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conanssummerchild · 6 months

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okay so id initially put this in the tags of your ask but i thought id put it in your askbox so you don't feel obligated to answer it or you wanna answer privately instead cause it's very rambly and kinda personal

#also im curious. what do you do after you get an autism dx?#because like back when my psychiatrist evaluated me for a bunch of things. i was curious if i was somewhere on the autism spectrum too#cause i did check a lot of boxes#and she essentially told me i have a lot of the overlapping stuff because of other conditions and i could do the autism evaluation#but it would be a waste of time for me because it wasnt my main dx and doesn't make my life unbearable#because im already taking meds and shit for other stuff but you dont take meds or really do anything about having autism#so she basically told me you might be on the spectrum but there's no point in getting a dx cause it doesnt change anything#but also cuz for me it's probably mild and doesnt affect my every day life that much#so yeah i guess i was curious. im so sorry if this comes off as rude btw#because i know getting dxed changed my life and its so much better now. and im so proud of you for that finally happening#and my situation is very different from yours like even if i am on the spectrum it probably doesn't affect me to an extent where it fucks#with my every day life to an unbearable degree yk#but im definitely curious about how you go forward once you get an autism diagnosis when it does significantly affect your life. like do you do anything about it?#i do know it's validating as hell and your parents will finally take you seriously. cause you've obviously known for a while#and again i know its gonna get so much better hereon. getting dxed literally changes your life and im so so happy for you#how did your family and everyone take it?#like i had the worst relationship with my parents i was gonna cut them off after school but it got so much better after my dx#like they became so much more understanding and like put in the effort to change and be better and its still a long road but yeah#it's kind of fucking awesome and life changing and i really hope it is for you too#im so so so happy for you

well i guess i dont really know yet, i had an appointment yesterday at school hours and i went alone and then i went straight back to school and now im at my friends house so i havent seen my parents yet. i have my last appointment with my psycologist in 2 weeks and that one is with my parents so its basically when shes going to tell them, i dont plan on telling my dad about it before then bcs he can go fuck himself but i am going to tell my mum as soon as she gets home from barcelona. so i cant really say anything parents-wise yet. as for like outside that at the moment theres really nothing at all i can do until my parents are in on it, since im a minor my parents are the ones who choose if the school knows and i can get accomodations but if they choose not to tell them theres really not much i can do, so for me a diagnosis doesnt change much (apart from FINALLY after more than EIGHT years knowing whats different abt me) unless my parents let it change stuff, and at the moment i font know if they will :/, so to answer "what do you do after a diagnosis?" i really dont know. if u want to get diagnosed though and u think you could i would probably go for it, you can keep it to urself since ur over 18 so u dont have to tell anyone else if u dont want to and idk it might come in handy even if it doesnt it is nice to feel validated but anyway its up to you <3

ps: you can literally ask me anything u want to know i dont mind and dont worry abt coming off as rude i dont think u r <33 love u

#idk if i really answered ur question sorry 😭#u can follow up if i didnt #sorryyyy #moots <33 #kavya <3

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thoughtsdying · 3 years

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The procces of realising you’re aroace: a tale by me version 2

Realising you’re aroace is suddenly comprehending why your few friends (with one exception) have always turned out to be in the queer community at the end. Like. That fenomenum of “queer radar only you don’t realise it’s there and you end up gravitating together anyway?” yup- It happens too. Only most of the time you think you’re an allied cis-het weirdo who cares too much about something that doesn’t have anything to do with you, and who cares if you feel weird when other people assume you’re hetero (or that you have a orientation at all), you sure aren’t attracked to your same gender either. Nor are any kind of trans.

And then you discover asexuality in your late teens and it feels weirdly near you, but you think you’re trying to make it so you’re special, so you dismiss any ace feels as you being a late bloomer, and only take care of including it in discussions about queer issues, and then you feel strangely hurt when a professor dismisses it as “some self descriptor weird lonely japanese men in their 40′s created who only care for 2D” which. You don’t have to tell me all the problems in that sentence. Believe me, I know. And you can’t come with arguments except well if people feel like using it, then we should respect it, bc you don’t have the words to explain asexuality except that internet in english told you it was a thing and you still don’t know except in a nebulous way what even is aromanticism, so you didn’t bring that up in the discussion at all.

