#overextend
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A friend is going to be moving in with us in a couple months so we can all save on rent, and I've mostly been stressed out at the number of things we Need To Do to make the place ready for her, but she came by yesterday and it suddenly hit me that we're going to have someone in our household who's actually capable of doing chores and it was like the heavens opened up and surrounded her with a halo of angelic light
#for the last couple years we've had a rotating schedule of friends where someone comes by every weekend to do maintenance cleaning#but that means that things have to wait until the weekend#and that means i either spend most of the week taking low-level psychic damage from my environment#or overextend myself doing things i really shouldn't#but SOON#we're splitting rent slightly unevenly to compensate her for doing the bulk of the housework#but this means that the housework will actually get DONE#glory hallelujah etc#curseblogging
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Chloé Bourgeois was born in a hole dug by her parents, and then they gave her a single tool to try to get out of it: A shovel
#Chloe Bourgeois#I will not overextend the allegory but there is something to be said about why she ignores all the other tools offered by other people#Chloé Bourgeois
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So... Warriors
It is obvious by now he's not ok. He's irritable and tense.
I've had thoughts and ideas on this for awhile, so I think now's a good time to speak them. Very important detail at the end.
There are some really big and some small things adding to his stress
The drama with the sword. Wild went against the agreed plan, and lashed out in anger fear for twilights injury. From things Jojo said, Wars is mad about it for a while.
I have said this in other posts, but based on things Jojo has said and some details, I do not think Wild likes wars. He has not really gotten close to him, which adds on to the negativity between them

But Wars... is a captain. This journey is different, and he's doing amazing at setting aside expectations of how to work with rank. But that is still a clear stressor- to him that was unacceptable in battle
^this is one big thing we watched go wrong and has clearly been upsetting since
Another thing is
Wars has been taking on too much. We've seen him break up a fight at the inn, comfort Time (time!), and tell him he'd take care of the others.
Twice he said "let them", and "let him be"-making others have space they needed. He asked Four what was wrong and followed up with helping with smithing.



^^These are all small things. None of these are huge- practically tiny tasks. But they add up- all the attention to others feeling but not his own
... and
Wars has not smiled. Yes, he smiled, but it was not his smile. Since Twilight went injured to the inn, there has only been smiles in a way expected, but not much beyond when he found out his friend wasn't dead. (And when he helped Four at the blacksmiths)
In the updates, I have seen others saying how cool/pretty he looked. Which he did! But emotion wise, I only thought he looked angry. Even when teasing Twilight...

^Not his smile
But here's the biggest thing that I believe is bothering him...
I've wanted to point this out for awhile. The thing is, Wars was really hurt when he found out Twilight didn't tell him about Wolfie
It's small details. A few sentences and facial expressions. But they add up over the chapter, and I don't think he felt trusted or trusting when he found out
He tried to find out who else knew
And why he was one who didn't
*read the blurred words:

"No one said anything to me, I'm just left out of the loop. Who else knows? Just us?"
Wolfie being secret wasn't necessarily about trust, but wars took it personally. He really didn't understand or want to accept that Twilight would have told some of the others but not him...
Wars is distinctly closer to the ones his age, who the younger ones often turn to. And as someone who's been through war, who bonds closest with those he feels he works with best?
Twilight having a major secret he didn't share with Wars, but did with others,
Felt like a knife to the (back?) chest.
And it hurt him

Look at his face when saying "we couldn't do a thing for him". He's looking away, directly after asking four and wild if they knew. I don't think he felt trusted. Or trusting. From thinking someone wasn't who he thought he was, and maybe was closer to others...
^^this is what I think is perhaps the biggest stressor- yet most unnoticeable
Wars never spoke to anyone about his feelings. He pushed it aside and went and helped.
This is ok. Between people so close, anything can be worked out. This is very revealing of how much Wars cares about twilight and the others
As far as Warriors pushing aside his needs and focusing on others... it's hard.
But I can confidently say this: Warriors would never want to not help all he could, when the others needed him
Here's this screenshot that makes me laugh (and somehow sky is just chill with this?)
