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in my humble opinion as someone with multiple cluster b disorders including bpd, the aim shouldn't be to "cure" it at all, because trauma cannot be cured and this is not an attainable goal, which sets an unfair precedent for us ourselves as victims of the disorder. the aim should instead be to heal and rehabilitate to a point where you can cope with the behaviors you've developed that are connected to the trauma. healing will happen, but the desire to "cure" all "sick" people is not a helpful stance to have and is way more damaging than it is helpful. hurt people don't need to be "cured" so much as just understood and helped. "curing" us is very much a medicalized idea that bases a person's worth on their ability to function. you and your struggles will always be valid, whether you heal or not, whether you're "cured" or not <3
#🪻.iselda#🫀.words#I singlet-ified the language here to make this more accessible#also wanna mention that bpd is the ONLY one of the four cluster b disorders that gets treated this way#npd and aspd do NOT get treated like something that you can be cured of#they're just straight up demonized#but that's a different post for a different day#anyway this was partially an indirect response to a comment on a post Maddox rbed#cause Maddox is our biggest bpd holder and we're very protective of him#I kinda felt like typing this out#anyway yeah#bpd vent#actually bpd#cluster b#cluster b safe#cluster b vent#bpd#borderline personality disorder
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Hottest woman in Nikke: Goddess of Victory, wish more gacha games gave us women in armor with big guns
nikke is really funny to me because it's one of the few things where I can accurately and confidently say I was filtered. so many good designs (given that I like uniforms, you can imagine why I'd appreciate a lot of the designs) but a selective aversion to live2d jiggle physics is an insurmountable skill issue
anyway I've gotta disagree, because even though I'm not the kind of pervert nikke is marketed to, I'm still a pretty horrible lesbian, and I like yulha
#I still think she'd look a lot better in a different outfit though#everything below the waist doesn't work with everything above it in a flattering way. it's just unfashionable lol#you could even keep the pants! she just needs to be like... wearing a black singlet or something instead of the top#not even getting into my personal preference against white capes
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i think it'd be cool to like. let other select plurals know we're plural without letting everyone know we're plural. like some kind of secret passphrase in our bio on main that only plurals used. limp wristing at the gays yknow.
#its just cuz we're only plural on sideblog but a lot of systems interact with our main blog and we wanna say HEY. HI. ALSO US!!!#without y'know. saying all that or letting them see our sideblog. idk. the specifics of what we're allowed to share are nebulous.#dont know how to link our sideblog to our mainblog BUT ONLY THE PEOPLE WE CHOOSE CAN CLICK IT NO ONE ELSE LOOK hkjgh#and what. we can't just dm people "hey heres our sys blog'' theyre gonna think we're trying to get them to follow us and we DON'T NEED THAT#wejust wanted u to know we're plural please don't feel forced to follow us our stupid blog isn't even done hgkjhg#AND WHY WOULD WE DM PEOPLE ANYWAY LMAO. FUCKED UP. RAIN-SOAKED SHIVERING LITTLE MEOW MEOW IN YOUR DMS. IGNORED.#💨#honestly with the way we type? the way we're way too invested in the skills? the fact that our emojis are on main? not entirely subtle.#🍂#hey fffffuck you. ''the way we type'' I'M A GOOD MASKER WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT OKAY /dramatic /silly#👥#i mean apparently people already suspected us before. ...faucet doesnt like thinking about it. faucet doesnt like anyyyyy of this tbh#[ ] doesn't even like that the people on /here/ know about us. the follower scare months back is still something [ ]'d do again#if it were up to [ ] we would have never come out to anyone and faked being a singlet forever :') like. we get it girl. but still...#regardless. our original plan was to get our sysblog in order by our syscovery date. which is today. so. uh. folds my hands together.#idk back to topic. i just wish there was a subtle way of saying ''hey! we're like you! solidarity! we're in the same community!!''#also wish we could post art and have it be found by the community. making pluraI comics and stuff. but we can't get too popular.#it'd be scary. people would find us. old connections. we get faucet's reasoning and it's important. this is how we have to live to be safe.#...i dont know. some of us want to be part of community. some of us don't. it's just something we'll always understand but disagree on.#unfulfilling compromises as always for the scabbards but hey what else is new? we roll with it. c'est la vie~
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"Haha if singlets suddenly had headmates they would--"
Not be singlets?
#plural#alterhuman#it's giving ''if abled people suddenly become disabled they'd—'' you mean like a lot of currently disabled people? it's kind of a thing#''singlets would react this way to becoming plural'' i do Not understand. then they aren't a singlet now#a lot of us experienced what you're describing as a hypothetical and didn't like. burn it all down?#actually i'm more confused how YOU experienced it. were you born a system AND aware of it?#for a lot of us the reckoning was/is part of the experience#deliberation
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obssessed with zoros fit on upper yard in the skypiea arc. the blue singlet. the backpack. the fucking GOGGLES. iconic.
