#neopronouns safe place

[solstice-eclipze]

♡ ~ Animationmemenostalgic / Animatememenostalgic

⤷ "Animationmemenostalgic is a xenogender identity that's related to animation memes, tweening, animating, meme music/songs, the animation era, 2018/2019 nostalgia, or generally nostalgia overall. This gender could feel musical, bouncy, animated, nostalgic, euphoric, etc."

Coined (made) by me. Add credits if reposted.

[angel333]

INTRO POST

you're finally here! im florence! i go by angel/love/cherub. this is an agre account for me. this is very personal so please dni if you are: nsfw, anti-agre, want to argue about religion, or a bully. i love you all, you are safe here. ʚ♡ɞ

[zonkedd]

NeptunSymbolic For anyone who relates to the planetary symbol or to the planet of Neptune in any way Pronouns could be ♆/♆'s/♆self but are not necessary

[saber-toothx]

grr woof woof grr. my gender is a giant black void monster demon ghost vampire thing and no one can tell me otherwise. (its also dead).

[shoelacemeowmeow]

Friendly reminder that this is not a radfem/gendercrit friendly blog.

[xiaolangg]

just a reminders yall xenogenders/neopronouns ppl are valid asf and ily and I'll protect you from those transphobic mfs

[doberbutts]

You mentioned in response to another ask that you don't use "transandrophobia" because the trans theory you were taught by trans women told you that "transmisogyny" covered those things and that is a total revelation to me. I've been thinking for a long time that it seemed to me that the idea of transmisogyny *does* cover transandrophobia, it just impacts trans femmes and trans mascs differently a lot of the time. But I had no idea that there has been theory/discussion that says this. I'm more used to the idea of "TMA" with the implication that only trans women are affected by transmisogyny. Is that more of a new thing and transmisogyny used to be considered as a more broad term? And would you trace that change to the same issue you're talking about with a lot of current feminism forgetting how feminism is also a "men's issue"?

Idk if I would call it "new" per say. The word trans-misogyny was coined in 2007 and did not include trans men, but the book in which it was coined did mention that language was likely needed to describe the trans man experience as well. There have been a number of different attempts, but none have really stuck.

I went to college starting in 2010, so roughly 3 years after Serrano coined the word. While in college, my school's GSA wanted LGBT elders to come and talk to all the scared freshly-minted adults who were trying to figure out this being gay thing. The woman who ran my GSA found a Trans woman who was willing to be my mentor and sponsor, she wrote my letters for me back when that was still necessary for medical transition, and we met frequently for her to teach me more or less how to be trans safely. Some things she did not know- how to bind safely, how to attach a semi-permenant packer, etc. But others she knew very well, because she herself dealt with both being seen as a man by society as well as the effects of testosterone on her body for decades before she transitioned.

Anyway. This woman was great, and is a significant portion of the reason I'm still alive to this day. And she is who taught me the word transmisogyny, and that it should really cover all trans people because all trans people experience an intersection of transphobia and misogyny. Whether that was popular theory at the time or not, that is what us young kids learned directly from the mouths of trans women at my college, which to me means that others were also learning this particular version of transfeminist theory.

Unfortunately by the time I dropped out of college in 2013/2014, online trans spaces were having stupid arguments such as "transtrenders are bad" and "neopronouns are bad" and "nonbinary people are cis people who want to feel special" and "trans men should be hunted for sport" and "trans women are incel nazis" and. Well. I went "wow this place is a cesspit and I feel like no one here has actually talked to another transgender person face to face" and then did not engage with the online community. So I don't really know how common or popular the understanding I was taught was at the time, though it certainly seems quite rare now.

(As a caveat I don't really think trans people of any gender have anything that isn't similar with each other when it comes to oppression, outside of certain bodily things that can't be helped because that's literally the thing we're transgender about, and I think we all experience very similar oppression but sometimes with a different hat)

As for what caused this particular defining to fall into obscurity? I really can't say. I don't know how popular the transfeminist theory the trans women who spoke at my GSA meetings taught us actually was in the broader world. Every once in a while I meet someone who lived through that same time who remembers that theory, which tells me it had gained at least some traction if it was being discussed in multiple parts of the country, but... that's really it. And it's pretty unpopular theory nowadays, I get people calling me a scumbag and claiming that I say transmisogyny doesn't exist just for mentioning that the theory I was taught includes trans men in the discussion.

But I don't think it's specifically the whole TMA/TME thing. I think it's a lack of understanding of what oppression and what intersectionality are, how they operate, how they work, how we define things through them. There are many people who believe that men do not experience misogyny. But, they do, that's why it's an insult to a boy to call him a girl during a moment of femininity or vulnerability, as a means of calling him weak because girls are believed to be weak. There are many people who think intersectionality turns oppression into additives, as though stacking marginalizations like dnd buffs. This also falls apart because oppression is not like quick math where you add a +5 to every roll if any part of your identity is privileged and a -7 if any part is oppressed.

