#trans man anon<3

[bumblingbabooshka]

Cursed but funny: Tuvok transitions... and so does T'Pel. They are still straight, just t4t about it

Alternatively: Tuvok and T'Pel are both bigender and they take turns so there's always a wife and a husband, it just varies who's who

Incorrect! Bigender/Trans Tuvok is not cursed at all and is in fact a blessed image, sight, thought etc v_v Please rise and salute Mz Vulcan!!!! That IS undoubtedly a funny scenario though - they are forever destined to be Husband & Wife. Imagine worrying for several years that your wife might leave you for being trans and then you meet with her again and she's your husband and the only thing that changes is you're HIS wife now. This is T'Vok's life.

[piningpercussionist]

transfem scott getting lots of support from ramona and kim in the early 2000's when shit's very taboo but they all 3 have a fire forged bond and lord if they aren't going to make sure they're all as happy as they can be because they've come this far and I dunno it just makes me happy all three of them

YES YES YES

It makes me very happy as well,,

Like I've said before. General Trans Scott enthusiast here- I love the idea of their little support network *violent coughing* I (we?) mean polycule *violent coughing* so fucking much.

Ramona I think has a bit of a more gentle hand with reassuring Scott with gender issues, but sometimes she just can't help herself from some pointed banter or teasing- how could you with someone so dense? (Said w affection)

And then Kim I think is more blunt. But like, in a good way mostly, you know? The kinda blunt that makes you snap to attention and go "Oh. Yeah that was silly of me." And if Ramona's started some sort of banter? Kim is SO piling on. Maybe sometimes she's a bit TOO blunt with it- but it's only because she's so firm in her support. She wants Scott to Get It Together- and be happier for it. So if some ribbing now and again is in order, then goddamnit she will do so! Anything to crack that shell.

And ohhh can you imagine how they would react to some transphobic bullshit?? Unholy terror would be driven into the offender before they walk off with an absurd amount of coins between them. I can feel it in my bones. Scott doesn't even have to lift a finger (if the transphobe is even noticed/processed at all, bc I honestly can see Scott just. Not realizing someone's being transphobic.) Kim giving someone a lashing with her tongue as distraction and then Ramona coming in with the hammer- BAM! Free Money! Paying literally with your life for your transphobia. A Better And Just World.

And of course (transfem Scott more specifically, here,) the way Scott would start to flourish under their support... cagey and maybe a little (perhaps a lot-) resistant to start- but Kim's blunt affirmations and no nonsense attitude for bullshit (which is what Scott insisting on "being cis" would be, c'mon now,) and Ramona's also low bullshit tolerance but less Stabby (bc I won't lie, that's probably how Kim's comments would feel,) assurances? Ough... My Heart... Be Still-

I would Kill for them, Your Honor-

(Ran out of tags so putting this in the body of the post- I am SO tired someone pls sound off if this isn't as coherent as I am hoping this is. I WAS trying to nap and get the extra sleep I desperately needed but the writing bug... it Bit Me.... only a little but enough to stop that process-)

[trans-joy-is]

So, great news: my father called me his son. He brought me to the mall and we went shopping in "boys" stores. When we passed before a “girl” store he told me there was this store but that he knew it didn’t interest me. Also he gendered me correctly and called me by my chosen name multiple times.

I’m so happy honestly!!!

🤍!

[runawaymun]

Your tags on that posts aren’t ruining anything you are literally so grounded and sensible? Thank you for that.

ahhh thank you! I get nervous sometimes when I go off in the tags bc I know that can be obnoxious when something is clearly a joke but this sort of thing just bugs me so much 🙈🙈🙈 I think it's because it hits close to home with how biphobia presents a lot of the time -- the insinuation that either 'well it's just a phase and you'll find the right man to settle down with', or from queer people 'okay you're just diet gay/experimenting/make up your mind'. (Same with the rhetoric around bigender it's like....I am not an egg and I am not in denial. Neither am I fluid. I am both ends of a binary at the same time).