#also the way he like rips his shirt off after it gets wet (whyd u need to rip it tho?) and nami just throws the singlet at him like#“gross cover up those tiddies man”#zoro#roronoa zoro#one piece#op
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thinking about.... the egos project!! Thinking about Damien/Sylvia, spirits of nostalgia- and thinking about my own feelings (and suddenly remembering the characters that uh didn’t quite make it-)
[slaps desk] Benny/Nathan. Dude I am so so sorry for forgetting you uh, spirit of.... well I think I believe it was loyalty? Oops.
I think it would be a neat idea, now or sometime soon, to fuse the duos! Specifically Benny and Sylvia, and Nathan and Damien- I think my uh. Thoughts on loyalty. The virtue has warped a bit, taking loyalty to the extreme- and with nostalgia, that being used as an escape- (gah it’s really interesting to see virtues shift. don’t think about what this means in me (or do, why not!))
As for what that means for designs... I’ll be aging Sylvia/Damien up slightly, probably mid/late teens, and giving them civilian identities!! (And I guess uh- day jobs??) (I’ll show you when I can draw later-)
Now for the big question, could they de-fuse?? Maybe rarely? But Probably Not. I can’t see loyalty and nostalgia separating Right Now, unfortunately. Not unless one virtue changed a lot to break them apart-
#egos project#I think it’s interesting to have duos- thinkingggg different aspects of what nostalgia feels like to me.#along with benny/nathan being loyalty but having very different personalities (I still don’t know how they ended up switching places.)#slightly unrelated but it’s really annoying how I Can’t look at my old notes or do research into specific things or I’ll trigger myself.#it’s so annoying trying to remember on my own#(relating to in-person things it’s not y’all online- just got linked in a very unfortunate way.)#again I am a singlet and using sonas as a way to think on my own feelings n experiences. pog#unrelated- I wonder what folks are doing with the adopts they got from me! I hope they’re having a good time playing toys (meme reference)#AH also my duo is definitely keeping the black boots with hoof/paw prints on the undersides! thinking on symbolism and because it’s cute#also biiig apologies for the people who helped me design the so as only for me to change stuff LMAO but I mean that’s how thing goes#........hm.#unrelated I’ve been thinking about mason a lot#I think he’d like playing minecraft
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thinking of getting a new binder so i’ll actually wear one lol my gc2b one keeps nothing in place so it becomes a chore wearing it lol
#i’m thinking of getting an underworks one but ppl always recommend the tank#and like i already die of heat with one layer of clothing there’s no way i can wear a singlet underneath all my clothes#so hopefully the tri top version will be good even tho i got a fat ass chest lol
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Chat there's a tall weedy babyfaced tattooed chef off an infernal app who wants to take me to dinner do I do it or is the crushing weight of cba gonna win again
#its kinda like. im pretty sure i know how this is gonna go down#he'll probably think he can smash night 1 and ill be like ah ah ah no no no i do not smash on night 1#maybe another effort will be made maybe not#either way it'll end in ghosting#vs i DONT go and just continue as is which is basically like being ghosted without the extra steps#also it is propa embarrassing innit to be almost the oldest one in my work friend group and the only singlet#not only the only singlet but a mf singlet who cant even meet anyone naturally irl due to my very acquired taste nature!!#i dont wanna be like ummm ya im meeting another appman....yeah a different one...yeah heres hoping this ones different#also i got such high hopes from the last one bc we got along like a house on fire and gelled so well and BOOM ghosted#which was EMBARRASSING TO REPORT TO THE GORLS AFTER I TALKED ABOUT HOW AMAZING IT WENT
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i wish questioning plurality was more widely seen as a much more casual and whatever thing than a How Dare You Claim To Have Such A Serious Disorder thing. plurality itself is not inherently a disorder, is in fact a whole lot more common than most people realize, and is also generally not something that's great to repress
like... the thing is it's a case of you may have whole entire other people in there. other people who, like all people, deserve respect. so if you think there's even a sliver of a chance there might be other people in there, offer them that respect as soon as you can, just in case there are
i dunno. does this make sense.
#like. who cares if you might be wrong. what if those are people#anyway if you're a singlet and want a quick little test which isn't at all foolproof but sure has worked for a whole lot of people#i recommend thinking something like 'heyyyy anyone in there hellooooo' real loud. call out to someone. see if u get a response#if u don't it doesn't mean much of anything either way. if u do... well.! probably look into that. my asks/dms are open if u have questions#voidposting
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I used to fakeclaim systems left and right in otherkin spaces on and like four years later I found out I was a system. and it is just so fucking funny that I somehow 1. Did not see the OBVIOUS correlation between being a system and being 'kin and 2. Did not see the OBVIOUS signs that a lot of my "kintypes" were alters. Girl...
