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christinareedy-love · 8 months

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You ever watch something that hits too close to home?

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Reminds me of old conversations. That last part tho, sometimes what people want changes. If a man even thinks about hitting me or being violent during, it's a show stopper. Don't hurt me like that. NO. Funny what self love & confidence can do for a woman.

#not jealous of other women #i grew up #men don't hurt girls like that #men need consent #not into rough foreplay #no rough stuff #i respect myself

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salemontrial · 2 months

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Why the FUCK didn't Sasha apologize to Quinni.

#no im so pissed about that.#dude you don't give an autistic person a meltdown that big over something that hurtful #and just #walk away scot free #last time someone gave me a meltdown that hardcore I cut them off for a month.#that might just be the bpd tho #but still #quinni doesn't seem like the type to just. be chill without an apology and hearing sasha explain herself #and then she makes her her vice??????????#she already acknowledged sasha is only in it for the power trip #sasha didn't even do anything in the investigation she just followed quinni around #which as she should #but she hasn't made up for how she treated quinni AT ALL #in fact she's just gotten MORE of a performative activist #like why the fuck was she such a bitch to missy abt spider #i get it yea. ur friends sometimes have dogshit taste in men but you don't need to make them feel like trash abt it #and the way she was like 'he fetishizes u for being black omg its probably asian girls next omg i dont feel safe'#THIS ISNT ABOUT YOU????????.#also she 100% jumpstarted quinnis identity crisis #with how she was constantly switching between infantilizing her and undermining her autonomy over her own decisions #and treating doing things quinni wanted to do and the specific way she needed to do them as a chore #and then victimizing herself!!!!!!!#like from experience that relationship dynamic IS abusive to autistic people it just is #idk if nt people get it but it's really fucking awful to come from your partner #anyway. until sasha apologizes to both quinni and missy this will continue to be a sasha hate page.#heartbreak high #heartbreak high season 2 #quinni gallagher jones #sasha so #missy beckett

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kindheartedgummybears · 5 months

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you wanna know what??

I am

TIRED

of overmasculinized werewolves!!!!

I WANNA SEE A

WEREWOLF

WALKING AROUND IN A CVNTY LITTLE OUTFIT!!! WALKING THE STREETS!!!! DISEMBOWELING CREATURES!!!!

I WANNA SEE WEREWOLVES COVERED IN BLOOD AND GORE WHILE WEARING A SHORT SKIRT AND CROPTOP WITH HELLO KITTY ON IT!!!!

I WANNA SEE A WEREWOLF WALKING AROUND IN COTTAGE AND FAIRY AND PRINCESS CORE OUTFITS!!!!!! WITH A DEAD MANGLED RABBIT IN ITS MOUTH!!!!

AND MAKE THE WEREWOLF

D I S G U S T I N G ! ! !

#i am TIRED of seeing all these manly man werewolves that are all copy and paste white boys #I am TIRED of seeing all these woman werewolves being butch and masculine(also mostly white) or submissive!!!#I WANNA SEE SOME PLUS-SIZE WEREWOLVES I WANNA SEE SOME BLACK ASIAN LATINO MIDDLE EASTERN NON WHITE WEREWOLVES!!!!! THAT ARNT F3TIZIED!!!!!#I WANNA SEE A G I R L WEREWOLF THATS INTO “G I R L Y” THINGS!!!!! LET THE WEREWOLF BE A SLVT!!!!!#LET THE WEREWOLF BE IN THE TRADITIONAL CLOTHING OF ITS CULTURE!!!!#AND RIP AND TEAR AND MAUL AND CRY IN THE MORNING AFTER DOING ALL OF IT!!!! RAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#no but fr can we werewolf fans like. actually sit down and reflect on the inherent misogyny of werewolves??? ESPECIALLY IN MEDIA #like. almost EVERY. SINGLE. WEREWOLF. in movies and shows and stuff are always a buff white man with anger and trust issues #and on the rare occasion that there *is* a woman werewolf shes always either over masculine or “weaker” than the “stronger alpha male” were #olf and only seen as a mate. AND shes always “calmer” and “maternal” and “calms the alpha male down🥺🥺”.AND she never has an actually good #werewolf form its always either wolf tail and ears or full wolf. or if it *is* actually a decent werewolf her transformation is offscreen.#like whyyyyyyyyyyyyy are people so scared to make women go ape shit?????? werewolves are NOT pretty creatures!!!! STOP MAKING THEM PRETTY!!#(lmao jk we know why they're so scared hashtag male gaze)#like yes. werewolves ARE pretty but not in the “dog show 30k$ poodle” kind of way i see some people making them(not that that's bad tho)#AND ALSO LIKE. ARE WE JUST GOING TO PRETEND WEREWOLVES LITERALLY WEREN'T MADE FOR WOMEN AND MINORITIES???#like. once a month someone turns into a raging bloodthirsty unstoppable beast driven by the moon and instincts with an insatiable hunger an #need to hide away from people due to them wanting to kill you or fearing you simply because you're a werewolf. they don't know you. they ju #t see you as a creature that might hurt them. constantly being hunted down to be killed simply for existing.#WHAT PART OF THAT SCREAMS: “ah yes. White man.”#IK theres going be people(men and pick mes) that see this post and think “this bitch is overreacting” and tbh idc.the girls who get it get #the girls who dont dont.#anyways shout out to Ginger Snaps trick or treat and every other piece of media or fan piece with disgusting non-f3tiszied woman/poc werewo #i love yall #*smooch smooch*#Werewolves #Werewolf #Lycanthrope #Lycanthropy #Werewolf AU #Yeah. Im tagging that too. I see yall.

