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Title: *Echoes of Tomorrow*

Setting:

In the year 2145, Earth has been ravaged by climate change and overpopulation. Mega-cities stretch across continents, dominated by towering skyscrapers and sprawling tech hubs. Amidst this, the "Chrono-Banks" are secretive facilities that manage time-travel technology, controlling the flow of time to maintain societal order and prevent paradoxes.

Characters:

Dr. Elara Kane: A brilliant, yet reclusive physicist working at the Chrono-Bank, overseeing the stability of time-travel operations. She harbours a secret desire to undo a personal tragedy from her past.

Liam Nova: A charismatic and rebellious time-traveller who frequents illegal black-market jumps to alter small events for personal gain. He becomes an unwitting ally to Elara.

Eli Roth: The enigmatic and manipulative head of the Chrono-Bank who believes that controlling time is essential for humanity's survival. He has his own hidden agenda.

Overview:

When Elara discovers evidence of unauthorized time jumps that could destabilize the fabric of reality, she is forced to team up with Liam, who knows more about the black-market time-travel world than anyone.

Together, they uncover a conspiracy within the Chrono-Bank itself, orchestrated by Eli Roth, who plans to rewrite history to consolidate his own power.

As they delve deeper, they must navigate a web of deceit, facing moral dilemmas about the ethics of time manipulation and the cost of their own choices.

Theme:

The story explores the nature of time and the ethical implications of altering it.

It examines themes of redemption, the consequences of unchecked power, and the personal sacrifices made in the pursuit of a greater good.

The narrative asks whether changing the past to correct perceived wrongs is worth the potential damage to the present and future.

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Master Prompt List

Romantic Prompts

Romance Prompt Lists (Masterpost)

Bad romances/unrequited/break-up (Masterpost)

Flirting + Teasing Prompts (Masterpost)

Two smart and also stupid people in love

Romance Dialogue - Bubbly + Reserved

Push and pull romantic prompts

Jealousy Prompts

Things said during sex Prompts

Awkward Post-Sex Dialogue

Smut Prompts (Masterpost)

One-Liners Dialogue - Romantic, Smutty + Physical (Masterpost)

Love Language - Showing, not telling love

Love Language - Showing you care

Romance Dialogue Prompts – Uncomfortable with affection

Grumpy Affectionate Dialogue

Grumpy + Sunshine Dialogue

Inexperienced with romance Prompts

Love Confessions (Masterpost)

Lovers being caught Prompts

OTP Christmas Prompts

Meet Cutes/Meet Uglies

Relationship Milestones (Masterpost: moving in, getting married, honeymoon, having children)

Physical Reactions

Seeking out physical affection

Romantic, non-sexual intimacy prompts

Date Prompts (Masterpost)

One Night Stand Prompts

Forbidden Romance

Secret relationship dialogue

Love-hate relationship

Reluctant allies to friends to lovers dynamic

Lovers to enemies

Reasons for lovers turning to enemies

Exes to lovers Prompts (Masterpost)

Friends to lovers Prompts

Flirty friends to lovers Prompts

Friends with benefits Prompts

Friends with benefits to lovers Prompts

Enemies to friends with benefits Prompts

Enemies to friends Prompts

Best friends to lovers Prompts

Childhood friends to lovers Prompts

Childhood friends to enemies to lovers prompts

Dating the bad boy/girl

Matchmaking Prompts

Fake Dating Prompts (Masterpost)

OT3 Prompts (Masterpost)

Love Triangle Ideas

Second chance trope

OTP Prompt Challenge

Relationship Changes

Bed Sharing Scenarios

Only One Bed - Morning After Dialogue

Only One Bed - Dialogue Prompts

Kisses Masterpost (Prompts, First Kiss, Accidental Kiss, …)

Enemies to Lovers (Masterpost)

Ship Dynamics

WLW Plot Ideas

Fluffy Prompts

Fluffy Prompts (Masterpost)

