inthepersimmon

[inthepersimmon]

Hello, I wanted to share my little experience.

Actually, I am still kind of trying to figure out myself. I always knew that I am disgusted by sex. I have never been interested in sex during classes/sex ed. I felt very embarrassed when people were talking about sex, nudity, like I didn't want to take part of the conversation. (I am from a conservative family, maybe that's why)

I had "crushes", but I recently realised that my "crushes" were not like the others. I was seeking for romance, the idea of holding hands and kissing cheeks. Not for having sex. I have never been sexually attracted to someone. I have never been turned on by someone. I have asked my male friends if they have already been turned on by someone, even if they don't know them.

One of them replied that "this is just a feeling I can'texplain, like an impulse." The other one said that "this is what people can feel. I have been sexually attracted by someone I dislike."

That's made me think, I have never thought like that. I have never looked at someone and thought "wow, i want them in my bed."

Whn I have met my boyfriend, we were just friends in the same classes, partners for projects. We kinda start dating after months of seeing each other. He was interested in me, I was just thinking that he was cute, maybe I could give it a try. I remember the feeling I had when we first hold hands. And more naturally, I thought "this guy looks so huggable".

We continue hanging out together. I had my first kiss, and it was very weird. At first, I didn't know if I like it or not, if I like someone's lips on mine. But I knew that I love him.

We have been dating for almost three years now, and I kinda started to feel sexually attracted by him.

may be demisexual ? idk

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Do straight girls eventually look at other girls' ass ?

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Haven't seen you in a while! Just wanted to check in and see if you were doing okay. =)

Hi ! Thanks anon :) I am actually so busy with homeworks, that's why, but I sometimes check Tumblr.

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what do attract you in women (if you are attracted to them) ?

what do attract you in men (if you are attracted to them) ?

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what is a "butch" lesbian ?

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any experiences to share about how you find out you're asexual / aromantic ?

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can we change our sexuality into a complete opposite one ?

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how to explain bisexuality ?

[to my parents]

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Oh thank you for the explanation and i apologise for misunderstanding/misinterpreting the notion if gender, identity and pronouns

i've seen many people go by "it/its" so i was wonder what gender/identity is it? (i messed up the word, i am so sorry)

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i've seen many people go by "it/its" so i was wonder what gender/identity is it? (i messed up the word, i am so sorry)

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pls rb if you think cuddling doesn't have to be s3xual

im tryna prove a point to my bf's mother help me out

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demisexuality is being attracted to someone after forming a bond. What kind of bond ? I mean, is it like a friendship or when you've got emotionally connected to them ?

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why is heterosexuality the "norm" when maybe the first couple was a gay one/lesbian one or other ?

in History, many people were poly too, why is it taboo now ?

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i am curious about allosexuality

what is it clearly ?

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What is apothiace ?

(I have never heard of that, sorry)

"why are you sex repulsed ?"