I'm still otherkin btw that didn't change. Just had more context for a few of my experiences after learning I was a system and now I just feel so stupid for the shit I did lol. "why are there so many alterhumans that claim to be systems 🙄" have ya considered that dissociative IDENTITY disorder causes fluctuation and fogginess of IDENTITY
you scared the mods so bad with that opener, goddamn. glad you got better though
ruling: yeah. it be like that sometimes
#one of the few ‘kinning and systemhood are similar in some ways’ takes that isnt dogshit awful#fakeclaiming systems as a (supposedly at the time) singlet is so funny though like girl. what business did you have#kinfessions#anonymous#fictionkin#otherkin#mod pikmin
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experiencing a loss of someone else's system is so complicated. ive been friends w this person for months and knowing they are gone is so... idk. ill just miss her.
im not a system myself, just friends with multiple. /info
#tw loss#<- to me it seems that way#not about anyone here#not about mutuals#i havent experienced loss like this and its gutwretching#system stuff#i may be a singlet but i still care a lot about everyone.#do i even tag this as an alter death????#i dont know actually
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Actually now that I think about it it is extremely shitty for people to say singlets can't support endos like. Do you understand that if everyone took that to heart you would be isolating people from most of the people in their lives?
For...what, existing differently?
#im not entertaining the 'disorder faker' claim i think it's pretty silly to accuse us of that when most of us don't claim to have DID/OSDD#also as if endogenic = doesnt have ptsd/cptsd lol. lolololol.#and/or most endogenics are mentally ill in some way so its double shitty to be like. how dare endogenics have singlet friends
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i wish i could talk to mr flawedpeacock directly rn abt his system theory. some parts are fun and could make total sense but yeah. fingerprints my guy. and so many other things. YEAH SPLIT IS BAD REP BUT I PROMISE THEY WERE GOOD REP BEFORE I SWEAR. HEROES IS SUCH A GOOD CASE PLEASE PLEASE LET ME TALK TO YOU ABT HEROES. doom patrol is more recent ig but yeah these two are perfect exemples of plural system w/ powers W/O TROPE OF BAD MONSTER - WILL KILL EVERYONE. the game "her story" being a system story would. kinda piss me off keeping the narrative that DID = killer. the united states of tara was also ig okay rep at the times too. anyway i had so much more to say and wish i could just converse with mr floppy
#also saying that moonknight is a refreshing good way to portray DID. mmmh. didn't get past like ep 2 i think cos i was too pissed off#i know it's a tv show and it needs some exciting narrative stuff#but goddman the mirror imagery is sooo annoying. screams to the void it doesn't work like thaaaaat#+ i don't recall much except so many scenes of. main guy regaining conscience in. the worst possible moment#as i said DID is smth that won't. pop up and say hiiii! hiii i'm here i exist!!!!!#it supposes to not make you more of a target for percussion by acting as a singlet#and if your headmates don't want to make it known to the host that they exist#they won't randomly stop fronting at the most dangerous situation and let the host struggle to survive most epic death experience ever#idk i don't remember much as i said#might not have been in the right headspace when i've first watchd that show#idk
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You did say alterhuman... so I must ask, can you do a plural Grian or would that be outside your wheelhouse?
I'm not a system so I don't feel comfortable writing someone who is plural, sorry. Even if I do a ton of research I don't feel like I'd get it correct and I don't want to risk spreading any possible harmful or negative stereotypes or even getting something wrong unintentionally.
#I'm sure someome else would love to! but as a singlet i just do not feel comfortable#the same way I wouldn't want to write a character with depression or OCD or any other mental illness#even though I know many people i could ask and could do a ton of research I dont want to risk spreading misinfo#please let me know if any of this comes off weird! its like 12 am for me as I post this#falcon answers
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willow may or may nawt have just noticed the Actual Built In "how to" section . I swear to all that is good in this world this little-
#➳ the fool speaks#SILLY SILLY SILLY SHE'S JUST BEEN STRUGGLING HERE . EVEN BAMBI HAS BEEN GETTING IMPATIENT W VAMP . N I'M OBV CLUELESS SO 😭#luckily clo is actually going to . read it . and she at least SAYS if sweet needs help they'll actually like . y'know . find tutorials or so#*something#so they're getting somewhere . nawt me tho I've been dubbed their emotional support singlet (originally sora's words but nyeow tisse ++ will#have both agreed so . whatever the hell that is . i am it ? )#so I've just been here trying to help find avatar pics n suggest sign offs for everybun n ways to make it looks purretty uhh#but ! yay for willow and bambi !! :3
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