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wo-der-horizont-beginnt · 4 months

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so much art about being rejected romantically and not enough about how devastating it is to find out someone was only interested in you romantically and therefore your rejection of their romantic intentions is also their rejection of your platonic intentions

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thebicanary · 2 years

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not to excuse the literal caving in of another man's head but I'm just saying criston's every action in ep 5 makes 10x more sense if you view it as him traumatised by being raped and unable to even comprehend that he was because I highly doubt westeros believes women are capable of raping men when most people in our modern world don't

#look i love my girl rhaenyra but the INCREDIBLY dubios consent of that scene and the power dynamic between them #even if cristin did have genuine feelings/attraction to her (debatable) it doesn't change that she coerced him to sleep with her #and he looked far from thrilled the entire time #like y'all really say 'the patriarchy hurts men too' and 'men can be raped too' but ignore a storyline tackling both those issues because #rhaenyra's a girlboss?#like damn y'all we can love her as a character while acknowledging what she did to cristin was harmful and wrong #i don't wanna hear anyone on this post saying 'he could have refused' or 'he wanted it but he wanted to keep his honor'#do you not hear yourselves #rape mention tw #criston cole #house of the dragon #hotd spoilers

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sanguinolencyandscriptitations · 3 months

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I find it really strange how easy it seems to be to be perceived as charismatic and "hot" when you're a man.

Like men with a large female following online barely ever show their face, they only take photos in the dark, they never show their personality, and they're kinda pieces of shit honestly, and yet people swoon over them? Why?

#instagram bikers who only ever wear their helmets in videos and make moody reels about how a girl hurt them once and everyone wants #to get in his pants because he has nice arms #like it seems as though the only qualification you need is to be a dick and have a nice voice #i guess people are more attracted to what they don't know a lot about #people who seem unavailable are desired more #but they're not even good people and unavailable they're unavailable cunts #i may be biased because I've had poor experiences with biker men #same goes for douchey tumblr guys who never show their face and always respond cryptically to very easy to answer anon questions #“what colour is your hair?” “random gif that makes no sense”#is this an ideal husband?#jesus christ #my thoughts #my opinion #opinion

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bylertruther · 2 years

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me when season five airs and The Big Reveals are mike's sexuality and will's love for mike bc mike has always known he's loved will but he hasn't always been comfortable with his sexuality and will has always known what he is but he didn't always know that what he felt for mike was that kind of love until it was already too late and thus the source of his pain has been jealousy + unrequited love

