#unique coping mechanism

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

Single best purchase I’ve made so far this year (It was only 9 dollars on sale!), the “seed” in the middle spins!! I love to spin it while I chew on the edges, avocados are one of my safe foods and it just made my day when I found this >w<

[gazelessmenagerie]

That man needs to see a therapist. Worried about him.

He doesn't need a damned therapist. He is a perfectly functioning warrior from a bygone race and does not have anything weighing on him nor does he have any lingering effects from certain... Ordeals he will not and never will disclose.

[foxycleric]

"You are... mouthy, schäri. I'm not sure I like that."

happy anniversary to this awful amazing wonderful terrible most distinguished of gays, Émile Weiss, sadist, hedonist, and one hell of a dom

[plushiehamuko]

yeah no yusuke and shiho are actually best friends. it just wasn't mentioned bc it wasn't relevant to the plot

[feysandfeels]

Sometimes it really is you and the unshakeable belief that Danika's speck of soul lives inside Bryce and is not gone from existence, against the world.

[nu-metal-confessions]

I ended up having as a coping mechanism imagining being David Silveria's adopted child and therefore the stepsibling of his children David jr and Sophia 😭

It initially started as a joke, but shit went off the rails and now I genuinely enjoy it. It's so embarrassing, only my partner knows about this, but this may or may not have been warranted due to my irl dad being shitty to me for a decade? (It's also not the first time I daydream about having another family. It's just the fact it's David that doesn't really let me be public about it)

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[darknoiserecords]

Sir your manic pixie dream girl isn't creative, she's disassociating from childhood trauma

[quemirabobo]

My therapist just now "you know why this things keep happening to you? So your sense of humor gets even better" I love her

[wisterianwoman]

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[come1nalone]

i absolutely love your posts,,, they are so nice to look at. wishing u the best

Anons making me emotional once again. Tysm anon it means so much! You made me smile :,)

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

I want to use a different word for “parents” when referring to my “mother” and step father, I’ve seen “dna contributors” but I’m a Changeling they didn’t contribute to my dna at all and “The Two Whom Parent Me” is too long. Human Caregivers perhaps? I’ll decide on a name sooner or later…

I know what to call them individually, my “mother” is She Who Raised Me, my step “father” is The Surrogate Patriarch or The Beast when I’m feel a little spiteful, and my “bio father” is He Who Does Not Keep His Word not that I’ll be talking about him very often.

[straightfromthetorturedpoetsdept]

i think the biggest adjustment for me after my diagnosis was learning how to accept the fact that I am not special at all and am so fucking normal and predictable, its insane

[zeldasnotes]

CHIRON IN THE HOUSES ⚷

What your placement makes me think of

CHIRON IN THE 1ST HOUSE: Afraid of being seen as weak, people commenting on your appearance, hiding behind makeup, forcing a tough phacade, extreme competetiveness, surrounding yourself with tough people, comfortable in a small pond so that you can be the big fish, projecting your selfhate onto others, picking other peoples appearance apart, picking your own appearance apart, acting arrogant as a coping mechanism, analyzing, forcing confidence, body dysmorphia, being seen as a target, afraid to go places alone, having a unique feature people comment on.

CHIRON IN THE 2ND HOUSE: Poor kid in a rich kids school, growing up poor, growing up in a family with no money or the opposite growing up in a rich family where money is everything, childhood messed up your moral compass, low self worth, body image issues, not feeling at home in your own body, being used for money, born in the wrong body, growing up in a single parent household, possessive, afraid of loss, experiencing a lot of loss, greediness or completely rejecting the material, not taking care of yourself properly, afraid of change, afraid of never finding stability.

CHIRON IN THE 3RD HOUSE: Bullying during early school years, being compared to a sibling, having a lisp, stuttering, difficulty with expressing yourself, passive aggressive, asthma, communication issues, feeling unwelcomed in your neighbourhood, issues with cousins, speech therapy, having a twin, having a sibling you are expected to ”live up to”, feeling afraid to talk, strong need to be seen as intelligent, outsmarting people, feeling insecure about your social skills.

CHIRON IN THE 4TH HOUSE: Being the black sheep, suppressed childhood memories, feeling rejected by a family member, being the family scape goat, walking on eggshells at home, extremely intuitive, afraid of people being angry or irritated with you, a mother with bpd, a narcissistic mother, generational trauma, trying to heal your mother, a family of broken women, emotionally unavailable parents, constantly hearing parents fighting, having to pick sides between family members, feeling stuck at home, issues renting or buying a home, having to constantly move.

