#(like in a singlet way)

[cold--carnage]

in my humble opinion as someone with multiple cluster b disorders including bpd, the aim shouldn't be to "cure" it at all, because trauma cannot be cured and this is not an attainable goal, which sets an unfair precedent for us ourselves as victims of the disorder. the aim should instead be to heal and rehabilitate to a point where you can cope with the behaviors you've developed that are connected to the trauma. healing will happen, but the desire to "cure" all "sick" people is not a helpful stance to have and is way more damaging than it is helpful. hurt people don't need to be "cured" so much as just understood and helped. "curing" us is very much a medicalized idea that bases a person's worth on their ability to function. you and your struggles will always be valid, whether you heal or not, whether you're "cured" or not <3

[toskarin]

Hottest woman in Nikke: Goddess of Victory, wish more gacha games gave us women in armor with big guns

nikke is really funny to me because it's one of the few things where I can accurately and confidently say I was filtered. so many good designs (given that I like uniforms, you can imagine why I'd appreciate a lot of the designs) but a selective aversion to live2d jiggle physics is an insurmountable skill issue

anyway I've gotta disagree, because even though I'm not the kind of pervert nikke is marketed to, I'm still a pretty horrible lesbian, and I like yulha

[myriadeyed]

"Haha if singlets suddenly had headmates they would--"

Not be singlets?

[luxurysystems]

Guy who thinks "Casual Friday" just means "wearing his suspenders 'like that' ."

[atlas-the-bastard]

obssessed with zoros fit on upper yard in the skypiea arc. the blue singlet. the backpack. the fucking GOGGLES. iconic.

[thelunastusco]

A fictive behaving as themselves is NOT roleplaying.

A fictive behaving as themselves is NOT roleplaying.

Fictives should always be mindful of good boundaries in fandom communities! 

Fictives should really not respond “aw thanks I really am great, huh” to perfect strangers who are just looking to talk about their blorbos. There’s a time and place, but fandom servers with singlets you don’t know are NOT the time and place.

Fictives need to develop a healthy distance from their canon source if they find themselves getting upset over fan opinion/fanworks/fandom in general.

However!

A fictive behaving as themselves is! NOT! Roleplaying!

Some fictives considers themselves just a template to project onto, and not that character at all, canon or otherwise! Cool.

Some fictives considers themselves a version of their source character, but not THAT canon person, while others consider themselves purely canon! Cool.

Some fictives feel they’re entirely a psychological manifestation, while others feel that they were transported here from somewhere that actually existed in the multiverse! Cool.

But it is absolutely NOT ROLEPLAYING if a fictive sees themselves as something other than “an introject based on fiction”. It is NOT harmful or wrong to treat a fictive as themselves, if that’s what they WANT you to do. 

(And not all fictives want to be called “introjects”, either. It’s not just a “DID/OSDD thing”. It’s not “like kinning”. But that’s another tin of beans, for another post.)

Anyways, tl;dr:

Please develop sensible boundaries, as a fictive, regarding fans and fandom.

Please also stop treating fictives like they’re not really who they say they are, that they’re delusional or roleplaying if they say otherwise. If they’re being creepy with boundaries, say something! But fictives aren’t harming anyone by existing, even if they want to be treated as “actually their source”.

[skydigiblogs]

ykw i just realized i haven't actually posted about the shit i liked about ghost game and i was thinking about like.

gammamon and gulusgammamon's relationship today???

the resolution of that whole thing really made me and my system happy, because one of us was literally in the middle of writing an essay about how no one ever does the "superpowered evil side" trope right, yeah?

ghost game is literally the only time i think they've ever done it alright from a system's perspective

mostly because while yeah, that whole conflict comes to a head at the climax of the series, it also doesn't end in some annoying shit where either gammamon Learns To Control His Evil Side (functionally destroying gulus) or Finds A Better Higher Power (technically he does as siriusmon but), he just goes DUDE YOU NEED TO CHILL and gulus grumpily obliges after getting the shit kicked out of him.

i'm pretty sure i've seen a few systems right more in-depth posts about this here on tumblr but like... yeah...

gammamon system my beloved

[gailynovelry]

“Kill the part of you that—”

I 100% understand the sentiment, but what if we would have an easier time talking down “the part of us that.” What if we tire of violence against the self?

[spiderqueenpc]

are there any plural One Piece fans following me? what do yall make of the Vegapunks I am so curious

[unhingedkinfessions]

I used to fakeclaim systems left and right in otherkin spaces on and like four years later I found out I was a system. and it is just so fucking funny that I somehow 1. Did not see the OBVIOUS correlation between being a system and being 'kin and 2. Did not see the OBVIOUS signs that a lot of my "kintypes" were alters. Girl...

I'm still otherkin btw that didn't change. Just had more context for a few of my experiences after learning I was a system and now I just feel so stupid for the shit I did lol. "why are there so many alterhumans that claim to be systems 🙄" have ya considered that dissociative IDENTITY disorder causes fluctuation and fogginess of IDENTITY

you scared the mods so bad with that opener, goddamn. glad you got better though

ruling: yeah. it be like that sometimes

[gunkpup]

experiencing a loss of someone else's system is so complicated. ive been friends w this person for months and knowing they are gone is so... idk. ill just miss her.

im not a system myself, just friends with multiple. /info

[jatlokgwo]

HOW DID I FORGOR RAIN WORLD HOLY SHIT DUDE THE AI IS STILL MY FAVOURITE ANIMATOR OF ALL TIME

[quoigenicfromhell]

Actually now that I think about it it is extremely shitty for people to say singlets can't support endos like. Do you understand that if everyone took that to heart you would be isolating people from most of the people in their lives?

For...what, existing differently?

[ofcrobincore]

Singlets make me SO discouraged to interact with source fandom

[chaotictomtom]

i wish i could talk to mr flawedpeacock directly rn abt his system theory. some parts are fun and could make total sense but yeah. fingerprints my guy. and so many other things. YEAH SPLIT IS BAD REP BUT I PROMISE THEY WERE GOOD REP BEFORE I SWEAR. HEROES IS SUCH A GOOD CASE PLEASE PLEASE LET ME TALK TO YOU ABT HEROES. doom patrol is more recent ig but yeah these two are perfect exemples of plural system w/ powers W/O TROPE OF BAD MONSTER - WILL KILL EVERYONE. the game "her story" being a system story would. kinda piss me off keeping the narrative that DID = killer. the united states of tara was also ig okay rep at the times too. anyway i had so much more to say and wish i could just converse with mr floppy

[lovelyrotter]

yall how do u even know if ur aro/aro-spec i feel like an imposter