#tonuses

[dazzlerazz]

YOU GUYS WILL NEVER GUESS WHAT I JUST DID

[totallyawesome123]

Oh, I meant Tay (I am thinking about stealing it for myself)

(I didn't rb you response because you said it felt like oversharing)

SEE THAT MAKES MORE SENSE

it was a similar thing, some of my online froends always called me TA because of my username, but it didn't feel right to me? I wanted to have a full name, but I didn't want to share my irl name. So I decided instead of TA I'd be Tay. Then Tay became an oc of mine and I feel divorced from the name at this point, but I still use it as a screen name. You can have it, if you want :3

[bibleofficial]

getting bitched at for being on crutches, getting bitched at for being in a wheelchair - or NOT in a wheelchair - getting bitched at for WALKING TOO SLOW ON A CANE like my family needs to fuck off and leave me ALONE

[catbxy]

birth 🎂🥳

This is really late but thank youu!!

[khonshusavatars]

[therequiemforthelost-archive]

flavio or linhardt for the blorbo bingo perhaps? :)

Why not both--

And damn two of my husbands but still no bingobgishfir

[kurgy]

Kind of losing some respect for you as an artist if you'd change your characters appearance just because someone was using him as something else. I get they were doing it without permission but It's just one person and you could have held on to your integrity at least a little.

I don't even got a witty response to this there is literally no winning yall suck

[twowivestwoknives]

have to put it somewhere but in the last 5 years 3 seperate groups of people have decided im the villain and never told me why just iced me out and isolated me and in 2/3 cases i dont think i actually /did/ anything i think its a mix of antiblackness, ableism, and that ive seen them/know that they hurt other ppl very badly.

group 1 was someone who i used to consider a best friend but who soft cut me off when i disliked a partner of theirs, then, when they decided to hate that now ex, they pushed for their ostricization and 'took me back' without apologizing. they refuse to make eyecontact with me and their partner now flatout ignores my existence, even though i literally was the olive branch for this friend to almost every community theyre successful in now (not that they owe me shit for that), and i think its bc im still close w another Black/mixed friend of mine who they hate now bc they called them out on their antiblackness (which they give excuses for why their nonblack ass can get away with it). this person notoriously throws people out and claims 'villain' when ppl get upset at how they treat others as so cruelly disposable, and ive seen it up close and personal even before it was me and i think that also plays into why they treat me lkke this now.

2nd group was my exes friends who only knew me when i was a self destructive alcoholic. i was loud and obnoxious and yeah i had shrapnel (never abusive), but they decided covid, year 3 of my sobriety, that id never changed, ramped up my exes resentment at me for the alcoholic years even after they said theyd forgiven me and were proud of how far id come, and were instrumental in the breakup if that 5 year relationship. even though one of those friends was literally also sober, they just couldnt forgive me for ever having been an alcoholic, i was just worse than all of them i guess.

3rd is a current happening. someone i knew from god 9 years ago, again who i invited into the community when they were new in town (see a pattern?) had their white friend LIE ABOUT NOT ONLY KNOWING ME BUT ME MAKING HER FEEL 'UNSAFE' (IVE NEVER MET THIS WOMAN), to kick me out of a discord all my friends are in, and when ppl challenged that initially, this person had the gall to say that i made them uncomfy, to the point for a while they wouldnt go to POC events i was at. this person who took the side of 2 white boys who isolated me at 19 bc one of them led me on then dated my ex bf (they didnt have to like me, i was FPing the guy, but the isolation and all my friends picking their side still sucked), and then this person went on to be sexually inappropriate and preassurey and crossing boundaries w multiple friends at this point. but i cant hang out where my friends r bc i make this person uncomfy. i think theyre scared id 'out' them as predatory or something (wouldnt w/o permission of vics obvi) and so they paint me as the villain first

and like if i did something wrong let me know so i can leave y alone and fix it (like i did getting sober going to therapy getting on meds ect) im invested in not hurting ppl. but i dont think i ever /actually/ hurt any of these ppl, i think they just benefit from me not being around and are willing to lie and exclude and ostricize to get it. and ik that sounds conspiratory but like. fuck.

[istherewifiinhell]

Wish I had a cat harness for the baby just so she could also sit outside when I'm out here reading so i could you know. Actually read instead of always have one hand and 70 perfect of my attention on her

[kalianos]

Welp just had a coworker have a meltdown on me and yell at me that I gave no right to...*checks notes to word it in a way that won't get me in trouble with the jobs social media policy*...."Please don't give a patient who can only have nectar thickened liquids non-nectar thickened liquids and give them to the nurse instead of putting it in front of the patient."

...I hate it here. I should've just been a copro drone or some kind of video editor or streamer or ~Something~ other than a babysitter for someone twice my age who has the emotional and professional capability of someone half my age minus eight.

.....at least the medical staff are unanimously on my side about it. (...kinda a no duh to be honest but it's nice.)

[hyah-lian]

*stands on brand new pillow still in plastic wrap*

"Is he.... not allowed on the furniture usually?" post abt someone's pet runs thru my mind

i die.

