#xenogender safe place

[solstice-eclipze]

♡ ~ Animationmemenostalgic / Animatememenostalgic

⤷ "Animationmemenostalgic is a xenogender identity that's related to animation memes, tweening, animating, meme music/songs, the animation era, 2018/2019 nostalgia, or generally nostalgia overall. This gender could feel musical, bouncy, animated, nostalgic, euphoric, etc."

Coined (made) by me. Add credits if reposted.

[voidwithtoomanygooglyeyes]

Hadalzonegender

Hadalzonegender is a xenogender related to the hadal zone. It can feel connected to the hadal zone in general or the mystery and eeriness surrounding it. It may also describe a gender that feels cold, mysterious/eerie, endless and void like, as well as somewhat dangerous. Or it could be connected to one's special interests surrounding the hadal zone. It can be a kingender or neurogender but is not by default. Anyone can use it!

[saber-toothx]

grr woof woof grr. my gender is a giant black void monster demon ghost vampire thing and no one can tell me otherwise. (its also dead).

[patchwxrk]

A DISCORD SERVER FOR ALL MY CAT-ALIGNED FURRIENDS!

cat aligned includes: felinekin, felinehearted, feline xenogenders, feline therians, and any other feline identity!

My server includes:

-protected verification to keep out trolls

-a safe place to be yourself

-emotes by @smolmoss to enjoy and express yourself

-age and pet regress channel

-Art and quads category to show off your skills!

-kind people who will feel like family no matter where you come from.

if you are not cat-aligned reposts and notes are very much appreciated!

Have a wonderful day everyone!!!

[niyoneo]

Parknightic: A gender inherently related to parks at night; a nightly park gender.

[zonkedd]

NeptunSymbolic For anyone who relates to the planetary symbol or to the planet of Neptune in any way Pronouns could be ♆/♆'s/♆self but are not necessary

[marigold-rayz]

First official Camp Tourmaline intro video !

Let’s see if we can hit 100 campers, we’re so close (85/100) !! =D

[xiaolangg]

just a reminders yall xenogenders/neopronouns ppl are valid asf and ily and I'll protect you from those transphobic mfs

[barbthebuilder]

I've never identified as a man or woman, even when I was a child. I didn't find language to start expressing myself till I was maybe 15 or 16. I knew I wasn't a girl at least, for a long time herm felt safe, and still does in the background. In recent... year; 9 months maybe, I've started to feel comfortable with boi.

But really what I've learned about myself recently, very recently is not just that I'm genderfluid, but xenofluid. I don't really identify with masculine or feminine, and it's really liberating, but also really lonely. Feeling like you're a boi cow, to a femboi shark to a little demon to something angry and terrible and back again.

Have you ever met anyone else like me? I hope they know that others are out there.

Flag designs by @anarchy-flagz and @logchamp

Yo, thanks for the ask! It was nice hearing your story and reading about your experience. I am not very knowledgeable on this identity so if any xenogender person wants to educate me I am willing to listen. It looks like you have found a perfect place where you feel like you belong and I'm very happy for you! Of course all xenofluid people are super welcome on my blog :) Y'all are slaying hard 💅

[xxlovelynovaxx]

Well, since tumblr randomly ate my pinned... -_-

About us:

We're the Stars system, a massively polymultiple and polyfragmented mixed origin DID system. We consider ourselves an infinite system.

Our pronouns are fae/it unless specified otherwise. When referring to multiple of us, you are welcome to use fae&/it& or you& for clarity. If you are up for it, we would also appreciate second person neopronouns being tried out (substituting neos for 'you'), and sometimes we use first person neopronouns (substituting neos for 'I/we')

Some of our labels include (we use general/umbrella labels in places to indicate that we use many of those kind of labels):

(disability)

POTS

MCAS

likely ME/CFS

chronic pain (likely fibromyalgia)

other unspecified chronic illness symptoms

physically disabled with mobility disabilities

anxiety

PTSD and C-PTSD

DID w/strong dp/dr symptoms

schizophrenia/psychotic

cluster B spectrum disorder, comprehensive subtype (we meet the diagnostic criteria for all four cluster B disorders and our symptoms are heavily interrelated)

OCD

autism

ADHD

MADD

OLD (a medically unrecognized disorder)

neurodivergent and neurodisabled

cognitive disabilities

cripple

mad

often housebound, sometimes bedbound (less so now that we have a wheelchair)

low to mid masking

low to mid functioning

mid to high support needs

(system)

traumaendo mixed origin

infinite system

aside from traumagen and endo, spirigenic, schizogenic, bordergenic, paragenic, tulpagenic, and more

