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Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Friendly reminder that our asks are always open for questions or advice requests <3

(Whichever mod sees the question first will answer unless otherwise specified!)

[selfhelpforghosts]

Anyway, this feels like a really good time to post a reminder.

If your trauma took place online, your trauma is valid.

If you could have prevented your trauma in any way, your trauma is valid.

If you got abused online or in any sort of situation that you could have "left", it is not your fault and it never has been your fault. It is always the fault of the person abusing you.

You are valid and you deserved better.

[selfhelpforghosts]

[gripping the edge of the sink with trembling hands, eyes bloodshot] i do not need to be good at the things i love to do them

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Stop being mean to yourself.

You’re tired.

Not weak.

You’re burned out.

Not incapable.

You’re past your limits.

Not a waste of space.

Be gentle with yourself.