#proselfship positivity

[softinjections]

shout out to people with f/os that are hated by the fandom for being morally reprehensible

the f/o that is a rapist

the f/o that abuses animals

the f/o that is canonically a pedophile

the f/o that is a stalker

the f/o that is a bully

the f/o that is an abuser

the f/o that hurts others no reason other than they enjoy it

the f/o that has no desire to get better

the f/o that is an unsympathetic villain

the f/o that treats everyone around them like garbage because they feel like they're the only person with coherent thought in the general vicinity

the f/o that killed off one of the characters you're supposed to root for and supposed to like

the f/o that you can see part of yourself in, maybe even when most people think that'd be a red flag

... and shout out to you, selfshipper, for loving them despite it all! or because of it all. ^_^

[proudproship]

I don't see posts like this a lot, but headcanons and selfshipping is part of proship too, and nobody talks about intersexness, so...

Shout-out to intersex selfshippers; your F/Os love you.

Shout-out to intersex people who headcanon characters as intersex.

Shout-out to intersex selfshippers with confusing or contradictory identities; your F/Os love you.

Shout-out to intersex people who headcanon characters as intersex with confusing or contradictory identities.

Shout-out to intersex people with weird kinks and general interests.

Shout-out to selfshippers who are questioning being intersex; your F/Os love you and will respect your choice.

Shout-out to questioning intersex people who headcanon characters as questioning intersex.

Shout-out to intersex people who don't selfship, and/or don't have intersex headcanons.

Shout-out to non-intersex people who have intersex headcanons (I love you /p).

Shout-out to those who've been harassed because of your intersexness or your F/Os intersexness.

Shout-out to intersex people in general! You are all loved and wonderful; you are not disgusting or a mistake. 💛💜

[spaceselfships]

since i needed the positivity, i am for once stealing a post concept from an anti.

so, here's to people with F/Os from obscure sources! be it if it's from a source no one ships with, or if they just simply don't have a fandom! even if it's something from long ago, a mascot, or a meme! they love you so much! (i love you too, platonically /gen)

and if you have one of them, feel free to reblog with pictures or a gush of/about them! i'd love to see them, as someone with some of them myself :]

[al-selfships]

[insane2madness]

Just want to spread some positivity.

Shoutout to Pro Self-Shippers with stretch marks

You are lovely and beautiful and your F/Os love your stretch marks!

[melancholic-entrails]

found this, felt wholesome, was about to reblog then saw the "proship fuck off thanks" so to respect their wishes, i am going to post a copy of their message here, because all of it was great except the end

( really, how do you say "learn to be a decent person" and then next sentence you say "proship fuck off thanks") i cropped out the username cuz i dont want someone to harrass them/anxious ( just in case). i copied and pasted the text to underneath the image!

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Shoutout to self shippers that don’t like sharing their f/o(s), there’s nothing wrong with feeling jealous, sad, possessive, some characters are very special to you personally, or you just feel so deeply and dearly for them, and that’s okay. I get it. Doesn’t matter if the character is extremely popular or completely unknown, you’re valid. Same goes for not wanting to see canon x canon ships with your f/o!

And if you’re only comfortable sharing with certain people that’s cool to!

Self shipping can be an incredibly personal experience, and there’s no right or wrong way to go about it, you’re not inconsiderate or greedy or annoying or anything for being uncomfortable sharing .

Your f/o(s) love you so much, always remember it’s okay to curate your experience selfshipping online, it’s perfectly okay to block tags and or blogs if you need to. Don’t make yourself suffer by continually exposing yourself to discomfort 👍

This post does not apply to you if you actively hate on / send hate / are shitty to other people that do share your f/o(s). Learn to be a decent person.