Wars: oh my god my friend just came back from a wolf what the Hylia who can I even trust I'm having an invisible crisis
Sky: oh yay the sword helped he's back :)
Twilight: I'm fine *currently dying*
Wars is stressed right now. He's taken on too much, he's probably still mad at Champion, and... he feels betrayed (god wars should never have to feel betrayed) and untrusted
Like literally everyone ever others, wars deals with his hurt. Sometimes he can't deal with it alone, and sometimes he can. It will all work out, and I love how much he loves his brothers.
But nothing, I repeat nothing
Will be ok
IF HE DOESNT START WEARING THE DAMN SCARF SOON CMON WE HAVENT SEEN IT IN LIKE TEN UPDATES

PUT ON YOUR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT SCARF CMON MAN
Ok I'm calm <3
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Art and comic by Jojo @linkeduniverse :D
#petition to bring the scarf back 2024#linked universe#linkeduniverse#no hate towards any for accepting Wars help#they were all overextended. now for recovery#my fanfic authors know what I'm talking about with trust and betrayal#he's not ok#I cannot make a post only exploring the dark sides of relationships#with love strong enough to hurt- how is there not beauty to be found there?#I only like the scarf to want it back. but. I have given up. have at it wars simps#Lu wars#I feel like some of my wording was too harsh- perhaps from just discussing an uncomfortable topic#but if I have said anything offensive let me know I want to learn :D
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why try to please people when people can never be pleasedddddd
choose you, be freeeeee 🪽
#people pleasing#overthinking#overextending#self love#self care#mindfulness#mental health#boundaries#self healing#energy work#mine
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dear people who live in my phone! i am sick of writing my thesis and desire adventure. which means it is time to come with me for:
Cheesecake Adventure 3: Electric… beegalee??
#cooking adventures#thesis is kind of fun because the bit I’m writing atm is summarising academic slapfights#less fun when one side of the slapfights is overextending evidence and the other side is wildly dehumanising#ah well!!! cheesecake time now#The People Have Spoken so it will be raspberry and white chocolate
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Also, very fun thing to confirm in the middle of the night my time. Not sure if I ever mentioned it, but Lenora from "WHO WANTS TO BE THE EMPEROR?" was designed with the idea of her being of southwest asian descent. I could not tell you where specifically she was from, because I wrote that with only a vague idea of where the Roman - ahem, sorry, "Rhemen" - empire extended to + hadn't done any research into what major groups were around in that area during that time period, but I thought it would be fun to confirm that. Mr. Guard is Greek!
#it's extremely funny to read that rome fell because they overextended their empire and you're like 'huh. how big could it have been'#and then you actually look at a map of it#emperorvn#who wants to be the emperor?#this is random but i was just looking at a pic of her again and went 'wait. do people think she's just really tan...'
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I do think Brian has an incredibly efficient cooling and temperature regulation system because that's a pretty obvious necessity, but every day that drumbot wakes up and does everything he can to overheat himself
#metaphors for overextending oneself despite being disabled? couldn't be me#anyways he plays skyrim in his brain with all the mods and shaders#the crew sticks him in a pool when he does to instantly turn it into a hot tub#the morality everything is an incredibly taxing system on its own just from how many variables it has to consider#less so on mje more so on ejm#drumbot brian#the mechanisms
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a while ago i heard someone say “it’s crazy to think that china used to be a world superpower, and then one of their emperors decided he hated all foreigners and completely closed the country off, and they’ve never recovered since. imagine what they could have been if not for that one man’s decision” and the thing that drives me nuts is i know a lot of chinese history and i cannot for the life of me think who this might be about
#my best guess is kangxi?? bc iirc he became a lot less friendly to jesuits at the end of his reign#and the kangxi-qianlong golden age laid the groundwork for the decline of the qing dynasty/century of humiliation#but those two things have virtually nothing to do with each other#their golden age caused the long period of decline bc golden ages always drain the treasury overextend the military and foster corruption#countries pay for their golden ages for generations. frankly most regimes never recover.#the jesuit thing shouldn’t have affected trade/the economy at all#ryddles
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early in the morning after dead'nt, orange has a question.
usually he'd still be asleep long past now, but he wanted to ask about... TDL.
without the others interrupting.
so, he goes to chosen's door.
immediately this plan starts to slip off the rails.
no one knows where dark is.