Pregnancy Prompts

Hidden Pregnancy Dialogue

Sleepy Starters

Cute Interactions

Hand-holding

Touching

Hugs

Hugging Dialogue

Touch Starved Prompts

Touches Ask Games

Sharing Clothes

Things to do at a carnival

Cooking/Baking Dialogue Prompts

Quiet movie night Prompts

Having fun in the rain

Height Difference Prompts

Same Height Prompts

Caregiving Ideas

Doing nice things prompts

Love Languages

Asking for permission

Hurt/Comfort Prompts

Hurt/Comfort Prompts (Masterpost)

Injury Dialogue Prompts

Sickness Dialogue Prompts

Fighting & Making Up Prompts

Angsty Prompts

Angsty Dialogue (Masterpost)

Leaving Dialogue Prompts

Reunion Dialogue Reactions

Unwilling goodbye + love confession prompts

Trying to make them stay Dialogue Prompts

Sacrificing Dialogue

Amnesia Prompts

Amnesia Dialogue

Bad Luck Prompts

Lover being hurt Prompts

Drama Starting Points

Conflicts for Couples 1 + 2 + 3

Betrayal Dialogue Prompts

Hiding from horror dialogue

Finding out the truth dialogue

“I’m sorry…” Apology Starters

Saying I’m sorry…

Apologizing for emotional neglect

Talking it out ideas

Keeping loved ones apart

Family Prompts

(Found) Family Prompts (Masterpost)

Friends/Fun Prompts

Friends Prompt Challenge

Platonic activities for friends

Online Friends Prompts

Group of Friends Prompts (x)

Opening Sentences (Friend group in NYC)

Road Trip Ideas

Party Games Prompts

Drunk Friendgroup

Silly Drunk Dialoguge (x)

Amusement Park Activities

Surprise party gone wrong

Settings for conversations

Having fun in the rain

Bar Conversation Starters

Girls’ night out ideas

Outside of school activities

Walking to school prompts

Rekindling Friendship Dialogue

Reconnecting Friends Prompts

Slow dancing with a friend

AU Prompts

AU ideas

Royalty AU (Masterpost)

Victorian AU Prompts

Historic Prompts - 1800s Ball Prompts

Parallel Universe Romance Prompts (x)

Roommates AU (Masterpost)

Sport Romance Prompts

College/School AU (Masterpost)

Hogwarts Prompts

Workplace AU (Masterpost)

Neighbors AU (Masterpost)

Musician/Actor/Celebrity AU (Masterpost)

Gossip Girl/Rich AUs

Coffee Shop AU (Masterpost)

Bookstore AUs

Flower Shop AUs

Bodyguard AUs

Bodyguard Dialogue Prompts

Firefighter/Police AUs

Lawyer AUs

Lawyer + Client Prompts

Patient and Doctor Prompts

Groundhog Day Prompts

Pirate Prompts

Spy Prompts

Soulmates AU (Masterpost)

Lifeguard AUs

Camping Prompts

Ice Skating Prompts

Supernatural/Mystery/Thriller/Crime Prompts

Ghost Prompts (Masterpost)

Mermaid Prompts

Angels & Demons Prompts (Masterpost)

Summoning a God Prompts

Life & Death Prompts + Dialogue

Showing aliens the human world

Murder Mystery/Thriller Prompts (Masterpost)

Survival Game Prompts

Partners in Crime – Meeting again

FBI mentor and mentee prompts

Assassins Banter Dialogue

Assassin x Target Prompts

Heist Prompts

Hero x Villain (Masterpost)

Falling for the kidnapper prompts

Causes for the apocalypse

Post-apocalyptic romance prompts

Fantasy/Sci-Fi Masterpost  (Werewolves, Vampires, Time Travel, etc.)

