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centi-pedve · 10 months

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the body acceptance movement struggles for us because it seems like most of the time, the intended goal is "people with conventionally unattractive features can still be beautiful" and not "people with conventionally unattractive features still deserve respect and the ability to live in their bodies without unwarranted advice or rude comments" and that sucks.

it just leads to "look at this person, they're fat AND beautiful!" or "look at all these models with acne! see its harmless!" ok. you show us a hot person. of course theyre hot. can you please treat us with basic respect now.

people are body positive until they see someone who is fat and ugly or has unflattering acne and then suddenly its a problem

#normalize being ugly #NOW!!!#obviously fatness and acne are not the only things #just what we're most familiar with #pedve 'pinions

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midnightdemonhunter · 2 months

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But don't worry. By then, he wants to.

(@romanromulus :D )

#saw movies #mark hoffman #peter strahm #hoffstrahm #midnight draws #sdate #op found the first art piece so i was obligated to finally properly draw the second!#i dunno if i can pick a fav between these fics honestly. the time loop is a comfort fic and i dunno if i can ever read this one again #the ugly sobs it got out of me....but so so good #disturbing highlights include:#strahm's thoughts on being quiet when hoffman gets home shifting over the story from ironic to unironic. incredibly cool and fucked up #uhhhh all the dad stuff. WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME.......#everything about the ending. HOFFMAN WAS IN THE FUCKING BASEMENT!!! HE WAS TRAPPED. HE WOULD HAVE COME BACKKK #i didnt wanna die...i didnt wanna die either....the final dream.......#death of the self vs death of the body....which is worse....#anyway yeah this fic. god #one day i will leave proper comments too!!! for now: normal art. anyway please read into this

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canisalbus · 4 months

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As a survivor of abuse I relate to Machete so much. I've always felt unclean for no reason except being told I was unclean, and it made me feel worthless or revolting by default. Like, no matter what I did I would be filthy and unpleasant to be around.

Seeing that he can be loved, makes me feel like maybe I could be loved too.

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#abuse is one of those things that can strongly warp your perception of yourself and the world around you #if you're told you're a bad person often enough (especially by someone you should be able to trust and rely on)#you start to believe it yourself #even in the absence of any proof of that being the case #sometimes you're able to view the situation objectively and come to a rational conclusion that you're not #uniquely awful/ugly/stupid/sinful/worthless #you're just a normal person and you have been brainwashed to resent yourself for your imaginary flaws #it's still really difficult to free yourself from that way of thinking once it has taken root #it's not impossible but it is a test of perseverance #in the beginning it just feels like you're lying to yourself when you make the conscious effort to fix the damage #and think of yourself more kindly #sorry that got off track #answered #anonymous

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dracwife · 8 months

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just a thought maybe we don't put down our mutuals for the way in which they express their love for their f/os and especially if they're not a conventionally attractive white boy twink maybe which seems to be the bar of acceptable to be attracted to. idk. just a thought

#too many ppl apologizing for liking 'ugly' characters lately. theyre not ugly #and liking them is perfectly fine. just btw.#so is gushing excessively.#being 'down bad' or w/e is like. normal feelings. ur allowed to feel those.#dex.txt

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dannydanoninoo · 2 years

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Okay but this look of pure LOVE AND ADORATION?!

I'm rolling in the floor crying right now (not joking)

#look at that SOFTNESS #i swear im normal #the amout of love got to me okay?#also whoever drew this panel deserves an award now #Amity's eyes MY FUCKING GOD #like you know what if this is what we got for the show being shortened I'm fine #I can die happily with this screenshot right now #also I cried twice during the panel just imagine how I'm going to be during the episode #the owl house #toh #toh spoilers #luz noceda #amity blight #lumity #bi ugly sobbing #cries in bisexual #bisexual #lesbian #lgbt

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ashmp3 · 27 days

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i don’t think people realize how alienating and lonely it is to not have romantic interactions as a teen. Not that i think being in a relationship at that age would do me any good but it would make me feel more normal and less unlovable for sure

#but we live 😁 with the consequences 😁 like i’ve just been thinking as one does or #when i do it it’s terrible because this is something for a diary but i’m on tumblr #i know some of you might relate lmfaoo but it really fucks you up when everyone is in #relationship being a normal typical teenager and ur like so i’m so ugly undeserving of love etc etc #and also when your friends are like *can’t even imagine you with someone* okay awesome #now i’m like whatever i had fun but you do learn a lot about yourself and others in a relationship and i never had that so i feel so dumb #now at 25 likeee who has the patience now anyway. How is everyone i am gonna make some pesto for lunch #homemade pesto with sremuš spinach garlic olive oil and nuts #tt

