust the image without investigation!!!!! Investigate the images!!!!!
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When I went to the doctor's for an appointment recently, I had to be weighed, and I got very happy with the number I saw. I mentioned to the nurse that this is the healthiest weight I've been at in years, now that it's going up. And despite the fact that I was expressing joy- despite the fact I said I felt healthier than ever before- the second I mentioned I was gaining weight she said "Oh no!"
This is the mindset that kept me from finding joy in my own body, even after transitioning. This is the mindset that kept me unhealthy and on the verge of liver failure for years, that went so far as to put me in the hospital with my organs shutting down. Fat people are simply not allowed to like themselves. The idea that fat is nothing but a bad thing, the idea that wanting to be fatter is gross and fetishistic even. The idea that any fat can never be healthy, despite it being so necessary for so many bodily functions. Beating all this into my head telling me, over and over: "I don't care about your joy and health; you look ugly to me now." That's what nearly killed me.
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Oiii, se eu estou de volta significa que aconteceu alguma catástrofe na minha vida 🥳
Como já contei aqui, engordei 20 kg por compulcao pelo estresse que meu trabalho me causou.
Pois bem, eu tinha emagrecido uns dois kg e uma calça minha voltou a servir, mas no LIMITE. Fui trabalhar (trabalho em um shopping da minha cidade) com a calça, e na volta, eu tinha inchado demais pq tenho problemas de circulação. A calça mal entrou, e quando sentei no ônibus, o zíper estourou
Tentei cobrir mas minha blusa era meio curta, fiz o melhor que pude pra esconder.....
Agora que começa a catástrofe: tiraram uma foto minha com a calça rasgada e postaram num grupo do shopping. Não satisfeitos, começaram a fazer comentários cruéis de como eu sou gorda, e meu corpo é horrível.....
A culpa é minha de ter engordado, mas eles são cruéis DEMAIS para fazerem isso. Pior que menina novinha do edtwt
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i know it's mean, but sometimes i see fanart of a cis male character, and i'm just like... really? you promise me hot men, and you give me this? why is his waist so high and snatched? why are his hips so round? why does he have a perfect peach of an arse? you call this masc?
to be clear, i'm not talking about genderbends. and i know one shouldn't judge what may be a stage in someone's artistic journey, using a familiar style or practiced shapes. but for real... sometimes i feel like the only fucker in the room who actually likes men. (ignoring the frequency with which that's factually true lmao) like, i also like feminine shapes, don't get me wrong! but i thought some of us were also here for... the men...?
don't we also appreciate a flatter bum? low, slim hips? the little ditch above them, rather than an hourglass waist? the gentle line from waist to chest, the squareness of it? flat chests and broad shoulders? body hair?? bulges?? we do know it's not a crime to like these things...
... right?
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Controversial opinion: "anorexia and other restrictive EDs are the most lethal mental disorders!" is a fatphobic dogwhistle because it is literally not true. Depending on source the most lethal mental disorders are schizophrenia, depression, bipolar disorder, bpd, I'm sure there are others because it's wildly variable but no source says that it's anorexia.
I'm not trying to discount that starving can make you absolutely miserable but to say that more people are committing suicide because of anorexia than anything else is a fucking lie.
Before anyone comes at me to claim that "hurrdurr anorexia is the most lethal not because of suicide but because their body shuts down from starvation!!!!" No you fucking moron. That's the side effect of dieting as a whole. Any kind of restriction comes with that side effect. Guess what people's motivation is for painting the LETHAL side effects of diet culture as just an aberrant and tragic end result of one specific mental disorder? They're trying to obfuscate the real dangers of diet culture and restriction.
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I think single cis men who only really interact with women through photos of fictional animated characters need to be studied, because I see a lot of them call women who are in fact CONVENTIALLY pretty and actually skinny/fit, fat.
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Calling a chubby trans guy cute, adorable, and squishy isn't the solution to us being insecure. Stop infantalizing us. Our bodies are beautiful and should not only be seen that way if it's a fetish.
I just wanna be able to be chubby and not be shamed for not being a skinny, flat stomach, fluffy, white uwu trans boy.
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Someone come fetch me when this obsession with Taylor Swift’s new album is over and I can stop seeing the hero-worship and her lyrics plastered across every gifset.
The blatant fatphobia and oversimplification/misrepresentation of eating disorders in the Anti-Hero music video is actively harming and will continue to harm millions and those of y’all acting like she can do no wrong need to do better.
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