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Since I’ve been seeing some more Aphobic Bullshit on my dash again:

It’s perfectly fine to identify as asexual and/or aromantic for a while but eventually realize you are a different sexual/romantic orientation! Trying out different identities and terms is a perfectly normal part of questioning and no matter if you stick with ace/aro or not you’re perfectly valid to be exploring your identity!

Same goes with identifying with a different orientation for a while but eventually realizing that you are ace and/or aro! I’m proud of you for finding out what your identity is and you are valid and welcomed to the community!

(All aspec terms and identities are included in this of course! Also if you’re an exclusionist please don’t interact)

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Here is my project for pride this year! I was going to do the rainbow pride flag as well but it just wasn’t feasible to fit that many stripes on one nail.

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my town has one of these !! it’s amazing and has awesome food and helped with our pride !!

Reasons LGBT cafes should exist

Non-sexualized spaces

Inclusive so u don’t have to out urself

No alcohol so younger ppl have full access

I fukkin love chai lattes

No pressure to find hook-ups, lookin at you my aro/ace pals

No need to socialize u can literally sit at a table and be gay all by ur self

Please make these a thing

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it’s ok to be aspec and;

love rom coms

love the idea of romance

be a romantic person

love cliche love stories

like kisses

not be bothered by sex scenes in movies

love romantic music

love valentine’s day

date

hate rom coms

hate the idea of romance

dislike romance and cliches

be uncomfortable around couples and the concept of romance or sex

not date

literally every aspec person is different! and every experience should be respected!

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ok so hear me out, “gaydar” but for bisexuality

BI-FI

“are you getting any Bi-Fi in here” “i only have like two bars of bi-fi” “why is there no bi-fi in here” “the bi-fi signal is great in here”

and my favorite: “what’s the bi-fi password?”

and for pansexuals? PAN-SCAN

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agender pals are lit

reblog if u agree

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agender people?

arospec people?

acespec people?

VALID !!

DOUBLE VALID !!

TRIPLE VALID !!

INFINATELY VALID !!

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it’s ok to be aspec and;

love rom coms

love the idea of romance

be a romantic person

love cliche love stories

like kisses

not be bothered by sex scenes in movies

love romantic music

love valentine’s day

date

hate rom coms

hate the idea of romance

dislike romance and cliches

be uncomfortable around couples and the concept of romance or sex

not date

literally every aspec person is different! and every experience should be respected!

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if you identified as aspec and then realized you’re not, that’s ok! you were valid then and you’re valid now!

if you identified as not-aspec and then realized you’re aspec, that’s ok! you were valid then and you’re valid now!

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I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

To prove something to a friend, please

REBLOG IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

LIKE IF YOU THINK ASEXUALS DON’T BELONG IN LGBTQ+ SPACES

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since it’s lesbian day of visibility;;;

shoutout to my lesbian aces !!!

shoutout to my aro lesbians !!!

shoutout to my grey / demi lesbians !!

shoutout to any aspec lesbians !!! y’all are valid as fuck and deserve love !!

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hey,,,, um,,, guys,,, it’s not hard to like,,, respect eachothers identities,,, so like do that now,,, thx in advance

and idgaf if you think it’s ‘weird’ or ‘wrong’ or ‘not a thing’ if they identify a certain way and respect those around them, then they’re valid mkayyyyyyy

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agender people are valid! respect their identities!

acespec people are valid! respect their identities!

arospec people are valid! respect their identities!

💚🖤💜

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ace people, aro people, agender people, aspec people, and basically anyone who falls under the ‘a’ in ‘lgbtqia’;;;;;

hey, you’re valid.

you’re amazing.

you’re not broken.

you don’t, and never will, need fixing.

other people can’t tell you how you feel, you are you, and you know best.

you are perfect the way you are and even if you change, you’re still amazing and valid and i love every atom in your body so fuckin much ok

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if you’re having a bad day, here’s a reminder that it’ll get better.

here’s a reminder that you’re valid, from the most known to the least known identities, you’re valid.

if someone’s being an asshat, well fuck them. not literally ofc, but fuck them.

if just everything is fucked up, hey bro, here’s a sign it’ll get better.

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ooo yes omg i’ll change that rn lmao, thanks for letting me know :))

shoutout to my pan aspecs !!

panromantic asexuals and aromantic pansexuals are valid and amazing in every way !!

so are normal pans and aspecs separately, but together WOAH SO AWESOME !!

💖💖💖💛💛💛💙💙💙

💚💚💚🖤🖤🖤💜💜💜

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hi i havnt posted in a while but quick update aspec people are still rad ok bye