And a pair of years after that you start using demisexual bc it feels less scary and very reasonable except you’ve never felt attracted to anyone, how do you even tell it? And relationships scare you, and you still don’t have any idea of what is aromanticism except it scares you and you don’t want to contemplate a life being aro. You love romances after all

(except when you have to look the other way in any kind of profound kiss, bc it’s private people, which makes you feel wiedly homophobic when you’re watching a lgbtq+ media or your best friend with her girlfriend even if it’s the same with hetero, except then it’s just that sex is weird in film and kisses with tongue are still private people!)

and obviously you still don’t want to have sex with a girl (Except perhaps those emotional dreams of touching with a friend that aren’t sex but almlost and are very comfortable anyways it could be nice you’re sure but nice isn’t desire is it?) so even although guys make you nervous and any thought of doing anything romantic-sexual with one is a “yikes” you suppose you find some really pretty in a different way you do with woman and that must be ~attraction~.

And a friend tells you that a guy tried to sound her to see if he could date you and she told him you were ace and uninterested in any kind of relationship, and you go “why?” confused and a bit elated bc holy shit what a relief you won’t have to confront him, but also a bit of panic (that’s how i come across? it isn’t my imagination, im so obvious oh no) and she tells you, “well you are almost one and you don’t have any intention of dating anybody right now so i thought it best to cut any feels on his part right now”. And it gives you things to think about.

And another two years pass except this time you’ve started to educate yourself on aromanticism bc too many relatable posts on tumblr looking into the ace tag made you “holy shit yeah this makes more sense than just asexuality” but also you keep loving romance stories except now you’ve started to recognize you’re starved of friendship in all the ambits of your live and you’re also a young adult who still doesn’t want a relationship, what do i do? And maybe you’re not demi, you’re ace and you can think sex sounds a nice activity to do with intimate friends (aro aro aro) but not something you’re into, and you’re still ace, you’re not attracted to anybody not really. What a relief. (you still can’t try on the aro umbrella)

And you question yourself bc a fantastic guy has become your friend, and your minds vibe inmensely well, and you talk during quearentine, but he gives you some weird vibes sometimes, and makes you gifts which you ignore bc holy shit a best friend! And he has money and he’s lonely! I would also give gifts to my besties if I had money! And then he confesses to you on wassap, and you realise he has put you on a pedestal and has cofessed but already said himself he doesn’t want a relationship with you bc he would corrupt you or something and anyway, he’s not really in love with you he’s using you as a mental crutch to try to not be depressed, he knows that noe but he hates psycologists. Also, can i have some time apart from you?

So you tell him you feel flattered but that you see him as only a friend, and please can you not put yourself so below me? Search professional help. I’ll stay away as long as you need.

And you start feeling uneasy, but you think it’s only that he’s a weirdo and really you’ve dodged a bullet of course you wouldn’t want to go out with him, he’s not really the kind of pretty you like. Except if you’re ace what does it matter? Isn’t it that you feel pretty repulsed by trying a romantic relationship? Or are you just justifying your own aloofness and personality problems that make impossibly difficult to try a romance anyway. People don’t control who they feel romantic feels for anyway.

Except in the following months when you’ve finally reaturned to be friends you’re so relieved to not have that shadow above you and really wouldn’t it be amazing if everybody knew you didn’t want anything to do with them romantically? To be free to be friends and hug them, and walk arm in arm or go to lunch and cinema and still be just friends? To plan your future in a line along with those friends but not be really a committement as much as you just want to enjoy talking face to face with them for a bit longer.

