#@lainey.molnar

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[miiju86]

Artist: Lainey Molnar | Instagram: (@)lainey.molnar

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Hi childfree anon! I'm 35 and am here to say: it (may) get better. My parents used to hassle me about my lack of interest in having kids, but my mom is now fully supportive. I don't really know what led her to change her mind -- but it's nothing I did (other than staying resolute in my stance, maybe), just as there's nothing you can do to make your mom change hers. I'm lucky to never have had to face the tough choice you're facing right now with a potential partner, and I'm so sorry he seems to have changed his mind :( I advise a real heart-to-heart about his off-hand comments. Please, *please* don't give in and just have a kid because of pressure. It's a very important decision and there should be enthusiastic consent! Finally, I've felt "less alone" in my decision by following some online accounts that share child-free content, like @lainey.molnar and @richauntiesupreme on instagram. good luck <3 !

Hi Sarah and Anon. I'm an older CF-by-choice girlie, and I highly advise Anon to reconsider her relationship. The second I find out someone is questioning the CF lifestyle, I end the relationship, ideally while it's still young. This has saved me from so much extra pain and wasted time. It's a burden that we CF women bear, having to do things like this to protect our time. Men on the fence can afford to waste your time, but they WILL eventually want kids. Leave now, be strong <3

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Putting these two together for that anon! Fwiw, I'm not entirely on the "men on the fence will want kids" and "leave now to save yourself the hassle". I think it's worth discussing very seriously with your partner and being upfront and clear about this. I've had friends whose relationships have ended over this topic - especially when someone is on the fence and there's fear that in compromising to not that they may hold resentment over the other person. I would say tread lightly but openly with your partner but if it's something you know that you don't want I can't more aggressively +1 the first anon response here with "Please, please don't give in and just have a kid because of pressure. It's a very important decision and there should be enthusiastic consent!"

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As artes da @lainey.molnar são ótimas críticas sociais e essas são só algumas e ainda assim reduzidas: 1) Grandes Marcos: sair de um relacionamento tóxico, ficar noiva, conquistar o cargo que deseja, ter sucesso... Aliás, rola o feed aquindo @psico.online que falamos de sucesso e do SEU sucesso. 2) Trabalho exaustivo: qual trabalho não cansa? Descansar, trabalhar em equipe e parceria, construções de trabalho realizadoras... Esse é o príncipio. 3) Mulher empoderada: o que você tem feito por você e por outra mulher? Desconstrói machismo por aí? 4) uma mulher estabilizada e completa.... Primeiro: o que é essa incompletude? O que te desestabiliza? 5) as realizações são as mais simples e que te permitem ser você. E por fim: vc não é outra pessoa. Seu caminho é o seu. Seu sofrimento não deve ser comparado, nem sua dor, nem sua alegria. Todos sempre vão falar. Será que a fala do outro constrói ou destrói? É do outro ou para você? Na dúvida: agenda sua sessão em https://psico.online ✅ Não se esqueça de Salvar esse post e marcar mais pessoas que você Ama 🤗 💗 (em Todo Dia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CfsCbWopDex/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Don't compare yourself to others. Be like the moon🌙 and the Sun 🌞 and shine when it is your time. ❤️ 📸 Credit: @lainey.molnar 🧚🧚🧚Follow 👉 @boudichouchani 🙏 • • • • • • • • • • #MeditatiOM #abdochouchani #reiki #reikilebanon #Meditation #nlp #hypnotherapy (at Lebanon لبنان) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cjdy9syMK3F/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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Sometimes you got to do both…

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No matter what you choose, how, or why, the pro-lifers will never approve.

Art by lainey.molnar on Instagram.

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No matter what choice you make, people will always find a way to treat women like shit.

Stay strong Witches; we’ll make it!

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[miiju86]

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I don't have the words... confused, sad, frustrated, angry, scared, overwhelmed.... but, thankfully @lainey.molnar and other talented people have the words and images to voice these feelings. No, I'm not Polish or American, but I stand with my fellow women everywhere. However I feel personally about abortion is irrelevant, that's my personal and private right, it's no one's buisness what I think or what I chose for my body. We should all have that right. #privacy #respect #dignity #mybodymyrights #womensrightsarehumanrights #roevswade #letsnotgobackwards #protectwomen #poland #usa https://www.instagram.com/p/CdJseB1M7t4/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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#Repost @lainey.molnar Break the intergenerational trauma cycle. Break it if it’s the only thing you do in this lifetime. Break it even if you don’t have or want children. There is so much pain and hurt trickling down through generations simply because nobody has had the tools to face it. It’s a curse and a blessing to be able to carry the weight of turning it into love without a tangible precedent. It starts with understanding where the feelings, actions, and words that hurt us so much came from, continues with separating them from the person and forgiving them - sometimes even for the unforgiveable - and then goes on with processing our patterns, triggers, fears, and emotions. It’s hell and back. It’s burning bridges. It’s alienating blood relatives. It’s falling back into pattern over and over again. It’s facing our deepest darkest and it’s holding our inner child who doesn’t know how to be held. But it’s also worth it. Those who are doing it, those who learn, those who try, those who did, those who raise children after succeeding, heck even those who are raising children doing their absolute best, I applaud you! #YouDoYou ❤️ ✨✨✨ You may ask what this has to do with healthy eating, weightloss and obesity. My answer is everything! Weightloss needs to always be tackled from a holistic point of view. It’s never one thing that is the cause, like there is never just one fix. Many things need to be addressed, helped, changed and nurtured. Trauma experienced as a child can help shape the way you eat and therefore finding solace in food. Everything is connected! Thank you @one2onewithhollysarah for sharing ❤️ 𝗗𝗶𝗲𝘁 | 𝗠𝘂𝗺 | 𝗥𝗲𝗽𝗲𝗮𝘁 @one2onediet (at 𝖣𝖨𝖤𝖳 𝖬𝖴𝖬 𝖱𝖤𝖯𝖤𝖠𝖳) https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ08EeNt22p/?utm_medium=tumblr