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Hi! I'm sending this with the full understanding that it's an incredibly intrusive question, so PLEASE don't hesitate to delete / ignore. My wife and I are planning to start trying to conceive....soon. Like in the next few months probably? And I'm trying to grapple with the complexities of using a sperm donor and having a hard time wrapping my head around it. Would genuinely love to benefit from any insight or reflection that you're willing to share~~
congrats to you guys!! wishing you all the best on the ~ttc journey~ (as the forums call it lol). I thought that choosing the donor would feel like a big deal or would be really challenging but I was surprised by how much I didn’t feel stressed or concerned about it when I was actually choosing. my one non-negotiable criteria was I wanted an open ID donor so that my kid has the option of contacting him when he turns 18 — he doesn’t have to, of course, but I thought it would be good for him to be able to make that choice if he wanted to. other than that I really just picked based on vibes. I just liked my donor’s responses and thought he seemed like a smart, interesting person, and i wanted to be able to tell my kid I picked him because I liked XYZ things about him. but it ultimately didn’t matter THAT much to me bc I’m not going to be the one who contacts him later and we probably won’t ever have any kind of relationship to each other, yknow? I’m grateful to my donor for helping me achieve my dream of becoming a parent and I do have moments where i feel a little sad for him, because he helped make this perfect little baby and he doesn’t even know this beautiful kid is out there! maybe he’ll never know if owen doesn’t want to contact him! but that’s ok, that’s what we all signed on for, and I’m glad that people become donors so that this kind of assisted reproduction is possible.
#would be happy to talk with you about it further!#other lesbian friends who used donors have said their criteria was ‘we thought we’d enjoy grabbing a beer with#him’#and another couple:#‘he was really pretty’#lol#no wrong criteria!
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catcrumb tarot 7/22
#crumb#tarot#colorcrumb#after one million years... i finally completed another tarot card...#this one sat forever in a couple previous drafts. might throw those up on patreon#anyway. intentional ambiguity in this card: are they joining or departing? but the colors of the cats are on purpose
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i’m coping really normal about not getting a movie code
#edit: there’s another drawing in the notes ^^ someone was kind enough to give me a code!#i’m canadian so i’ve gotta wait another couple weeks to even see the movie and they don’t even have codes here#god i want the 2 stars though. the fomo’s hitting so hard#doodles#my art#mafuyu asahina#prsk fa#prsk#project sekai
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silly little space clowns <3
#artists on tumblr#illustration#character design#art#digital art#illustrators on tumblr#I saw couple of ppl tagging the character design art I posted a while ago as clowns#and like I take no offense to that!! >w< and I kinda get it too! :D but they were not intentionally inspired by clown aesthetics#so I made some silly space clowns!!! and it was super fun too!!! :D#i had so many ideas and designs I couldn't fit in here so maybe ill do another silly line up of space clowns someday c:
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botanical books 🌷🌸
#illustration#art#old books#bookish art#pink aesthetic#finally got around to doing another one of these!#stickers available when my store opens in a couple days
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I got an ultrasound done of my forearms (cause I whined to my rheumatologist about how I can't illustrate anymore), and I was REALLY scared they'd find nothing and just call me a faker and a liar, BUT! carpal tunnel in both wrists, baby! apparently my ulnar and median nerves are all big and inflamed.
I think the immunosuppressants will help, though. if I'm understanding things right, they should reduce the inflammation and make it a lot less painful to draw.
#I was able to paint strawberries for hours last night with no pain :)#so that's promising#and I won't even feel the full effects of the shot for another couple weeks
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fucking hell man
#a lot of this stuff is art I've drawn over the past couple of years that I wasn't posting for one reason or another#buuuuuut I don't care about any of those reasons anymore so yay you're just getting (almost) everything#scribbles#gravity falls#ford pines#fiddleford mcgucket#fiddauthor
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Oh wow! A new page of Instinct after uhhh… 3 months…! I was so determined to finally complete it before the new year but that didn’t happen. Whoops. But perhaps this will finally be the year it will be done :’) Now we head into wholesome territory.
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#gravity falls#stanley pines#stanford pines#stan twins#sea grunks#my art#comic#instinct comic#stan pines#ford pines#let’s hope I don’t take another couple months for a new page#i’m so sorry i’m trying :’)#and we are so close to the end too
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a show doesn't necessarily have to be ABOUT queerness to BE a queer show. it's a cultural dialect that cishets don't quite speak.
edit: i gotta clarify that the shows do indeed still have to have actual queer characters in them to count
#our flag means death#and yeah i'll say#the owl house#not just in the fact they are stuffed to the brim with queer characters#or their stories of self-transformation into who you truly are#or even that they're about outsiders finding community amongst each other#though those things certainly factor#it's that the queerness cannot be disentangled from the story without costing complexity#luz has to be neurodivergent and queer. if she wasn't the story would be about someone else#am i making sense? is this microphone on?#a couple others of note are#killing eve#renegade nell#and star trek#which cannot be made straight despite best efforts#conversely heartstopper and first kill are not queer. but that's another essay.