I've had people get mad at me for saying that straight people experience homophobia while we also have sitting politicians that make jokes on live TV about how they'd drown their (presumably straight) children if they found out their kids were gay. For saying that GNC cis people experience transphobia when butches are getting kicked out of bathrooms and drag queens are getting jumped in bars. For reminding people that when Sikhs are killed due to being mistaken for Muslim in this country that hates Muslims over a national tragedy our Muslim population did not cause, it's still considered and called Islamophobia, because just because Americans are too stupid to tell a Sikh from a Muslim doesn't mean they weren't spurred into that hate crime by their rampant hatred of Muslims and the sight of a turban and long beard.

[skimmeh]

HELLO! Welcome to my stinky page

Call me Skimmeh or just Finn or literally make up a name for me I don't care haha

Pronouns: he/him (but I don't mind if you use they/them or neopronouns, I think I like star! So maybe that too if yah want)

(skin on pfp credit)

Currently interest is Minecraft and mcyt. Specifically the hermitcraft and life series side of mcyt!! And the most normal about desertduo, yup.

ALSO RUNNING A FAN SERIES CALLED STAREATER WITH MY FRIEND!! CHECK IT OUT!!

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Boundary stuff:

I'm firmly ace, so this is a nsfw safe zone :), I might draw some shippy art on the rare occasion, but it's all platonic. And also not RPF. (We do not ship real ppl here)

This is me also asking please not to bring nsfw stuff in my ask box or in tags please, it makes me super uncomfortable :)

Also don't send me art requests unless I stated I want some

And when it comes to using my art, I don't mind if you want to use it as pfp, wallpaper, just please credit me as the artist if it's ever shown online or in public

If there's any particular thing you'd like to use my art for, just ask me first!

As long as you are not selling my art, straight up reposting uncredited or training AI I'm pretty chill about it.

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Places you can find me:

Twitter (unfortunately)

Tiktok

Ko-fi

ao3

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My inbox is always open!!! So if you have any questions or just wanna say anything, go for it.

ALSO COMMONLY ASKED QUESTIONS INCLUDING BRUSHES AND ART PROGRAMS I ANSWER HERE!! save your ask haha

Also if you have any stareater fanart please tag me or show me I will cry/pos

[totally-not-fandom]

It's trans visibility day, so, like, perceive me ig...

But on a real note, shout out to all my trans pals out there who use neopronouns, have an identity not widely accepted in the trans community, and those who have a hard time passing. Shout out to the trans people who aren't out to everyone or aren't out at all, to those who don't correct people when they use the wrong name or pronouns (this could be for ANY REASON), those who aren't in a safe place where you can be yourself. Shout out to the trans folks who don't want to medically transition or go on hormones AND to those who have/plan on medically transitioning and taking hormones. Shout out to my trans buddies who have an unsupported family and shout out to those who have a supportive family. A special shout out from the bottom of my heart to those trans people out there who have had to sever ties and end relationships because of their transness.

Every thought I have, every breathe I take, every prayer I pray goes out to the trans people of Palestine and Congo and Sudan and Haiti.

Rest in peace to all the beautiful trans people we've lost simply because they were trans, to those who never got justice, to those who died at their own hand, to those who died because of the brutality of others.

I love each and every trans person out there and I hope you all one day feel it

[arowrath]

here’s to closeted people. here’s to the closeted transmascs hiding their binders in between folded band tees. here’s to trans people spending three hours on baby name websites. here’s to young gay kids in sunday school being told marriage is between a man and a woman. here’s to young trans boys trying to carry three chairs with the rest of the boys when the teacher says to put them away. here’s to young aromantics and asexuals hearing that love and sex are what make you human. here’s to bisexuals who grew up hearing jokes about people like them but never once heard the word bisexual. here’s to people who use obscure labels to explain their gender. here’s to the neopronoun users. here’s to the she/theys who only get called she and the he/theys who only get called he. here’s to nonbinary people. here’s to people who knew when they were young. here’s to people who figured it out later in life. here’s to the people who know they’re queer but can’t find a good label & here’s to the people who don’t want a label. here’s to people who still don’t know. here’s to the closeted people seeing the pride sections in stores and feeling safe until they see their mother’s scowl. here’s to the closeted trans people going by five different names and trying to balance it all. here’s to queer kids with pride flags hidden in their closet. here’s to queer adults who thought they’d be out by now but aren’t. here’s to the people who came out too soon. here’s to the people who never will come out. here’s to disabled queer people, neurodivergent queer people, queer systems, and mentally ill queer people. here’s to queer bipoc. here’s to middle schoolers looking for the rainbow safe space stickers on their teacher’s doors. here’s to transsexuals and homosexuals and queers and fags and dykes. here’s to each stripe on the original pride flag (sex & life & healing & the sun & nature & art and magic & serenity & spirit). here’s to the homemade pride pins hiding in the bottom of a high school freshman’s backpack. here’s to the loud queer people. here’s to people who radiate queerness. here’s to people who make cishets uncomfortable. here’s to the elder queers. here’s to people in places where being queer is against the law. here’s to every single queer person. you’re loved & accepted & even if you’re not part of it yet somewhere there’s a community of people who will support u. happy pride <3

