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5 gentle ways to discipline a kid without yelling or hitting - Times of India
Fear can be a wonderful deterrent, but when fear is used to enforce discipline, the outcome is usually dire. Discipline is not about punishment. It’s about teaching. And yet, the idea that children only listen when yelled at or that a slap will make them behave still quietly lingers in many households. It’s mostly passed down through generations, believed to be “tough love.” But the truth is:…
#calm parenting methods#child behavior correction#effective communication with children#empathy in parenting#gentle discipline techniques#mindful parenting tips#non-violent discipline#parenting without yelling#positive parenting strategies
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Speak Like It Matters—Because to Your Family, It Does
The Power of the Pause Before I speak—especially in the heat of the moment—I’m learning to pause. Breathe. Think. It sounds simple. But those few seconds? They can change everything. Because yes, the anger fades. But the words?Our kids carry them. Sometimes for years.Our partners feel them too—in the tone, the tension, the distance that follows. More Than Just a Provider Fatherhood isn’t…
#breaking generational cycles#conscious parenting#emotional intelligence in parenting#fatherhood advice#healing through parenting#how to be a better husband and father#intentional parenting#mindful fatherhood#parenting tips for dads#parenting with presence#parenting without yelling
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Parenting Without Yelling: Techniques That Build Connection (And Keep You Sane)
Let’s be honest—parenting is a wild rollercoaster. One minute you’re peacefully folding laundry, and the next, you’re dodging a flying toy while trying not to explode like a volcano. But here’s the truth most people don’t tell you… Yelling doesn’t work. Connection does. In fact, research shows that consistent yelling creates emotional distance, defensiveness, and fear-based compliance, not…

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#build parent-child bond#child behavior tips#conscious parenting#discipline without shouting#emotional connection#gentle parenting#parenting blog#parenting guidance#parenting hacks#parenting without yelling#peaceful parenting#raise respectful kids#stop yelling at kids
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#me if i were a cat rn#today i:#took a 6 hr train to london for an appointment that didnt happen#spent £6.95 on a pint of beer that a small child in the pub spilt on my lap (they got me another one though)#(they being the parents. not the small child.)#got yelled at in the toilets by a drunk girl and had to try to explain myself without just lifting my shirt#sat on the floor of my train to my nans (ongoing) and pretended not to hear the teenage boys debating what i am#(win: adams apple was the defining factor !!!!!)#then i got to sit on a chair finally and the train wobbled and the person next to me?#DRINK IN MY LAP !!! AGAIN !!!!#and now im sat in the corner waiting to reach my changeover station#but the train i need to get next?#DELAYED BY HALF AN HOUR !!!#which means no buses !!!!!! and my nan shall have to pick me up and i wont get a cheeky cig before she comes and OHHHH#OH THE HORRORS#OH THE HORROS OF TODAY 😖😖😖😖😖#and then tomorrow? back on trains back to scotland#and i get in at midnight tomorrow#and then work at 5:30am#RAHHHHH#SOMEBODY SEDATE ME !!!!!!#OH AND#MY WATER THAT I BOUGHT???#sparkling.#fucking horrible.#i didnt check the label.#someobody ACTUALLY bash my head in i beg#tiktok if you wanted to finish me off rn id let you#i would actually pay you to
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Am i insane enough to go to a high-risk area for a kitten?
#we shall see#honestly knowing me i would say yes#but i don't know how to tell my parents without getting yelled at#and i don't wanna lie to them#sigh#palestine#فلسطين#feb 2025
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could you imagine being in the watchtower or whatever while batman, superman and wonder woman are fighting?? batman says something softly in an absolutely cutting tone of voice and superman starts pinching the bridge of his nose while wonder woman throws her arms up in disgust
"Of COURSE you bring that up again, you've never found a dead horse you wouldn't beat."
"Will both of you just stop, I didn't even think it was possible for me to get a migraine but somehow you've managed it!"
"You'll both have to forgive me, I am after all just a mortal man, in the future I'll leave it to my betters shall I?"
"BETTERS? Don't start on that shit again BATMAN or I'll see how strong the shock absorbers in suit really are."
"Ignore him Superman, the gods know he'd never willingly agree with a plan that doesn't involve him throwing himself idiotically on a grenade or something."
