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10bmnews · 2 days ago
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5 gentle ways to discipline a kid without yelling or hitting - Times of India
Fear can be a wonderful deterrent, but when fear is used to enforce discipline, the outcome is usually dire. Discipline is not about punishment. It’s about teaching. And yet, the idea that children only listen when yelled at or that a slap will make them behave still quietly lingers in many households. It’s mostly passed down through generations, believed to be “tough love.” But the truth is:…
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forevergrateful2016 · 2 months ago
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Speak Like It Matters—Because to Your Family, It Does
The Power of the Pause Before I speak—especially in the heat of the moment—I’m learning to pause. Breathe. Think. It sounds simple. But those few seconds? They can change everything. Because yes, the anger fades. But the words?Our kids carry them. Sometimes for years.Our partners feel them too—in the tone, the tension, the distance that follows. More Than Just a Provider Fatherhood isn’t…
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rudeyankeesdaily · 3 months ago
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Parenting Without Yelling: Techniques That Build Connection (And Keep You Sane)
Let’s be honest—parenting is a wild rollercoaster. One minute you’re peacefully folding laundry, and the next, you’re dodging a flying toy while trying not to explode like a volcano. But here’s the truth most people don’t tell you… Yelling doesn’t work. Connection does. In fact, research shows that consistent yelling creates emotional distance, defensiveness, and fear-based compliance, not…
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irrevocablecondition · 3 months ago
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bisan-is-trying · 4 months ago
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Am i insane enough to go to a high-risk area for a kitten?
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basalting · 8 months ago
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could you imagine being in the watchtower or whatever while batman, superman and wonder woman are fighting?? batman says something softly in an absolutely cutting tone of voice and superman starts pinching the bridge of his nose while wonder woman throws her arms up in disgust
"Of COURSE you bring that up again, you've never found a dead horse you wouldn't beat."
"Will both of you just stop, I didn't even think it was possible for me to get a migraine but somehow you've managed it!"
"You'll both have to forgive me, I am after all just a mortal man, in the future I'll leave it to my betters shall I?"
"BETTERS? Don't start on that shit again BATMAN or I'll see how strong the shock absorbers in suit really are."
"Ignore him Superman, the gods know he'd never willingly agree with a plan that doesn't involve him throwing himself idiotically on a grenade or something."
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gxlden-angels · 1 year ago
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Bro I hate fundamentalists and culturally-fundie parents they'll say shit like "spare the rod spoil the child am I right haha yea my parents used to have to beat my ass with a switch almost everyday but I sure did learn my lesson" but like??? no you didn't??? you were hit multiple times for something you very obviously did not, in fact, learn
Like studies about how harmful even lightly spanking children is aside, you're literally contradicting yourself?? Some even admitted they got worse as they got older cause they wanted to see how far they could push their parents before they got punished
And studies not aside, you're gonna get child raising advice from the same book that tells you to stone your wife if her hymen doesn't break on your wedding night instead of the decades of research we have now?? Just say you're a bad parent and move on my guy. Skill issue
#bro I had a coworker go 'unpopular opinion I think some kids really do need beatings' and I'm like????#unprompted???? what's going on there????#well anyways I ended up going 'yea so I plan on specializing in play therapy with autistic children so I've been learning about talking#to children and the ways their parents and environment affects them'#and they're like hmmm but beating this kid with a stick after they broke something or I upset them to the point of yelling is good actually#had a boss say it taught him and his kids respect cause they were hard-headed#and I'm like?? that's fear not respect! they fear punishment! they do not act out of respect for you!#he's a conservative christian black man tho so he's like 'But Authority!' like bro I don't even respect you what are you on about#'You don't respect police and their authority?' Nope! I fear them! I do not respect cops and every cop/cop-adjacent person I personally know#has reinforced that for me#'We'll agree to disagree' Cool! Doesn't mean you're not wrong! I could believe trees aren't real but that is in fact incorrect#then he pulled out the bible verse and I was like ah okay I forgot you like 'here's how to treat slaves' book you're so right bestie#I'm totally wrong now and so sorry for doubting you and your 2000+ year old book I don't believe in <3#They'd go 'well I turned out fine!' then say something that directly contradicts that#anyways I need christians to get their grubby little hands off the current state of Child Protection and Rights in the U.S.#So we can actually start working on helping kids without the force of christian hands suffocating them#cause homeschooling and child raising by evangelicals are so fucked up bro I'm tired of this shit#I'd only stay in my current state to help children get out of that cycle since I'm in the bible belt#ex christian#religious trauma#child abuse tw
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authorofemotion · 4 months ago
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why is it like. a necessary part of life that I have to go into debt when I’m 19
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lilaccatholic · 2 years ago
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Physically I'm here but mentally I'm clawing the eyes out of everyone who talks crap about their children on the internet and posts them in their most vulnerable moments for clout
#i just saw a video of a like eleven or twelve year old girl approach her mom's car when she got home from work and without even saying hello#to her kid she yelled at her to go inside so she could talk to her husband first and then shouted at the kid when she said her dad put her#through hell that day. is she probably overreacting bc shes a kid and she doesnt have get emotional regulation yet? absolutely. but also?#as the kid who knew that if i didnt get to my mom with my side of things first that my dad would twist things to make himself look like the#victim in a situation i promise you that baby girl isnt feeling heard and that would be sucky but normal on its own. the type of thing#families work through together yknow? but to post that on the internet??? to be recording when you come home knoeing there are problems in#your house and wanting to put online forever a moment in time where there are really strained relationships among members of your family??#especially when it's the relationship btwn your husband and your child??? nope. im sorry. uh uh.#that kid deserves better than that. your husband deserves better than that. everyone deserves better than to have their really vulnerable#moments shared on the internet with strangers#like. i think about how i felt as a kid when i found out my parents had told a relative something i considered private. how embarrassed and#betrayed i felt. the thought that EVERYONE would see that instead of just my dad's relatives or w/e?#bby girl im incandescent with rage#anyway#lilac rambles
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dogbound1128 · 5 months ago
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"Mom... am I still young? Can I dream for a few months more?" - Mac thinking this to Doc cause he's almost 18 now and almost done with school and almost done with his boxing career
Pain Warning ⬇️
and this is all moving too fast and he doesn't wanna be an adult yet he still feels like a kid and he wants to stay in the wvba with Glass Joe and Von Kaiser and Disco Kid and King Hippo and Honda and Tiger and Bull and Sandy. he wants to stay in the closest thing he's ever had to a childhood
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yagurlhere · 9 days ago
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WARNING: SPOILERS
On our souls we are praying for Dynamite's crash out that boy has neglectful parents, got abandoned in the apocalypse, got an abandoned arc about his struggles and guilts with hunting other objects, is taken captive by a Pack with his best friend, and watched said best friend die two times, not even said best friend will be safe from his mental breakdown
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brokenrefraction · 9 months ago
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I've been out so much more this year that my skin has tanned significantly im so happy
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soullxsss13 · 3 months ago
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you know it’s bad when you’ve been parenting yourself for years because you have no one in your household to truly idolize or that keeps you in check like a normal family member should do
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aprillikesthings · 4 months ago
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The only thing worse than accidentally watching an upsetting video about child abuse is accidentally watching one where it’s played off as a joke
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navysealt4t · 1 year ago
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the gay experience of slightly wanting to kill yourself in your grandparents bathroom
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ghostofasecretary · 1 year ago
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it's been a while since i've cried hard enough to have a headache but. sure got there today, babes!
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