#mike said 'it's not my fault you don't like girls' and 'did you think /i/ would never get a girlfriend?' and joyce said she was so proud of #will's rainbow rocket ship and jonathan told will he'd always love him no matter what and to please talk to him if he needs to and the #party has always heard what people call will and loved him anyway no matter what and will has generally always had people in his corner #to support him that have literally endangered themselves and almost died for him and some people STILLLLLL think that HIS plot is abt #/focused on coming out n being generally accepted for being gay. like we didn't see that his entire s4 plot was abt his feelings for mike #specifically not his feelings for men in general.#UNLIKE MIKE who was fiercely devoted to will from the get-go but suddenly pushed him away n projected his internalized homophobia #and shame bestowed upon him by society onto will who wasn't even fucking talking about THAT thank u very much and who has been #battling being a freak loser (aka himself) vs conforming to what everyone else wants him to be (wearing mommy's clothes; impressing #other people by getting not just a girlfriend but a SUPERHERO girlfriend) and who in the season where he says he doesn't want to be #popular and where the person he looks up to talks abt nonconformity and mentions sodomy in relation 2 dnd etc etc they make HIS plot #focus on how he CAN'T SAY I LOVE YOU TO HIS GIRLFRIEND IN A ROMANTIC CONTEXT until HIS BEST FRIEND confesses his feelings #and it moves him enough to then make him say it to el when his bestie tells him to. like. literally how much more clear does it need 2 be #MIKE is the one that has BEEENNNNN vying for acceptance and self-worth and battling shame #WILL has been the one that has Known what he is and suffered bc he thought mike was that too n obviously felt hurt by mike replacing him #with el n ignoring him altogether aka 'you're destroying everything and for what? so you can swap spit with some stupid girl?'#like am i the weird one or does mike's 3984093 weird projecting statements after s2 vs will being jealous of el not make this super clear #will HAS ALWAYS HAD ppl to accept him n love him for who he is. the party + his family are right there for him to go home to after being #bullied. it's scary and a part of his story yes undoubtedly but it is not The High Point. and mike has always been crazy for will but #that doesn't mean he's accepted it or thinks others will accept it.#but anyway. im normal i did not write an entire essay in the tags bc i am normal

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xlillilith · 7 months

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I try not to be to focus on ships much cuz they really not and shouldn't be important at all but I really haaaaaate lord and miller for teasing the possibility of margo and miles when I know they're gonna most likely just gonna turn around and force him and gw*n together despite everything that's...not good about that ship, thus making margo into the disposable black love interests which many black female characters sadly fall victim too 😔

#I have to keep in mind these are cishet WHITE men first and foremost so i shouldn't get my hopes up #But...it just hurts to imagine how margo will be treated by them and I'm scared for it #Because the fandom already treats her like shit and overlook and ignore or hate her #And I don't trust them to give her a proper arc or exploration either I just can't trust them at all #Like my biggest fear is she'll be used as a tool or an obstacle to push fuckass gwiles together and just...ughhhh makes me #Mad just thinking about it cuz 1 I know they not gonna shelf the yt girl in favor of the black one because again #these are WHITE MALES #2 they wouldn't force gwiles down out throats so much if nothing was gonna come of it (ew) no matter what that may be sooooo #Just makes me sad but...who knows maybe I'm wrong and they'll end up surprising me but the bar and my faith in them is extremely low #Atsv critical #Ship critical #Ship hate

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rogersstevie · 4 months

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i do need people to stop saying jess sexually assaulted rory if you wanna say ATTEMPTED i'll let you have it even though that's really not what happened but he did not actually assault her

#gilmore girls #so gross to me honestly when people don't bat an eye at some of the other things that happen on that show #yet will say that scene was an actual assault like yes it is a bad scene but it is not to that level #and omg they also said he left her three times like no he left her once. if you count season 2 that was not entirely by choice #and season 4 like. well whether you're looking at 4x13 or 4x21 he's leaving a person he already hasn't been around for months #doesn't really count as the same kind of abandonment lol #and 4x21 she basically told him to leave hello #i gotta stop looking at ig comments but that wasn't even a post about them!!#also saw someone on that same post say luke was controlling LIKE GIRL WHAT #of all the men on that show #you could argue him being like that wrt chris but literally their conversation is #'i'm never gonna be okay with christopher in your life' 'i'm always gonna have christopher in my life'#the end like it hurts him but he never tels her she can't see him lmao

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mydr3aminvi0let · 26 days

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i wear a lot of skirts and pink and whatnot as my style has developed with me & my personality but when one of those age regression girlies latch onto me....i do not like that