#its like when ur parents are fighting but WORSE cause ur parents are also kinda ur BOSS#vibes absolutely rancid and everyone else is like 🧍#after the fight (which ends without resolution and is basically a cold war until everyone calms down) bruce just goes back to work#clark straight up leaves. goes to ma and pas to weed the garden until he stops wanting to scream#diana goes and trains for a bit but then just focuses on helping other JL members#bruce wayne#clark kent#diana prince#i ganged up on bruce in this but d&b slap clark down when he gets stupid about magic#and b&c yell at diana to keep them in the loop even if she can handle things by herself
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Bro I hate fundamentalists and culturally-fundie parents they'll say shit like "spare the rod spoil the child am I right haha yea my parents used to have to beat my ass with a switch almost everyday but I sure did learn my lesson" but like??? no you didn't??? you were hit multiple times for something you very obviously did not, in fact, learn
Like studies about how harmful even lightly spanking children is aside, you're literally contradicting yourself?? Some even admitted they got worse as they got older cause they wanted to see how far they could push their parents before they got punished
And studies not aside, you're gonna get child raising advice from the same book that tells you to stone your wife if her hymen doesn't break on your wedding night instead of the decades of research we have now?? Just say you're a bad parent and move on my guy. Skill issue
#bro I had a coworker go 'unpopular opinion I think some kids really do need beatings' and I'm like????#unprompted???? what's going on there????#well anyways I ended up going 'yea so I plan on specializing in play therapy with autistic children so I've been learning about talking#to children and the ways their parents and environment affects them'#and they're like hmmm but beating this kid with a stick after they broke something or I upset them to the point of yelling is good actually#had a boss say it taught him and his kids respect cause they were hard-headed#and I'm like?? that's fear not respect! they fear punishment! they do not act out of respect for you!#he's a conservative christian black man tho so he's like 'But Authority!' like bro I don't even respect you what are you on about#'You don't respect police and their authority?' Nope! I fear them! I do not respect cops and every cop/cop-adjacent person I personally know#has reinforced that for me#'We'll agree to disagree' Cool! Doesn't mean you're not wrong! I could believe trees aren't real but that is in fact incorrect#then he pulled out the bible verse and I was like ah okay I forgot you like 'here's how to treat slaves' book you're so right bestie#I'm totally wrong now and so sorry for doubting you and your 2000+ year old book I don't believe in <3#They'd go 'well I turned out fine!' then say something that directly contradicts that#anyways I need christians to get their grubby little hands off the current state of Child Protection and Rights in the U.S.#So we can actually start working on helping kids without the force of christian hands suffocating them#cause homeschooling and child raising by evangelicals are so fucked up bro I'm tired of this shit#I'd only stay in my current state to help children get out of that cycle since I'm in the bible belt#ex christian#religious trauma#child abuse tw
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why is it like. a necessary part of life that I have to go into debt when I’m 19
#i’ll go down kicking and screaming btw. doing everything in my power to be able to pay for college without taking out loans#but as someone whose parents are already in debt and do not make enough to pay for my college#i have to either pay for it myself or go into debt that i’ll pay off for years and years and years#because i don’t have a job that can pay for major expenses because im currently doing “unskilled” labor because i dont have a college degree#but if you have to have a college degree to be able to afford a college degree i think the system is messed up#:)#anyway thank you sister mercedes for telling me i need to go to school and move out of my parents house#despite me saying my only reason for not doing those things was financial#you have a great grasp on what life is like in the world 👍#claire yells to the void
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Physically I'm here but mentally I'm clawing the eyes out of everyone who talks crap about their children on the internet and posts them in their most vulnerable moments for clout
#i just saw a video of a like eleven or twelve year old girl approach her mom's car when she got home from work and without even saying hello#to her kid she yelled at her to go inside so she could talk to her husband first and then shouted at the kid when she said her dad put her#through hell that day. is she probably overreacting bc shes a kid and she doesnt have get emotional regulation yet? absolutely. but also?#as the kid who knew that if i didnt get to my mom with my side of things first that my dad would twist things to make himself look like the#victim in a situation i promise you that baby girl isnt feeling heard and that would be sucky but normal on its own. the type of thing#families work through together yknow? but to post that on the internet??? to be recording when you come home knoeing there are problems in#your house and wanting to put online forever a moment in time where there are really strained relationships among members of your family??#especially when it's the relationship btwn your husband and your child??? nope. im sorry. uh uh.#that kid deserves better than that. your husband deserves better than that. everyone deserves better than to have their really vulnerable#moments shared on the internet with strangers#like. i think about how i felt as a kid when i found out my parents had told a relative something i considered private. how embarrassed and#betrayed i felt. the thought that EVERYONE would see that instead of just my dad's relatives or w/e?#bby girl im incandescent with rage#anyway#lilac rambles
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"Mom... am I still young? Can I dream for a few months more?" - Mac thinking this to Doc cause he's almost 18 now and almost done with school and almost done with his boxing career
Pain Warning ⬇️
