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#we paid like $500 for that
bananonbinary · 29 days
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as a certified Diagnosed Autist(TM) i cannot stress enough that i am not only pro- self-diagnosis, but also pretty anti- legal medical diagnosis. it is, at best, a cruel hoop we have to jump through so privileged people will deign to give us what we need. don't fucking do that shit unless you have to, it was disgustingly expensive, fucking humiliating, infantilizing, and dehumanizing, and would probably actively cause problems in my life if i didn't have some really good allistic (-passing) people in my corner and also wasn't so fucking disabled that it mostly doesn't matter.
literally get that diagnosis if you need it for job/school accessibility shit or SSI or whatever, and otherwise dont tell the government SHIT about yourself. there is zero good reason for them to want that information. that's between you and the people you want in your life.
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itsokbbygrl · 2 months
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ya girl is officially a ✨union employee✨
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transgenderastarion · 6 months
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This is why im fucking aplatonic bc i either date someone or i become their family and every single other person has fucking screwed me over
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cynical-cemeteries · 1 year
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so the family month login event gives us 500 crystals a day for 9 days,, which is 4,500 crystals in total
if they replaced these with linkstones that would literally be enough to get a summons hero at pity 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️
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treecakes · 4 months
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whyyy does my school suck lol. but also maybe this is working in my favour for now lol.
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kagejima · 1 year
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dear brain, you are not going to describe things as well as other writers do. you're just not. describing is not your strong suit and you know this. no two writing styles are the same and you have GOT tO STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP ABOUT NOT BEING ABLE TO DESCRIBE THINGS WELL because then nothing gets written and that's why you haven't put out a goddamn thing since fucking September OHMYGOD just write and have fun what IS WRONG WITH YOUUUUUUU
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sheyshen · 11 months
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my bday is monday and i originally had a bunch of stuff planned for it, but now i need to get the AC recharged before summer really sets in so so much for that. ah well as least it’s not a hospital trip this year.
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corvidcall · 1 year
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everyone talks about parasocial relationships by talking about how youtubers dont know you and podcasters arent your friends and its creepy and wrong to feel warmly towards them and youre hurting them when you do that
but nobody wants to talk about MY parasocial relationship with IAMPETH certified Master Penman Harvest Crittenden
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vogelmeister · 8 months
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anyways as much as i get super shitty patrons sometimes my coworker and i were discussing on our ten the really lovely patrons you can get bc they remind you of the good in the world. like for example i mentioned the guy a few weeks ago who spent all of interval talking to me about the netherlands and my coworker found that super sweet because that guy probably had no idea how much that topic meant to me but like,, all he did was talk about the netherlands and all in all he was lovely to me and sometimes you need genuinely nice people with no ulterior motives and it was super calming to not have a patron scream at me or wave something in my face or treat me like i don’t know the show and the latecomer points inside out. he just listened to me. because one thing about front of house is that every thing i say often has a purpose and its really annoying when i tell people stuff and they ignore me. and no matter what it is, its beautiful when people just… actually pay attention to my words. and they actually are just a decent human being who makes me feel a little more human.
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radellama · 1 year
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You know what. I'm trying not to be but I'm really mad. I went to the post office to try and get photo ID so I can finish updating my legal documents, but they couldn't help me... Cause to get the photo ID I need the other legal documents in the correct name...... But I don't have them because they require the photo ID from the post office......... The photo ID that I can't get because I don't have the documents that require photo ID to be updated................. This is the worst loop and I've been stuck since February
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#i need to fucking say it cause I'm getting more and more cranky#The lady at the post office was very nice and tried to ask her manager if there was any way she can get it for me with what i had#but she couldn't :''''''(#i had to travel a few suburbs over to get to a big post office cause the little ones don't do photo ID.. so that was a few hours wasted lol#I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO UPDATE MY SHIT SINCE FEBRUARY BUT IT'S SOOOO FUCKING HARDDDDD#IT TAKES ME TIME TO GET TO IT CAUSE I'M FUCKING BUSY ALL THE TIME AND RARELY EVER HAVE TIME DURING WORK HOURS#WHICH ARE THE ONLY TIMES GOV SERVICES ARE OPEN.... SO I'M PRETTY FUCKED#plus being autistic and just generally struggling with the paperwork and poorly described methods of filling out said paperwork#i have been bounced between all identifying services like a DVD logo. 'if you don't have y we can't give you x'#WHAT'S THE POINT OF THIS STUPID ASS LOOP???!