CHIRON IN THE 5TH HOUSE: Experiencing mom/dad shaming, shamed for having kids later in life, shamed for having kids too young, shamed for not wanting kids, teen dad/mom, strong need to be creative or rejecting your creativity, custody battle, having to co-parent with someone you dislike, baby trapped, growing up too fast, ashamed of having fun, afraid of expressing yourself, inability to just let got and have fun, insecure about your style or art, not getting along with your own child, using your pain as entertainment or art, feeling a need to constantly perform.

CHIRON IN THE 6TH HOUSE: Hard time with routines, door dash addict, inability to take care of yourself, obsession with routines, overworking or inability to find work,a job that drains you, a need to constantly be of service, constantly getting sick, your needs being ignored growing up, working with healing others, being overly criticized by a parent, workoutschedules, bad experiences with pets, dieting, hypochondriac, never feeling clean enough, growing up in dirty surroundings, among hoarders.

CHIRON IN THE 7TH HOUSE: Feeling like there is a wall between you and others, fear of rejection, early experiences with rejection, rejected by your first love, no social life, afraid of never finding ”the one”, early experiences with betrayal, people pleasing, ”you havent met anyone yet?”, getting into your first relationship later in life, attracted to wounded people, trying to save bad people, scared of being left for someone else, trying to be perfect, obeying to be liked, connections with others ending badly.

CHIRON IN THE 8TH HOUSE: Afraid of opening up, experiencing constant loss, afraid of loss of power, growing up around someone who asserted power over them, a wound surrounding sex and intimacy, being left out when it comes to inheritance, afraid of not being in control, people trying to control you, freaked out at the thought of ���doing it”, a bad or traumatizing first time, ”doing it” as a selfharm method to take back control after trauma, having to take money in the form of donations, external help, scholarships bc of your family being low income, ashamed of having to take money from others.

CHIRON IN THE 9TH HOUSE: No faith, painful memories from school, the only kid with your cultural background in the whole school, feeling no hope, being forced to convert to another religion, afraid of traveling, never been out of the country you were born in, changing schools, afraid to go to school, bullying in school, not feeling accepted by your inlaws, not feeling free, feeling stuck where you grew up, feeling like you have no roots, being mixed race and not feeling at home with any side.

CHIRON IN THE 10TH HOUSE: Being a part of a family with a bad reputation and therefore being born with a bad rep, being forced into a career, not getting the recognition you deserve for your work, scandals becoming public knowledge, people still talking about that thing you did years ago, being known for something painful, an absent father, not being able to live up to who your father wants you to be, seeking validation from the public, afraid of public humiliation, being slandered.

CHIRON IN THE 11TH HOUSE: Struggling to fit in, prefering to hang out one on one instead of a group, being left out or blamed by a group, toxic friendships, wanting to save the world, misunderstood, deep understanding of the unspoken undercurrentsin group settings, uncomfortable in a group setting, bullying on social media, being exposed online, lack of hope, feeling that nobody gets you, not belonging to any group, strong need to contribute to society, powerstruggles with a stepparent, evil stepmom or evil stepkid kinda energy.

CHIRON IN THE 12TH HOUSE: Absorbing other peoples energy, living in solitude, sleep disorders, the people you least expected turning out to be an enemy, feeling a need to please the collective unconscious, hypersensive to your surroundings, feelings loneliness no matter how many people are around, feeling like you belong in the underworld, repressed memories, zoning out, constantly sensing emotional undercurrents, pushing things under the rugs, medication, bad experiences with addicts, psychic attacks.

CHIRON ASPECTING INNER PLANETS:

SUN/CHIRON: A fragile ego, inflated ego, absent father, putting on a false persona, defensive, acting arrogant when you feel insecure, a dad who left, deep understanding of why people do what they do, not knowing how to express yourself, identity issues, having a healing energy, trying to help everyone.

MOON/CHIRON: Extreme sensitivity, hiding your sensitivity, trying to find parental love in a partner, being shamed for your sensitivity, betrayal from women in the family, emotional scars, seeing through anyone, a bitchy mother, surrounded by bitches, having triggers you cant explain, rejecting and suppressing your emotions, nurturing issues, ”with women comes pain”.