...........because the others may or may not have spent the entirety of last night searching for him in every nook and cranny except there and they said they'd tell him if they found him and no one woke him up yet so
that means, the only logical conclusion is: he's in chosen's room.
so how is orange gonna ask chosen his question????
well, usually, chosen lets him just walk in.
s0!
here goes nothin
he opens the utterly silent door.
green made it special for cho, because they didn't want anyone to ever hear it being opened.
as a special bonus, yellow was able to code the door in such a way that it would never need any maintenance related to sound: its hinges and latches would stay pristinely quiet, forever.
so chosen doesn't wake up when orange sneaks inside.
they wake up when orange takes one step in, spots bright red, and fails to stifle a gasp.
"oh shit!!" orange whispers.
chosen's eyes peek over the covers.
"I'm sorry! i didn't know- uh, i would've- if um- i can come back later-"
they stare at him. "what's wrong." chosen prefers clear and concise, especially early in the morning.
"you-" orange carefully picks his next words. "and him-"
they're in the same bed.
"yep." chosen nods.
orange stands there.
then he shrugs.
"um, sorry. on our shows, this is always a big point of conflict. we don't know why. so i just didn't want to- you know. assume otherwise."
"oh. thanks...?" chosen blinks sleepily. "yeah, it's okay."
"okay!"
"you wanted something?"
"yeah, so-"
orange cuts off again midsentence.
TDL is beginning to stir.
dark emits the highest little squeak-whine that orange has ever heard (even compared to red's baby rabbits), and raises a hand to tug chosen back down to the pillow.
chosen turns their entire face to him, trilling.
they both perform a little brushy-brushy head bonk thing.
then chosen maneuvers their body (under the covers) so it, presumably, mingles more tightly with dark's.
this is satisfactory - for now. dark grumbles about it and stuffs his head under chosen's chin.
orange stands pixel-perfectly still by the door.
"you were saying?" chosen finally turns back to him.
"uh," orange stalls.
dark's eyes open.
he awakens with terrifying speed, untangling from chosen, hoisting up from the covers, and raising a warning fireball within milliseconds.
the room shifts into blazing color and stark shadows.
he shrieks,
"GET OUT!!!"
it seems dark does not, "okay" this situation.
orange drops, scrambles, and miraculously operates the door with enough precision to tumble out the other side unscathed.
silently, the door shuts itself behind him.
...
the fireball is put away.
...
"cho, why do you allow The Beast into your room?"
chosen snorts. "it was him who rebuilt you."
dark snarls. "are you SURE it wasn't some trick? you watched the whole time? i don't trust it."
"i trust him."
"why? how?? you do understand why i have reservations about it???"
"yes," chosen nods. "But I trust him."
They press their very cold head into dark's very warm head, and both of them sigh in relief.
"He brought me you."
dark huffs. "mm."
...
"and other things," chosen concedes. "you... weren't there."
"tell me."
...
outside, orange is still collapsed, upside down, against the wall, across from chosen's door, where he crashed earlier in his escape.
red has just found him while coming upstairs to check out the commotion.
"orange!? u okay?"
"yeap," orange strains. "all good."
"what happened?"
orange's hand flops on the floor towards chosen's door. "you were right. dark's in there."
red takes a second to digest this.
then his hands fly up to his mouth.
"what're they doing in there?????? did you see???"
"yes. i dunno."
"were they ? ? ?
fucking ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?"
orange squints at him.
through the door, two voices loudly interrupt,
"NO!"
the angrier voice adds,
"AND FUCK OFF!"
red squeaks and hurries back down the stairs.
orange sighs deeply.
this has been a terrible learning experience for all.
