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I want to speak for a minute on the subject of ‘outing’ someone. Regardless of gender, sexuality, race, putting all of that aside. Overall, the idea of ‘outing.’

A lot of people feel like it’s their right to know. It’s your right as a member of the LGBTQ community to know how someone else identifies. It’s your right as a journalist to know what body parts someone was born with. It’s your right as a member of society to know who someone is sleeping with, just because their career happens to be in the spotlight.

I want to let you know that you are wrong. Not only are you wrong, you’re a part of the problem. Privacy is something we, as a society, struggle with on a daily basis and on every level. I know women who work in offices and don’t talk about their boyfriends. I know men who date men, but the world around them thinks they date women. I know women, who were born male-bodied, but do not identify as trans*.

All of these things are okay. In fact, they’re more than okay, in a lot of cases they’re necessary. I’m not just talking about the potential for violent crimes, which by the way is OUTRAGEOUS. Safety is a huge issue, especially in the LGBT*Q community, EVEN MORE so in the trans* community, EVEN MORE MORE so if you’re a person of color in the trans* community. And, my god, we need countless amounts of education on this subject. We need to be talking about these things.  

But this goes even further than that, this goes back to the beginning. This is about feeling like you have the right to out someone. What’s more, the obligation to out someone. Your journalistic integrity which is so self-important you’re willing to risk the quality of lives of others, and more than the quality of life. The ACTUAL LIFE.

People who will lose their jobs, their families, their sense of self, and again theirlives, because of something which is not your right in the first place.

What’s more, as a member of the community, thinking it’s okay to out another member of the community? Are you fucking serious? Do you not remember the feelings of absolutely terror and confusion at the mere prospect of coming out? Do you not recognize the journey we all have to go through? Is your sassy bullshit joke and pointed-finger more important than another human beings’ sense of self? Shaming/bullying someone into coming out is so fucked. Just stop.  

You can not imagine how damaging it is to out another human being. You have no right to stake claim on their person. You have no right strip them naked and shove them in the middle of a crowded room and point out what you consider to be a flaw. Your ignorance is your own, you can choose to be educated and understand or you can choose to put yourself first and take our society ten steps backwards. Think before you speak, your words could directly affect the lives and safety of those around you.

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But really, why do I have to go back to the States?

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Really, America?

The events that have occurred over the past two days in America really make me question why I am going back to America. I mean, yes, my program is ending and I already have my ticket booked for Thursday. But beyond that, I really wouldn’t mind staying in…

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Sorry guys that I have sort of abandoned this blog temporarily. I am currently studying abroad in Barcelona and the time difference is terrible. If you would like to read about my travels in Barcelona, feel free to read my new WordPress blog. Thanks :)

A great first weekend…and a great first week!

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Happy Mother's Day, to your one or many mothers.

The New Yorker’s Mother’s Day cover.

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This is such a great story.

Video of young trans* woman Jazz’s appearance on 20/20

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The Other Side of Love / Different definitions of one on We Heart It - http://weheartit.com/entry/49181013/via/BINKY04

Hearted from: http://pinterest.com/pin/508625351635968158/

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I think it’s the responsibility of films and television to accurately represent people, and the diverse group of people out there. And I think as more people see different types of lifestyles represented on TV, they’ll understand that this is just a realistic part of our world and our community. So, I was very proud to represent bisexual characters. -Olivia Wilde [x]

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- Question submitted by Anonymous

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Dannielle Says:

Everyoneisbi.com

Ugh… that does not look cute, but you guys, WHATEVER. I would like to, on behalf of the entire community, apologize to you. I am so sorry that ANYONE ON EARTH has made you feel like being who you are is anything less than...

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France Says “Oui” To Marriage Equality

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I was literally just thinking about this the other day!

- Question submitted by Anonymous

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Dannielle Says:

About as weird as a deer taking a poop in the woods.

GET IT BECAUSE DEER ALWAYS POOP IN THE WOODS JUST NATURALLY???

One time I had a crush on a boy named Daniel and I was like ‘ugh I can’t date him bc Dannielle and Daniel???’ … turns...

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The Boston Marathon: Who is behind it?

The Boston Marathon: Who is behind it? Thoughts from a college student

Note: I will be updating this post as new information becomes available.

If you have turned on the news today or have scrolled through a social media feed, you have heard about the the explosions that occurred today in Boston during the Boston Marathon.

L…

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Definitely apply to be an Everyone Is Gay intern if you are interested! I did it last fall and it was a great experience!

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Obama: Doesn't want to ban porn.

Obama: Doesn't want to restrict your internet.

Obama: Doesn't want to take away your guns.

Obama: Supports gay marriage.

Obama: Education for all!

Obama: Universal healthcare!

Obama: Wants to continue Planned Parenthood!

Americans: You're destroying this country.

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If you ever want to meet the most sexually confused person ever, that would be me.

I'm not complaining. In fact, I'm loving life. But why is sexuality such a conflict still?