#s;; ldr.

[mimisainznorris]

Live Laugh Love Leon Kennedy💗🎀

[spadillelicious]

Hi! Question about LDR- does Y/N ever get an unproblematic friend?? I saw the drawing of them being friends with DJMM and i just wish it was canon… My guy needs a break! T^T

Y/N will become friends with DJMM in canon too! <3 In fact, Y/N is going to get two new unproblematic people in their life very soon...! (And a bunch more problematic people too of course ;D)

[kayleens-universe]

[bemybbmbaby]

Yeah, my boyfriend’s pretty cool, but he’s not as cool as me ‧꒰˚ʚ୨୧ɞ˚꒱ ‧

[kayleens-universe]

[godslittlescarletstarlet]

𝚂𝚢𝚕𝚟𝚒𝚊, 𝙼𝚊𝚛𝚒𝚕𝚢𝚗, 𝚅𝚒𝚘𝚕𝚎𝚝, 𝙳𝚒𝚊𝚗𝚊

𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚘𝚏 𝚖𝚢 𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚍 𝚠𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚗 𝚠𝚑𝚘 𝚌𝚊𝚖𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚎 𝚖𝚎, 𝚋𝚕𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚎

𝚒 𝚍𝚢𝚎𝚍 𝚖𝚢 𝚑𝚊𝚒𝚛 𝚋𝚕𝚊𝚌𝚔 𝚏𝚘𝚛 𝚢𝚘𝚞

𝚒 𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚗𝚎𝚍 𝚖𝚢 𝚋𝚊𝚌𝚔 𝚘𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚋𝚕𝚊𝚌𝚔 𝚙𝚘𝚗𝚍

𝚒 𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚊𝚛 𝚒 𝚠𝚘𝚗'𝚝 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚙 '𝚝𝚒𝚕 𝚒'𝚖 𝚍𝚎𝚊𝚍

[catsssl0vvver]

"And i remember when i met him, it was so clear he was the only one for me. We both knew it, right away. And as the years went on, thing got more difficult. We were faced with more challenges. I begged him to stay. Try to remember what we had at the beginning.

He was charismatic, magnetic, electric, and everybody knew it. When he walked in every woman's head turned, everyone stood up to talk to him. He was like this hybrid, this mix of a man who couldn't contain himself. I always got the sense that he became torn between being a good person and missing out on all the opportunities that life could offer a man as magnificent as him. And in that way, i understood him and i loved him.

I loved him, I loved him, I loved him..

And I still love him. I love him."

-Lana Del Rey

[dykeellington]

She wore Blue Velvet

Bluer than velvet was the night

Softer than satin was the light

From the stars

Blue Velvet, tony benett

[karouvas]

TRCverse + LDR part 1:

Carmen

@chaosandtwo

[boyfrawd]

chose to eat two peanut butter nd jelly sandwiches instead of relapsing nd then my mom commented on my body :c idk guys, is two sandwiches a lot bc she made a big deal out of it, exaggerated n told my dad that I’m eating eight loaves of bread. Now he’s gonna get drunk one day n start talking about me too

[reidiot]

rari girls ‹𝟹 ₊˚ ⊹

[luvzmezsworld]

[realgirllife]

Acrylic on canvas “Sweet Thing”

[itsmahree]

translation: "they say a long distance relationship is hard but seungcheol and i are doing just fine" (and going strong) 😅

[bemybbmbaby]

My outfits if I was in Resident Evil! ♡୨୧٭˚⊹

[amysubmits]

Hello, I hope you are doing well ^^

Do you have any advice on how to inlcude D/s dynamic into everyday life of a couple that doesn't live together?

Thank you💛

Hi Anon,

I am well, thank you! Hope you are too.

I have always lived with my Dom so this is just coming from a mixture of ideas I've seen shared on tumblr and my own noggin, and I might miss some of the practical challenges of not living together seems how I haven't actually walked in your shoes. But, here goes.

The dom could assign tasks, rules or chores to the sub. This could be nearly anything. Taking daily meds, doing a skincare routine, having a set bedtime, reading a chapter of a book per day, journaling, making your bed. It really just would depend on what the two of you would feel connected to each other and to your D/s roles.

I've heard of LDR subs sending picture or video evidence of completing their rules or just texting when each thing was done so that the dom could keep track of what was done. Or some use apps that report chores/tasks/to do lists as completed. Or you could just have a set time of the evening where you check in and go over which tasks were completed.

If you want to defer certain decisions to your dominant, I've heard of LDR couples having a 'default answer' to accomodate for situations where a quick response may not happen. For example, if you wanted to set up needing permission for consuming caffeine after 4pm, you could agree that you could ask permission at any time, but if your dominant is too busy when you text to reply, then the default answer is no. You could also plan to ask permission for things well in advance if you predict you'll want it. For example, maybe you have a tendency to stop at a coffee shop when you go shopping with a certain friend, and you're planning to go shopping tomorrow so you know there's a good chance you'll want to have a coffee after 4pm, so you could ask your dom today if you can be 'pre-approved' for that for tomorrow, so that you don't have to worry about getting an instant response once you arrive at the coffee shop.

Those are the main ideas that come to my mind. In general though, I think it can be helpful to try to keep your ears perked for any struggles that either of you are having, or specific things either of you like. Those two situations often lend themselves to service on either side.

For example, if your dom shares anything that is frustrating them or difficult for them, maybe you can serve them by finding ways to lessen that problem, depending on what it is. Maybe they dislike grocery shopping so you can schedule them a pick up order for their local grocery store that they can just pull up and get. Or if they mention that they get bored while stuck in traffic, you could research books related to specific interests you know they have, and send them a that list of audiobooks that they could try to listen to on their commute.

I imagine I have plenty of couples who follow me who don't live together or are in LDR's so they might be able to reply with better suggestions. :)