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Before outsourcing do this

Being mentally brilliant and praised for being so strong often comes with a trap! Acknowledging the deep feeling that you’re drowning in subtle emotional chaos is the opposite of who you think you *should* be. This performance of safety, a natural consequence of over calibrating to others, is preventing you from anchoring it. Which is why you often find that traditional therapy doesn’t scratch…

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The Voice Beneath the Noise is Your Genius, Not a Diagnosis.

Psychiatry finds itself pathologizing mental dis-ease when they separate matter from spirit. This is why they call it a disorder, while I call it an initiation.No resolution comes from severing ourselves from the real truth.Symptoms are signals.Breakdowns are restructurings.The voices are not crazy madness, they are your genius seeking a vessel, waiting to manifest through.I am a living example…

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Invest into Your Own Sacred Tech Instead

You’re so over fragmented spiritual looping!You’re not here to manage your psyche. You’re here to lead with it.The overwhelm isn’t wrong. It’s raw power misdirected through borrowed frameworks.Your mind, just as, is sacred tech.Your soul is your strategist.Your body? It is ready to hold the frequency of your multidimensional remembrance.This is the holding where: $ confusion becomes clarity, $…

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Your emotions are the trampoline into your liberation

You’ve been at the top of your game in a world that needs you to disconnect from the truth in your body. To survive, you taught yourself how to win while abandoning yourself. You did it with a smile so good it fooled everyone, including yourself. Your soul is tired of this performance, and you know it’s time for change!Activating your Sovereign Mind in the Temple of Deprogramming & Inner…

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sacrificing your sense of self to fit in is self betrayal

heal your poisoned heart to protect your inner child, sanity and dignity Most of the experiences you attracted into your life were a result of being convinced by the poisoned hearts of those who seemingly have what you desire. Yet, you still are unsure of yourself and judge where you have been and are because it doesn’t fit the description of what your life should be and look like according to…

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Noone loves me, and I have no friends

When you are frustrated with the way your family, friends and maybe even lovers are showing up to you, all you’re saying is that you are upset they are not showing up the way you want them to make you feel better about yourself right now. Being upset with how others choose to show up, is natural and valid as long as we still understand that we can’t genuinely control others. Our ego loves to…

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what's the blessing hiding in your hell of a mess?

Acting like you love yourself is not the same as actually loving yourself.  Thanks to social media, we get ideas of what embodying love looks like.  The self importance that comes only from the pretty wigs, the luxury cars, wealthy men chasing us so we finally feel worthy, the white fence to finally feel like we’ve made it, the picture perfect pic with 1001 likes and ego boosting comments that…

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evolve from depression into your dream self by moving through this

Accepting the inevitable resistance from your loved ones, helps you keep your focus on the bigger picture when your inner child is evolving from your parents’ relationship with life it feels like you’re taking your first steps again. It is messy, you fall down and cry. It is part of the process of unlearning the old, disempowering mental habits and learning better mental habits. When you trust…

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there are consequences to not allowing yourself to receive help.

shifting from hyper-independence to interdependence instead will drastically improve your quality of life. When you’d rather suffer in silence than advocate for your needs and desires, it creates resentment within you towards those who seek out help and because of their willingness to be vulnerable, create more ease for themselves. When you choose independence over interdependence, you create a…

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Loving yourself from your ego is not the same as loving yourself from your soul

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Stop being so desperate to get out of the void, do this instead 

Being desperate to go back to how things were as soon as possible is what is making the ascension back into the light longer than it needs to. Plastering positive thoughts over the inner demons that are the source of your dis-ease and dis-harmony isn’t going to make the turmoil end. Befriending the inner demons will. Needing to be elsewhere other than here now with yourself disempowers your…

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the heart is the door you descend into hell & ascend into heaven on earth from.

the following 4 elements show you how your current relationship with your heart and mind is affecting your quality and depth of life. fearing death is preventing you from growing deeper roots for a much more purposeful life Fear of death is normal, no one is immune to this. It is when you close off your heart and don’t embrace your own mortality that creates more anxiety and reason to escape…

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a mental alchemist's secrets to create a more zen life

Dance between your soul’s mind and your human’s mind to ensure your freedom and ease Your past negative circumstances magnetized the prized embodiment you now flaunt effortlessly. Your human mind doesn’t see this yet while your soul’s mind *knows* the perfection of your wholeness (that both your poor and rich thoughts/actions have a positive role for your dream self). Your human mind is all…

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Activate your mental power to free yourself from your past

No one comes into your inner world without your invitation. The external world comes alive when you engage with it moment to moment but, Your Inner World, you bring it with you everywhere you go. This is why you are still having mental conversations, arguments with the people from your past and dragging them into your dream life. They are not there with you in your external world but you have…

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disconnect your confidence from your bank balance

When you attach your confidence and value in the world based on your bank account balance you are disconnecting from your power. When you know what your intrinsic gifts are thanks to who you have become, your value sparks from within without even trying. Judging and shaming yourself for not living up to society’s standards is the root of your mental dis-ease, when you remove these pedestals…

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Let go of the illusion of power

Worrying about the cycle of life isn’t going to make it go away. Stressing about what has and is going wrong in your life isn’t going to make it any better. Recycling all the negative memories from your past isn’t helping you get where your soul is begging you to be. All these negative mental habits drain your energy because it is a misuse of your precious energy, which is a liability to your…

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Become your own embodiment of love

All you have experienced are people taking advantage of your pure heart and time, now your heart has darkened because no one seems to care enough to consider your needs and desires. You have learnt to bully yourself through your inner talk in order to fit into society and to produce results where your cycles of being-ness are not safe and honored. The momentum of negative inner talk is so…