MERCURY/CHIRON: Healing or wounding people with your words, verbally undressing people so that they feel as naked as you, penetrating people to the core, therapist, harsh criticism, wordplay, saying the thing everyone thinks but doesnt say, constantly putting your foot in your mouth, peoples words cut you like knives, you cut back.

VENUS/CHIRON: Extreme fear of rejection, connecting women with pain, female rivalry, low self esteem, attracted to wounded people, plastic surgery, wanting to look perfect, people pleasing to be loved, feeling unworthy of love, ”the bar is in hell” being treated like shit and accepting it bc you love them, feeling ugly no matter how much people tell you youre beautiful, betrayal by women, brutal rejection from a love interest that affected your self esteem deeply.

MARS/CHIRON: Suppressing anger, turning the anger inward or overcompensating by being overly aggressive, surrounded by aggressive men, surrounded by toxic masculinity, feeling uncomfortable around men, afraid of anger, extreme anger from men, feeling like you are not ”man enough”, the dark side of being a man, shamed for your sexuality, rejecting your mascuiline side or acting overly masculine.

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[vulpinesaint]

btw you can be god's specialest boy and still feel deeply unextraordinary at the same time. the superiority complex/I Am Deeply Average complex dichotomy is 100% real and also a real motherfucker

[cupidlovesastro]

𝒶𝓈𝓉𝓇𝑜𝓁𝑜𝑔𝓎 𝑜𝒷𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝒶𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃𝓈 #𝟨

⟡ if you have libra, pisces, cancer, or aries placements, people might see you as innocent. especially if it’s in your big 3

⟡ people forget that cancers are represented by the crab, they can be veryyy picky, argumentative, and if they’re having a bad day they can be snappy😭

⟡ scorpio in big 6 or stelliums like expressing theirself in a way that may seem weird and unique to others

⟡ capricorn men are either serious or completely joking, no in between💀

⟡ moon aspecting mars might need to have an emotional connection to the person they do sexual stuff with. they also might have strong emotions towards sexual things, good or bad

⟡ moon negatively aspecting venus can make someone emotionally detached from the relationship, or try not to involve their feelings. they could also just have a hard time talking about their romantic feelings or confessing

⟡ your 7th house can show what ur attracted to and 7th house also represents skin . people with sun, moon, venus in 7th house could be attracted to people with beautiful skin, or people who do skin care. they also could like touching others skin (not in a weird way💀)

⟡ sagittarius people are clean asf. like they always try to keep things clean and organized, especially sagittarius women. i’ve met 2 sags that use cleaning as a coping mechanism and almost as a hobby lol

⟡ juno aspecting your sun or rising can make people see you as wife/ husband material without even knowing you deeply

⟡ sedna aspecting moon can make you have some intense emotional turmoil, and cause you to refuse help that you may genuinely need

⟡ having a lot of things aspect your moon, mars, or venus can make you somewhat emotionally unstable. due to there being so many push and pull aspects, it can lead to you feeling conflicted often

⟡ whatever your mars sign is, your pet peeve or things that annoy you might be things of your signs stereotype, if that makes sense😭

ex: virgo mars hate over criticism, being rude, being harsh for no reason

[talas-first-lady]

I love mocking Lena Luthor as much as the next person but here’s my personal headcanon: she’s face-blind.

Her brain just doesn’t process faces. And like people who actually have this in real life, she’s developed coping mechanisms to cover that up. She gets by almost entirely on context clues: voice, hair, body language, clothing style, etc. Plus, seeing as she’s Lena, she has an assistant who can tell her exactly who is about to walk into her office. And I’d bet that she’s developed some sort of gadget to help her if she ever gets stuck.

This is the main reason she’s originally anti-image inducers: because they fuck her whole system up. Aliens in general make everything much harder.

Except Supergirl, literally the easiest alien to recognize, because she always wears the same outfit and pretty much the same hairstyle. She’s got a very particular stance and specific vocal patterns.

And if whatever facial recognition tech she uses tries to tell her that Supergirl looks like Kara, she knows there’s a certain margin of error. And obviously that’s an error. Because Kara’s voice, gait, and mannerisms are nothing like Supergirl’s. She’s awkward and expressive and excitable. She has an extremely specific style. She has glasses. She’s just as unique as Supergirl is, but they’re nothing alike.