So you go back to read about aromanticism and maybe you cry a little but mostly you’re pretty happy and scared about it. And you tell that friend, bc he’s your bestie right now and you feel him being bi and also being interested in you in the past would make him more likely to react well. It’s not personal it’s just the way I am. And then you start crying in the middle of a starbucks for 15 min. and you didn’t now you feel so much so intensely about being aroace, and how it had impacted you without knowing and how much you hate those expectations. And he hugs you and tells you “nobody has the right to tell you how to live. if you feel like you’re never gonna be in a relationship that’s your business and you’ll be happy anyway” and you cry harder. And then you both have a sincere conversation about sex as he has experimented it and how you feel it pretty strange and weird, but maybe you’d like to try it sometime. Just not a time near now. And if it’s never that’s pretty okey with you too.

So you go home feeling a bit embarrased but also pretty elated except a week later there’s another wassap message from him, saying he feels he still loves you, and that he understands intelectually your nearness with him is friendly but still feels romantic and it confuses me and it pains me and i would prefer to not be your friend anymore, sorry, men are shit and me the worst of them.

“Ok” I write back. I’m furious and hurt and I don’t want to see his liar face anymore. So fuck you, I think. “Thanks for telling me” And I block his number and I don’t talk to him when we met with out mutual friends, and when it’s necessary I talk as if he were a stranger. Kindly but impersonal. Isn’t that what you wanted? To lost a friend? So you’ve lost me forever.

And it became clear to me that I don’t think I’ll ever understand the stupidity of not wanting to see someone just because their lives don’t revolve around you the way you like, even though you’re friends and you can talk to them about anything at all anyway, and be there for help with the shitty parts of life. There are things I’ll never felt or do for another.

And I’m ok with that.

#aromantic #aromanticism #asexual #asexuality #personal #real experiences and problems

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thesouththth131 · 4 years

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I recently lost my job which was in our family store. It’s closed down. We have no monetary revenue of any kind. My mother and my father are both old and ill. I’m a mentally ill person with suicidal tendencies. I can’t even afford a psychiatrist, medications or a psycologist. The free ones, psychiatrists and psychologists, they’re so filled up with patients that they can’t pay attention to you if they have other 60 or 70 persons like you the same day. I’m begging you to help me out if you can do it through a donation, at least until I can find another proper job. The coronavirus spread in my country is making it so much worse. I love writing. It’s my main passion. I can write for you whatever you want me to write, but please give me some money. Fandoms or originals. All you have to do is to tell me what you want me to write for you. I’ll do it.

My paypal for donations: will be shared privately.

My email for writing original stories or fanfictions for you: [email protected]

#fanfiction commission #writing #fanfiction commissions #donations #signal boost

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aleniksimmer · 4 years

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Update on life and stuff

First of all, sorry for the absence and the lack of replies. This week has been rough, I spent half of the time taking care of Stige and the other half arguing with my mother. Sorry in advance if this post will be long.

Stige

She’s doing nice. I keep going to the vet for check ups and she temporarely used some surgery metal pins to close the skin. I take care and clean her ears two times per day and most of the dried dirt/blood went away. We decided to sterilize and close the wound surgically these days but my mother insisted I need to make all the blood tests on her cause she doesn’t want to risk the life of our pets. So blood test it is, but it costs around 180 140€ for FIV+the other stuff which I have to pay by myself. And I have to pay by myself the surgery too and it won’t be lower than 250-300€.

University/Job

I ended up not doing the exam scheduled for today for a series of reason. And obviously my mother didn’t miss to make me feel miserable for it, it’s basically a week that she keeps calling me a failure on a daily basis. On the other hand I sent my (very thin) CV to all the places I know I can reach walking/with the bus. I hope I can find something, I know I fucked up these last ten years of my life due to depression and anxiety, but I’m really trying to take control of my life now. I feel ashamed of my past self, I keep calling me a stupid who makes stupid decisions, and on one hand the psycologist tells me it’s never too late to change and make different decisions, and on the other my mother that keep telling me I am a failure, I never finished anything in my life and never will because I’m over 25 and I don’t have a family or a job, and the university is taking me more time than intended, that she had high hopes on me to make her and my father proud because I was very good at school in my child/teen years but I just ended up failing them. She says I don’t have a back bone but as soon as I stand for myself, my beliefs and my decisions she says I’m childish and have no idea how the world works because I’m home most of the time and I lost contact with my old friends due to my mental state. This morning we had a huge fight for something insignificant and she ended up going ballistic just because I refused to do as she said, it went on my nerves cause she started screaming without giving me the chance to speak further so I ended up calling her names (stupid, etc) and she hates it with all of her soul when I don’t “respect” her so she tried to slap me, and I defended myself cause I am no more the child who’s afraid as soon as she rise her hands. She went crazy even more and said I should have let her slap me, she mocked my reactions as a child when I was afraid she was going to hit me and then went all victim “she scratched me like a possessed animal, help me put a huge ass band aid on my arm” to my brother and she will going to play this part to my father too, so I end up like the crazy black sheep of the family as usual. And tbh I feel like shit, not because I hurt her while trying to defend myself, but because I lost control. I hate feeling strong emotions, I hate the deep rage I was feeling after the fight, I hate I can’t keep a clear mind after she pushes and pushes.