and this is all moving too fast and he doesn't wanna be an adult yet he still feels like a kid and he wants to stay in the wvba with Glass Joe and Von Kaiser and Disco Kid and King Hippo and Honda and Tiger and Bull and Sandy. he wants to stay in the closest thing he's ever had to a childhood
#he wants to collapse at Doc's gym after a long day and flop on one of the yoga mats and be almost-fully asleep but just awake enough to#feel Doc putting a blanket over him and knowing that he'll take care of him and in the morning Mac knows he can grab a snack without being#yelled at#and knowing he can just#be there#and the man that lives there will talk to him#and hear him#and understand him#and he'll know that he's safe there#and he doesn't want that to go away#he doesnt want to magically turn into an adult where that suddenly isnt acceptable and he needs to stop being such a baby and go work and#take care of himself#Little Mac#Dad Louis#tw child abuse#tw parental abuse#Punch Out!!#and he just wants to be a kid#not palestine
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WARNING: SPOILERS
On our souls we are praying for Dynamite's crash out that boy has neglectful parents, got abandoned in the apocalypse, got an abandoned arc about his struggles and guilts with hunting other objects, is taken captive by a Pack with his best friend, and watched said best friend die two times, not even said best friend will be safe from his mental breakdown
#Mushroom should get one too#Prolly when she fully comes back#Objectified#Object Show#Object Comic#Dynamite#Max#Mushroom#Eden#PLEASE CHESTER PLEASE LET HIM SNAP AND SHOUT#I DO NOT WANT HIM TO BOTTLE UP HIS EMOTIONS ANYMORE#I WANT HIM TO BREAK DOWN LIKE MUSHROOM DID IN WOLVES WITHOUT TEETH#I WANT HIM TO PULL A RAZOR DOOMED WORLD#EXCEPT LESS FATALITY#I WANT MUSHROOM TO BE SHOCKED AND TRY TO CONSOLE HIM BUT NONE OF IT WORKS HE'S SO ANGRY UPSET AND LOSING IT#AND I WANT MUSHROOM TO SILENTLY CURSE HIS PARENTS THE PACK THAT GODDAMN PAINTBRUSH FROM LEAN MEAT AND THE TEACHERS FOR YELLING AT HIM
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I've been out so much more this year that my skin has tanned significantly im so happy
#sunflower rambles#tbh i know its wrong to say but without my dad everything has been so much better#ignoring all the debts and financial issues#atleast i dont need to deal with parents yelling and screaming and throwing things at eachother daily#its just me my bro and my mom now#and our animals#no wonder why i had an optimistic mindset boom after that happened#maybe things will actually get better this year#also my legs feel so powerful after all the hiking
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you know it’s bad when you’ve been parenting yourself for years because you have no one in your household to truly idolize or that keeps you in check like a normal family member should do
#soullxsss13#oftentimes my parents say the wrong things or they encourage the wrong things so I just correct myself in my head but it’s hard#like my parents never make me practice my instrument and my mom literally applauds me for not bringing my instrument home on certain days#because she hates the sound—a clarinet’s too loud for her ig#so it’s difficult to keep myself in check with my band assignments causing me to struggle with my instrument for years#this is the same with hobbies because whenever I mention not having hobbies my parents yell at me#and say that I should just sit in front of the tv and watch a movie or something#because according to them there are no hobbies that can’t be done without a screen#which is really discouraging and I’m really trying to find a hobby that will prove them wrong#tw vent#tw parental neglect#tw parental issues
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The only thing worse than accidentally watching an upsetting video about child abuse is accidentally watching one where it’s played off as a joke
#was watching fb shorts#there was one that was like ‘ha ha all Muslim kids know’#and without sound it’s just a woman in a niqab putting down a prayer rug#made the mistake of turning on the sound#and it was a kid getting hit repeatedly while an adult yelled at him#why. WHY.#and like: I did not understand the language the parent was yelling#but I overheard that plenty#and I just. why would you think that’s funny#:(#child abuse#anyway saw that while getting ready for work and keep thinking about it
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the gay experience of slightly wanting to kill yourself in your grandparents bathroom
#i just can’t go out there and pretend like i’m loved with all of them anymore i cant#my dads gonna shut off my phone and my parents r gonna yell at me but i can’t anymore#ive never felt more lonely than i have around these fucking people#i wish i could go on a walk without all of them knowing that i left#man why did i leave my fucking shoes next to the door i should have brought them back here#vent
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it's been a while since i've cried hard enough to have a headache but. sure got there today, babes!
#ghost speaks#personal#ripped my favorite tights i've had for 5+ years and can't replace#can't return my glasses#got ptsd triggered by going past my old church because i took a wrong turn because i was. crying about not being able to return my glasses#have been crying for a solid 40 minutes straight#am still incredibly aware of how isolated and lonely i am#my parents are on vacation so i won't see a friendly face or get a hug till sunday night at the earliest#just. doing BAD#(well. there is the faint hope that the office manager will take pity on me since her office literally cannot manufacture lenses#that will meet my needs)#(but considering i spent a lot of the last hour yelling and begging out loud trying to work out a maximally sympathetic pitch)#(and also dreading 1-2 years of not having transition lenses because theirs fuck with my color vision)#(i'm not sure the hope makes things. better?)#i am gonna. make hot chocolate because it sounds like a marginal improvement over crying without that#the last time i couldn't stand up or i'd start crying harder was yesterday but boy did i not miss it#i thought i might feel better in the morning. ha. ha ha. ha#(like i know this is temporary i'm just. i just. i am so tired and SO stupidly ridiculously incredibly upset)#(like my emotional equilibrium right now is. not)
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