Holiday/Seasonal Prompts

Holiday/Seasonal/Monthly Prompts (Masterpost)

Birthday AUs

Birthday Prompts

Ranked Prompt Lists

Ranked Lists (Top 20 Lists, Best Prompts/Posts of the Year)

Various Prompt Lists

Random Prompt Lists (Drabbles, Dialogues, One Word Prompts,…)

Favourite Tropes

5 + 1 Fic Prompts

‘Write about’ Prompts

‘Imagine your OTP’ Prompts

All The Fic Titles

All The Prompts List

List of Names

Writing Games

Ask Games

Daily Writing Challenge

30 Days Writing Challenge

AU & Trope Combos

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Title: Whispers of the Night

Setting:

A small, fog-covered town with an air of mystery, filled with ancient buildings, sprawling woods, and an abandoned mansion rumored to be haunted.

The time period could be modern, where the girls navigate high school life, but with an underlying gothic atmosphere — think shadows, candlelit gatherings, and secret hideouts.

Characters:

Elena - A curious and introspective girl drawn to darker aesthetics. She finds beauty in the macabre and secretly longs for adventure.

Raven - Elena's best friend, confident and a bit rebellious. She's fascinated by the supernatural and definitely believes in ghosts and vampires.

Isaac - The mysterious guy who drops off Elena. He has a secret past and an undeniable charm. There’s something otherworldly about him that draws Elena in.

The Enigmatic Girl - A newcomer to town who seems to know more about the supernatural than she lets on. She becomes a catalyst for the events to unfold.

Plot Outline:

Introduction:

Open with Elena and her friends discussing urban legends and the town’s haunted reputation, setting a spooky, enticing tone.

Introduce the gothic elements: dimly lit streets, shadowy figures, and the allure of the night.

The Arrival:

After a late-night excursion to an abandoned part of town, Elena is escorted home by Isaac, who she has noticed around school but never talked to.

Their chemistry is palpable — shy glances, lingering touches, and charged silence fill the air.

An Unexpected Connection:

The interaction at her doorstep is electric. They share a moment where time seems to stand still.

Isaac mentions something cryptic about the town and warns Elena to be careful of the shadows. His eyes hint at secrets he’s carrying.

The Allure of the Unknown:

Intrigued by Isaac, Elena becomes determined to learn more about him, leading her to visit the magical and mysterious locations around town, accompanied by Raven.

They encounter strange occurrences that hint at a deeper connection between Isaac and the gothic elements of the town — perhaps his lineage connects to old myths or vampire lore.

Conflict:

Tension rises as otherworldly incidents escalate around town, and the girls discover a group of vampires keeping a low profile in the area.

Elena wrestles with her attraction to Isaac, realizing he might be one of them. She must decide whether to embrace this world or distance herself.

Climax:

A confrontation occurs between the vampires and the girls, revealing the hidden dynamics of their world and the sacrifices they must make to protect what they love.

Elena's loyalty to Isaac is tested, requiring her to navigate friendship, love, and the chilling unknown.

Resolution:

The story concludes with a resolution that reflects Elena's growth. She might find a way to connect with Isaac while still maintaining her identity and friendships.

Leave open-ended possibilities for future interactions or hints at more adventures, perhaps setting the stage for a series.

Themes:

The allure and dangers of the unknown.

The balance between attraction and fear.

Friendship and loyalty in the face of supernatural challenges.

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What if...

Sometimes I wonder if things would've been different if I were tall and elegant or short and cute... but somewhere along the way I was given tall and awkward... below average in looks and just chubby. I guess you could say that's my insecurities coming out everyday...

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What is... Plot Bunny?

There are two different things that are called plot bunnies.

Plot bunnies can be story ideas that don't leave a writer's brain (gnawing at it like rabbits do) until they get written down.

It also refers to writers having multiple ideas at once that basically multiply like rabbits.

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Kitten Cuddles & Bunny Kisses

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Mother Day Ideas

Whether your mother is someone who likes the outdoors, or someone that enjoys doing things inside. You can't go wrong with anything bought or homemade...

