#Adult friends

[streetstylis]

Adult friendships are hard. Everyone is busy and life happens. I’ve learned you gotta let people know when you’re thinking of them. A simple “thinking of you, hope all is well” really goes a long way.

[inmemoryofvanity]

SO MANY THOUGHTS, I wonder if I'm disturbed.

In January I broke up with my ex, now in February an old friend told me they didn't want the friendship because I was negative.

I'm feeling numb to loss now. I don't know how to explain it- its like empty tears. Theres hollowness in my heart. I thought I was a positive impact on her life. I really did so when she started to be distant I was frustrated, I didn't understand why. I expressed this to other friends in anger. I told them I was just being honest about her dating prospect- she then went on to say she wouldn't share her prospects with me. I was like okay..... Was that all I was good for? Just to be an ear to her dating situations. Just a cosigner and cheerleader.

I use to pour into her dreams, and tell her she can host her own cooking event. I praised her for her amazing cooking ability. We cooked together, we hung out, she did my eye lashes. we travelled together. But damn was I the burden... I'm so confused and my ego hurts.

She told me not to apologize, acknowledges that I was being honest - and stated 'we move on'.. but that's not how I view my friendships. They're important to me, I want to hear my friends out and try to be better as a person. Why would I let go so easily... it disturbs me. So I asked her if it's it, or can I work on it.

My ego is yelling at me, "We don't beg no friend" - but nah we do. There are a few good people in this world. Is it begging, I asked a question. IS this it or nah. Does she believe I'm a negative person, does she want to discard of the friendship and of me. I need clarity... Some cliche meme might say, the answer is in ones actions but nah. IT's not... circle yes or no. Thats clarity to me, the answer is in the question.

Anyways which ever way she wants to go at least I could say I tried to make things right. I truly do not want anything from her, I'll never ask her to do my eyelashes again, I'll never suggest any travel plans. I just want to be supportive and positive because that's who I believe I am and I'm sorry I came off less than what I represent.

My heart hurts, I'm lost... and I feel like I keep loosing people. In death or by choice, loss continues to happen.

[rxbiteme]

Alright. Remember when we were kids and could just ask people to be friends because you had the same interests?

Guess what?

I like drawing, anime, monsters, writing , Greek gods and games. Do you like that stuff too?

Queer support? Queer yourself? Awesome!

Wanna be friends?

[danicalzone]

the happy dudes or something

[bowowark]

This took way longer than it should’ve

[pixelmain]

You know book clubs??? Does anyone want to do like a cinema club??? We spend the week watching an amount of episodes of a tv show or a movie and then meet to talk about it??? And by meet I mean message xD

[littlemidnight94]

[theshadowrealmitself]

I like to think that Vulcans who come to understand that Humans just can’t try to process emotions the same way as them, it’s just healthiest to let it out in harmless ways, decide that venting and stuff should be taken just as seriously as Vulcan’s meditation time, and will encourage the Humans around them to complain about what’s upsetting them

People who are used to aloof Vulcans who avoid Humans at all cost running into one comforting a Human

“-and then they said my cheesecake was subpar, and they didn’t even bring a dish!!!”

“The purpose of this event was that every participant brings a food item of sorts, correct?”

“Yeah!!”

“And they did not follow this rule while insulting dishes that were brought?”

“Mostly just my dish but yeah >:(“

“How illogical”

“That’s what I’m saying!!!”

[lumsparko]

They're here to make you smile!

[chloesimaginationthings]

Cassidy loves to scare the FNAF night guards..

[frutiguro]

when the shift is so bad you have to sit there for a few minutes

[lets-all-calm-down-a-bit]

felt fitting

[stoovrs]

wtf kind of debate is this

[sparkleebug]

Nothing unusual, just a little sleep-deprived Pim driving to work 🤲

[lilislegacy]

percabeth daughter, to her friend: so this is my house. make yourself at home. luckily my older brothers aren’t home, so it’s actually peaceful for once

friend: that’s goo- oh my god! there are two people in your backyard trying to kill each other!

percabeth daughter: huh? oh, no those are my parents. they’re just sparring, don’t worry

friend: sparring? with… a giant knife and… a sword?

percabeth daughter: well they practice hand to hand combat too, but weapons practice is important

friend:

percabeth daughter: come on! let me show you my room

friend: alr- oh my god, is that a horse in your brother’s room?

percabeth daughter, rolling her eyes: ugh mom and dad told him to keep his window closed!

friend: wait, horses just… come into your house? through the second story window?

percabeth daughter: crazy right? they don’t even ask first. like, at least have some manners!

friend:

[bowowark]

Mr. Boss added a mandatory uniform