i really do think the desire to paint ten as unambiguously The Worst™️ when it comes to his relationship with martha is out of this desire to uncomplicate their relationship. to decouple them as friends and people who profoundly impacted each other’s lives. it’s just an easier narrative to swallow: that ten was Awful to her and then martha kicked him to the curb when she realized she was too good for him. easier, maybe, then dealing with the troubles of unrequited affection don’t have to be anyone’s fault, or that ten shut martha out in a lot of ways but let her in in others that he wouldn’t let any other companion near, or that they were still friends, they still wanted to see each other and be around each other, even though it was messy and sometimes hurt. you know?
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How come people whose DNI lists I’m on will interact with me. You’re going to file a restraining order and then walk into my house? Reblog my post with an addition but I cannot boost it because you rail furiously about how you want blogs like mine nowhere near you? Must I go to the trouble of reading your DNI and respectfully not engaging, and you will not even read my bio to see that I am one of the ones you prefer to suicidebait on anon before you decide to write a soliloquy in my tags?
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Reasons I tell myself to post the art I don't like:
You spent time and thought on it, which makes it worth something.
It contributes to your overall development of your skills. You'll be able to look back on it and see how much you've improved since (and you will improve!)
You are self-critical and prone to picking out flaws that blind you to beauty. You never know, someone else might love it
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i think light yagami is "socially adept" in terms of being able to reason out relatively well what to say and do to come off as a harmless and good and polite young man who is likeable to be around. however i do not think "socially adept" (or "neurotypical") typically comes with having to preface every other normal-passing action and statement with a minor crisis of "ah shit. quick, what would i say/do in response to this if i was light yagami, a normal and nice and respectable young man?"
everyone likes to talk about him talking about kira in third person but can we acknowledge that he also talks about LIGHT in third person. i'm not adding manga panels at 3:57am but y'all know exactly which ones i mean
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I saw your poll about how your followers met you and i think i met you bc of the beatles??? Rn im not sure if you did fanarts of them or if im confusing things but i think thst was it
YESSS oh that phase was embarassingly long KAHSJDKFKF
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idk how to break it to a lot of you guys but most of the mistreatment trans men get from wider cis society (including queer cis folk!) is not because there’s any such thing as “misandry” of any stripe but because we are perceived as aggressive, deviant women trying to insinuate ourselves into privilege we don’t “deserve.” fucking every trans guy on the planet crows regularly about how it’s unfair to compare him to cis men bc he’s experienced misogyny before so like actually connect these two neurons for once. the only reason there is such a thing as a trans man who is “too masculine” to outsiders is because he’s being perceived on some level as female and judged for failing to behave as a hegemonically correct woman.
which like. does not absolve you of male privilege in other contexts either. you are still a man and still capable of wielding that against trans women. but like. specifically this idea that there’s misandry because trans men get treated poorly for transitioning is like…actually you guys i think it’s the trans part that’s the issue.
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