Bookish

(reader/writer/linguist)

<Homemade>

Write her a Story

Homemade Bookmarks

Homemade Puzzles/Crosswords

Write a Poem/Haiku/Family Quote

<Bought>

Her Fave Books (Date with a Book) with Bookmarks

Personalised or Cute Stationery (Pens)

A new Journal/Scrapbook (With Stickers)

Book of Puzzles/Crosswords/Pattern Colouring

Foodie

(cook/baker/foodie)

<Homemade>

Make her Breakfast in Bed

Bake her something

Cook her something

Make or Personalise Apron or Utensils

<Bought>

Cooking Utensils/Equipment or Apron

Get her Fave Treats/Snacks

A selection of her Beverages (Hot or Cold)

Make up a Foodie Kit (Ice Cream Kit, Movie Munchies Kit, etc)

Outdoors

(gardener/active/animals)

<Homemade>

Plan a Day Out (Park, Beach, Gardens, Museum/Gallery, etc)

Grow A Plant/Tree

Make something from wood/glass (Jewellery/Trinket box, etc)

Take care of the Animals for the Day.

<Bought>

Choose a Cap/Hat/Sweatbands/an article of Active Wear

New or Personalised Water bottle/Exercise Equipment

Plant/Flowers/Gardening Tools

Handy Tools (Hammer, tool bag, etc)

Pet Accessories or Mementos (Mugs/Shirts/etc)

Creative

(artist/crafter/memento)

<Homemade>

Photography Projects (Digital Slideshow) Scrapbook

Make Cards/Paintings

Make Candles/Soaps/Bath Salts/Sugar Scrubs

Sewing/Knitting/Crochet (Scarf, Beanie, Slippers, Blanket)

<Bought>

Art Mediums (Paints & Brushes, Pencils, Clay, etc...)

Print Photography Portraits

Scrap-booking Supplies and Book

Sewing/Knitting/Crochet Equipment

Glamour

(fashionista/beauty/shopping)

<Homemade>

Give her a Home Spa Day (Massage, Facial, Pedi-Mani)

Homemade Jewellery (Necklaces, Bracelets, Earrings)

Paint her nail, Create Hairstyles

Have a Fashion Show Runway

Design a Fashion Line with things at Home

<Bought>

Self-Care/Skin Care Kits

Gift Cards/Vouchers

Fashion Accessories (Wallets, Purses, keychains, etc)

Shopping Trip; Choose a new Outfit

Beauty Supplies (Lip balm, Perfume, Make Up, etc)

Entertainment

(singer/dancer/play)

<Homemade>

Compose a Song

Perform a Play

Create Dance Routine

Make a Playlist/Mixed Tape or CD

Homemade Music Memorabilia Crafts

<Bought>

Music Memorabilia

Go to a Show/Orchestra/Play

Attend a Concert of Music Festival

Find Personalised Packaging

Technology

(gamer/computers/devices)

<Homemade>

Play a Game with Her

Design a Game Together

Create something from old Tech Equipment

Laptop Decals/Stickers to Decorate

Sewn Laptop Case

<Bought>

Choose Accessories (Earphones, Speakers, Charger, Bags, Chargers, etc)

Personalised items (Mouse pads, Pictures, etc)

Desk Decorations (LED Lights, etc)

Portable Chargers & Desk Lamps

Smart Devices (Watches, Lights, Alexa)

Chill

(cozy/relaxed/homely)

<Homemade>

Do her Jobs for the Day

Give her a shoulder robe

Movie/TV Series Day in

Junk Food Day

<Bought>

Slippers/Ugh-boots

Fluffy or Soft Blanket/Robe

Sleeping Mask

Massage Tools

Any Mother

(What to get if you're unsure) :

PLAN FOR THE DAY (Doesn't have to be everything, choose what you feel she would love to do)

BOUGHT (Can never go wrong with a custom gift basket)

Build a Gift Basket -

Basket/Gift Box

Treat/Snack/Drink

Self Care/Relaxation

Scented Goodie

"Mom" Goodie (Jewellery, Mug, Cozy things, Bookish...)

