#male entitlement

[intersectionalpraxis]

Her name was Samiya and she was brutally stabbed in the neck and chest before she was taken to a New York hospital with her sister Sanyia (who had been stabbed in the arm), where she did not survive her injuries from her neck and chest. These sisters were just at a store, and this predator FOLLOWED them after he was rejected and attacked them. He waited for them -and he's still not caught. This is just absolutely horrifying.

Misogyny fuels violence against women -and this very clear epidemic is killing young girls and women.

I cannot imagine the degree of entitlement you think you have to anyone's time and bodies- that anyone could hold that much disdain for rejection, and is okay with exerting power, control, and violence upon another person because YOUR ego is bruised. Fuck toxic masculinity and dismantle the patriarchy until it burns to the ground because I'm so sick of seeing this.

I wish all the best to the family and loved ones of Samiya. This young teenager should still be here. And I hope the man who did this gets apprehended and faces endless misery and misfortune in his lifetime.

[butch-reidentified]

what he says: "there's a male loneliness epidemic"

what I hear: "there's a 'increasing numbers of women and girls setting boundaries and making it harder for me to find a victim companion' epidemic"

[redberryterf]

you want to normalize prostitution. I want public hangings for sex buyers. we are not the same.

[jellyfishfem]

”Stay where you are.” “Get out of my private space.” “Do not touch my waist when you pass me by.” “You talked over me.” “Doctor, I want you to take my health issues seriously.” “You will not coerce me into sex.” “You realize rape by coercion is what you’re trying to do, right?” “That wasn’t funny, that was just misogyny/racism/homophobia.” “Why would you want to have sex with someone who doesn’t want to have sex with you?” “What an odd thing to say out loud.” “Your manipulation tactics will not work on me.” “I stand by my beliefs.” “You think your feelings are objective facts but they are not.” “You are harassing me. Stop.” “Do not call women bitches.” “That’s such a pornsick thing to say.” “I don’t owe you sex.”

Sentences I recommend practicing. Feel free to add your own.

[thefemalejoker42069]

crazy how we grew up hearing our male peers say the absolute most disgusting degrading shit about us 24/7 and it was dismissed as “boys will be boys” and “locker room talk” but when we talk honestly about our lives and experiences with male violence and entitlement in a way that isn’t “nice” enough suddenly it’s the end of the fucking world and we’re evil bitches who want to kill all men

there are twitter accounts with thousands upon thousands of followers dedicated to mocking femicide/rape/domestic abuse/female suicide victims and incel forums everywhere that cheer on actual acts of violence against women & girls.. and you wanna complain about feminists on tumblr that won’t even bother you unless you insert yourself into women’s business? give me a fucking break lmfao

[trans-radfem]

«"If you don't like a man then don't accept food from him, you deadbeat"

My best friend pays for our lunches one day.

Breakfast is on me another day.

I visit my aunt and she gives me a taco.

I go to my mother in law's and she gives me fruit.

My friend's mom has sent me lunch to school many times.

The party is over and my godmother tells me "wait, I'm giving you takeaway".

Mom has visitors and she figures out how to give something away, she gives away because "a taco is denied to nobody".

It's weird how only men think that feeding someone is a kind of sexual services contract or a debt that someone has with them to secure a sentimental relationship.

How nice is being women and giving eachother sweets, chocolates, cookies, share chips, tea with joy.»

— Capibara Sand

[the-rad-menace]

Just read a long ass post by a TIM complaining that everywhere he goes, "AFAB" people act uncomfortable around him. Tinder dates where they didn't realize until they met in person that he was male, clamming up and ghosting. Getting glares in a "queer" self defense class when he uses the word bitch. Complaining that even at a trans/"queer"/kink positive dance, he went home alone, while his AFAB friends found hookups. A female friend of 14 years who'd fully accepted him as a bi, GNC man, cut him off after he started insisting he was a woman.

The whole thing was framed as the world having a problem with "transfems," but all I could think of was the kind of guy who calls every one of his ex girlfriends crazy. If literally everywhere you go, you make female people uncomfortable, YOU are the common denominator. YOU are the cause. Getting mad that women aren't accommodating and coddling you in just the right way to stroke your ego is the most male shit I've ever read.

[carbonemissionshater]

SSA people: we want the right to marry !

TQ+ males: we want you to call us special names and pronouns, use your bathrooms, play your sports, get your scholarships, you to validate our gender, go to your prisons, be in your clubs, go to your festivals, get into your rape shelters, chemically and/or physically castrate your kids, pressure lesbians to have sex with us and if you don’t we’ll threaten you or hurt you :)

[profeminist]

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girl are you the Barbie Movie because wow a lot of men are angry that you weren’t specifically created to appeal to them

@VeryBadLlama

[radicaltorch]

next time an XY tells you that he wants to have kids to continue his legacy, be sure to remind him that he's just some random guy and there's nothing special or extraordinary about him, there's no legacy to continue.

[uter-us]

there are way too many comments like this:

why must the burden of domestic labor always be w the woman

[tofanahisjava]

Setting up cameras and seemingly baiting waitstaff, who are supposed to be polite and refer to people as sir and mam, into correctly noticing you are male, so that you can recite ur lil guilt trip bullshit? Weird.

They get so mad, Because don't these waiters know? He's clearly wearing a crop top and lipstick, And do not and cannot wear those things, Therefore, you are the bigot for knowing that's a man.

[coochiequeens]

If this is real this is an another example of the gender cult overreaching with their demands.

[queerism1969]

[silvermoon424]

It fucking blows my mind how so many men will just see a picture of a woman and feel compelled to publicly announce whether he finds her fuckable or not. This happens on basically every social media site and also irl. Like, did you ever consider that maybe she's not desperate for the approval of random men and she doesn't care if you think that she's too fat or her nose is too big or whatever?

It just gets really disheartening running into this time and time again because it really hammers in the point that far too many men only value women for our looks. Like they have the capacity to comment literally anything and somehow it always comes back to whether a woman makes their peepee hard or not.

[haggishlyhagging]

I don’t take the men in my life seriously at all anymore. I have learned not to even engage with them about any serious topic. If they bring up something, I brush it off asap.

Their job sucks? “Yup” is my go-to response.

They are in pain? “Sucks bro.”

Their team lost? Blank stare.

I could walk them through the steps involved with improving their education, communication skills, and employment viability, but they won’t listen.

I could offer to obtain pain medication and suggest a doctor visit, but they will only become dependent on my nursing services and will never stir themselves to address the root problem.

I don’t watch male sports, most television, or engage with male-oriented content of any kind if I can help it. Best I can manage is a shrug when they ask me about pop culture.

Once I figured out that every interaction men initiated preceded an attempt to exploit me, I stopped playing their game and they scattered like cockroaches in search of another food source.

All that extra energy that used to go toward men is now invested in me. I have time to read, work out, make myself nutritious food, enjoy nature, do yoga, rest, and listen to music (female artists only).

My life is improving every day.