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butchfalin · 7 months

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the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

#yeehaw #1k #5k #10k #posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours?#also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that!#unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference #edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense #also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags #1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now #he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic #2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign #like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock #3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing #it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is #extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once #it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life #i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about #Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect #if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it #aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week

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spacedykez · 2 years

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i express emotions through song lyrics

#tonight’s mood is ‘the worlds smallest violin really needs an audience’#take that as you will #vague vent post #ok 2 rb tho #the otter splashes #ive been sitting here for like an hour just. watching tumblr and not interacting. sorry

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crave-mp3 · 1 year

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I LOVE BEING ARO SO MUCH!!!!!! I WILL NEVER FEEL ROMANTIC ATTRACTION AND THATS BEAUTIFUL AND NATURAL AND SOMETHING I WILL WIELD AS A WEAPON AND A SHIELD AGAINST ANYONE WHO WOULD CHANGE ME OR ERASE ME!!!!!! REALIZING I AM ARO WAS ONE OF THE MOST JOYFUL AND FREEING AND ILLUMINATING EXPERIENCES OF MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY EXUBERANCE AT LIVING WITHOUT THE NARROW SOCIETAL IDEA OF "LOVE" KNOWS NO BOUNDS AND I SEE BEAUTY IN EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!! MY LIFE OVERFLOWS WITH JOYFUL ABUNDANCE!!!!!!!! I AM BURSTING FOR AFFECTION WITH EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WILL NEVER BE "ALONE" (I WILL NEVER BE LONELY) BECAUSE I WILL MAKE FOR MYSELF A LIFE THAT SINGS AND SHINES!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE LIVING A LOVELESS LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE THE SELF RELIANCE OF MY HAPPINESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM INFINITE AND BOUNDLESS AND DEFY DESCRIPTION OR CATEGORIZATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM AROMANTIC!!!!!!!! ALL IS JOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ALL IS LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#i see a lot of posts about aro grief and ive been there. believe me ive so been there.#BUT!!!!!! we need to talk about aro joy too!!!!!!#living a joyful life regardless of expectations is THE most important thing we can do!!!! both for the aro community and for ourselves #as complete and whole people!!!!!!#+ by expectations i mean both amatonormativity and the weird sort of...... defeatist mentality i see a lot of ppl in the community voicing #our lives are a triump!!!!! a rebellion of joy!!!!!!! living the happiest life you can is your victory!!!!!#and you show others (especially young others + aro or not) that you don't need romance to be completed or happy!!!!!!#aro joy as a mission aro joy as a mantra aro joy as reaching out #this is deffo ok 2 rb but just before anyone starts being all 'not every aro on the face of planet feels the exact same way u do'#i wrote this about ME. ok?#i would love it if ppl wanna rb/add tho bc like i said. we need more aro joy!!!!!#vic.txt #aro #aromantic #arospec #aspec #alloaro #aroallo #aroace #lovequeer #amatopunk

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lew-na-lapinn · 8 months

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brats need fingers in their mouth to shut them up every now and then

#bun squeaks #not me tho i’m different #nsft wlw #minors dni #wlw #lesbian #lesbian nsft #ok 2 rb #nblw

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autistic-butters-stotch · 6 months

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mental health & talking to your plushies

#my art #butters plush #not fully tagging this bc its a little embarrassing for me idk why 😞#its ok 2 rb tho!

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goodnightwindy · 9 months

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what's the most obscure hyperfixation you've ever had ? tell me in the tags :3

#mine was. sighs. the 2010 vancouver olympics mascots #i was like five in my defense !! i do still have the plushies tho.... quatchi plush my beloved #ok 2 rb

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cosmic-kaden · 4 months

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2/24 - Track 6 - Chasing Your Echo

It's over now

I don't know how

To keep you here

But I can't let go

Don't run away

Just stay with me

Don't leave me chasing your echo

Y'all remember that time I made fake blood and smeared it all over myself? Lol

Gonna tag for this one cause I'm proud of how it came out

@ama-ships || @heatobrienswife || @dragonsmooch || @mahitoslittlebird || @roboraindrop || @kylars-princess

#I AM HAVING THE GREATEST TIME MAKING THESE #Kyden <3 #you had me under spell from the start;#I KNEW THAT PHOTO WOULD COME IN HANDY ONE DAY! that stuff was so sticky tho 😫#my dumb stupid face;#ok 2 rb #tw: blood

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cherry-bomb-ships · 1 year

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Some kinda power behind making an outfit based around an f/o shirt 😊💖💖💖

#my face #💜: hard shelled softie #ok to rb #self shipping #this fit is actually from a few days ago (im on day 2 of a 3 day work trip today) but im just now posting lol whoopsie #im definitely way in love with this outfit tho like... didnt mean to look so cool my bad 😌💖💖💖#god i think bowsie would rly like this look on me 🥺💖🥺💖🥺💖

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katzwrld · 10 months

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happy september 1st! it’s freezing cold weather vibes starting now IMO….

#❤️‍🩹.tordsha #☘️.haleden #my art #ok 2 rb #these were for september ship prompts but i dunno if i’ll follow through with anymore maybes tho!!#safeshiptember

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simonstamenovic · 2 months

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another drawpile w @dissipatingherbalist that i forgot to upload oops. colored by me drawn by him. ignore the empty space there was a game of hangman there

#and me being called a dork like 100000 times (ok 2 maybe)#get a better insult match you wound me with your lack of diversity its like you dont even care #wolfie #.png #drawpile #these r always chill 2 rb tho prob more coming eventually bc hangman is fun (its all vc quotes 90% of the time)

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cedarspiced · 8 months

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god. i'm so fucking tired.

#had an ableism incident today with a bus driver refusing to let me on bc i was in my wheelchair #shoutout to the random stranger who yelled at him about needing to accomodate me or they'd report him to his bosses #if it weren't for her our groceries would have all dethawed before we even got on the next bus #genuinely a hero #after she yelled at him he finally let me on. kept acting like he'd done nothing wrong tho but idk what else to expect lmao #but man. the whole thing really sucked all my remaining energy away #cedar speaks #ok 2 rb

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sunnibits · 2 years

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yknow what would be really nice? if I just got. a bit of a break. if I had a nice time. if I could enter my good times era. if I could enter my rest and relaxation era.

#ok to rb #I'm actually not that stressed rn so this rlly isn't a necessary 'vent' post but #it just occured to me like 'wow it would be nice if I could just have a period of time where I actually felt really good'#like. it was a novel concept. to just be doing rlly good lately #like I'm not doing BAD. I'm okay. I'm relatively chill. but it just occurred to me that having a rlly nice time is also a thing that exists #and I have not had a rlly nice time in a while!!! I think I deserve it!!!!!#I've been in the neutral zone so long I want to enter my happy and stress free era!!!!!!!#I was rlly excited for october but so far it has just been 1) massive amounts of unfinished schoolwork stressing me out #and 2) very scary and emotional life event #like damn can a girly chill for a while!!! sheesh!!!!!#anyways I have hope tho.... might have an opportunity to finally start dnd omg #if I could enter my dnd campaign + stepsister bonding era for a while that would be great please #just a thought

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seokmatthewz · 2 years

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