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#its fucking child neglect
escapingadventism 6 months
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wow every time I remember that my math homeschooling was literally just Biblical Numerology, I want to scream and light things on fire
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krikidilly 9 months
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In truth hes very proud of Senjuro for always trying so hard.. eventually he'll manage to say it out loud.
#rui and senjuro are so.. ugh collapses to the floor they aren't Really children of neglect but by god .#(youre projecting) I KNOW.馃槶 and ill mumble more at the end tags#senjuro rengoku#rui ayaki#demon slayer#kimetsu no yaiba#senrui#kny#my art#like ugh#most of the cast of kny is suffering neglected child syndrome . among other things but that list is too long.another day perhaps#Senjuro is a child of neglect. yes Kyojuro was there and did a wonderful job while he could but. its undeniable that Sen has been neglected#and i feel it. in every interaction senjuro has. he is so very kind and so very willing to help but has so little avenues to go through#with Rui its projection in a very personal way but also i just really feel it in my bones something was off#like his parents seem very kind but also like so many instances of his backstory felt. hand motions. why wasnt someone there.#yknow what i mean?????#anyway whats fucking point am i trying to make#rui and senjuro are both children of neglect and their veiws and mindsets are heavily affected by this and i think together#they could take care of eachother and give eachother a sort of security theyve been missing for so very long#they will be eachothers loving home.#coughs. sorry anyways#ive been keeping it to myself because .worries of no one caring you know how it is#but i have an au very dear to me where Rui assists Senjuro in becoming a kakushi and secret demon slaying and eventually Shinobu#starts helping him as well :-]#senjuro deserves to be taught how to fence if normal swordplay doesnt fucking work#also realizing very late that some reasons i adore senrui are why i adore endouma. i am one note. nobody look at me
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songleap 1 year
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hey gang i think we can talk about the misogyny in warrior cats without defending a character whos ONLY personality trait is "abuses disabled children"
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backpackingspace 1 year
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thinking about how for like the first two years of obi wans apprenticeship qui gon did not give a fuck what obi wan did (or even really what happened to him) before snapping out of it and realizing he was actually very much responsible for this child and course corrected into being a helicopter parent and how obi wan always read this as mistrust instead of concern and guilt.
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Just f1n1shed watch1ng the new SMG4 ep1s0de
(Sp01lers bel0w!!!!!)
MEGGY WTF
WHYYYYYYY
WHY C0ULDN鈥橳 LEGGY STAYYYY
THAT WAS THE 0NLY FR1END MR PUZZLES HAADDD
AUGHHHH
MY P00R FUCK1NG B00YYYYYYY
G1VE THAT MAN A FR1END 0R TW0 THAT ACTUALLY APPREC1ATE H1M, AND 1 ASSURE Y0U, HE鈥橪L FEEL A L0T BETTER
JUST FUCK1NG ST0P HURT1NG H1M
G1VE H1M THE SUPP0RT HE FUCK1NG NEEDS, AND MAYBE HE鈥橠 ST0P HURT1NG PE0PLE
ALL HE鈥橲 G0TTEN FR0M Y0U GUYS 1S TR0UBLE, EXCEPT WHEN HE WAS BRA1NWASH1NG Y0U
AND 1 KN0W 1 S0UND SELF1SH, BUT G0DDAMN1T, 1 CARE S0 DEEPLY F0R MR PUZZLES BECAUSE 1 M1GHT AS WELL BE H1M
1 KN0W H0W L0NELY HES G0NNA FUCK1NG FEEL
BUT 1 HAVE FR1ENDS. 1 HAVE FAM1LY
HE D0ESNT HAVE ANY0NE
AND THAT HURTS
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p2ii 1 year
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I feel like there's something to be said about the way fandom will treat characters who's trauma they can personally relate to Vs characters who they cant
#like obviously fandom has a thing against unpalatable victims regardless of where their trauma is from#but like#people tend to be way more understanding and compassionate to trauma that they can personally relate to or comprehend#in narutos case:#naruto struggled academically and was bullied as a child. he was alone and neglected on an emotional/domestic level#people can relate to aspects of his character despite the fantasy stuff of being a human sacrifice and part of the military and tend to car#alot more about his struggles#on the other hand the uchiha are discriminated against. sasuke is the sole survivor of ethnic cleansing/genocide. that is not something mos#people could even fathom the pain and trauma of. i mean its fucking /genocide/. and ontop of that he was essentially mind raped by his#brother. the person who he loved the most who betrayed him#and is still expected to function in a society that provides no support and continues to objectify him for his clans desirable traits#i feel like atla is also a good example#people can relate to and sympathize with the parental abuse and inadequacy/anger issues zuko deals with. and are forgiving when it comes to#his redeption arc#but when you take a character like jet. who has trauma in loosing his entire village/community and taking on a caretaker role to other#war orphans. thats not exactly a regual occurrence the average person can personally understand. his trauma is directly related to the war#and so despite him doing WAYY less shitty things than zuko. his is still demonized by the narrative. killed off and then mocked#and the fandom largely saw nothing wrong with this outcome#hama is in a similar bag but she also has the whole 'exploding apartments of pregnant women' distraction tactics added onto her#cause just showing colonialism and forced assimilation and fucking SLAVERY is bad on its own isnt enough ig#psii.txt#slavery mention#genocide mention#rape mention
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artamos 3 months
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I'm sorry I don't think bad of you if you post jokes about hamsters dying but I think its like weird how everyone thinks its funny their parents bought them a small vulnerable animal with really specific husbandry and the animal died prematurely due to neglect or abuse. Like it's not funny and I'm sick of jokes about silly hamster deaths. You should be a little more ashamed that you failed to look after something that depended on you and you should be ashamed that your parents never taught you to value lives of small animals because they're not as charming as a dog or cat
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reverentwormpriest 1 month
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moomins persevering through all my interests which are all like comically devastating and fucked up is the goofiest shit