Fresh Flowers (Preferably Her Favourite)

Card/Poem/Haiku/Quote

MOTHERS DAY COUPONS (Just some options, or you can make them yourself in to a small booklet)

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WRITING PROMPTS

Fantasy

You visit your grandmothers garden for the first time after she's died, and for some reason there's a book sitting on the floor that you could have sworn wasn't there before. When you pick it, something happens...

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Asking for permission

"Can I hold your hand?"

"Is it okay to kiss you?"

"Can I hug you?"

"Can I call you later?"

"Is it okay if I sleep here tonight?"

"Can I touch your hair?"

"I would love to spoil you, can I do this for you?"

"Can I tell people about us?"

"Would you allow me to walk you home?"

"Is it okay to randomly text you?"

"Can I take a picture of you?"

"Can I use a picture of you as my background?"

"Is it okay if we cuddled while watching the movie?"

"Would you let me take care of this for you?"

"Are you okay with me calling you my girl/boyfriend?"

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YEAR OF THE RABBIT

Tender, Decent, Generous

Rabbit is a tame and tender animal, and swift in move. People born in the Year of the Rabbit usually have soft and tender personality traits. They keep a modest attitude and maintain a pleasant relationship to people around. They will not be irritated easily, and they also avoid quarrels as much as possible.

Strengths

Polite, Cautious, Responsible

They are easygoing, polite, tender and skilled in handling relationships with people. Decent dressing is important for them, and that also helps them win popularity. They usually can leave a good impression on other people, and always have a lot of friends. Their inner side, in fact, is quite delicate and cautious. With gentle nature, they will never steal others’ thunder, so they can do a brilliant job in team work. They are people of responsibility, patience and kindness. They are frank and honest to friends, and always keep their promises. They are grateful, especially to parents. They are usually filial children who place family in the first.

Weaknesses

Hesitant, Timid, Foolhardy

People with Chinese Zodiac Rabbit are over cautious in personality, and keep themselves nervous always. They are conservative and hesitant in character. Though sometimes they are ambitious, they dare not take actions immediately. When they come across hardships, they are inclined to escape from the reality. In relationship, they are so sentimental that people cannot learn about their real feelings. They also love spending, having no concern or preparation for the future. They will lead a peaceful and smooth life, but sometimes they will get bored at the tedious lifestyle.

Career

Industrious, Stable, Devoted

They stand aloof from success, and avoid rival with others. They are good at coping with interpersonal relationship, so they need to find jobs related to communication with people. They want peace and stability. Therefore, the jobs like gardener, teacher, doctor, pharmacist, military officer, politician, public relation manager, translator, or bank staff are suitable for them.

Wealth

Generosity, Spending Problem, Better-off Status

In general, their financial status is favorable, they will not be troubled by money problem, and they need to take control of their spending, making ends meet. They are generous in money, for they cannot help to giving aids to people in need. They have no sense of saving, and they also do badly in financing. Shopping is one of their favorite activities, and they get money wasted in young age. After getting married, they begin to realize the importance of money management. In their old age, they will lead a better-off life.

Love and Relationships

Rational, Sensitive, Considerate

To be in love with people in Chinese zodiac Rabbit sign, people will feel them mysterious. Rabbit personality is rational, and they like to date in romantic places. In love, they will be sensitive and sentimental. They can be tolerant and considerate. If people want to win their heart, it is suggested to provide more courage and support. Their tenderness, elegance and nobility will make them to find best life partners.

Best Matches: Sheep, Monkey, Dog, Pig Bad Matches: Snake, Rooster

Health

Mental Sickness, Beriberi, Stroke

People with Chinese zodiac sign of Rabbit are quite sentimental, so they may suffer from mental disease, such as insomnia, depression and irritability. Because of the tedious life, they may get heart disease. The best ways to get rid of these is to learn to manage the emotions and build up new hobbies. Besides, they are also vulnerable to stomach disease, beriberi, stroke and jaundice. More outdoor exercises are suggested.