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i wanted to add on to their point, because everything they said was good, they were just being gatekeepy- which is their perogative, i just think positivity should be for everybody and i would like to make it accessible. op if you see this, please don't reply as a: i'm in your dni and b: i'm posting this for the sole reason of spreading positivity. so yeah, everything op said also counts for proshippers and profic peeps. <3

[proship-blissbliss]

♡ All your F/Os love you and would never leave you <3 They think that meeting you is the best thing that has ever happened to them! ♡

[warp--space]

Stolen from an anti who thinks not wanting to be told to kill yourself for dating an older man makes you an asshole :)

🤍🩷💙Antis DNI💙🩷🤍

[sweeties-suggestive-selfships]

shout out to my fellow bisexual selfshippers, especially my fellow bisexual girlies (though bisexual men are still amazing and adored too!!), love y'all 💖

[red-eclipse-proship]

Greetings!! I'm sorry if this is the wrong place to ask, and if it is, you don't need to do so, but I want to make a question that's rather confusing, if I may say?

I made a selfship blog to interact with the yume/selfship side of tumblr bc I thought it was fun but after a while, poeple naturally noticed about one of the characters I played Yume (an underage character, who in their media, they don't age up, kind of like how's "eternally summer" in Phineas and Ferb), and I ended up locking this blog behind a password

After a while I found out about this side of the yume community, and I felt to much more welcomed by this side although I never directly interacted with it... If that makes sense? Like, the posts and the way people talked about their f/os and such sounded much more welcoming

I would really like to interact with the people there, but I'm afraid it won't be exactly what people expect?? The most """problematic""" I play as Yume is a character I mentioned previously, but other than that I'm kind of boring?

I'm sorry for this long ask (again, no need to answer), but thank you in advance anyways!!

Hey anon! Thanks for the ask!

I want to say first off that you're absolutely welcome here and there's no need to apologize for the long ask! I apologize if I use any of your terms wrong, I'm not super familiar with how to use Yumejoshi terms in sentences lol!

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you're asking if it would be okay if you interacted more in the community if you dont really have a really problematic yume.. and the answer is yes! The whole point of this community is to respect others ships, even if you yourself don't ship them. You don't have a problematic yume/fictional other, but respect others that do? That's all you need!

If you're asking about our server specifically, the same thing goes! You don't have to even actively ship anything problematic to join. Being profiction/proship just means you don't mind what other people do, your ships and selfships could be perfectly "normal"! And that doesn't mean you're boring!

I hope this helps you and makes you feel more welcome. I'd say the community here is really nice and honestly, feel free to just pop up out of nowhere! Hell, that's what we did, and the people here are really friendly.

Feel free to send another ask if you have any further words or if I got anything wrong!

[sweet-ladys-things]

Antis: "How is writing about murder/gore and pedophilia/incest the same!? Drawing gore is way different!!"

They're both crimes.

That's how they're the same.

They both will send you to jail irl. Both murder and pedophilia will send you to jail. That's how they're the same.

That's why writing/drawing murder and torture is in the same boat as pedophilia. They're just two different forms of horror. If drawing torture doesn't mean you want to actually torture someone then drawing incest doesn't mean you actually want to have sex with your siblings.

Because they are the same.

[al-selfships]

Pt 5? of my (failed) positivity attempts but I focus on proship selfshippers this time

[huntinglove]

From the creators of "He would not fucking say that" comes the brand new "He would not be this fucking good at sex"

[proship-blissbliss]

♡ No matter how your F/Os interactions with other characters look in canon, your F/Os have eyes only for you and would never choose anybody over you! ♡

[warp--space]

🔮Pagan and polytheistic selfshippers are GREAT🔮

🪄Witchy and Wiccan selfshippers are AMAZING🪄

🌌Your f/os, no matter what their own religion is, love you and respect your beliefs. They don't see your practice as silly-- only different, and being different is beautiful! Noatter your race, gender, or denomination, it doesn't matter! YOU ARE LOVED!🌌

[it-selfships]

This is my favourite ship dynamic personally. They're just... perfect together!! Look at how cute they are! Oh, and the way they both look at each other? Stoopp, I can't help but giggle!

If you have a ship like this, pleeeasse infodump about it in my reblogs!! 🙏 What other dynamics do they have? I must know!!!

♡ Antis dni, this is a proship safe space ♡