[stnaf-vn]

Friendly reminder that

I AM TRANS. THIS GAME IS MADE BY TRANS PEOPLE SO IF YOURE A BIGOT THIS IS NOT THE PLACE FOR YOU

I don’t know how some phobic people can come across my game and think it’s okay to be transphobic when FRIEND HIMSELF DOESN’T BELIEVE IN GENDER ROLES, CARTER IS TRANS, SCRIM USES NEOPRONOUNS AND Z USES ALL PRONOUNS

GET OUTTA HERE

This community is and always will be a safe space for LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, and other marginalized communities.

[solstice-eclipze]

♡ ~ Maxwellspinnic / Maxwellspingender

⤷ "Maxwellspinnic is a neurogender, xenogender identity related towards stimming, maxwell the cat, cats, positive stimulation, one's hyperfixation over maxwell the cat, stimming from maxwell, spinning, music, etc. This gender could feel cat-like, positive, musical, stimulated, euphoric, etc."

Coined (made) by me. Add credits if reposted.

All hate will be deleted. Antis DNI.

[xxlovelynovaxx]

Well, since tumblr randomly ate my pinned... -_-

About us:

We're the Stars system, a massively polymultiple and polyfragmented mixed origin DID system. We consider ourselves an infinite system.

Our pronouns are fae/it unless specified otherwise. When referring to multiple of us, you are welcome to use fae&/it& or you& for clarity. If you are up for it, we would also appreciate second person neopronouns being tried out (substituting neos for 'you'), and sometimes we use first person neopronouns (substituting neos for 'I/we')

Some of our labels include (we use general/umbrella labels in places to indicate that we use many of those kind of labels):

(disability)

POTS

MCAS

likely ME/CFS

chronic pain (likely fibromyalgia)

other unspecified chronic illness symptoms

physically disabled with mobility disabilities

anxiety

PTSD and C-PTSD

DID w/strong dp/dr symptoms

schizophrenia/psychotic

cluster B spectrum disorder, comprehensive subtype (we meet the diagnostic criteria for all four cluster B disorders and our symptoms are heavily interrelated)

OCD

autism

ADHD

MADD

OLD (a medically unrecognized disorder)

neurodivergent and neurodisabled

cognitive disabilities

cripple

mad

often housebound, sometimes bedbound (less so now that we have a wheelchair)

low to mid masking

low to mid functioning

mid to high support needs

(system)

traumaendo mixed origin

infinite system

aside from traumagen and endo, spirigenic, schizogenic, bordergenic, paragenic, tulpagenic, and more

(queer)

Abro (and use lesbian, gay, queerhet, bi, pan, omni, and mspec and straight lesbian/gay labels)

transneufemmasc, transfluid

intersex

altersex/salmacian

pangenderfluid, kingender, xenogender, agender, maverique, intergender, multigender, androgyne, and others

faegender

butch and femboy

queer

demigrey aroace and grey apl among others

lesboy/turigirl

radinclus

(other)

alterhuman

otherkin (especially fae/changeling, but pankin across the whole system)

otherhearted

copinglink and linktypes

hearthome

choicekin

constelic

demihuman and nonhuman both

endel

humankin

flickers

hivemind

multiversal

reality shifters

nonperson

We are pro-endo and pro-tulpa, anti-psych and anti-phys, pro-mad-liberation and cripplepunk inclusionists and coined unitypunk. We are kff safe and do not believe ANY identity that someone genuinely identifies as, that is not specifically based on intentional harm to others, can be inherently or ontologically harmful. We are proship/profic and ourselves are survivors of a specific kind of SA that cannot be directly spoken about here. We are also anti-forced-recovery and don't believe in consensus reality.

We also do not believe it is okay to make fun of reality shifters just because it's the current acceptable target, and find it especially hypocritical coming from otherkin. Even if it was always harmful, the appropriate response would be genuine, non-patronizing concern, offering resources, and then backing the fuck off if people can't or won't "recover". That being said, most "anti" sentiment in this context is heavily sanist and centered around the idea of a "correct" consensus reality. Not trusting people to be right about their own subjective experiences is both sanist and just generally an asshole move.

