#pronoun anon

[same-pic-of-rickroll-everyday]

*Steals your pronouns cutely* Thanks <3

I have no pronouns.

Only amateur nouns.

[my-castles-crumbling]

Hi, Cas! So I'm in my early teens, and I've been questioning my gender a bit more, lately. I decided to forget about it, because I'm fine with being a girl, and it doesn't feel wrong necissasry, but I recently got my school reports for last term, and my maths teacher used they/them pronouns in my report, and it just made me feel so good. I've re read it so many times.

I've tried one of those pronoun tester websites before now, but this has just affected me more because it was written specifically about me.

I want to be able to try out these pronouns more, but I'm too scared to ask anyone about it. I don't think anyone would be rude about it, but I'm still worried about how they react, and if I decide not to use they/them pronouns, I don't want them to judge me for it.

I don't know who to talk to about it, and I really wish I could use these pronouns. I feel sorta bad about ranting about this to someone I don't even know, but I just really needed some advice from someone.

Hi!!!

First of all, I don't think there's anything wrong with trying out pronouns. How else will you figure out what you like? Do you have anyone in your life that you could explain this to? Like say, "Hey, I'm thinking I might want to use these pronouns but I'm not sure. Will you try them with me?" Maybe even your teacher! You can make it clear that you want to try different pronouns, so you don't feel pressured.

But here's the thing: you are allowed to change your pronouns. As many times as you want. And anyone who judges is an asshole. Because it's about YOU and what makes YOU comfortable and what reflects YOUR identity.

If you want, I can try they/them pronouns for you! Let me know!

I'm naming you pronoun anon.

[traumasurvivorshelpingsurvivors]

Hi, you can call me Pronoun Anon. I briefly mention sexual trauma and stalking. I'm not sure if this is the right blog to ask but you always answer people in such a nice and nonjudgmental way, I wanted to come here for some advice and opinions.

I have never questioned being anything other than a cis female and go by she/her pronouns. A few years ago I was targeted by an abusive stalker ex and had some other traumatic incidents where guys disrespected my boundaries and made me feel uncomfortable. I also faced a lot of misogynistic comments (guys telling me they could do whatever they wanted to me and that my thoughts didn't matter since I'm just a girl and can't have my own thoughts anyway).

Basically because I'm a girl and they wanted me and I didn't feel the same way, men made my life a living hell and I went through some of the worst mental health periods of my life, including having to go to the hospital. These were guys I met at public events, saw me, felt attracted to me, and wanted to pursue something more than just friendship, and wouldn't listen to me when I said no. Not even in a rude way or anything but just me letting them know I wanted us to stay friends, and them arguing with me that "guys and girls can't be just friends" and continuously trying to pressure me into romance and sex with them while ignoring my discomfort.

I stayed out of public events for a while, but now one is coming up that my friend invited me to (it would be my first one in four years). And… I kind of feel inclined to have people call me by they/them or it/its in public? I haven't had anyone try it out on me but I feel like it might be more comfortable. (I'm also interested in some neopronouns I feel connected to, but feel like even they/them and it/its may be hard for people to get used to, or seem "snowflake-y" to people who already know me as a cis girl who wants to change pronouns now)

I don't get bothered by she/her because it's what I've gone by my whole life both offline and online, and have always thought of myself cis, but when I'm in places where there are men around me looking at me in a prefatory way, I want to "detach" myself from that, and not be "seen as a girl" (I also don't wear feminine clothes anymore, and stick to more androgynous fashion styles).

I also feel like it's a matter of kind of wanting a "fresh start" from my old self. Like people remember me as she/her so this kind of gives me a chance at a new identity (I also plan on going by a different nickname in public, since my old nickname was very unique and recognizable).

Just wanted some thoughts on this because it might be impacting my near future and I'm not sure what exactly to think of it. Like Idk if it's even "reasonable" to begin with and I don't want to start telling my friends to call me by different pronouns in public if it's going to seem weird or fake. Does where I'm coming from make sense?

Hi anon,

I'm so sorry about what you've been going through. That sounds really distressing to experience, and I hope you've found some healing.

If using other pronouns in certain settings is what would make you feel more comfortable, then that's a perfectly valid reason to use them. It's also okay to use more than one set of pronouns - you can use they/them, it/its, or whatever other pronouns you had in mind along with she/her pronouns.

I think it's absolutely understandable to want to detach from feeling preyed upon, especially in public settings, and I totally get how femininity can be tightly interwoven with that feeling. I also used to be a cis girl but after some sexual trauma by a boy I started exploring my gender expression and I found that "dressing masculine" actually made me feel safer because I didn't feel targeted. I write about this more in detail in my expose, so if you're interested to hear what I wrote, feel free to ask.

I also just want to say that I really resonate with the idea of a fresh start and a new identity. I changed my name to something more masculine (although I tend not to tell the internet what it is) and in my experience I do feel that it has served that purpose for me, so maybe that will come to fruition for you as well.

There's a common misconception that pronouns indicate gender identity, which isn't necessarily true. Like you can identify as a cis girl and use they/them pronouns, you can identify as a trans man and use she/her pronouns, whatever makes sense to you. So while it's perfectly okay to explore your gender identity, you can use whatever pronouns you feel comfortable using, even if you continue to identify as cis. If people find it weird or fake, then maybe those people don't deserve you.

Ultimately, don't let other people's treatment of you stop you from going out and enjoying yourself.

I hope I could help, please let us know if you need anything.