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MALAKAI & ROWAN | Heartbreak High 2024 · Teen · Drama · S2·EP4
#whether intentional or not the fact that another queer character imagines a BETTER/SEXIER one than their actual sex scene is sending me#heartbreak high#thomas weatherall#sam rechner#malakai mitchell#rowan callaghan#malakai x rowan#flirtation#kiss#lgbt#gay#queer#couple#intimacy#affection#queer media#beautiful men
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Jon and Martin as a couple actually mean the world to me. As an ace person, I hardly ever get to see media that represents asexuality in a way that feels realistic to my experience. Romance is important to me, but it’s always tied in with sex as if they are inseparable. Most ace characters are aroace, and I have literally never come across an ace character in a romantic relationship until Jon and Martin. I think that’s part of the reason they’ve taken over my brain so much in a way no other ship I’ve come across has so intensely. On top of the fact that I love their characters and the TMA universe as a concept like they have lowkey changed my life.
#they actually mean so much to me they make me want to start sobbing#in a good way#idk if I’ll ever come across another ship that makes me feel the way they do#ace couples are so fucking rare in media and it makes me sad#thank you Jonny sims for this treat 🙏#the magnus archives#tma podcast#magnus archives#magpod#tma#tma martin#martin blackwood#tma jmart#jmart#jonmartin#teaholding#asexual#asexuality#jonathan sims#jon sims#tma jon#milo ramblings
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Pt 3 of aroace sonic compliments
To be clear no one is safe
#KNOX ART (me)#surge the tenrec#Sonic the Hedgehog#aroace sonic#SURGE’S DESIGN IS SO FUN???#i’m a sucker for these kind of I’ll kill you nvm I’ll BEAT you kind of dynamics and sonic has LOADS of them#love the narrative of being doomed to care about sonic one way or another oBSESSED with that#insane over how conflicted he makes everyone feel just by existing and being himself#once again disclaimer: i know very little about Surge I’m operating off 1 comic that I’ve read some fun facts and a couple comic panels#have mercy on me and my characterization#all I know is Surge has that she/her/they/them nonbiny swag and hearing ‘handsome’ probably feels some type of way#some words are just WOWZA and i feel like that’d be one of them for her— COUGHS ANYWAY
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The art of the sleeping sapphic
#this is my all time favorite trope#the intimacy of it all#not even about the clothes or lack thereof#it's just getting to see these couples finally rest and find comfort in each other#and ultimately that sleep is the most solitary of acts but the romance and trust of doing it together#also because I was watching affair and thinking about how sleep is such an important part of their trauma and ultimately healing#maybe I do another deep dive into that#but anyways it brought me back to juliantina#because I wanted to frame that first image#and that image from Gap was one that I loved#also this is absolutely the pipeline that I think a lot of us went down#amar a muerte#juliantina#barbarena#gap the series#monsam#freenbecky#affair the series#wanpleng#lmsy#thai gl#gl series
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ren versus everyone else's POV of him was so funny.
Ren said: "I love my buddy, I can't bear to go without him. If I be a little weird and off-putting maybe I will fly under the radar. Then I can win this for us"
Everyone else heard: "I am an amalgamation, I am something Else. The rot will consume all as it has consumed me, and you are the first to witness what it has done. The dead that crawl from the earth are in my likeness and I speak with the voice of a false god"
#1k notes on my last rendog-is-strange post in a couple hours so here's another#rendog#renthedog#renchanting#renchanting duo#dogwarts#inthelittlewood#martyn#martyn inthelittlewood#wild life spoilers#life series spoilers#trafficblr#traffic series#life series#wild life smp#traffic smp#wild life#wlsmp spoilers#life series smp#martren#treebark
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ANOTHER SIMPLE FAVOR (2025)
#this movie was a hot ass mess lmfaoooo#but they are both hot so.#a lesbian couple aint as gay as whatever these two got going on#another simple favor#blake lively#blakelivelyedit#anna kendrick#annakendrickedit#filmgifs#filmedit#kaygifs
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The Hunt - Part 3
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Woo! I'm free!
We're finally done with everything that will happen before the actual hunting trip, we're now going onto the juicy stuff hehe!
I've been loving seeing everyone's theories and reactions to this comic. It means so much that y'all are enjoying this silly little idea that I thought and also my first long form comic. I can only hope you guys continue to read and enjoy where I'm going with this story.
As you can probably see, I changed the formatting and shading style for the comic. The previous one was making me feel really burnt out, and I also wanted to challenge myself a bit by using a more traditional comic format. I hope it's not too jarring. I am more happy with a lot of these pages than I was with the last parts. I see like some of the drawings for those, but percentage wise I am more happy with the results of this part.
(Could also be just because these are more recent but who knows)
As routine, I will be taking the next bit off to rest and plan the next part. See y'all soon:))
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#i do want to make another bonus doodle thing of something between Ford and Caryn#but that won't be happening tonight#i did all the shading and the last like four pages line art today#i only stop for a couple hours because my ipad needed to charge#gravity falls#caryn pines#stanford pines#young stanford pines#stanley pines#stan twins#young stanley#young stan twins#stangst#filbrick pines#gravity falls fanart#gravity falls comic#the hunt comic#cryptic art#cryptic underground#my art#gravity falls stanford#gravity falls stanley#stan pines#gravity falls caryn#gravity falls filbrick#gf#gf fanart#gf comic#gf ford#gf stan
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