(queer)

Abro (and use lesbian, gay, queerhet, bi, pan, omni, and mspec and straight lesbian/gay labels)

transneufemmasc, transfluid

intersex

altersex/salmacian

pangenderfluid, kingender, xenogender, agender, maverique, intergender, multigender, androgyne, and others

faegender

butch and femboy

queer

demigrey aroace and grey apl among others

lesboy/turigirl

radinclus

(other)

alterhuman

otherkin (especially fae/changeling, but pankin across the whole system)

otherhearted

copinglink and linktypes

hearthome

choicekin

constelic

demihuman and nonhuman both

endel

humankin

flickers

hivemind

multiversal

reality shifters

nonperson

We are pro-endo and pro-tulpa, anti-psych and anti-phys, pro-mad-liberation and cripplepunk inclusionists and coined unitypunk. We are kff safe and do not believe ANY identity that someone genuinely identifies as, that is not specifically based on intentional harm to others, can be inherently or ontologically harmful. We are proship/profic and ourselves are survivors of a specific kind of SA that cannot be directly spoken about here. We are also anti-forced-recovery and don't believe in consensus reality.

We also do not believe it is okay to make fun of reality shifters just because it's the current acceptable target, and find it especially hypocritical coming from otherkin. Even if it was always harmful, the appropriate response would be genuine, non-patronizing concern, offering resources, and then backing the fuck off if people can't or won't "recover". That being said, most "anti" sentiment in this context is heavily sanist and centered around the idea of a "correct" consensus reality. Not trusting people to be right about their own subjective experiences is both sanist and just generally an asshole move.

We believe transandrophobia exists, that everyone can be affected by transmisogyny and that TMA/TME labels are reductive and often bioessentialist and intersexist in usage, and that exorsexism and the above are all serious issues both within the trans community and in society as a whole. We support transunity. We also are pro-complicated and conflicting labels, such as mspec lesbian/gay, straight lesbian/gay, transmasc lesbians, and lesgay/lesboy/turigirl labels.

We are transhumanist and support bodily autonomy and good faith identity with NO. EXCLUSIONS. If you think this doesn't apply to you, I promise it still probably actually does. We do our best to judge people on their actions, not their thoughts, feelings, or anything else that occurs internally. We also don't believe any body modifications or exercise of personal bodily autonomy is wrong.

We also believe it's not wrong to be unhealthy, to refuse or be unable to recover, and that healthism is ableism. Disabled people (including neurodivergent people) are the most reliable authority on their own experiences. Also, if someone says they were called a slur, you should believe them, and they have a right to reclaim it regardless of if you think they have the "right" identity (outside of perhaps racial/ethnic slurs, which I feel is not our place to comment on). Slur, label, and flag discourse is all bullshit cop behavior and y'all need to stop it.

There's probably more that we'll come back and add later, but for now, here's a new pinned.

[litlpawz]

can i request a skye themed moodboard and a pink skye themed dni banner that says “DNI BREAKERS GET BLOCKED AND REPORTED

DNI: pedos / maps, mik, age players, ab / dl, kink of any kind, alm, lgbtqia+phobic, anti-mogai, anti-xenogenders, anti-neopronouns, bdsm, and people who think age regression is nsfw, kink, sexual, is the same as age play, or any of the above, accounts not safe for children, anti-otherkin / therians, people who kin for fun, syscourse / anti-endo, and anti-self-dx”

thank you! - @pups-gotta-fly

Sorry the banner is so squished it is a lot of info to fit in one place /nm

[solstice-eclipze]

♡ ~ Meowstimmic galaxy pride flag

Galaxy flag made by me! Term not coined by me.

⤷ "A xenogender related to meowing as a stim."

Add credits if galaxy flag is reposted.

All hate will be deleted. Antis DNI.

[voidwithtoomanygooglyeyes]

Gendercondensedmilk, or gendersweetenedcondensedmilk is a fluid gender that can best be described using condensed milk (sweetened or unsweetened), or is like condensed milk (sweetened or unsweetened). It is very sticky, dense, thick, and slow moving, like condense milk.