I’m sorry I’ve been carried away with the rant, I just wanted to let you know how fucked up the situation is. On top of the money for the cat and university, she wants the money she borrowed me for the pc back. At the moment the only earnings I have is the 10$ for creation/set from TSR. As I said back then, I’ll put my kofi link under my posts again and I was thinking of starting some kind of kofi commissions until I find a job. Since I have the free version, each donation is 3€, so maybe 3/5accessories+(top+bottom)/(outfit)+shoes for each kofi? I’ll give the commisioner a private SFS link and after they claimed it I’ll upload the pieces to TSR? What do you think? The money will help me cover Stige’ surgery and post operation care (meds, vet appointments etc). Would you like this idea?

#faq #stige #cat #cat help #the sims 4 commission #sims 4 commission #ts4 commission #the sims 4 #sims 4 #ts4 #the sims 4 kofi #sims 4 kofi #ts4 kofi

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blogmarareactions · 7 years

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Masterlist - BTS

Stories/Oneshots

Just what I needed - Shapeshifter Yoongi x Reader (ongoing story) Intro - to be continued...

Reactions

Reaction to their non idol boyfriend cooking a homemade meal for him and his band because they will be in the studio untill late at night

Reaction to their idol girlfriend publicly saying that she`s single

Jin, Jungkook and Jimins reaction to their 99 liner sister going to their fansign but they have to act like they don`t know her because of their private life

Reaction to their S/O bottling up their emotions/feelings

Reaction to finding out their S/O is portuguese

Reaction to their girlfriend has only ever dated girls because she feels intimitated by guys

Reaction to their S/O being clumsy

Reaction to their S/O having curly hair and being insecure about it

Reaction to their S/O being part of the LGBTQ+ community

Reaction to their S/O being insecure about her smile/laugh and therefor always hides it

Reaction to their S/O walking in on them showering

Reaction to their significant other getting slightly hurt becuse they fell down the stairs or got mugged while BTS is at work

Reaction to their S/O being sad and starting to cry

Reaction to their S/O facing discrimination

Reaction to meeting their S/O parents and wanting to learn more about their culture which is not korean

Reaction to shopping for lingerie with their girlfriend

Reaction to their S/O being a special MC for music bank and having skinship with another male idol and now they are ignoring them

Reaction to meeting their S/O parents and wanting to learn more about their culture which isn`t korean (different countries edition)

How they would ask their girlfriend if she wants babies yet

Reaction to their gf coming out as asexual to them

Reaction to you losing your voice because of a cold

Reaction to their best friend that they have a crush on trying to set them up with a friend

Reaction to their S/O being a psycologist

Reaction to their sister having her first stage and meeting them backstage after

Reaction to you being as tall as Jimin

Picture reaction to what kind of lingerie they`d like

Reaction to their girlfriend unintentionally wearing something revealing

Reaction to finding out you are a former Disney star

Reaction to you being jealous

Special Birthday reaction (ft.Namjoon)

Reaction to the girl they are on a date with insisting on paying for the dinner

Reaction to their gf being on her period

Reaction to her running away from them because she feels like a burden to them (Mafia!AU)

