#until finally I convinced myself

[hyperionwitch-art]

Did you think I was done posting art today?? Let's officially ring in 2024 with the Terrible Kids! This time in Ald Ruhn, enjoying some delicious sauced meat on flatbread.

Tev/Dren Masterpost

[midwinterwings]

RULES OF BEING OTHERKIN #1

Being authentic and true to yourself is the only way you are 'supposed to be/act like' (insert entity). If anyone else disagrees it only tells you about them.

[cockroachesunite]

Look how they cannibalized my boy

[an-assortment-of-forks]

there are doctors there are hospitals there are specialists there is medicine there are systems in place so people do not have to suffer and be tortured under their own chronic pain daily and yet. they're all fucking inaccessible to the people who need it most!!! to what I would argue is most disabled people!! I'm so fucking done with the medical system.

[chidoroki]

May 16th - Happy Birthday to Vanessa Enoteca

(with one Vanessa from almost every chapter she appears in)

[radinclus-not-radqueer]

if you don't wanna answer or I've misunderstood then feel free not to answer this! but you said in a post about people with paras being safe here, and you implied yourself being someone with a para who was lured in by radqueers to essentially accept your para. so my question is, when you tag things with like pro recovery from paras, does that mean you feel like you no longer have it? one thing that medical people always seem to say, and that radqueers say a lot, is that paras cannot be changed or overcome. which I'm sure is something that works as a strong motivation to draw in people with paras to just accept and embrace it. so I'm wondering what your experience has been now, recovering from a para in whatever way that means to you?

Recovering is mostly about overcoming the shame and guilt associated with paras, dealing with any trauma that may have caused them, and working to find coping mechanisms to not act on it. For the majority of people, you can't completely get rid of a paraphilia (just like you can't get rid of any other disorder/attraction).

Being pro recovery isn't about forcing people to "get rid of" their paraphilias (although radqueers try to claim it is), it's about supporting people getting help if they need it and also supporting people who don't need help.

Recovering means a lot of things to different people - in my experience, I've mostly tried to lessen the desire to act on my paraphilias via therapy and coping mechanisms, and recovered from being in pro-contact communities. For me, recovering has mostly meant healing the shame and guilt around being a paraphile, and working to not act on harmful paraphilias. I'm still a paraphile, I'm just a mostly-recovered paraphile because I don't feel shameful and guilty about it as much anymore and the desire to act on it is nowhere near as strong as it used to be.

[skunkes]

If you were truly an abandoned project like you say. You wouldn't care so much. Even in your comic you mention you being worse for "the next person" you already are thinking of another person. That's not a bad thing. You're young. And by God you have some fire in you. I hope you become happier with yourself. I hope good things happen to you and the people around you will cheer for it. -💛🦭

thank u... im actually flopping between it rn... though i know i dont have the actual power to decide to be done with it, bc life is full of unexpected events, and i am young, but my line of thinking was, well because it would be so much more of a hassle for a next person, its best to just remove that hassle from the "market" completely lol...

but its out of my hands in either direction. i already wasnt expecting much as just the one time was such a rarity. now its just made the whole ordeal much much more difficult for all parties...aroo...anyway thanks again

[ngmn2002]

do you think tsukasa will succeed in his plans until the end?

I think so. After all, the guy we're talking about...

Is none other than Tsukasa. He is Tsukasa...

He knows exactly what he is doing and he is so capable of achieving whatever he wants. I see he has infinite potential. He rules.

Now, if that isn't just a thing to admire about him.

[purble-gaymer]

very gradually feeling less like shit after whatever the hell that was

[floral-hex]

So this chick has been on-and-off again stalking me since high school. I could go into paragraphs of detail (I was about to), but no one wants to read all of that. Suffice to say, I guess she’s had some kind of crush on me for about 15-20 years or so (why??), and every few years it seems she pops up somewhere contacting me to try to persuade me to give her a chance. I should mention we never talked in high school, I actively avoided her, told her I didn’t like her, etc. nothing doing.

Anyway, somehow she’s been on one of my social media pages and saw I was having a hard time lately, so she found my phone number (what?? I hate that you can just find that online) and texted me out of the blue yesterday. Usual protocol is ignore and block so I don’t piss off an unstable person, but they decided to be gross, so

I wasn’t planning on posting anything about this before. If they were creeping around on my pages, mentioning it would only feed into them. Maybe. I don’t know. But this just kind of made me really uncomfortable and their response was shitty. I could have been a lot meaner. I wanted to be. But whatever, that wouldn’t have helped. So I just blocked them and hope that this time it sticks. If they see this, then hey… not cool.

[badolmen]

So funny how trauma will just kick you in the fucking teeth with the most random triggers.

[myname-isnia]

The worst part of this all is that I’m going through it while I’m still on my period

[mashmouths]

it's supposed to be 85° tomorrow are you fucking kidding me

[sugaggukkie]

yall want to hear my latest cancelable offense?

i have just recently listened to pied piper for the first time and I LOOOOOVE it and constantly want to be like damn has anyone else heard this shit??? and then i remember I’m the last bts fan on earth to hear this song 😔���

[du-hjarta-skulblaka]

Hhhnnnnggnrnrngngng the first locked tomb book is £12 and im debating getting it but. I spent almost all my birthday money today (on vape stuff for my and my sister, she owes me about £20) and im not sure if I can afford it

Particularly given Christmas is soon and I uave nothing for anyone

[apathyfairy]

christmas is officially over which means i have 364 days to get a life and get too busy to go to family christmas or come up with a really good excuse to never see these people again