#they are... worrying

[olath124]

Round two for the otp questions (I hope I didn't fuck up and chose some you didn't already answered lol)

4, 5, 18 and 30 pls!

4. How do they compare to each other's exes? Are they the same "type" or an upgrade/something different?

Of course I'm also a member of the Kusie church!

So, there could not be anything more different than Violet in Kurt's eyes.

On one hand Vio can't really behave and doesn't even care about making a good impression on others. She's a street kid at heart, so she's smart, observant and can mimic the behavior of the people around her, but is not really well-read or cultured.

On the other hand… she can't really behave and doesn't even care about making a good impression on others! And that means she's really open about her relationship and doesn't care a lot about how other people perceive her partner. So, introducing him to her acquired family and friends after one month is not a big deal. And also it means being really open with PDA if there isn't any business meeting involved. She doesn't care if other people think they are together or not. And when it becomes real she doesn't see why hiding it.

Violet has a lot of “casual relationship” experience, but had only one real relationship during her life and it was with Jackie when they were way younger.

So, Kurt and Jackie: those two are also from two different planets.

She was more in line with the general view of life and family value of Jackie. They were really in synch on that side. They worked together well and had the same goals.

On the other hand they really weren't in synch on sex. With Jackie everything was more goofy and tentative (both at their first experiences) and Violet isn't really into that. Scary as it may sound she's never found someone she's compatible as with Kurt on that side.

5. How do they sleep?

They are both used to sleeping alone.

So in the beginning they start all cute and cuddly, but at the end of the night they're both on their side of the bed. She tends to move a lot, steal blankets and throw her arms and legs everywhere, so he may have been awakened with one of her limbs in his face more than once. It happens.

18. Would they have kids together?

Her answer is: “Why?”

His answer is: “Why not?”

They are not planning anything anyway.

On the other hand the two dogs are not doing anything to avoid it.

Violet (normally really careful) is too stuck in her head and doesn't have a lot of time to live, so… who cares, I'd be dead anyway.

He is too caught in the situation to really think about it too.

And he quite enjoys her careless and impulsive behavior in that side. It also makes him feel special and unique because she doesn't seems to be afraid of any consequence of their relationship.

So… planning and projectuality: 0

Don't know what they will do if it actually happens… He'd probably be happy, she'd be terrified.

In the end? Who knows.

30. Where is their relationship the strongest?

Sex life.

No, kidding. There is one thing where they are completely in synch: fighting together (with other people).

The way they fight is so harmonic and in synch it may looks like a dance.

They don't have to think. Don't have to talk. Don't have to pretend anything and lean into what they know how to do best.

Both of them can be quite scary in a fight on their own for different reasons. Together they really feel unstoppable.

In their sick minds it also make for the best foreplay so… two birds with one stone.

(Another thing she'd be deprived off after the operation/coma)

[playtwewy]

[louisegluckpdf]

they won't tell you this in therapy but sometimes the best way to stop catastrophizing/anxiety is to interrupt your spiraling with "girl what the hell are you talking about"

[maudiemoods]

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[hexjulia]

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[lislemons]

new favorite AO3 comment dropped. short, simple, to the point. made me laugh so hard my stomach hurt.

[daftpatience]

slow down for your disabled friends. thats like a bare minimum kindness that we shouldnt have to ask for. i love that youre so quirky and walking fast is a cool personality trait to you and all that but i bet you can count your physically disabled friends on less than one hand

[kenapiece-main]

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[aquilaofarkham]

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[jacqjohnsonart]

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[afniel]

This is the magic lucky word count. Reblog for creativity juice. It might even work, who knows.

[golyadkin]

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[averagecatdoodlesenjoyer]

whatever. go my noelle

[hazelcallahan]

[sillyguy-supreme]

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