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solstice-eclipze · 1 year
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♡ ~ Animationmemenostalgic / Animatememenostalgic
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⤷ "Animationmemenostalgic is a xenogender identity that's related to animation memes, tweening, animating, meme music/songs, the animation era, 2018/2019 nostalgia, or generally nostalgia overall. This gender could feel musical, bouncy, animated, nostalgic, euphoric, etc."
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the-academy · 1 year
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Not system related post!
Btw to everybody! Happy Autism Awareness Month! As an autistic system it felt only right to post something, that’s all. -🪬
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my-autism-adhd-blog · 6 months
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Autism & Being Childish?
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Autism and Being 'Childish'?
Many traits and things that are common among autistic people are often seen as 'childish' in the neurotypical world.
In reality, these things are incredibly important for the wellbeing of autistic adults and children and helpful in preventing meltdowns/shutdowns/burnout.
They are not something that should be stopped and not at all something that prevents anyone to be trustworthy/ responsible/ amazing at their job, etc.
Also, there is nothing to be ashamed of, because these things being helpful for many are totally awesome.
Some examples
1. having comfort items and being attached to them strongly.
These can be really helpful in overwhelming situations at home, and in public.
2. having 'chidish' special interests.
Special interests, whatever they are, are so much fun and super important for many autistic people.
3. unique fashion rules that might contain 'childish' elements.
For me, it's absolutely true, because in the neurotypical world, colorful things, and cute cartoon figures are often seen as childish, but for me, these are essential when going outside.
4. having a sensory space and playing with toys regularly, like having soft plushies, playing with fidget toys, lining up objects, being mesmerized by pretty lights, etc. Again, these have an important role in autistic self care
5. the autistic joy
The autistic enthusiasm and marveling at the wonders and beauty of the world, and also the way one might express the autistic joy, like jumping around, flapping hands, clapping, etc, these are also mainly associated with children in the neuritypical world, but I take it as a compliment, because for me, these are the probably the best things in being autistic.
Lil Penguin Studios/Autism Happy Place
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moonstonesundrop · 1 year
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i cant get over the wenclair hug. wednesday, who we know hates physical touch, not only lets enid hug her, but after pushing her back to ensure sure shes okay, pulls enid back in and buries her face in her shoulder and splays her hand across her back like she's trying to feel as much of enid as possible. literally squeezes her eyes shut like she's breathing enid in. im going insane. wenclair s2 NOW
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aurumacadicus · 8 months
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Just had like... the dumbest idea for an original work.
Supernatural universe with a super competent feline race that are excellent at blending in with humans. They're good at everything. Including minding their own business. But that also makes them very good at judging whether other supernatural creatures are putting their world at risk with humans or not. Some are even tasked with being Official Judges for others to bring their grievances before, and others still tasked with carrying out punishments. It is made especially clear that these two classes of the feline race are a very last resort. They live aloof from both sides, only opening up to their own species, and it's considered one of the highest honors when they decide a non-feline is part of their inner circle.
"I don't mean this to be insulting or anything," Human MC asks.
"I will not be offended," Feline Character replies.
".......Are you all autistic," Human MC asks.
Feline Character does an 👌🏼 at them. "We've been masking in mixed company for literally millennia."
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petplant · 5 months
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With this new awareness about autism and it being more diagnosed sometimes I think, what if it is not really what is making my existence so difficult?
Cause, how can those internet autism advocates keep up with the pace that a non-autistic society demands while I stay further and further behind if we supposedly have the same difficulties?
Once again I feel like there really is something inherently wrong with me.
And I feel so hopeless because I look like them so people expect my support needs to be the same but they aren't.