#I ALREADY PAID THE RIDICULOUS AMOUNT TO HAVE MY NAME AND SHIT CHANGED! YOU'RE ALREADY PROCESSING IT AT THE GOVERNMENT#JUST UPDATE ALL MY SHIT IN THE SYSTEM THERE WHILE YOU HAVE IT FUCKING HELL!!!!!!!#MAIL ME THE NEW CERTIFICATE AND A SUMMONS TO WHATEVER PLACE WILL DO PHOTO ID SO THEY CAN JUST TAKE A PHOTO#AND I DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS STUPID ASS HASSLE#like. i don't have an extra couple hundred laying around to apply for a passport. and also it's such a waste to apply for one rn#I'm not going to be travelling any time soon but that's the only one where i maaayyyyy be able to squeeze through and get it#BUT IT'LL BE LIKE $500+!!!! I DON'T HAVE THAT AND IT'S A WASTE OF MONEY#AND I CAN'T GET A DRIVERS LICENCE CAUSE I'M NOT SAFE BEHIND THE WHEEL! SO I DON'T WANT AN ID IMPLYING I CAN DRIVE#AND REGARDLESS OF THAT. I CAN'T FUCKING GET A LICENSE ANYWAY CAUSE OF THIS LOOP I'M STUCK IN#SO LIKE!!!!??????#AND EVEN THEN.. THE PROOF OF AGE ID I'M TRYING TO GET ISN'T RECOGNISED AS LEGITIMATE ID IN MOST PLACES#SO LIKE FUCK ME!!!!!!!!#i don't go clubbing or buy alcohol so idgaf but. things like MAKING SURE I'M ENROLLED FOR VOTING DON'T RECOGNISE PROOF OF ARE#EVEN THO PROOF OF AGE IS ONLY OBTAINABLE THROUGH THE FUCKING SAME GOV THAT MAKES SURE I'M ABLE TO VOTE#o don't care about semantics on this this shit is soooo fucking stupid and I'm over it#i just wanted my name and shit to be updated on everything so i can graduate and reenter the work force properly#but i have already been struggling for like 10 months!!!!!#fuck this all to hell!!!!!!!!!!!!#delete later
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cuz-reasons · 1 year
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My packages are on the way yippee
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dxppercxdxver · 1 year
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not to get too real on this here *checks notes* personal private tumblr blog. but i'm genuinely terrified about the next thursday shift i have to work. with a full staff roster it's already hell on earth but my favorite coworker leaves next monday and another's looking for work elsewhere. and i have probable eds. and other undiagnosed health issues. that make it generally Unwise to stand on my feet for *checks notes again* ten hours in a day. so IMAGINE HOW IT WILL FEEL. WHEN [REDACTED] RESIGNS. AND THOSE TEN HOURS BECOME *checks notes again again* FIFTEEN. I'VE BEEN HERE TWO WEEKS
kitten rush is how i will die
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calpicowater · 2 years
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Week 26.8/52: June 27th - July 3rd 2022 | Dr. Sun Yat-Sen Park 🪷
Went to Dr. Sun Yat-Sen Park with Matt and made it there an hour before they closed LOL. Macro lens are so fun to play with lmao it really lets in so much light. The park is pretty small tbh but it’s a nice environment to walk around. Went to eat dinner at Banana Leaf for Malaysian food afterwards. Ordered their rice noodles (char kuey teow) and fried rice (nasi goreng). So yums!!!! 😋
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lilgynt · 1 year
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every conversation i have with my mom ends with me offering to give her money or buy her things and i always walk away like what the fuck just happened
#personal#we’re poor emergencies happen and i care more about that we have a place to live and she’s not sick or unwell#or completely broke but#it is what it is but as i was describing to my friends how this happened again#i started tearing up bc the whole point of me giving her 300 every pay check was to avoid her randomly asking for like. 500 bucks#and giving me no chance to budget#and as reminded by my friends right now she did say i was just an advancedment and she didn’t need me#also that i contribute nothing to the house#it’s just frustrating#like obviously i want to help my mom especially if i have enough money#but i also don’t want every good interaction with her to end with me giving her money or buying her gifts#like it doesn’t happen every convo but enough that my friends are like dude.#and since i have more money she doesn’t need to pay me back i mean i was just gonna use it for dumb shit but again it’s just frustrating#cause i do my budgeting and i’ve paid her and then paid for gifts or took a gift card she didn’t want and gave her cash#and then it’s just randomly more#and again it is what it is but#i just wish my mom at least liked me. like i don’t have a door and she still blames me for christmas#and yells at me when i get a broken foot to go into work anyway#and so on and so on#i’m just. upset i guess#and i jokingly brought up that i guess there is a possibility that#i’m not the ill tempered short fuse rebellious son who doesn’t care for his parents at all#bc. i kinda forget i’m not that#like my friends mom the other day was like you need to lie to you’re mom more she’s awful to you#and i was like :0 and like#thinking about it. i’m really not the loose canon kid#like i was my moms at home nurse and still technically am but she’s mostly fine now#the nurses during one of her surgeries years ago before that even mentioned how well i was caring for her too#and everyone sings my praises about that shit even my mom but i don’t know i just#and i guess none of the compliments to my person or how i help my family didn’t register bc of how everyone at home describes me.
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motheyes · 2 years
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damn. i rlly be getting paid minimum wage for this huh
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crimsonblackrose · 2 years
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Please join me in a moment of pure shock that my mini boss jumped in and started helping me with a task and decide oh hell nah this is boring AF I’m getting you actual help next week you shouldn’t be doing this by yourself. On top of on Tuesday her coming in seeing the people who were here on Monday didn’t do anything and essentially bringing the hammer down so I wouldn’t have to do it all by myself. Which I think included pushing back to our main boss to make our boss do their job and flat out tell everyone how many hours they’re supposed to be helping me with said task.
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