I also just get so irked by the narrative in queer spaces that a woman (or bi woman/fem) is somehow weaker for dating men, or that a bi man or straight man is somehow creepy and gross for liking women. Please can we just remember that sexual and romantic preferences are neutral FOR EVERYONE and that men are great, actually. They are not inherently predators. We are not immune to TERF rhetoric just because we're aware of TERFS and say 'TERFS fuck off' on our bios. There is nothing inherently better or more pure about being queer than being cis/het.

In any case yeah if you all want a TLDR version of my extremely long tag rant:

[junkh3ad]

Do you like trans Pickles headcanons? I headcanon that he always love keeping his hair short when he was a kid until when he was a teenager to feel more masculine. Unsurprisingly, Pickles’s parents might be blatantly transphobic including his dad. For Seth, it depends but I don’t think he’d be that bad. Seth might still tease Pickles but he doesn’t misgender him. That makes Pickles feel more body dysphoric than before since he has this sense of shame that he’ll still feel like a girl. But after leaving home, Pickles finally got the courage to grow out his hair, wear tight pants, nail polish and a skanky thong for the glam metal scene. Then after SnB turned famous, Pickles could afford the top surgery

I love trans Pickles.

I absolutely fucking ADORE the trans pickles head canon because i do that with EVERY character i like. i trans their gender no matter what.

I think Seth, as much as i hate him, was probably the only person to respect Pickles pronouns and name change for a very long time (his parents only started calling him Pickles once he got famous, but nothing else. Still misgender him.)

I think his Snakes N’ Barrels time was full of a lot of dysphoria from his stage looks (makeup, revealing clothes, the pressure to be with as many women as you could be, etc. i’m also a pansexual pickles truther.) Glam metal was definitely something fun for him at the time but he also was so fucked up most of the time due to his dysphoria that most of the time, he doesn’t remember much.

Once Dethklok took off he definitely got top surgery. My Nickles agenda is telling me that it’s possible that Nathan was the only one to know for a while, but i also really like the transfem skwisgaar head cannon i see floating around so i think they could bond over their own struggles with gender identity.

Trans pickles my beloved <3 i would die for him.

Do anything for dethklok includes dying on the trans pickles hill for me.

[uncanny-tranny]

Hello there, I really enjoy scrolling through your blog and I hope you're doing well today. I've noticed a pattern in myself --- every time I get close to going on T, I back off and wait. Been years now, and I'm not sure what I'm waiting for anymore. I was wondering if you had any words for this? Does that feeling of "waiting until it gets bad enough" or "waiting for a sign" ever go away, or do I just have to take the leap of faith?

I think it might help if you see if there's a deeper reason for your hesitation. I'm absolutely not saying I don't believe you, I do, and sometimes, we can feel hesitancy without really... knowing why, until we explore.

When I say "explore," what I mean is see what you aren't so sure about with testosterone. I've seen so many people express that they fear "losing" parts of themself when they go on T, such as a singing voice. I think that the fear of losing something is one of the biggest reasons people tend to shy away from going on testosterone, which is why I definitely want to encourage you to see that exploration as an option. It isn't about forcing you to or away from testosterone but to see where you're at. I've found that people who actively sought out answers to inquiries like that tend to have a firmer desire about their transition because it demystifies the transition process.

Taking a leap of faith can work out, but for some, that's just not how their brains understand, conceptualize, and accept change - and that's okay. If it comes to the point where you do take a leap of faith, what I would like to encourage you to do is both have a good support system and care team and be very vigilant about where you're at, and documenting how you feel and respond to hormones. I think this can help some people because they're still sorting out how they feel, so they aren't bottling it up or feel ashamed about any of the process.

[appeypie]

So for like a WEEK I've been trying to come up with a way to enclose my rabid feelings in an ask, but I think I'll just lay it out with no context to wrap it in.