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mossy-rot · 3 months
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reading about autistic meltdowns is crazy. in retrospect maybe that time i ended up sobbing self isolating and lashing out at people because I couldn't figure out how to set up my laptop the same way it had been before might've been because of The Autism
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willowfey · 9 months
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starting to think maybe waking up with an anxiety stomachache every single morning and then needing to spend the entire day trying to get rid of said anxiety just to maybe have a few minutes in the evening of feeling relaxed before going to bed is perhaps not normal
#the first thing i do when i become conscious is check my phone to make sure nothing terrible happened to anyone i love while i slept#i never ever ever have plans and if anyone Else has plans i feel sick with anxiety until they’re back from them#if i have smth planned that week i feel completely tense and on edge until it happens#i didn’t used to be like this i hate hate hate it#i used to feel safe in my little house in the forest where i knew everyone in town and knew my way around with my eyes shut#it’s still the only place in the world i feel safe. that’s so unfair#my separation anxiety is ridiculous. if my mom goes to the store and doesn’t answer a text right away i start panicking#if my sister goes to a class or smth idk what to do with myself until she gets back#if i’m in the shower or have the fan on or headphones in suddenly i’ll think i hear someone shouting and i’ll have to quickly turn it off#ever since i moved here it’s been getting worse. i don’t feel safe here to begin with i feel so out of place it’s unreal#but then covid and trauma with my mother’s health and my uncle dying and multiple relatives getting sick and things happening to my friends#i know i have ptsd from very specific things that happened and i live on a hospital path so every day i hear sirens#and every time i do it fully triggers an anxiety attack in me for at least an hour. and my mom too#since being here my hometown burned and friends i thought would never grow apart did and my brother moved out#i know a lot of that is just Being In Your Low Twenties but also some of my worst trauma has happened in the last handful of years and now#now i’m just always scared. always uneasy. always worried. never fully relaxed. never feel fully safe. & idk how to be myself through that#i’m always paranoid and i never trust people irl anymore. ppl my mom or sister meet. i am so suspicious of them constantly.#if anything small changes at all i can’t handle it. my ability to deal with change has gone so downhill#in the last 5 years of being here i realised i was autistic which led to me unmasking a bit and that. comes with pros & cons doesn’t it#my own health has declined. my body changed a lot in ways i wasn’t prepared for and i had to get rid of most of my comfort clothes#sometimes i just wanna sit on the ground and cry about it and not have to also be the one that picks myself back up. y’know???#but at the very least i’d love to just wake up One Day w/o feeling sick with anxiety already. just one day i want to wake up feeling rested#i want to be myself again but can i start with not being scared? not being tired? i don’t know what to do anymore#i just watch my comfort videos and read my comfort fics and stay in my daydream world
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solstice-eclipze · 1 year
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♡ ~ Maxwellspinnic / Maxwellspingender
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⤷ "Maxwellspinnic is a neurogender, xenogender identity related towards stimming, maxwell the cat, cats, positive stimulation, one's hyperfixation over maxwell the cat, stimming from maxwell, spinning, music, etc. This gender could feel cat-like, positive, musical, stimulated, euphoric, etc."
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All hate will be deleted. Antis DNI.
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softlittleangel · 3 months
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kyouka-supremacy · 11 months
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Uhm..................
#I got an ask‚ and to answer I was bracing myself to make a big bsd content masterpost#And I did! I was already on my way to share all the manga reading platform I use for every manga‚ I had already listed them up#And I was going to add the additional content like anime streaming resources and art scans resources...#But now I'm having some serious reconsiderations#Like I was happy to make a masterpost! Making masterposts is fun-#and fuels the autistic need to put every little thing in little categories#But now I don't know if it's... Safe to have them all in one place?? I was very glad to share with people the resources I personally use-#but I really don't want to make something that is just. A big list of sites to report / shut down. The thought scares me immensely#And I thought it was safe to share manga reading platforms on Tumblr but what about‚ to name one‚ n/yaa? Would it be safe to link to that?#And it's something I'd highly want to include because some stuff that's there you won't find anywhere else‚#such as the Dead Apple official English translation‚ the official Beast English scans...#Same would go‚ to make another example‚ for m/initokyo‚ or anime streaming platform.#Is it safe to share those... Uhm... More hidden websites through Tumblr? And if not‚ do I have any alternative for sharing?#I'm quite sad because I was already half way through making the list-#but now I'm not sure it's worth to continue if I never end up sharing it.#But then again the safety of people who share content has the maximum priority to me– I wouldn't be able to do ANYTHING without them#Mmmmmmmmmmmhhhh...#I even contemplated sharing the masterlist through text file‚ but I'm not sure if that might work out.#For one‚ I will never EVER use g/oogle docs or any g/oogle service for the matter. I'd rather die#So... I'd really appreciate it if anyone could advice me on this / had any suggestion / thought#random rambles#Sorry for the long ramble. I'm stuck
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my-autism-adhd-blog · 4 months
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How to Create? Sensory Study Space
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Lil Penguin Studios/Autism Happy Place
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bubacorn · 3 months
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throwback to the time i did a presentation on 'neurodiversity in the workplace' and my teacher assumed it was my topic of research 💀 after my presentation, they said i seem to be 'very knowledgeable about the topic', and that it's clear i've 'read a lot of literature' about it, and i was just sitting there, knowing i just trembled and stumbled through the whole presentation, giving them first-hand examples of several things that had been mentioned. and i had to gently nod and smile about my apparent research topic that i spend a lot of time researching. i did not read any piece of literature about it, everything i said was from what i've learned online and from experience, but it wasn't exactly the safest position to admit that. like. if you didn't clock me as nd after that whole ordeal, then that's on you
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the-evil-pizza · 6 months
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more proof for my "Neuvilette is autistic, actually" folder
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mariatesstruther · 5 months
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i was today years old when i found out some of y’all dont like ellie’s studio-shed situation. confused
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