#Just be careful

[aimseytv]

seeing creators moving over to platforms that allow bigots and transphobes to run wild is terrifying to see

[foldingfittedsheets]

Dear comrade sheets,

I absolutely LOVE your stories and I LOVE LOVE LOVE when you include a link to another story so I can keep reading. Consequently I hate it when my beloved link is missing because I love your stories so much. I have spent many an hour on your blog going through the lore files and its been great!

Just wanted to let you know how much fun I've had on your blog and how much time I have spent here

First off Comrade Sheets got a full laugh that scared my cat so congratulations.

Also I’m so glad people like the lore drops. It’s literally 99% so I can find my own shit again easier but I’ve had a couple folks say they love following the rabbit hole down and that’s delightful.

[beastswinethief]

i kind of wanted to stick to this account being art only buuuuut. there’s a new account posting in the lotf tag and their blog is entirely based around eating disorders and self harm, including posting graphic untagged pictures in the main lotf tags. me and a couple friends saw this and it affected some of us so 👍 the @ is @/c0dyst4rvzhimself. be careful blocking because there’s uncensored pictures in the little top posts tab.

[ghostfacesamcarpenter]

Bruh there’s someone writing Abigail(2024) smut about an adult and a child actor. I am disgusted. I genuinely hope neither of the actors ever come across that.

[alchemicalwerewolf]

WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE SONGS BY HIM? If they're clean I will go listen to them right now!

oh my gosh you literally cannot ask me that anonnnnnnn!!!!!!

But like… coffee in the morning? Chokehold on me man.

And heart shaped wreckage from SMASH? Top notch.

Don’t even get me started on Alive.

And Only Tea oh my gosh

And oh my gosh everything by his band, Age of Madness (be careful not everything by them is clean)

[omegamagus]

18. Volatile I enter the sword factory. I propose disposable grenade sword. I am forcibly removed from the sword factory.

[aloeverawrites]

Be a bit more careful saying that someone is doing something for male validation.

It’s been used more carelessly now and that implies that everything women do is about a man, which is sexist. Let’s not go there

[ihateliterature]

I often see posts about aspecs being in relationships with alloallos and how that needs more representation and how alternative relationships or alternative ways to do more traditional relationship forms are valid and beautiful, and all that is true. I believe that whole heartedly and I will support these people with my entire being to the ends of time

But I get a pit in my stomach

Because I was there. For more than 2 years I was there. With someone who seemingly did everything right, who asked all the questions and clarified on all my boundaries, who accepted my gender and sexuality and aromanticism with no reservations. Someone who should I have been a dream come true for any partnering aro

And it was a lie. All of it was a lie, and I was the fool in a game played by two women who used me as an accessory and a freak show. Who slowly tried to mold me into what they wanted me to be and threw me aside, were offended even, when I held steadfast to my identity. For whom it was just so hard to get my pronouns right, or to change a name, who chastised me for not being romantic enough, not being jealous and possessive, who tried to feminize me one second and expected certain behaviors from me for being masc the next

What I am trying to say is just, be careful. If you actually want to give a chance to an alloallo, ask yourself, does this person actually understand? Do they actually accept me? Or are they just ignoring who I am being convinced that this relationship will "fix" me in the end?

[impossibleprincess35]

Me when I see fanfic writers charging for commissions.

[azirafuck]

also BEWARE that the blog i reblogged the last post from and added to the spoiler masterpost seems to have watched the entire season, as far as i can see there are no major major spoilers on their blog for now, but beware if you don't want to get ANYTHING spoiled past ep.2

[lewishcmilton]

ok listen I love them racing but I do not want lando or lewis to crash both of them need to be on the podium

[nowandforalways]

The Watermill Theatre has no idea what a thing they have done by putting up that video of "Now And For Always" ❤️

[tostonera]

I don’t live in a very diverse area, so basically everyone dates within race/ethnicity which is why maybe I don’t understand completely what this person is saying. Also, “universal woc experience” since when lmao? You mean woc in the US or Europe or other countries/regions with large diaspora bc there are many places in the world where you don’t meet ppl of other races frequently in the first place, or are people you rarely interact with much less for a romantic encounter.

But anyway, this was in a video where a woman is saying that she doesn’t date Korean men bc they can be misogynistic, racist, homophobic, etc. Not dating Korean men doesn’t mean she’s dating white men, but this comment is what makes me think that the underlying message being received by this commenter is that it’s better to date white men. Regardless of whether that was her intention or not. This isn’t a thing of “betraying your race” bc women don’t owe anything to men and shouldn’t date men of their race bc of “loyalty to their race” or whatever, that’s not what I’m saying. I just think it’s ridiculous the implication that white men are somehow better or more feminist. I think some woc in cultures that have specific cultural norms that are oppressive to them (machismo, for example) imagine whiteness as inherently “progressive” bc they don’t do that specific thing “he wasn’t raised as some ‘macho pecho peludo’ so he can’t hurt me like that”. I say this as someone who’s been there (not in a romantic sense personally, but in a ‘I bet gringos are less homophobic/misogynistic etc’ sense), but don’t be deluded into thinking that bc they don’t do a specific misogynistic thing in your culture they don’t have other ways of being misogynistic or that they aren’t misogynistic at all. It’s important for women to speak up about the ways in which men in their cultures hurt them and the specific ways they do, and if you don’t want to date a man in your race bc of that then I’m so happy for you. But that doesn’t mean a white man is gonna treat you better.

The video was fine btw, women should talk about the shitty men of their own cultures, but that comment made me feel weird bc of the implication that white women are happily in relationships with their white men, or that white men are never rejected for being misogynistic/racist/homophobic etc. And what I’ve said applies to all men ofc but people are so quick to adore white men for the most minimal things “he says he is a feminist!🥹” bc I’ve never met a single Latino man in my life claim to be a feminist. Does that make me think white men are less misogynistic and more “feminist”? No!

[v-anrouge]

I don't usually let people play with my hair, as it's one of the only things I prize and love about my appearance. I just don't trust many to touch or play with it...

You may touch it, lovely.

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[ut-girl666]

Guys I don’t know if this is fake, but there is a possibility Elon Musk is migrating here?? And the account followed me??

So, uh, maybe want watch out?? Consider blocking it? :/

[pinkiemme]

Someone impersonated me on insta and is trying to scam my followers so I made this, and I wanted to share it here too so it can reach more people.

Be careful.