Reaction to their s/o making a song out of everything

Reaction to their s/o feeling insecure during foreplay (Fluffy - smut)

Reaction to finding out their innocent gf is actually quite perverted

BTS as christmas trees

BTS as parents on christmas eve

MTL

MTL do date a girl 6-9 years younger than them

MTL do date a girl with short hair and boyish style

MTL to date a dark skinned girl

MTL to date a curvy girl

MTL to marry someday

MTL to spoil their child

MTL to date a very cuddly girl

MTL to date someone with an ENFJ

MTL to date someone with a different religion

MTL to kiss up to s/o family

MTL to date someone with an INFJ personality

MTL to date someone with a 4D personality

MTL to date a latina

MTL to date a foreigner

MTL to date someone with a ENFP personality

MTL to have a choking kink

MTL to date a short girl 5` or shorter

MTL to date someone tall and muscular

MTL to start a fight when drunk

MTL to get a tattoo

MTL to put their S/O first (put their S/O happiness over their own)

Fake Snaps

Smutty snaps with Namjoon

Smutty snaps with Taehyung

Smutty snaps with Jimin

Angsty snaps with Jin where he cheated and tries to get you back

Fluffy snaps with Namjoon

Smutty snaps with Yoongi

All of BTS snaps when you tell them you`re having twins

Fake Texts

When y/n gets stuck on the roof when trying to hang up christmas lights PART 1

When y/n gets stuck on the roof when trying to hang up christmas lights PART 2

Jin texting y/n merry christmas in the middle of the night

Moodboards/Aesthetics

Taehyung sleepy mood moodboard

Namjoon scientist and Taehyung lab rat moodboard

Namjoon dom/sub moodboard

Taehyung peter pan moodboard

Namjoon nsfw moodboard

Namjoon work out moodboard

Namjoon christmas moodboard

Scenarios

Comedic prompt where Namjon isn`t wearing any pants

Namjoon prompt “Misunderstanding” angst & fluff

Taehyung prompt “Caught” smut

Didn`t find the request you were looking for? Request it then and I`ll do what I can!

#bts #bts masterlist #masterlist #reactions

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sapphicsinthecloset · 7 years

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I've been going to my psycologist because of my anxiety and depression. Should I tell her about my sexual orientation? I'm afraid she will tell my mom. 《Though I think it might help having someone to talk to about my sexual orientation. Since I've been struggling with it for 5 years》 What do you think? Should I?

First a psychologist has you sign a contract before you begin. It usually says something along the lines of “I will not tell your parents something unless I feel it puts you in danger or if it’s important to your well being.” If you remember signing this then you’re in the clear.

Another thing to keep in mind is your age. I know some psychologists feel that if you’re younger it’s more important to share private information like that. Keep that in mind.

Stay safe.

#mod cyan #doctors #psychologists #Anonymous

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mxlfoydraco · 7 years

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hi Serra, I've been feeling super down this days (well. like 3 years ago but now I cant take it anymore) so I went to the psycologist (therapist? dont know the difference) and she ask me stuff and I cant tell her why I feel down, like I cant even tell her that Im bisexual(nobody knows) and I feel so trapped in myself, like I cant continue normaly my life and feel so anxius all the time, i hate myself bc I have no idea how to get out of this situation and online is the only way I can feel 'free'

Hi! I’m so sorry things have been though for you, especially lately, but i’m really proud of you for seeking help. What i can tell you is that, sometimes it takes time to truly connect with a therapist and the trust between you and them might build slowly. It’s okay to not feel ready to share some private information yet, no one excepts you to tell them everything all at once. Sometimes private and/or difficult topics take time to share and discuss, that’s expected and normal. At this time, i can urge you to discuss the things you’re comfortable with and topics that you feel that are your priority goals, and work on them together. If after a tangible amount of time you still feel like you can’t open up to this particular therapist, then you can ask for a referral. Not everyone clicks, and sometimes a certain client might feel that another therapist is a better fit for them. That’s okay as well, it’s what happened to me and i started to get more benefit from therapy when i finally found my current therapist. Wishing you all the best!

#asks

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mindmattersclinics · 7 months

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