#Suggestion Blog

[sugarysuggestion]

oh honey you got a big storm comin

2020 has been filled with so much self growth, but I’ll be honest, the pain I experienced this year used to be unbearable.

A majority of the summer is lost on me, I blocked a lot of it out so I don’t know how I dealt with it initially. Yet I am here. I’m growing, I’m alive, and I am getting better. I have strengthened so many friendships, made new bonds, and unbeknownst to me I met my current girlfriend this year as well. I could not be happier with the people I’ve surrounded myself with.

You can grow from what you’ve experienced this year. You may be hurting now, or you may be perfectly content where you are right now. Either way, this next year is a time for development.

Happy new year, everybody ❤️

[desultory-suggestions]

If you are feeling good about yourself or situation and then your mood suddenly shifts leaving you feeling insecure, unsure, etc. try to remind yourself that nothing has truly changed but your perception. Your cute outfit did not suddenly become horrid. Your delicious meal did not tranform into a terrible one. Your peers perception of you has not radically transformed over a social misstep. Everything we experience is put through it through our mental filter, and that can convince us that everyone else sees us with the judgement we have for ourselves. Be kind to yourself.

[fallen-in-love-suggestion]

Do you want to get coffee and go to the bookstore with me?

[magicalgirlsuggestions]

Mirabelle Prunille Pois Chevalier from "In Stars and Time" is a ~Magical Girl~

REASONS:

Big bow

Very pretty

Goes "ding ding" when she walks

Super cool magic

Power of friendship and hope

Vibes

[happydayssuggestions]

reset, restart, and refocus as many times as you want to.

[recoverr]

i hope life takes it easy on you today. but if not, i hope you have the strength to carry on until the sun rises again. you are very loved and very needed here, i hope you remember that.

[friend-suggestions]

*grabs u by the face and brings u closer to my face* listen here u little beautiful and wonderful person, u and i are going to get better whether we like it or not

[softheartedsuggestion]

you were never a burden - and you never will be

[truelovesuggestion]

actually i think there is love in friendship and love in creating art and love in bread and love in nodding along to a child’s babbling and love in spamming emotes and love under the blankets. i think love is in everything and everywhere just waiting to be seen

[cutedatesuggestions]

cute date idea

[folkwayss]

july 26th - summer semester over! against all odds I passed my math class with a C because of the curve. now I’m headed to chicago for the weekend :)

[desultory-suggestions]

Sending love to everyone who has health issues or chronic pain in parts of your body that aren’t usually socially acceptable to talk about. It’s frustrating to feel like you can never explain your pain to someone because it’s TMI and to feel like you have to hide it. Your pain is nothing to be ashamed of. I see you, and I’m sending you support and strength.

[fallen-in-love-suggestion]

Concept: We get coffee and look around our favorite book store for books the other would enjoy

[unhappeningsuggestions]

do you always bleed like that? with the cadence and frequency of a wild dog, writhing and scratching yourself in an agony you can’t describe? it’s terrible, really, you know that? i did nothing to you, and your body is already folding in on itself like a piece of paper. pull yourself together, or i might just have to let you die.

[happydayssuggestions]

a soft reminder that you are not at all difficult to love.