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MY SIBLINGS, MY INSECURITY

Sometimes I wonder what my family really thinks of me.

Being the youngest of four siblings as well as being twelve years younger than them, there was always going to be an age barrier.

But that only made me idolize them more.

They all went into the ARMY and were known for their academic achievements growing up.

I adored my two older brothers and I always wanted to be around them, spending school holidays with their families and adoring my nieces and nephews like they were my siblings.

And I always thought the world of my sister, believing she was the prettier more likable one out of the two of us.

But sometimes that made me feel like I was constantly in her shadow...

Not to mention the sarcasm I hear from them when they talk about my girls and I.

I'd like to say that I'm not a sensitive person, but there are times when some things do hurt my feelings.

Confidence has never been my forte.

Being the baby of the family, there is a misconceptions that I have been using my parents to keep myself afloat.

But surprisingly, my partner and I have been doing our best to make our life work.

There are times when we have asked my parents for help, but not enough to put them into debt.

Still, I hear the comments they make...

What they don't see is that I raised four beautiful girls under the age of five without any help (aside from Kindy and School).

Fourteen years have passed since my eldest was born.

I never made anyone look after my children, and I made it my mission to be the most present mother I could be.

I modeled the type of person I wanted them to become, and I never once complained about putting myself last.

So when I see my anxious firstborn who finds going to the counter terrifying, I see how far she's become as a young lady that is a responsible older sister.

When I see my second born with autism that people feel sorry for, I see my independent special girl who is capable of anything she puts her mind to.

When I see my emotional third-born taking everything to heart, I see how big her heart truly is and I love her so much more.

And when I see my youngest daughter, the most open and unfiltered one of them all, I see someone who is smart beyond her years.

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MY DAUGHTER, GRADUATION AND CANDY LEIS

Yesterday my eldest daughter graduated from Intermediate (which is 8th Grade for the American equivalent of New Zealand Form 2)

And although she didn't receive any special Award from the school, I'd never been more proud of her than I was watching her go up and receive her Graduation Certificate.

It was a little overwhelming watching the other families cheer on their children because they were getting award after award, especially when the majority of the hall was filled with large groups of support for a few of the students (i.e. church, extended family, friends, sports clubs, etc.) where person after person put a lei of celebration around their necks, some floral, other's made of candy and cellophane.

It made me feel how small our family connections were, that the only ones who were there cheering for my girl were just her three younger sisters, her father, and I. And I made sure I shouted loud enough even if it felt like mine was the only voice there.

But to me, it didn't feel like I did enough to let her know that I was Proud of the person she had become. The achievements she had attained and acknowledged everything she had been through to get to where she is.

So that night I went home and I put down on paper the words I wanted her to see. It even took me five times to write it out properly, putting it the way I couldn't quite say it correctly out loud.

"Dearest Daughter...

Today Marks the end of one story and the beginning of your next one.

I've never been more proud of you then I am right now.

Your achievements and accomplishments reflect the hard work you have done, and you are living proof that you don't have to be the brightest star to shine in the night sky. Because no matter whose name was called for an award, you continued to smile as if you were the one receiving it.

I love how you've grown into a kind and compassionate young woman, fighting for what you truly believe in. I believe you will become a person that many will admire because you are already adored.

To others, perfect means doing everything right and nothing wrong, but don't forget that we are only human. So sometimes you are going to make mistakes, keep secrets, and disagree with things that I have to say. That doesn't mean you aren't perfect. Because to me, you are my kind of perfect.

You are such a beautiful person both inside and out, but always stay humble and never let anyone make you feel any less of yourself.

Sometimes I used to wonder why I never had a friend close enough to share things with apart from your father. Then I realized you were always there through everything that mattered. You are not just my daughter, but my best friend. And I always ask myself what I did to deserve you.