#like oh....you think im one of them...bestie no im freshly 23 and im happy i made it this far i dont wanna go back #sometimes i hate being 5'2 with a small frame you have to be very careful and kinda vet everyone you interact with #idk there's a complex discussion to be had. i am someone who has went through what they fetishize and i know a lot of girls in that #community have too. so i worry a lot if if my behaviors and preferences accidentally align with that community in ways i don't realize #bc trauma will always reveal itself. idfk. when i was 20 i got in a relationship with a man who was 30 because i misheard him and thought #he was 24. i thought he was okay until we were at this giftshop and he wanted to get me something but as giftshops are super expensive #i mentioned i could fit in childrens clothes and it saves me a lot of money ($60 shoes are $30 for kids) and tbh fit my frame better #so he was “prove it” so i did and mf said “THATS HOT” ??????????? BITCH #my style wasn't even feminine in the slightest at the time 😑 it feels like a curse to have this kind of trauma then never outgrow this body #believe me ik how trauma changes your brain but how #as a woman #can you ever be apart of that community? why do you allow this to continue and not persecute these men for existing?#you're inherently enabling it and saying its okay this happened to you and its okay that other adults can hurt other kids #when my rapist got put in prison i screamed i yelled i sang i danced my friends set off FIREWORKS for me #when he got out i cried more than i ever have. i moved STATES (not the sole rzn but nonetheless) not that i was in the one he was in prison #in anyways but i was so fucking petrified he'd find me again. its embarrassing but i started sleeping with a chastity belt again.#i made more phone calls i ever have in my life to people who have and will get their hands dirty #i understand the self hatred those girls have. i understand the girls who sleep with everyone to take some of their power back.#i even understand the girls who want to get raped if they got assaulted but it never felt like enough for the pain they're experiencing #but please stay the fuck away from me. as someone who has tried to heal and wants every man like that erased from earth.#do not give them an ounce of attention. ostracize them like they're meant to be. leave it to god for their karma they will be dealt with #reckon with your pain and make sure it never happens to anyone else. only the harmed can make the greatest teachers #tbh bro i am disgusted with myself at all that those are the kinda vibes i put out.#what are you supposed to do as a woman when feminity is equalized with infantilism? i think its tone deaf and misguided whem girls are like #i dress this way to contradict societies views!!! babes its a whole cultural issue that requires reviewing and reforming #you are not doing anything revolutionary by wearing frilly skirts and saying im not like them bc they see you and ur automatically boxed in #i dress how i want and say what i want but i know as a individual im not the beacon of a groundbreaking movement #singularily flipping society on its head. dress how you want but be aware of the connotations. you're living in this society here and now #there's consequences that may not be in your favor and youll be assumed to have values that dont align with you and it may break your heart

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theinfinitedivides · 6 months

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i was wrong. i don't think Jungle might be their Sticker anymore i think it might be Jungle and Rebel

#tvxq #dbsk #SBS the sound on this video is abysmal i need the studio version to cleanse my ears immediately. other than that there are like #three different switch-ups going on. they're f*cking eating it ofc but pls. God. i need to be able to defend this i need this to make #sense let it make sense once the actual release comes out. that shot of those girls in the crowd physically hurt me #i didn't need that bc ik. ik in my heart this song f*cks just like Sticker the audio is just not doing it justice #i mean. even the sampler sounds better and that's what got me sold on the song we need justice for the title track #HOWEVER!!!!! Changmin got to stand on men's knees this time he had to get his bisexual dues amen #edit: one SBS upload has better quality than the other. it's still bad just less bad. God pls let the album drop soon pls they #don't understand talent

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girlscience · 8 months

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i hate that my brain is like this. i hate that it does this to me. i see so many people for whom their sexuality is a source of pride and community and finding their sexuality opens a whole new world to them and they become open and confident people who are more themselves than ever before. and that's amazing! i am so happy for those people!! but it has never been that for me and i despise myself for that.

#i want so badly to say 'I AM [insert sexuality here]' 'IM OUT AND IM PROUD!'#i want to find local community and go to the gay bars #and meet people and make friends and kiss girls and all these things i see online or in fanfic #(listen i have been reading a huge amount of griddlehark and there is a lot of modern aus that i desperately desire)#but my brain thinks i am lying about all of it and whenever i say no i'm not lying it sets about convincing me i am #i think about women and it instantly goes okay but men though. what if you thought about them instead #and then it's all i can think of even though i don't want to #i think about dating a woman and it says actually. think about dating a man #i say i don't want men and it says that's rude and mean and you never know what could happen #and you don't believe there is some magical difference between men and women they are all just people so you are a hypocrite #if you leave men out and honestly you don't find men repulsive and there have been men you thought were attractive even if you can't figure #out of it was attractive like sex or attractive like marble statues #and you say you like body hair on women but it weirds you out on men but it's the exact same thing so you have to like it on both #and you read so much mlm fic and so little wlw so you think men are hot cause you've thought some of the mlm stuff was hot #so obviously you want to have sex with men #even if all the men who have actually hit on you irl made you uncomfortable #you didn't actually stop it from happening and honestly you really wanted it to happen and you just wanted them to force it on you #cause you are a evil gross freak who fetishizes #nevermind. this is spiraling.#and is just turning into a way for me to hurt myself more with this

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endless-nightshift · 2 years

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Being around so many hot trans people (myself included) has horribly skewed my perception of what Cis people view as Masculine and Feminine

It would be a real problem if I gave a fuck about cis peoples perception

Still wild though. Especially when they shove their perceptions in my face despite very obvious VERBAL indications against their perception

#cis people are so oblivious it hurts #trans people as so hot <3 #and if your trans and don't like being called hot then you are hella cool instead #i say this as a trans person #queer #trans #transgender #trans guy #trans girls #transmasc #transfem #trans men #trans women #non binary #gender fuckery #gender queer #genderfuck #Cal bites words

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honeyedheartss · 10 months

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trapped in my endless cycle of books about groups of boys who are way too close and violent to each other but would kill for each other and stand for them at all odds

and it's.... lays on the ground... I am mostly comfortable in my gender presentation about half the time but.... I want to be loved by a boy the way boys love boys not in a het or even t4t way....

do u all know what I mean..