[hidakka]

i would never be able tonuse tiktok if i clicked next video and there was a white person speaking directly to me i would hve a panic attack

[thestudentfarmer]

Good afternoon everyone! Today I decided I was gonna try something new.

🌟🌟 Before proceeding any further, if your unfamilair with a plants edability and want to eat it? RESEARCH IT! 🌟🌟

RESEARCH, RESEARCH,RESEARCH

🌟Do Not Eat Plants You are not confident are edible

🌟 check at least 2 sources ( ag or permaculture extension or a relatively knowledgeable individual, book or online source)

🌟 when researching always check out potential health risks as well as proper cooking/cleaning and point of picking.

🌟always do small tests of eating with allergy protocols.

🌟🌟Thank you for reading the warning before proceeding :) 🌟🌟

Nasturtium leaves!

Now I've eaten the flowers before in salads and as omlette toppings, but I haven't eaten anything else of the plant. So today I decided to give it a go.

This is todays harvest spot. Most the time when ive trimmed nasturtium before it's been to feed the chickens some extra greens and tonuse less purchased grains. (I'll actually still be harvesting a bit more today for them, I was just on a time budget)

My scale wouldn't weigh this, but after cleaning and separating

Flowers (buds) and seeds separated.

The seeds, according to most of the internet search I've found says they can be pickled like capers. Or dried, ground and used as seasonings. After chicken harvest I'll figure out if I'll be drying or pickling them.

The flowers, I'll likely wash and use to top breakfast omlettes or mix in a salad.

The stems, Ive got about 3/4 of a gallon ziplock bag of them. I want to make a sort of spicy sauce to toss w/them for trying them.

The leaves I took half of them and chopped them (the other half I haven't fully decided its fate)

Mixed with some eggs and flour before pan frying in a little butter.

To make this :) simple veggie fritter.

Flavor wise the leaves are pretty bland in this dish. It does remind me a bit of spinich, so I don't have issues eating it again. (Just season it up a bit more.)

The rest of the leaves I may just steam or blanch and mix with a little sea salt to flavor it.

At this time, I think I shall continue adding nasturtium to the garden, but probably for more than just the pretty appeal/ground cover and potential critter meals they provide. I may find another spot for a second patch in rotation though.

That's it for now

🌱🌻Happy Homesteading and Cooking 🌻🌱

3.28.2024

[arachnethebard]

Update on my Shadowheart playthrough

Lae'zel is interested in me, which is why I'm playing through as Shart in the first place

Unsure how this will effect them trying to kill each other or if that's just foreplay

I've fed Gale his first item

I'm doing a good job not falling for him just out of habit

Astarion is still a thorn in my side to get to know but my chances are better now that he's in my party and not at camp the whole time

I have Wyll and I'm trying to put off going after Karlach to get more Wyll story before that part, if any is there

I'm struggling tonuse him in my party because I already Know How To Play a party of cleric-fighter-wizard-rogue

I'm considering respeccing him to Wizard and alternate him and Gale

I still wish Larian would let me date Wyll and Gale at the same time instead of making me choose just one magic boyfriend

[offsale]

need tonuse this site more because twitter makes me Paranoid. I love lesbianism and my friends this is my goodnight post

[compassionatereminders]

(Vent) I studied so hard for my exam. Spent mornings and evenings there. I went into the exam with a good feeling, answered everything within an hour and wanted tonuse the remaining time to review. A lot of people in the room quickly realized that the one invigilator who was late and blamed us, was inattentive and they all started whispering to each other. I got so overstimulated, more than usual. But what nailed my coffin was my friends asking me, prodding me. I told them multiple times before the exam to not bother me during my exam because I get overstimulated fast and lose focus and they still did it. When I didn't answer they'd just bother me more. I lost focus, changed all my answers even the ones I was sure of because I got so confused. Didn't have time to review, didn't have enough time to transfer my answers to another sheet correctly. They know I have a social phobia. I used to do my exams in a seperate room alone for my Bachelor. The dean at my Master's university says that's too much coordination for her to allow me that and it "wouldn't be fair to other students." I can't complain to anyone higher up either because she's the highest person already. I'm so upset at myself. I studied so hard. I just wanted my effort to be reflected in my grade for once. It never happened and I felt so good snd confident. The dean is also making me redo statistics (and other courses) which I did in my BA with the exact content but she refuses to acknowledge it and doesn't think my dyscalculia is an actual thing despite handing in an official report. She instead tried convincing me to drop my Master's because "I can't possibly do Psychology without doing statistics." I can't switch universities because it's a Master's that's barely offered anymore. I feel stuck, helpless. I just keep crying because I probably barely made the grade or even failed. I feel so alone.

One thing is the school failing you, which sucks in itself - but the fact that YOUR "FRIENDS" couldn't follow a simple instruction and leave you alone to work makes me want to shout at these people and introduce you to ACTUAL friends who listen and support each other. Because you clearly need better accommodations AND better friends. This is not acceptable and I'm so sorry it happened to you