-Bun

[mushroompoisoning]

>:3

Keys is that you? This is someone i know. i can feel it. my first guesses are keys, felix or tails

[spacedykez]

criss/cross/applesauce

use these to piss off transphobes on twitter ;)

[sirguyofdykesborn]

how are you a lesbian but he him

please... the pronouns is all i have left of my father

[nottsangel]

More of bsf!theo when people think your dating I beg

Also can I be 🦝 anon?

“mate, i can’t believe you two still haven’t fucked.” blaise remarks with a chuckle of disbelief. theo, leaning back on the couch in the dimly lit common room, narrows his fierce eyes as he glares at blaise. “oh, don’t be ridiculous, blaise. obviously they have.” draco chimes in, scoffing and rolling his eyes in a snobbish manner. “what the fuck are you two on about? we’re just friends, alright? nothin’ more.” theo snaps back, his fingers restlessly tapping on the leather couch with his lips pressed together in a thin line. mattheo then joins the conversation, much to theo’s growing frustration.

“right. well, and enzo is my friend but i don’t slap his ass every time he walks by. but that might just be me!”

“i mean… you could if you wanted—”

“hey, guys!” you unawarely interrupt with a cheerful tone, abruptly cutting off enzo’s sentence as the boys look startled at your sudden presence, too immersed in their conversation to have noticed you walk in. a smug, lopsided smirk spreads on theo’s face— not only because his mood instantly brightens the moment he sees you, but also because he’s relieved that the awkward conversation finally came to an end.

theo swiftly grasps your hand and pulls you onto his lap, causing you to stumble clumsily onto him, eliciting a soft giggle from you. yet, you can’t help but sense that the atmosphere feels slightly… off. you quickly begin to wonder why the group has fallen into dead silence instead of continuing their conversation, and from your peripheral vision, you notice their burning, staring eyes fixed on both of you.

“hmm. good morning, bella” theo murmurs in a deep, raspy morning voice, quickly pulling you out of your puzzled trance. you wrap your arms tightly around his neck, giving him a quick kiss on the cheek— a familiar greeting between you and your best friend. you feel theo’s firm hands trail down to your ass, before casually slipping them into the pockets of your jeans.

mattheo suddenly coughs, his voice dropping to a muttered whisper, “just friends… yeah right.” in response, you hear enzo and blaise snicker softly, unable to hide their amusement. theo mutters a quiet dickheads under his breath, which makes you cock your head in confusion as your eyes uneasily dart around the room. “so uhm… what were you guys talking about just now?” “nothin’ you should worry your pretty head over, piccola.”

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reminder: reblogs and comments are greatly appreciated and keep me motivated. ty! ♡

[lxvvie]

I‘m a huge fan of the there’s only one bed trope but let me change it up a bit. The 141 are on deployment and the reader loses her sleeping bag and tent in a firefight. So now she has to share with Simon. Somehow Simon’s fingers end up between her legs👀

Ghost, in all his gritty fuck-nastiness, saw you losing your things as the perfect opportunity to claim what's his.

You don't even get to ask before he tells you you're with him.

Good thing, too, 'cause it's a little chilly at night, so when you finally settle down for the night, you're... mighty close to Ghost. Close enough to feel his heat, yeah, but you ain't touching.

Not yet. Until you finally do and he says, "Fuck it."

And now he has his fingers knuckle deep inside you.

"Gotta keep 'em warm," Ghost says gruffly as he pumps 'em in and out. FuckfuckfuckyouwannamoanohfuckGhost—

"Keep it in. Can't attract attention." Not a suggestion, an order, and you're left whimpering and trying your damndest not to get too loud as he finger bangs the fuck out of you.

[canisalbus]

✦ Soup ✦

[cats-thoughts]

nya/nyan

OH MY GOD HI the pronanoun is here too

mrrp ^.^

[800db-cloud]

More pyro art pls!!!!!

do you believe in magic ^_^

[bixels]

(guy who sent in the original i thought you were a lesbian ask) i just wanted to say i still find you just as attractive with the knowledge that you are a man, apologies if i made you feel uncomfortable or like you're less handsome for not being a hot butch. you're still plenty hot regardless and i'm sorry for inflicting tony hawk's sapphic nightmare on you

Tony Hawk’s Sapphic Nightmare is very funny, I would photoshop something if I could right now. Thank you.

[traumasurvivorshelpingsurvivors]

Hi, this is from Pronoun Anon to Mod Bun, and it's somewhat of a success story that I wanted to share with you. I just wanted to say thank you so much for the kindness and compassion in your response! You've helped me feel SO much more valid than I did when I first sent in that ask and I honestly feel so happy and confident these days. Everything you said helped me out so much. It/its pronouns are now my primary set of pronouns. I shared this info on one online community where I also mostly got positive and encouraging responses as well! I got myself an it/its pronoun bracelet and have been wearing it daily. Everything about it/its just feels so right and makes so much sense in my head. I still haven't really shared this info with anyone I know offline but it is definitely something I'm planning on being more open about, and that I feel like I'm able to explain even though I know I don't really "owe" anyone explanations anyway but I've done enough self-reflection after receiving your answer that I know what types of things I would say if someone genuinely did want to learn more about my pronouns. Thank you again!

Hi anon,

I'm so glad that I could help! You're welcome!

As always, we're here if you need anything.

-Bun

[mushroompoisoning]

I give people pronouns sometimes. if they want em. hm.... 'em.' ....Say, could I interest you in some ey/em?

Are you a travelling merchant or a black market? This is an important question

[spacedykez]

ney/nix

!!!! omg haii >.< great taste in neos there btw ^-^

[heardchef]

all hot girls have tummy issues

i need to complete my collection so if u know of any other stills where people are drinking pepto pls share bc i find this stupidly funny