We believe transandrophobia exists, that everyone can be affected by transmisogyny and that TMA/TME labels are reductive and often bioessentialist and intersexist in usage, and that exorsexism and the above are all serious issues both within the trans community and in society as a whole. We support transunity. We also are pro-complicated and conflicting labels, such as mspec lesbian/gay, straight lesbian/gay, transmasc lesbians, and lesgay/lesboy/turigirl labels.

We are transhumanist and support bodily autonomy and good faith identity with NO. EXCLUSIONS. If you think this doesn't apply to you, I promise it still probably actually does. We do our best to judge people on their actions, not their thoughts, feelings, or anything else that occurs internally. We also don't believe any body modifications or exercise of personal bodily autonomy is wrong.

We also believe it's not wrong to be unhealthy, to refuse or be unable to recover, and that healthism is ableism. Disabled people (including neurodivergent people) are the most reliable authority on their own experiences. Also, if someone says they were called a slur, you should believe them, and they have a right to reclaim it regardless of if you think they have the "right" identity (outside of perhaps racial/ethnic slurs, which I feel is not our place to comment on). Slur, label, and flag discourse is all bullshit cop behavior and y'all need to stop it.

There's probably more that we'll come back and add later, but for now, here's a new pinned.

[litlpawz]

can i request a skye themed moodboard and a pink skye themed dni banner that says “DNI BREAKERS GET BLOCKED AND REPORTED

DNI: pedos / maps, mik, age players, ab / dl, kink of any kind, alm, lgbtqia+phobic, anti-mogai, anti-xenogenders, anti-neopronouns, bdsm, and people who think age regression is nsfw, kink, sexual, is the same as age play, or any of the above, accounts not safe for children, anti-otherkin / therians, people who kin for fun, syscourse / anti-endo, and anti-self-dx”

thank you! - @pups-gotta-fly

Sorry the banner is so squished it is a lot of info to fit in one place /nm

[hopepunk-humanity]

I go to an art class/camp thingie and recently we've been doing Saturday classes and it's just sktstjamhdngatjshmd. Been going since I was 8 and it's such a safe place for me. Today one of the teachers and I were talking about gender and neopronouns while helping someone paint a giant canvas. Artists in Weirdocamp (unofficial name lmao that's not what it says on paper but that's what we all call it) I love you so much 💞💞💞 will forever hold a special place in my heart

Spaces like that are so special. They're different for everybody, but when you find yours it's so life-changing. Long live Weirdocamp and all places like it.

[eclipseoftheapocalypse]

Introduction

This is a roleplay blog for Eclipse in @sir-qwillian-ferne 's apocalypse AU.

Rules

This blog welcomes self insert, OC, crossover, multi fandom, and other au interactions.

If you don't support LGBTQIA+, leave. Just go. Xeno and neopronouns are here. Apocalypse Eclipse is pan and non-binary. If you can't respect that, leave.

Romantic interactions are allowed, but please SPECIFY romantic intent! Unless previously stated I assume all interactions are purely platonic.

Sexual content is prohibited. Jokes are okay but nothing more than that.

This blog contains heavy themes so please read at your own risk (content warnings will be provided).

Send as many interactions as you'd like in however short of a time frame you want, just please don't repeat the SAME one more then thrice

That's all! Have fun!

Eclipse Character Info

Eclipse is an adult robot of unspecified age. They live inside the ruins of what was once a human settlement with xir pet snake. Ze cannot leave the boundaries of the ruins, and is quite frankly incredibly lonely. Com is typically bundled up with a large cloak, covering most of their body up to halfway up deir face. It has split hair - the left half is yellow and curly, the right dark blue and straight, both fairly long.

Pronouns

Eclipse is comfortable with many different pronouns. Do not feel like you need to use them all - it's a lot - but please try to stick with these options

Likely more familiar pronouns: they/them/their/theirs/theirself, it/it/its/its/itself

Neopronouns: Xe/xem/xir/xir/xirself, ze/hir/hir/hirs/hirself, dey/dem/deir/deirs/deirself

Xenopronouns: Com/comet/comets/comets/cometself, co/con/cons/const/constellself, fla/flare/flares/flares/flareself, star/stars/starself

World info

The world this is set in takes place after nuclear war, with human settlements few and far between. Worse, there are monstrous robots infected with a virus that causes them to hunt down and kill anything that moves.

Older robot models appear to not be favored by the virus.

Content warnings

This blog may contain discussions of the following:

Sharp objects

Guns

Gore

Robot body horror

Death

Murder

Child death/murder

Self-hatred

Self-harm

Suicidal ideation

Please stay safe.