#am i romanticizing violence and codependency again despite doing everything in my power to leave past #situations rooted in violence and codependency?#yes #the bond of violence and dogged loyalty is beyond anything else I've ever experienced.#those years were some of the worst of my life #but i miss having people who were mine and i was theirs #do u all know what i mean. ...#like yes i got hurt and threatened and slammed around #but i know they would NEVER let anyone ELSE do that to me #unbreakable bonds etc #but i was still a girl to them #so it was still different #i don't want to be loved by a man the way men love women or genderqueer people #i want to love a man and be loved by a man the way men are #but i do not want to be a man outside of this #i want to exist as a boy only in the context of being gay yk #(yes i have a long term fem partner and they know abt this lol we talk about it a lot)#anyways #banana rambles

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faultsofyouth · 1 year

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literally when I see women being frustrated with other women for staying with abusive men I feel like I'm watching the ouroboros. Like I get it, it happens to everyone, I've been there, but it's so self sabatoging.

#don't come at me if you're one of those girls currently angry at her friend for continuing to date an abuser after you and everyone else #told her not to #I spent 7 years watching different men beat my mother and I've had a lot of friends who faced very different kinds of abuse from other men #so when I say your anger is not constructive believe me because it is my anger too. and I know it hurts and I know it can drive you insane #but when your friend Sees that anger it will hurt her in a way you cannot understand. And if you are hurting her while you claim to love he #while you claim to have her best interests at heart -> then she cannot differentiate between the way you treat her #and the way her abuser does. And I know that's not fair I know it's not the same #And I know you probably care for her in a way her man does not. But when you tell her what to do she doesn't see You.#She sees the man who tells her what to do and how to live. She won't listen to you over that man because you sound the same #You sound eerily similar but he is manipulating her and you are just angry and upset. He will always seem to offer the better deal #so just don't be that angry friend anymore. Be an open door she can walk through whenever she needs a break from an evil man.#Be the life she Could have if she really believed she deserved it. Be good and respectful and supportive even when you feel like killing hi #show her how Everyone should treat her. Show her she deserves to be treated good; show her it is no problem for You to treat her good #And she Will start demanding that from men. From everyone. But she will do it on her own time #With her own setbacks and she will set her own standards. They might never be your standards but they will be better than what they are now #but first you have to be supportive and not angry. You have to root for what She wants and not for her relationship to fail #Even if you really truly hope the relationship will fail. You have to convince her that you want the same things she wants #You have to convince her that you want her to be happy no matter what that looks like. And Then she will ask you #To help make her life happier. And in my experience; that is the only way to truly see someone get to a better place #You have to help them get what they Want. This is way harder than being angry. Insanely harder. But I have seen women change a Lot #after I stopped feeling angry over them. After I stopped trying to convince them that I know what is best for them

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musical-chick-13 · 1 year

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......You ever realize why you have an opinion.

#this is not over anything Significant™ it's literally just about why I think certain things about poto lmao #*something something I was also a young aspiring classical musician when I first saw it*#*something something I lived in constant fear of being exploited by older more powerful men in the entertainment industry*#*something something I saw everyone around me find sympathy for the title character because he was lonely and traumatized and #hurting but I was also all those things and no one had any sympathy for me an actual real human girl*#(this is not hating on the musical btw. I love it. but there was always a disconnect with me regarding how I felt about it and how I felt I #SHOULD feel about it. and I literally just now put all the pieces together lmao)#(specifically the 'should feel' meaning that I didn't have the level of sympathy for him that I felt like I should nor did I see the Vision™#in shipping him with Christine but it turns out that it was just Weird Highly Specific Personal Reasons the whole time a;sdlkfajs;lfkjdsf)#(it might be worth it to watch the ramin/sierra version again to see if my opinions have changed because it's been a few years since #I've seen this show)#(I say that version specifically because the Movie. I have beef™ with it. I don't wanna talk about it.)#mc13 lore

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