For some reason, your recent side-by-side Ghirahim and Mettaton body type comparison drove me FERAL, specifically how you established that MTT's ass/legs were "more fat than muscle" because yes! Fellow thicc Mettaton truther!! Too often I see him portrayed with skinny little toothpick legs, like 50% of the time, and a lot of those who do portray him with the thigh circumference he deserves give him visible muscle definition, like the legs of a bodybuilder.

I've always imagined him with, yes, quite strong legs, but with that muscle blanketed under a generous amount of subcutaceous fat for an overall smooth, rounded, "soft" appearance. Seeing an artist who shares my taste in fictional video game men (villainous egotistical twinks my beloved) interpret one of my faves in a way I wholeheartedly vibe with is just!! I want to bounce off the walls like a startled bobcat!!!

(btw all of these feelings are non-horny dw, ace speaking. Pure fictional-ass-headcanon-vibeage. I am abnormal about these men but like in the sense of wanting to go on a cute coffee date with them or perhaps marry them)

ANON i love this ask. beautifully put

i personally see MTT as a trans guy who used to take T but no longer does (so his voice is a little deeper than your average Estrogen Producer but he has that fat distribution pattern) plus post top surgery

of course he is a robot so he has the robot equivalent of this. whatever. android top surgery scars forever

i think its fun to explore different transition timelines rather than just the "expected" one of "you take T forever and then get a bunch of surgery and try really hard to 'pass'". and mettaton is perfect for this imo

i will be completely honest and say that i am ace but still very much gayhorny about my favorite fictional men, though it definitely comes from a place of "i think trans men are so fucking cool and i love us" first. plus theyre hot? best of both worlds

besides that, drawing/thinking about differing body types is just fun. i love overthinking shit and unique features can add so much to characters!!

[tofucreator]

hi man sorry for the inconvenience I don't know if you still write or accept requests on codz but I'm trying. I would like to know how Edward Richtofen primis would react to reader transmasc, reader came from another reality and needs to get used to the way of life there and Ed finds himself in love with him (considering age gap since reader is 18 and ed is older ) thanks and ignore if you don't feel comfortable. xoxo

I am not that much into Cod anymore unfortunately but I will try my best!! 🫶

I’m going to assume that you are saying Primis Edward Richtofen got into the modern world by the way you worded it, if not please send me another ask and I will redo it!!

Reader is referred to as you and [Name]

Pronouns used for reader (if they are used): He/him

When he first saw the surrounding around him, he was quite confused, as he was used to the sounds to zombies lurking, but it was quite peaceful

But when he first saw you, god he was a nervous reck, he didn’t know why exactly but him being around you made him nervous

Despite his nervousness though, he was nice towards you, and he always wanted to make sure you were well

You allowed him to live with you, as you lived alone and was trying to look for something to give you some company

If you tell him what you like and dislike he’d always write it down, so that whenever you were gone for hours at a time (school or work, you choose), he’d try and make you a little gift for you to see once you come home, specifically whatever you said you liked that you had told him

Later as months go by, Edward becomes less nervous, and almost always tries to give you something when you come back home

You had told him that you are transmasc, did that stop him from giving you gifts? No. In matter of fact, that made him give you MORE gifts, with little reasoning behind it

At one point you noticed he became a nervous reck around you again, out of no where, and when you try to talk to him about it he either outright ignores the question or tries to change the topic

One day, instead of all the gifts you kept receiving, you see a card that reads

“Dear [Name], Ich am sorry that I’ve been distant as of recently, but I decided I should tell you, I unfortunately cannot tell you to your face as I might not get mein words across to you correctly, but I’ve recently discovered that Ich had caught feelings towards you, that Ich haven’t felt towards anyone before. Although I do hope you feel the same, I understand why if you don’t, and all I hope is that our relationship doesn’t change because of this. From, Edward Richtofen”

You gave this man a hug, he needs one, and reassured him that, despite the age gap, you felt the same, which made him the happiest man ever

[imhavingababy]

Guess that baby is ready to come out good luck with labor!!