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cowboy-robooty · 10 months

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PEOPLE KEEP DENYING HIM HIS FIVE HEAD..... LET HIM BE UGLY AS SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#sorry guys i just see this with germany fans sometimes and when i do i can feel all the bloodvessels in my eyes exploding #HES OUR UGLY WIFE #OUR UGLY AS SHIT HUSBAND #ACCEPT HIM FOR WHO HE IS #i genuinely love germany being so fucking ugly okay literally in a yaoi i read when the author made a spinoff volume for the side couple #they had to change the hairstyle bc the character had germanys normal hairstyle and it was so fucking ugly the editor legit said #change that shit or else nobody is gunna buy that yaoi literally GERMANY IS STRAIGHT UP UGLY. LET HIM BE UGLY!!!!!!!#i get incellic rage that aint my boy thats not my germany chan you gotta put his shiney huge fivehead on full display #being ugly is a central component of his character he is not germany if hes not ugly asf #hetalia #aph #hws #aph germany #hws germany #draws

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h-doodles · 5 months

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My love, mine all mine || A webweave studying Miranda's part in Miranda/MC themes :)

#its about the soulmates the obsession the posession and the way miranda tears the world asunder FOR you. its about tragedy and the love.#ALWAYS about the love. ugly and scarred and encompassing and so so real. im being so normal about it #resident lover #resident lover spoilers #resident lover mc #mother miranda #mother miranda x reader #maria clara lover #helene salazar #lee makes stuff #web weaving #also saying fuck it we ball bc im going to go 72 hours no sleep and i just need. a moment to meow for miranda. real.

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cartoonnerdygoat · 8 days

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I'm so sorry to anyone following my blog. I got into a youtube series about personified political ideologies and there will be nothing else I'm capable of thinking about for the next few days.

I'm shipping political ideologies now. Send help.

#centricide #this is as bad as my billford hyperfixation #i started of being into normal political theory and looking down on those simplifying it #i have become the one I disdained #i mean ok after ussr x usa this shouldn't be a surprise #ANYHOW DO YOU WANT TO HEAR ABOUT ANCOM'S AND TANKIE'S RELATIONSHIP??????????????!!!!!!#no but like the video “what happens after the communist revolution” genuinely made me ugly cry #like i knew this was what happened in reality but DAMN seeing the two characters do it in canon #and like and like and like :c #also i'm supposed to be studying for my junior cert. It's in like a week. (i was drawing the ideologies on my notes earlier)#alsooo i read a really good fanfic this morning and i gained a really big appreciation for repressed gay auth right #and i still haven't finished getting through centricide 7 #well at least i'm not rambling to my poor girlfriend anymore

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rosesocietyy · 3 months

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Sir, the 18th he wears woe as others wear velvet has hit the towers

#imagine still being stunning while full face ugly crying #and you expect me to be normal about him #iwtv #louis de pointe du lac #interview with the vampire #vampterview

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ragingadhd · 1 month

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I currently have 3 drafts on this topic bc I keep trying to find an eloquent way to express this but yk what I don’t think that’s going to happen so anyway I love you negative character traits I love you character flaws I love you moments a character I love does something that is just straight up wrong I love you authors who don’t try to have polished characters I love you characters who experience regret and shame

#there’s an 8 page essay about this in my head somewhere #normalize giving your characters flaws that are actually ugly #normalize being ok with the audience hating something your mc does

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skunkes · 7 months

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might sound weird to say as a person with a couple ocs who have Big Horrible Event(s) in their backstories or as a person who has like 3 ocs total bc he sucks at writing and as a person who hopes their ocs arent too Boring with [the thing im about to mention] but the thing about writing [characters] and [people] is that like.

any little thing a person experiences can take up their whole existence... its actually something "fun" to experience as i meet new ppl and do more things. My friend had something happen that she'll be talking about forever. I had several things happen last year that ill never stop talking about, some of which other ppl think werent that bad actually. In the same way I'll forever remember about the way my sister accidentally insulted me almost 10 years ago, it's really interesting and Fun to find and assign smaller things like that to characters...its really Real. some people's dealbreakers are other people's solvable problems etc etc

#(as well as the opposite: Big Event that maybe shocks everyone around em but they genuinely werent shaken by)#though this one is more common and leads to those ''ohh i didnt know that was normal oops'' moments #talkys #inspired by recent me and friend events #and also recent events where i told sum ppl more stuff about Thing and they responded as if it wasnt a big deal. but it was to me.#and also how i thought a part of al's childhood backstory was kind of maybe dumb and not realistically as impactful as id expect #but i saw someone on reddit almost word for word write that as their experience and how its shaped em as a person #and thats it like... the small things are boring and hard to keep track of sometimes #its not like you'll include every single little event your oc was shaped by in their bio #but idk. its like Fun to piece together for fun. to mold a human being #ykwim? wld be silly to tell everyone ''oh my oc struggles with self image due to many instances like... when their sister called em ugly''#or write it anywhere but it is fun to Know and have in your head. and its real !#just like if a friend told you about something that happened to em #long post #delete later #sorry i keep saying stupid obvious shit lately ive always been bad at oc making AND socializing so im learning everything late #but anyway yes. idk even as i keep making ocs that are ''similar'' its like. every person so different #people can react to anything in any way for any reason. i love people #this is why i struggle a bit with keeping ocs to archetypes i guess bc like. what is ooc for an oc. people contain contradictions all the #time. you can change yourself at any time.#ok nobody will read this far so ill go to the real insane rambling #part of this has been a part of my chats with talon while trying to get him to share more info #like. yeah ok you're 400+ years old the things that happened to you were such a comparatively small part of your life #but humans dont live as long and think about small things until they die. i dont think time would heal all wounds actually. not all of em #some thoughts just always come to gnaw at your brain. its ok to not be over things. i feel ill never be over some things #and also complainerism can be fun but thats something else entirely wee hee ^_^