#--/ story#chodark#now hang on. stay with me. there is ZERO romance in this story. none.#but there are totally references to it in the context of explaining how zero the romance is in this story- it's all a joke about 0 romance#that's the point lmao#but there is? something?? i do not have words for this. p lease explain to me if you know#and there's fluff. so \o/ take that how you will#alan becker#animator vs animation#ava orange#ava the chosen one#ava the dark lord#i just realized this type of posting first about the ending before any of the beginning is what Handplates did.......#......... heh. go read that if you haven't it's really good storytelling#anyhow WHAT IS HAPPENING I NEVER WRITE THIS MUCH THIS FAST AAAAWAWAA#im enjoying myself but also trying not to overextend <o> y'know?? y'know#that's it for now 🎉🎊💥💕✨👋💖💫💤🕳️🦞#edit: the wise one has spoken. we shall call this pairing...#qpr#queer platonic relationship#\o/🎊 congratulations to the happy mutual administrative associates#executable!au#ava au
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anyone thinking Miles overloading his venom strike so much while fighting the spot that it left lightning scars? no?
#across the spiderverse#spiderman beyond the spiderverse#beyond the spiderverse#spiderverse miles#miles morales#miles gonzalo morales#btsv#they do fade over but#ı mean#this boy overextending his power#yep#the spot#spider man: across the spider verse#miles atsv#spiderman across the spiderverse
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at this point it feels like youre in a game of psychological warfare with rob
Funny thing is, I originally wanted to demand the cut scenes, unreleased bloopers, AND scripts from Rob but I was advised that was too much to demand, so I limited myself to just scripts... what else could I milk out of this I wonder...
#ill bide my time#see what happens..#dont wanna overextend#but i do want everything hes willing to give#ask#i should have asked for the kitten mittens and madbu scripts....
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Have thoughts about this that I neeeeeed to draw.
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if you can’t breathe, you’ve gone too far
#i swear i’ve posted this before but i couldn’t find it to rb#a yoga instructor dropped this mid tutorial and it resonated with me so deeply#as someone who has always overextended themselves and held their breath#find your breath again or take a step back <3
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April 27, 2025 - Hobi’s Weverse live - My body and muscle pain were no joke.
A clearer translation from btsmemeories: But who am I, everyone? When I go on stage, I'm a professional.
#jung hoseok#jhope#hobi#bts#bangtan#weverse live#awww poor hobi#he overextended himself#and got really sore and tired#but he’s a professional#and perfomrs like he always he does
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I went on ONE (1) brisk walk yesterday. And my left knee has decided to kill itself.
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Can we have a second Tuesday this week because we spent most of this one basically unable to talk or text (barely capable of making any words) or do any hobbies (combination of: information/processing overload & wording incapability) and I want a refund.
#saltposting#Luckily we could at least do all of our Basic Needs & Hygiene tasks for the day on “no thoughts / brain empty”#because it was all housework / heavily scheduled and routine tasks so no thinking required & no need to be fast.#Managed the fatigue etc well enough to feel decent now and be able to manage some writing before dinner#(thank you jigsaw puzzles in app and the one (1) song we could loop for 4 hours for the keeping our Fun need bar from the red zone)#but that still involved giving up on people & most fun for today and. It'll work out because we have a lot of that scheduled for tomorrow#but that was not great due to the unplanned nature of this and also wanted to hang out with friends and partners today but couldn't *talk*#instead we got: brain fog on top of tasks. We could've pushed I suppose but that would've resulted in even worse fatigue tomorrow#and potentially just not managing laundry/housework/meals/shower (our to-do. Shower was already postponed from yesterday.) today#We've been overextending for weeks so I'm not too surprised this hits now that we have downtime#but it would have been nice if it didn't hit at all. If it had not been a thing.#Where's that one post? “I feel like I do about 25% of what a normal person does in a day and still it's too much.”#something to that effect#and if this is the result of doing normal person amount of things for just a few weeks while still taking breaks then well. :(#Sigh.
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