Tangible steps to manipulate men by love bombing them
Love bombing a male is nowhere near as simple as it is a girl, as women often desire an established partnership and oftentimes a family from way earlier ages than men. Men don't come with social expiration dates nor have societal pressure for love, so love bombing them requires deep drilling into their unhealed desires and actual passions. Do understand that mens first and primary goal with you will always be sex. That's the first thing in their mind even if they do want something more as well. Don't let this discourage you to manipulate them past it & override it.
Listen to his life goals and derive knowledge about what need he's trying to fill with that goal or what wound he's trying to patch.
Your job is to be a dopamine rush, learn those things that make him light up with positive emotions and talk about them in different forms.
Make him visualize those things that light him up by telling stories of what you two could do. Does he want to build a house? Talk about tasks you both could do. Does he want to travel Europe? Make up specific imageries of places you two could go to or even talk about yourself as an individual in this fantasy he's just sneakily placed into. Once you plant these images they're like short films he watched and affect him accordingly. Those imageries will activate in his brain when he faces triggers of his dreams & you're right on his mind.
Make him feel special by remembering his favorites and giving him compliments based on his insecurities. If he's been made feel stupid, compliment his intellect, if he feels less accomplished than others make sure to make him feel extraordinarily talented and adept. This will make him feel like you see and know him like no one else does, "the real him", even though it's just his delusional ego stroked through his coping mechanisms.
Try to be genuine with compliments. Identify qualities that are important to him & use them. And never forget to discard him and take it all away from him just when he's started to trust your love.
I don't leave my house for anything that wouldn't give me more bliss than I would have back at home.
I stay in my zone, relax and enjoy my own presence.
I provide my own joy, my own peace, and my own freedom and sense of self. I don't need the validation of others to thrive.
I love to make delicious homecooked meals, for me, myself, and I. The taste of savory rice, exquisitely juicy meat, and fresh cooked veggies always makes me melt. It's so euphoric.
People know to treat me to exactly I deserve, since I give myself nothing less.
I only allow the wealthiest and generous men in my presence, and they cover all things when I leave outside. They give me money just for showing up, since I know my worth is priceless.
I get free gifts from men just to leave my house for them. Plants, gift cards, flowers, money, gemstones. All of it is mine, with a smile on their face!
I get everything I believe I am worthy of, no matter what.
Men pay attention to what I like, and they provide me with everything I love so much, since they love me as well.
I am worth everything I desire and more, and I get everything I desire and more.
I never leave my house for anything not better than what I can do for myself, ever.
After constantly feeling the urge to bark back at negativity, being loud in order to be heard, having a bad attitude to get the attention I was lacking, always having to have the last irrelevant words to feel complete, & people pleasing my way into a hole of despair: I am done. I am done stressing about anything, why should I when I can just let it all go, move on & do the things that make me content & allow me to rest in my soft femininity🧘🏽♀️
I want to remind you that having the last words aren’t worth your time, being loud to be seen isn’t worth your softness, having a bad attitude isn’t worth your image, & people pleasing isn’t worth your dignity. 🧚🏽♀️
Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation
Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace
Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things
Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume
Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent
If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.
Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.
Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.
☁️ The burn inside when you feel they’ve gotten away with hurting you, the way they burned pain inside of you and walked away untouched. You wanna make them feel the pain they’ve made you feel. You want a taste of that sweet vengeance. I know you’ve felt it.
The rage. Well I’m here to tell you, you must let it go. Free yourself from the chains they’ve confined you to. Find outlets for that rage, scream, break something (not valuable) let it rage, but don’t let them see. Don’t let them see your pain. It could take days, weeks, or months, but it will pass: it always passes. Don’t let that rage burn through your field of lilies, put it in the sky & turn it into the sun that nourishes your land. 🌷
I am so much unlike the others that there is no such thing as comparing me to anyone else.
I am loved.
I am artwork.
I am pleasing; to myself, and to others. But always myself. First and foremost. I never have to work hard to please others, since my natural energy draws them to want to please me first, and never the other way around.
But I am naturally caring, beautiful, and thoughtful. So I love to help with ease.
My value is seen and recognized so easily.
I am so blessed and abundant, always. God bless and amen. Thank you!