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puhpandas 4 months
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gonna make fnaf guys in the sims 3
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lesbiten 9 months
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ppl who neglect their cats and leave them outside will be like "we literally domesticated cats they used to be WILD and UNTAMED and so they should live outside!!!!!!" .....................what do you think domestication is all about like did you forget that before you finished the sentence or
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Realizing you were heavily abused as a child when you convinced yourself "it's not that bad/ it could be worse" has fucking hands
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bleakfortune 7 days
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lalala la la lal ala la u dont have to read this your decision heed the warning tag
#cw scat#whatever#i like it as a offhanded accessory to neglect fear death impending doom etc. purposely invoking discomfort#not that liking it for the sake of it is bad but. idk. different intentions/focus.#i say all this because im thinking abt 1 my ddays au scenario thing where party gets braindead from like encephalitis or a head injury or w#atever and its just him and kobra and ks distraught obviously and (uncharacteristically! hed gladly old yeller anyone else or even p in any#other situation but hes fucked up here) like half takes care of him sometimes and molests him and theres spells where he spaces out for a#day or so and comes too to the both of them withered away moreso than usual and filthy and. yeah. p dies after a bit and k molests him some#more then kills himself.#its good w ddays because everyone everywheres malnourished and dying and fucked off research chems or we constantly so like. failing bodily#functions arent even gross to them thrers bigger problems to deal w. could go on abt my interpretation of its social culture forever but i#wont. anyways.#and 2 frank getting murderraped by some huge muscley guy and shitting himself in terror and getting made fun of for it. idk. its only#upsetting for the first bit then his heads stomped in to where hes actively dying and cant process anything other than pain#also bonus chronic pain/incontinence frm abuse as a child also mostly care abt frank w this k bye#yeah theres my piece. dont be mean plz and thx#definitely wont b a regular topic either i just Had to type it all out to organize my thoughts#text
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theood 29 days
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Mentally ill boy whines again. Solution: Get Out Of There
#im fucking TRYING too as well and it's just constant fucking roadblocks or my body screaming to self sabotage and quit and kill ourselves an#d ruin our body and flay ourselves and repent and beg for forgiveness for being a body of sin like. GOD. I'm so tired of it!!!!! and i can'#even stop it because i csnt change my innner voice or the weird neurotic way kf thinking bc my brain goes '#'its keeping us safe! safe! safesafesafe!' bc of Oh Boohoo you got '''''neglected'''' as a child and had your needs not met' well mommy and#daddy sajd they loved you grow up. you got 'locked in your room' and had your apologies ignored ok well youre making a BIG deal about this#top crying boohoo you got bullied. you and everyone else#and then when I go well no they way i got treated was fucked. growing up poor fucked us up. you can still be loved and raised unstably and#uffer bc of it it becomes a fucking game to my brain to list every single way we Had It Better and therefore cant be suffering and its like#do you fucking hear what youre saying!!!! amd then!!!!!! i go through this fucking ten times a day and wonder why i struggle with feeling l#like a human being#and this doesnt even touch the whole mature for your age becoming kind of a therapist to your parent and hearing their issues and adults off#loadinf onto you and like. man. no fucking wonder i struggle so much with interpersonal relationships om top of everything else i dont have#a personality until I know what the person needs from me!!!!!!
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nerves-nebula 1 year
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did your dad live with you while you were growing up? you said draxum was kind of based on your dad and i couldn't remember if you ever said that your parents got divorced or separated
my parents are unfortunately still married and probably will be forever. but functionally they're KIND OF separated. like, my dad lives full time in Nigeria and has for as long as i can remember. he only came home for a few months out of the year growing up, usually around christmas or summer, but not always.
so he didn't live with us, but i never felt abandoned cause him being gone was how it always was for me. so i was like, ehhh its normal my dad is just away on business stuff :)
my older siblings feel a bit differently tho, cause apparently he used to live with us full time. i don't really blame him for leaving cause the way my mom treats him is horrible, but at the same time i don't blame my siblings for feeling abandoned cause like. yea he kinda did just get up and go huh. it sucked so he Hit Da Bricks. unfortunately part of hitting da bricks meant leaving all of his kids behind! which was probably for the best because he was apparently very physically abusive at first (i didnt find that out till i was like 14) which i've heard is a Nigerian parenting thing.
he also sent us like most of his money too, but our mom never told us that and always complained about not getting enough money from him. meanwhile he sent everything he had and lived in poor conditions because to him being a good dad is when u provide financially and physically for ur kids. situation was fucked and i could talk about it for hours.
idk as shitty as things were, it could have been way worse considering who my parents are.
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arospecsyourblockdudes 2 months
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cant go too far from tumblr its the only website that isnt horrible to people with npd
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groupwest 2 months
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fucking meltdown. fucking first fist to the head in two weeks. my family triggers me so much. my mother has moved back in. oh god. she makes me feel so alone they all make me feel so alone but i cant get away from them. my parents keep describing to me how I've changed. It's horrible. my dad is just like me but so much worse, it's horrible. they are kind, my family are very kind people, why are they so fucking emotionally unavailable to me. I'm always alone on the inside.
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