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[toolexyforyou]

How I’m becoming the BEST VERSION of me

I used to talk about my goals. Now I execute my goals. So this is how I’m becoming the best version of me.

🎀 Actions > Words: I don’t say it, I do it because words are meaningless without the actions to back them.

🎀 Company: I cultivate all my relationships (familial, platonic, & romantic) like a garden to surround myself with people who are good for me.

🎀 Discipline > Motivation: I don’t wait to “feel ready” instead I lock in because growth doesn’t come from comfort.

🎀 Dream Chaser: I set SMART (specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, time-bound) goals to get where I want to be.

🎀 Me Core: I stopped chasing trendy aesthetics (e.g. barbiecore, grunge, Y2K) & started chasing me core to keep it real.

XOXO,

Lexy. 👄

[toolexyforyou]

The 5 LAWS I swear by

I used to be a total anarchist. Now I live by laws that protect my peace. So these are 5 laws I swear by.

🎀 Law of Acceptance: I accept shit as it is without trying to control everything.

🎀 Law of Alignment: My actions should match both my values & my goals.

🎀 Law of Attraction: I attract what I focus on — both positive or negative.

🎀 Law of Cause & Effect: My actions have a reaction so what I do creates what I get.

🎀 Law of Clarity: The clearer I am about what I want, the easier it is for me achieve it.

XOXO,

Lexy. 👄

[toolexyforyou]

How I LEVELED UP to the soft life

I used to be a “crying at the trap house” girlie. Now I live the softest of soft life. So this is how I leveled up from the hard life to the soft life.

🎀 Date Night: I go on dates (with family, friends, or fine shyt) to make memories.

🎀 Girl Dinner: I cook homemade meals to fuel my body the right way.

🎀 Nails Did: I get gel manicures to give myself that princess treatment because if I don’t, who will?

🎀 Signature Scent: I wear a fragrance that feels like me to smell as good as I feel.

🎀 The Soundtrack: I create different Spotify playlists to match my different moods

XOXO,

Lexy. 👄

[toolexyforyou]

The 5 DAILY HABITS that changed my life

I never realized the power of habits before. Now I know that my present is the foundation of my future. So these are 5 daily habits I use to change my life.

🎀 Experiences > Things: I started spending my cash on good times instead of good finds — things are for now but memories are forever.

🎀 Quality > Quantity: I used to chase "more" but I realized quality trumps quantity each damn time (e.g. 15 deep relationships > 30 surface-level relationships).

🎀 Stop Fucking Scrolling: I limit my doomscrolling to stop comparing my life to anyone’s filtered (literally & metaphorically) life.

🎀 The 8-8-8 Rule: I follow the 8-8-8 rule (8 hours of leisure, 8 hours of work, & 8 hours of sleep) to maintain a healthy work-life balance.

🎀 The 10-10-10 Rule: I used to stress out A LOT but now I follow the 10-10-10 rule (will this matter in 10 minutes, 10 months, or 10 years) as a major reality check.

XOXO,

Lexy. 👄

[toolexyforyou]

How I’m CONFIDENT (without faking it)

I used to be SO fucking insecure. Now I’m more confident than ever before. So this is how I’m confident without faking it.

🎀 Dress Like the Main Character: I dress like “THAT GIRL” everyday to look as good as I feel.

🎀 New Workout Plan: I hit the gym to take care of my body — look good, feel good.

🎀 Self(ie) Love: I take (unfiltered) selfies often to feel good in my own skin.

🎀 Skincare > Makeup: I use skincare products instead of facial makeup products to take care of my skin long-term.

🎀 Too Much? Good: I stopped toning myself down to be more “palatable”.

XOXO,

Lexy. 👄