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wilhelminaesque-sideblog · 1 month

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another year in a row of hyperfixating on this complex, silly redhead and loving him unconditionally. <3 happy birthday to my no. 1 comfort character!

#another year of diluc's birthday art lacking that ugly coat #bare arms save lives #turns out my prediction of his birthday art being him with an instrument proved to be just another one of my delusions #sigh... next year tho- TRUST M- [gunshots]#he might be the prettiest man ever‚ i'm afraid #i love him a normal amount #diluc #diluc ragnvindr #diluc birthday art #aprilluc #aprilluc 2024 #genshin impact #genshin brainrot #wilhelminaesque

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jellyjamheadobb · 1 month

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#But like fr #you know when you have your regular family #And then there’s the distant “wealthy” side of the family #and they’re literally all weirdos and assholes #one of my older cousins had a baby shower #and they’re from that side of the family (she’s ok though) so of course they invited them #And after being stared down by one of my second(?) aunts bc recently word got out that I have a girlfriend (wow holy shit I’m a butch!)#I was talking to one of my normal cousins about my car and how I plan on getting new seats for it #It has really old leather-y seats and I wanna get the cushy fabric kind #and she just pops into the conversation and says “why don’t you just get a new car? The one you have is so ugly <3”#like what #i have a vw beetle and I actually love it so fuck you (also I don’t have that kind of money to get a new car but shh)#my cousin and I exchanged that “uhhmmm😬” look with each other lol #awkward #But I just say “oh yeah I’ll think about it :)”#While I internally try to explode her with my mind #But anyway #rey rambles #meme #dumb shit #memes #funny #relatable memes #funny memes #lol #best memes #lmao #tumblr memes #twitter memes #dank memes

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theanonymousninja247 · 3 months

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Sometimes you do crazy things

For the things you love. At least… I think that’s how the phrase goes…

AnYhOo, I may or may not have been planning to make a fool of myself for WEEKS to attempt to do this little photo shoot with @kathaynesart Yeehaw Peepaw shirt just because I adored it so much.

I took Peepaw with me on a little adventure to my friends little farm where he got to meet Scout, Fancy and little Dash. (The wee little devil decided just to nom on my fingers the entire time I was trying to take pictures. It was awesome 😆).

Just wanted to say thank you so much Mz. Kathy for all that you do. You’re a HUGE inspiration to me and I very much want to be like you when I grow up. Please also tell Replica Leo how much I love him too. Big hugs because I’m BIG fan! (I believe in you big guy. You’re doing a great job) 🙌🏼🧡💙🤠

ALSO CONGRATS ON POSTING YOUR COMIC! I literally sat open mouth when you posted like “DAYUM! Now THAT is some serious character development, plot lining and story world building”

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maddy-ferguson · 5 months

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#me

#this is what the average person on tumblr is missing. what i meant when i said the average person on tumblr should see misogynistic men talk #on the internet regularly they would benefit from that #not incels or andrew tate guys. normal guys #in november #and like i say: brf slt #i remember in 2016 when i was just getting into feminism as like a thing of the present the big thing on french twitter was for guys to say #meuf = pute: girl = whore. they would just say this. 24/7. not even a creative way to be misogynistic. but i was like oh!#then when girls would talk about getting harassed they would be like you made this up you're too ugly a film directed by quentin #tarantino etc. i think one of the most frustrating things they do is say no boy has ever sexually harassed a girl in middle school because #all they thought about at that age (that age being. from 11 to 15) was football and video games like OH MY GOD we were literally there #i mean no there's worse a lot worse but it's one of the most annoying ones like how are you all coming together to collectively #gaslight us #i could give more examples but it's not that interesting just these people HATE US!!!!!!#it's never just one or two guys or even ten or even twenty it's SO MANY PEOPLE just united by their hatred of women...heartwarming #in a way #but whatever i know people are awful on the internet or whatever but these people exist irl i'm pretty sure. im just not blissfully unaware #i'm sure that's nice. it's probably a bliss even. frustrating for normal people who have to interact with that though #or maybe not for normal people misogyny is a very widespread thing idk if you know this...frustrating for me!#like why does seeing frankly misogynistic tweets kinda not bother me as much as seeing posts that act like misogyny isn't a thing. at least #they're honest!!!!!#like it does feel very bad. but i'm used to it. kind of

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