The suffix -condensedmilk can be added to any gender. For example, genderfauncondensedmilk would be a gender fluid between any range of masculine genders, unaligned genders, or genderlessness, but never any feminine genders, while also being very sticky, dense, thick, and slow moving, like condense milk.

Anyone can use this gender.

[incorrectinfinity]

Happy pride month!

Things to remember this pride:

You have literally no obligation to come out to anyone if you don't want to

It is valid to question your identity, it's ok to question for a long time, too! Figuring yourself out doesn't have a time limit, take as much time as you need

Aro-spec and ace-spec people are valid parts of the queer community

Finding that you were wrong about your identity is completely understandable and valid

Not every hetero person isn't queer, hetero trans, ace-spec, and aro-spec people are 100% valid and wonderful parts in the queer community!

In fighting is a pointless distraction curated by people who want to distraction from what you should be fighting for, it's not helping anyone I promise

If you live in a place where trans rights are being fought against aggressively, please remember to support your trans friends and family

Xenogenders and neopronouns are not a new thing! They have been a part of the queer community for a very long time

Not every label will make sense to you, and that's ok. You don't have to understand, you just have to be supportive

Be respectful and mindful of people who are out to you but not many other people, you don't dictate who they get to come out to

Remember that pride month isn't clean, it isn't corporate, it's a fight. It's a battle for our rights, pride is a riot!

Not every corporation with a rainbow pfp is a safe one, do your research before singing any praises

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER TO BE PROUD!!!

[patchwxrk]

A discord server for cat aligned alterhumans.

this includes therian, otherkin, otherhearted, otherlinked, and cat xenogenders.

(gif by smolmoss) @smolmoss

[tavs-kin-korner]

rEQUESTS ARE: cLOSED (COME BACK SOON!)

iNBOX: 18

hI THERE, tHIS IS A KIN HELP BLOG RUN BY tAVROS! tHIS IS A SAFE PLACE FOR FICTIONKINS, oTHERKINS, iRLS, fICTIVES, tHERIANS, oTHERHEARTED, cOPINGLINKS, AND MANY MORE!! (sEE DNI AT END OF POST,)

i WANT THIS TO BE A SAFE PLACE FOR MANY, sO i HAVE VERY FEW LIMITS ON SOURCES! aLTHOUGH, i HAVE RECENTLY CREATED A BLACKLIST WHICH CAN BE SEEN BELOW, i DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO DECLINE A REQUEST IF I AM UNCOMFORTABLE WITH IT! i MAY NOT KNOW A SOURCE VERY WELL, sO IF YOUR SOURCE IS NOT ON MY SOURCE LIST, pLEASE BE MORE SPECIFIC!

i AM OK WITH MAKING STIMBOARDS ETC, wITH THEMES OF BL00D/G0R3/W3AP0NRY/HORROR! tHEY WILL BE POSTED BELOW THE CUT AND HAVE WARNINGS, sO OTHERS WHO MAY BE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THOSE THEMES CAN BE SAFE, }:)

wHAT i DO HERE!

-sTIMBOARDS

-mOODBOARDS

-fASHION KITS

-cARE KITS

-pRIDE ICONS

-dOODLES/SKETCHES (fULL WORKS ARE COMMISSIONS ONLY,,, sORRY!)

-nAME/PRONOUN SUGGESTIONS

-kINFESSIONS (pLEASE SPECIFY IF IT IS A CONFESSION! tALK ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCES, eTC,)

-kIN CALLS (pLEASE SPECIFY IF IT IS A KIN CALL! tELL US THE SOURCE, aGE RANGE, oR ANY SPECIFIC PEOPLE YOU'RE LOOKING FOR!)

-kIN LETTERS (pLEASE SPECIFY IF IT IS A LETTER! mAKE SURE TO ADDRESS THE RECIPIENT AND SIGN OFF! mAYBE EVEN SPECIFY THE SOURCE SO i CAN TAG PROPERLY!)

-kIN ADVICE (pLEASE SPECIFY IF YOU ARE VENTING/LOOKING FOR ADVICE! fEEL FREE TO VENT IN THE ASKS/ASK QUESTIONS, i'LL TRY MY BEST TO HELP! }:D)

-sURPRISE ME (i'LL PICK ANY OFF THE LIST AND MAKE A NICE SURPRISE FOR YOU!)

-pOKEMON TEAM

-aESTHETIC ICONS (pROVIDES 3, PROVIDE AN AESTHETIC FOR ME TO BASE IT OFF OF, oR YOU CAN ASK ME TO PICK FOR YOU!)