My Life changed the day you were born, the moment I held you in my arms I was no longer responsible for just me anymore. And I promised myself that I would never let anything happen to you. Call me overprotective, but I always wanted you safe.

But as the years passed by, and you experienced school, other people, and life, I saw that you were far more capable of anything you put your mind to. Never doubt yourself.

I know you've been through quite a lot and that you've been tested in ways that push you out of your comfort zone, but don't let the bad outweigh the good. If you treat the bad days like the good ones, then you will know how to deal with any problem in life.

I've always encouraged you to make your own decisions, not wanting to force you into doing what you don't like. But never be afraid to try new things, because I don't want you to regret anything in Life. Always make the right decisions for you, never feel that you to do it to please others.

There are so many things I can tell you when it comes to High School...

You are going to have to manage your time better. Always organize everything the night before, so that you're not rushing around the next morning. I can help you, but you need to learn how to do more on your own.

Bullies are always going to be a thing, whether they go after you or someone you know. You're either going to ignore them, or put into practice what your father taught and trained you to do. But hopefully, it won't come to that.

Social Media isn't quite something I would like you to be a part of, for obvious reasons. It's not because I don't trust you, you've always proven yourself. I find people on there to be toxic or just plain inappropriate. But I would like to be a part of that journey. Just because others have it, doesn't mean you have to have it.

And do as much as you can to learn from your classes, even picking up different books and absorbing any kind of information that's given to you. Learn as much as you can, you can never know too much.

But aside from all of that, High School is going to be a whole new experience that I know you are more then ready for.

Just know that...

We LOVE you unconditionally

We NOTICE everything about you

We ENJOY learning about what you have to share

We CHERISH every moment with you

We HOPE that you are Happy

We will SUPPORT you no matter what

We BELIEVE in you

We are PROUD of you

And we PROMISE to always be here for you...

YOURS SINCERELY

Mum..."

Sealed in an envelope with a couple of chocolates, given with a gift-wrapped book and two flax flowers from my mother's day bouquet, I handed them to her the next morning.

She gave me one of the biggest hugs I've ever gotten from her, and her eyes were red from crying.

By putting those words into a Letter, I immortalized an important message that I wanted my daughter to be able to read whenever she needed it.

And I was so glad that I was able to convey the way she made me feel being her parent...

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TRYING TO DEAL WITH LOSS

There is no right way to grieve.

Everyone has a different way of dealing with losing someone in different ways.

Denial

Anger

Bargaining

Depression

Acceptance

Usually, all of them at once, sometimes just one more than the other.

Take for instance losing a child, especially one that takes their own life.

How would you feel as a father losing your firstborn child to suicide, not realizing something was wrong.

Then add on going into cardiac arrest a couple years before and coming back with short-term memory loss.

Not to mention losing first your mother, and then your father within a year after surviving a cardiac arrest.

And to top that off, your best friend dies in his sleep two months before your child commits suicide.

The last couple of years tends to make you question why you survived in the first place, only to go through this much pain.

You question what you did to deserve something of this proportion.

Especially when you are told you have no say in your mother's funeral plans, or not even told about your father and not invited there. And then being told to leave that very your sons funeral...

Then you start to say things you don't mean, hurting everyone around you so they can feel the pain you do, pushing them all away, and folding into yourself because no one could possibly know how you feel.

There are no excuses for bad behavior...

...but there also can be no judgment either.

Until you've been through this, you cannot tell another person how they should feel.

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traits turned sour

honest - insensitive

persuasive - manipulative

caring - overprotective

confidence - arrogance

fearless - cocky

loyalty - an excuse

devotion - obsession

agreeable - lazy

perfectionism - insatisfaction

reserved - aloof

cautious - skeptical

self loved - selfish

available - distractible

emotional - dramatic

humble - attention-seeking

diligent - imposing

dutiful - submissive

assertive - bossy

strategic - calculated

truthful - cruel