#lets be happy

[ladtheove]

In lieu of some things I have been reading recently, let's remember canon is not fannon, and writers and artists have the creative freedom of shaping whatever they see fit, since that's what creativity is about.

You want to work only across cannon boundaries? That's great. You want to demolish them and make glitter, bat shaped sand castles? Also great.

Can we just remember this is all for fun and respect that everyone enjoys their fandoms differently? Please?

[mylovelyhyunjin]

230408 MUSIC BANK in Paris 😘

Hyunjin

[©jasmine_0320_]

* he's so cool, handsome and cute at the same time 😘

▫️

[ngzuksvkk]

Guys, wait, if you saw this post aaaaaaand

If u have like nothing better to do

Can ya msg me 👉👈

Im reaally lonely and hoping for a friend 🥺

.

[aashagalaxy]

Rainbow

I had told myself that I would stop if I saw you

I would end it after seeing you

At least I saw something beautiful

I have not seen you in years and honestly I am missing you.

You are so hard to be found

You rarely show yourself to me

Why hide, when you are the prettiest among the clouds and blue skies

Your presence could give hope and courage to continue on

Perhaps thats why you conceal

I would appreciate you less if you are there all the time

Would take you for granted if you are available to me anytime

Would see you less and undermine you eventhough you are the prettiest

That's why I wanted to see you before I end it

That is what I told myself, I lied.

Felt like something drastic should happen, to meet you

You are special, that way

Honestly, I would not have the courage to end it

I would be eager to meet you again

Is it being selfish?

But i want to meet you again and again

Untill you are tired of me

Even when you hide yourself

You are the prettiest to me, still

I'll wait for you.

25 April 2023

[meudesejar]

Nossa...! Isso aqui parece o Reino da Solidão, dos horrores dos dias incertos e das manhãs de inverno polar! Alguém poste alguma coisa que lembre o contrário do que eu falei! Parece uma dicotomia tão previsível, tão nefasta, tão indesejável, tanto que não acredito que por mais triste e sólita seja a viva alma, aceite essa realidade!

[ingravinoveritas]

"We've all got to be fighting that fight every day."

Happy Pride, everyone...

[hinamie]

matching eye horror for u and ur back-from-the-dead bestie <333

[kaffkanya]

happy fuck or die 15th of september to all who celebrate. on this day, a bajillion years ago, amok time served the most cunt no one has ever served before. and then slash fanfiction was invented. it is the sacred texts 🙏

[watmalik]

Boys are so silly 😌

[pigswithwings]

above all else a trans woman is a person. above all else a trans women is a woman who goes to the same grocery store as you and buys fruits in the same grocery cart as you and goes home and eats her dinner the same as you. above all else a trans woman is a woman who dresses like you do and talks the same way you do. above all else a trans woman is a woman who wants to be cared about the same way you want to be cared about and a trans woman is a woman who makes friends the same way you make friends. above all else you should care about trans women because they are people. treat her as such.

[nonbinary-arsonists]

Sleepytime for the gang! <3

continuation of this

Caine's reaction:

[ngzuksvkk]

I want to dissapear

[aashagalaxy]

There are times where something would feel wrong. That I lacked something, something that I used to have. A sudden realisation that it was not as it used to be. Absence of scrambled egg scent at late night, no clashing and clacking of pots, no sound of eggs beaten with a fork, no loud videos, no laughter, no soul, no one there, anymore. Not, anymore. Not anymore.

[beybuniki]

kofi request: budding romance 🍀

[laughingcatwrites]

As a reminder that good exists out there, a coworker recently confessed to me that he found out his child is questioning their identity (kid's gender redacted for this post). The kid is keeping it from him, so he can't say anything to them or show that he knows, but he's doing his best to get mentally prepared and educated so that he'll be ready whenever his kid does feel comfortable enough come to him.

For context, this guy is a big, bulky middle aged dude who loves sports and typical outdoor "manly" activities. As his coworker and friend, I know he's a kind and sweet teddy bear of a person, but his kid probably views him as a stern, authoritarian figure, the way most teenagers view their parents. His family lives in a conservative area, so I'm sure between that, their dad's looks and interests, and the fact that their dad is a Figure of Authority, the kid is worried that they won't be accepted.

But you know what? When he found out about his kid, the first thing he did was reach out to his closest queer friend and ask for resources for parents of questioning children. His biggest fears are that his kid will be bullied or discriminated against and won't feel comfortable enough to be themself. His second action was to find himself a mentor in another parent who went the same situation (kid coming out in a conservative town). The other person is preparing him for some of the struggles his kid may face and the fights he may need to take on as a parent to make sure his kid is safe and treated well.

Something I want to emphasize for people focused on language as the primary method of allyship is that when we spoke, he used some outdated terms and thoughts about gender and sexuality. That does not make him bad. These were the terms and thinking used about questioning teenagers when he was growing up and he never needed to learn more current ones. But now that he does have that need, he's throwing himself in head first because that's his kid and he's darn well going to make sure that his kid feels welcomed and has a safe place to be themselves even if they never come out to him.

[mebssann]

yippee :)