-pLAYLIST (pROVIDES 5 SONGS, iF YOUR SOURCE IS NOT ON THE FOLLOWING LIST, pLEASE PROVIDE EXTRA INFORMATION ABOUT YOU AND YOUR SOURCE!)

-rECIPE KIT (6 RECIPES, pLEASE INCLUDE SPECIFICATIONS ON FOODS TO INCLUDE/AVOID!)

-hOME DECOR KIT

-vIDEO PLAYLIST (pROVIDES 5 VIDEOS, pLEASE SPECIFY WHAT TYPES OF VIDEOS (ASMR, aNIMATIONS, eTC,) yOU'D LIKE ME TO INCLUDE/AVOID!)

-tITLES (5 TITLES)

-wALLPAPER (540 X 960, fIT FOR A PHONE BACKGROUND) (1 WALLPAPER, pLEASE SPECIFY **SPECIFIC** DIMENSIONS IF YOU PLAN TO USE IT FOR A DIFFERENT DEVICE, iNCLUDE SPECIFIC AESTHETICS/OTHER CHARACTERS IF YOU'D LIKE THEM, iF NOT i WILL DO WHAT i THINK FITS BEST,)

sOURCES i KNOW BEST!

hOMESTUCK, yOUR fAVORITE mARTIAN, oMORI, pOKEMON, sPLATOON/sPLATOON MANGA, mY lITTLE pONY, tHE lEGEND oF zELDA, mARIO, cHAINSAW mAN, gORILLAZ, sPARKLECARE hOSPITAL, aNIMAL cROSSING, kIRBY, eNA, hELLUVA bOSS, bLUEY, gRAVITY fALLS, hOLLOW kNIGHT, fIVE nIGHTS aT fREDDY'S, bENDY AND THE iNK mACHINE, cUPHEAD, sPOOKY mONTH, fRIDAY nIGHT fUNKIN', sTRANGER tHINGS, bLACK bUTLER, sONIC tHE hEDGEHOG, lITTLEST PET SHOP, dEMON sLAYER, sUICIDE bOY, dOLL eYE, lINK cLICK, rICK AND mORTY, mY hERO aCADEMIA, tOTAL dRAMA, cHIKN nUGGIT, mADNESS cOMBAT, jUJUTSU kAISEN, aCE aTTORNEY, tHE aMAZING dIGITAL cIRCUS, tANKMEN, hIVESWAP, sALLY fACE, mETALOCALYPSE, oK kO, rEGRETEVATOR, dEAD pLATE,

bLACKLIST:

dSMP (i KNOW i USED TO DO THIS DESPITE NEVER BEING INTO IT OR KNOWING ANYTHING ABOUT IT, bUT i DO NOT FEEL COMFORTABLE ANYMORE WITH THE RECENT EVENTS, i AM NO LONGER DOING IT AS A WHOLE BECAUSE i DO NOT HAVE ENOUGH INFORMATION ON THE OTHER MEMBERS), tHE mAGIC sCHOOL bUS (pERSONAL REASONS), aLFRED'S pLAYHOUSE, fACTKIN (FACTIVES ARE FINE) AND ENDOGENIC SYSTEMS,

aNON LIST!: 🧡

sTUFF ABOUT ME! }:D

i AM FICTIONKIN/ID OF tAVROS nITRAM (hOMESTUCK), aND i HAVE MANY OTHERS, aS WELL AS IRLS AND COPINGLINKS! i AM A RED FOX THERIAN AND DEMONKIN! i AM BISEXUAL AND TRANS! i USE HE/BULL/TAUR/TROLL (AND MANY MORE) PRONOUNS!

dNI: bASIC DNI (hOMOPHOBIA, tRANSPHOBIA, rACISM, aBLEISM, fACISM, pEDOS/mAPS, zOOS, eTC,), aNTI-kIN, aNTI-tHERIAN, aNTI-fURRY, aNTI-xENOGENDER/nEOGENDER, aNTI-mCYT, aNTI-hOMESTUCK, aNTI-aGE REGRESSION/NSFW aGE REGRESSION, fACTKIN, eNDOS, pROSHIP, kINK BLOGS, xENOSATANISM, (mAY ADD MORE IN THE FUTURE,)

tHANKS FOR READING! lOOKING FORWARD TO REQUESTS! };)

jOIN THE SERVER, iF YOU'D LIKE!