-mango

Thank you!

Aaahhh mmmmm… 😖

[poems-of-a-lover]

being pre-transition doesn't make you any less of a guy or any less attractive, and transphobes can go eat dirt. i give many kisses mwah mwah mwah - 👻

awww ty ghostie =] idk its a rough moment but i think im just gonna chill for a bit so i dont lose it sjkdfhskajfh

[bumblingbabooshka]

‘tis i, nonbinary transfem tuvok enthusiast and recently i’ve been pondering the dynamic between her and transmasc b’elanna torres…. i love thinking of them having long conversations together about gender and cultural histories and their life paths and mental issues (real)

also tuvok’s quote of “there is nothing wrong in choosing to live” would be such an emotional statement to tell b’elanna who canonically has depression (they just like me fr). anyways these are my thoughts today take care my friend!! <3

I don't personally see Tuvok as being a positive person for B'Elanna to talk to about much of anything personal without like, some sort of change to how they interact with one another since I think he'd both intentionally and unintentionally antagonize her BUT I can absolutely see them looking at each other and feeling the gender envy even before they know what that particular sensation is. Knowing B'Elanna I bet she'd worry she has some kind of weird crush on him hehehe~ Someone starts a group for queer members of the crew to meet but it seems like more of a dating thing and they're all human and no one else is trans so B'Elanna leaves and runs into Tuvok and is like "Oh! I didn't see you in there." because it's common knowledge by this point that Tuvok's trans but Tuvok just does that 'obviously.' look and goes "...No." so B'Elanna leaves her alone but they happen to run into each other next week and the week after and it eventually becomes an unofficial thing and it's a real rollercoaster. It's a real russian roulette of what kind of a time you're gonna have - sometimes it ends in a fight and sometimes it ends in the most insightful realization you'll ever have. Such is life on Voyager... Thank you so much and I hope you have a wonderful day too~!!

[pyr0cue]

of course you’re a hoffman fan lmfao

This is so funny what does being a Hoffman fan say about me.

[angie-long-legs-moved]

Happy Pride Month, Angel! Just out of curiosity, when you say you're gay, does that include trans men, or just cis men?

"That includes all the fellas, baby!"

"Don't get it twisted, I love dick, but I ain't passin' up a smokin' hot piece of ass just cuz he ain't got one. I'll take that man's strap 'til I'm screamin' if he's got what it takes!"

[ella-ashmore]

You don't have to answer his btw but I'm just genuinely curious. (And sorry if this has already been asked) but why do you not like the fem or Mariah depictions of Blackfriday's Ethen? Is it just personal preference or is there a controversy behind it that I (personally) am unaware to?

And if there is controversy is it about the actors themselves or something fandom based?

If you do read/answer this, Thank you!

hello !! thank you for being so polite about this, it has been asked before but last person that asked was pretty rude so idm answering it again :] theres no drama behind it whatsoever so if its something you enjoy youre perfectly fine to keep on enjoying it! its just something i personally find uncomfortable to see. so,, personal preference mostly ^-^ i'll get into it a Little more in the tags but thats kind of all there is to it

[rococo-unofficial]

rococo, you didnt originally know what gay meant now. so i must inquire.. do you know what trans means..?

"Not really.. but if I had to infer is it like.. transitioning from one thing to another? I don't know what the thing is though. If people want to transition though, I say go for it!!"

[uncanny-tranny]

Hello!

I am just curious why you put an asterisk after trans men? I have never seen anyone do that before. I did try using Google and it gave me many different reasons so I was wondering what yours is? I apologize if I did not say this well, English is not my first language.

Thank you!

I have answered this before, but it all comes down to brevity. It is the acknowledgment that not only trans men will have related to that post. It just signals that if that post applies to you, you are included.

I prefer, generally, to put it after the gender simply because the trans umbrella is generally understood, so it seems superfluous (to me) to re-clarify that transness is a broad category.