#pressed like a panini

[bohemian-nights]

You want to self-insert to Netty so badly you want to put a brown teen girl to be groomed and be placed in between an ongoing marital dispute. It's disgusting how you talk about her. You want her to "save" some evil man from evil "dumbnyra" liek your misogyny is so transparent. You sound like every delusional 'i can fix him' stan. You hate this character so much you weaponize another woman for it. If you don't see the racial and social undertones in the way daemon grooms her (e.g. teaching her about hygiene and manners) there is something wrong with you for you to want this pairing. Some of us netty enjoyers like her because she's an underdog claiming a wild dragon. We don't want to see her as a prop to some man's "redemption" like you so want here.

One, you won’t even acknowledge that Netty is Black. Why am I going to take your claims of misogyny seriously when you and yours perpetuate Black erasure and misogynoir?

Two, Nettles is an adult by Westeros standards.

Three, I have stated numerous times I don’t believe someone who could tame a wild dragon didn’t know how to bathe herself(and if you believe she could not bathe herself yet she could claim Sheepstealer that’s a reflection on your perception of a character like Netty. You can drop the I’m a fan of Netty act).

Nettles was a homeless young woman. She didn’t have access to bathing facilities, but she definitely knew how soap and water worked 🙃Daemon more than likely taught her etiquette for court life and he gifted her things that she didn’t have because again she was freaking homeless 🤦🏽‍♀️ He did what he did because he loved her and wanted to make sure that she’d be able to navigate in her new life. Not because he was grooming her.

Daemon isn’t a good person. He’s selfish and he commits some of the most heinous acts during the Dance. However, he isn’t a total monster. He has his moments and Netty is one of them.

If he had actually groomed her and didn’t genuinely love her he would've let Rhaenyra’s orders be carried out(or he would’ve gone back “home”) because she had become an inconvenience.

Four, Netty more than likely will be aged up on the show. So since you won’t be able to say but but 17 isn’t legal in our world, you guys will need to come up with a better excuse not to ship Dettles than “OMG you want her to be groomed.”

Five, do I have to quote myself again🙃 You want to talk about racial undertones yet you won’t acknowledge that the one who abused/tried to abuse Nettles was Rhaenyra. She’s the one who tries to commit a racially motivated hate crime after saying her husband can sleep around(see Mysaria whose white in the books), but just not with Black women and he most certainly can’t fall in love with them. I don’t have to make Rhaenyra into a villain. She is one when it comes to Netty 🤷🏽‍♀️

White women can be just as harmful to Black women as men(Rhaenyra shows that). The sisterhood often doesn't extend to us so miss me with the misogyny crap when there is a white woman calling a Black woman a “low creature” and trying to murder a her(when she’s possibly pregnant) in her sleep all over sleeping with her husband who she has an open relationship with.

So let’s not get it twisted, I’m not weaponizing my fave to attack yours. I’m pointing out the wrongdoings of your fave to mine. Wrongdoings which you ignore because pointing out even a fictional white woman’s racism makes you uncomfortable.

Lastly, I care about Nettles as a whole. I’m constantly talking about her, creating gifs and moodboards for her, and speculating on her casting(which is a whole other fiasco), but you people always zero in on me shipping her with her Daemon (which is canon, but you people want to ignore it cause it makes your self-insert look like she’s not the end all be all).

Nettles story is more than just her relationship with Daemon(and I don’t think she “fixes him,” he comes to realize a lot of stuff himself of what is and isn’t important during the Dance), but he’s very much a part of that story, and as I’ve said before, showing Black women in romantic relationships in media is important.

We don’t need any more strong independent Black women who don’t need a man stereotypes perpetuated. So if you want to ignore that to try and make their relationship abusive(when it isn’t), or make her into a sexless Mammy who only lives to serve Rhaenyra because that’s the position you are comfortable with Black women being in, that’s a you and your inherent biases issue.

You guys refuse to acknowledge the importance of her relationship with Daemon because you don’t and never will identify with or self-insert into Black characters. You’re never forced to see Black character's humanity. You just see them as accessories to your actual self-inserts and since Nettles isn’t a stereotype(she’s objectively one of the more interesting characters in the Dance and she's the girl getting rescued) you want to make her into one.

Don’t get mad at me for recognizing and calling out you people on your crap. Do better.

[warmspice]

there's a bone deep coldness within me that can only be soothed by being simmered in a stockpot for hours on end

[anonymouspuzzler]

hi buck. boy have i got news for you buddy

would you all believe i did this by accident.

[esmeraldablazingsky]

wrioneuvifuri where at first furina and wriothesley are still not that close and are a little awkward with each other but also whenever they’re all cuddling furina squeezes herself into the small space directly between neuvillette and wriothesley bc it’s the warmest, comfiest place in the bed

wriothesley goes from “I think my goddess might hate me” to “well she’s not my goddess anymore she’s just my partner’s partner who enjoys getting squished like a stuffed animal (and probably doesn’t hate me) this is nice?? I think??”

[sidetongue]

she is certainly unique aint she

[mokagachas]

wip of a piece thats going to take me out but itll be fine

[dykeredhood]

rb to give me a hug

[mashmouths]

the beautiful thing about crochet is that if you make it big enough, any blanket will become a weighted blanket

[croziers-compass]

Edward Little Lays Eggs.

[headphonemouse]

Nothing in my life has ever tasted as good as how I imagine cartoon meat that looks like this tastes

[ghcstcd]

Stressed about the $5 I have in my bank AND panic attacks that roll in.

[urwendii]

Multilingual problem: you're looking for the translation of that exact word from your native language, its been an hour its driving you crazy.

The word is not from your native language and has never been in the first place.

[muu-kun]

Muu upon realizing the partners he was intimate with in his younger years were too vanilla to properly prepare him for the things people are truly capable of saying and enacting upon one another.

[jumping-jackalope]

I wondered why I stopped getting bagels and then I bought some bagels and well I don't own a toaster so to toast a bagel I put it on a heated pan and lay a plate over the bagel and put something heavy on the plate to press it down. and I gotta do this every time. end result slaps tho.

[just-a-tiny-goldfish]

Kudos to all the steps that get in the crash and break their legs and have their eye scratched out cause damn

[kitkatcadillac]

did you know theres so much great food (bread) out there in the world. a whole world and there is so much bread