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aipurjopa Ā· 4 months ago
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twitter is fighting over parrot boundaries rn and i think it's the funniest thing ever because. sorry guys i think wifies might be the biggest parfies shipper what are you all going to do about that one like. show wifies that damned google doc?
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iridescentmirrorsgenshin Ā· 1 year ago
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Alhaitham referring to kaveh in ways which acknowledge his skill, and kaveh perceiving it as sarcasm, even though alhaitham refers to kaveh in the same ways when kaveh isn’t present is driving me a little bit insane - especially what this prompts the player to question!!
When we first meet kaveh in the archon quest the relationship between him and alhaitham is presented to us as ā€œterribleā€ (courtesy of npc geoff who introduces kaveh’s return to sumeru city), and the cutscene in the house of daena demonstrates what this entails, being that the two cannot see eye to eye, and, seemingly don’t hold each other in high regard.
Alhaitham seemingly refers to kaveh’s genius in a sarcastic light and kaveh claims to despise talking to alhaitham because of his arrogance.
Looking to kaveh’s hangout, however, when the player has a one-on-one with alhaitham, the player gets a glimpse into alhaitham’s personal understanding of kaveh, and with this, his own views on kaveh.
Within this exchange between him and the player, Alhaitham uses Kaveh’s title without sarcasm, sincerely praising him and his skills, elevating him over ā€˜less skilled’ architects and asserting that Kaveh should have more confidence in his work.
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The reason that Alhaitham does not openly praise Kaveh is stated here, being that ā€œadmonitionsā€ will serve no purpose due to people being prone to fall into ā€œsimilar pitfallsā€, and that people should have the right to lead their own life, rather than have it interfered upon by others
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The reading here is that even if Alhaitham did openly praise Kaveh, no difference would be made in Kaveh’s thinking. Yet, by refraining from praise, and instead goading, by this logic, this also makes no difference. Therefore, the question is raised, ā€˜why can Alhaitham praise Kaveh to the player, and not to Kaveh himself?’
When Alhaitham praises Kaveh’s work within Kaveh’s hangout it is through there being no record of issues in the reconstruction of port ormos, which is something kaveh states first - in this context, alhaitham notes the work as an ā€œimpressive achievementā€, which kaveh assents to, as there is no standing in which this can be debated. Kaveh cannot resent a compliment steeped in fact, even from alhaitham
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The problem, then, is rooted in alhaitham’s delivery, which relates to their core issue of miscommunication. Referring back to their exchange in the House of Daena, it is observed that Alhaitham uses similar descriptors of Kaveh to Kaveh, similar to the descriptors he uses to the Traveler in Kaveh’s hangout, however, Kaveh perceives these words as sarcasm.
This highlights the miscommunication between them and can aid in answering the question why Alhaitham cannot be open with Kaveh, as he will be misconstrued.
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​Through Alhaitham’s repeated elusions to Kaveh when he is not present and his open esteem of Kaveh and his work to the Traveler, Kaveh’s assertion that Alhaitham holds him in a negative light is proved incorrect. This serves to highlight the miscommunication between the two, causing the player to question why they hold such contrasting views of the other.
Clearly, there is a reason why Alhaitham cannot openly express his regard of Kaveh to Kaveh, but this reason is obscure to both kaveh and the player.
In terms of queer subtext it’s pretty interesting that alhaitham’s high regard for kaveh is shown within the surface text and yet the reason for this secrecy is never made explicit within the story’s surface and is only to be inferred from alhaitham’s and kaveh’s character stories.
In terms of the two functioning as mirrors, the fact that the knowledge that alhaitham cannot outright compliment kaveh 1) is not only due to their past argument and lost friendship and 2) is also due to his awareness that kaveh cannot accept goodwill, is only obtainable by reading both kaveh and alhaitham’s character stories shows how intertwined they are as characters - you cannot fully understand one without the other
(Update: For more analyses like this, the essay this is taken from is now uploaded! It can be accessed here and here as as a pdf <3)
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myimaginationplain Ā· 7 months ago
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do you ever think about how Ohkubo extremely casually dropped the fact that Spirit & Kami were teen parents & then proceeded to never expound upon that fact or bring it up ever again despite it explaining a whole lot about them & Maka
#I think a big part of why I'm so attached to/interested in spirit as a character is because he objectively has A LOT going on in his life.#but because he was created to fill that stock pervy comedic-relief anime side-character archetype we never get to see any of it examined.#or even brought up at all for the most part#like spirit apparently comes from a long line of death weapons who despite having been loyal to lord death for generations are never ever#mentioned & who spirit himself never mentions despite carrying on the family tradition (although he's not unique in that regard tbh)#at 12-13 years old he becomes stein's weapon partner & in his own words it became ā€œ[spirit's] job to control [stein].ā€#another kid with a laundry list of mental health & behavioral issues that spirit probably wasn't super prepared to help ā€œcontrolā€#(personally I think that this ā€œjobā€ of spirit's was a duty he took upon himself rather than something lord death necessarily told him to do)#then just ~5 years later he 1) loses/rejects said weapon partner & probably best friend after some really major boundaries were crossed#2) becomes a husband & father at just 18#(& in his own words a broke 18 year old at that. another point towards him not being in contact with any family if they're even alive)#3) becomes technically one of the most important people in the world once he ascends to being a death weapon.#not necessarily in that exact order but certainly in quick succession.#& then we fast forward to canon & spirit's at best a guy who drinks way more than he probably should & at worst a functioning alcoholic#who's only A MONTH into being divorced for his habitual infidelity & is in the really weird position of being the primary caretaker of his#daughter who (rightfully) hates him despite him having zero custodial rights over her.#& imo he seems to have no friends in death city before stein & the other death scythes return despite generally being a people person.#like. spirit is kind of the epitome of should've been at the club lmao#soul eater#spirit albarn#kami albarn#meta (kind of. not really lol)
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sergle Ā· 2 years ago
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There's something about like. A certain genre of posts / Online Opinions about insecurity/depression/misery/complaints that are so unhelpful that they wrap right around to being straight up hilarious. and it's the ones that are more or less written to the tone of "Feeling bad? That's gross!" Like, just so you know, don't voice your insecurities/ have low self esteem, because that's offputting! You're gross and weird. Don't be insecure about that, though. That would be stupid if you felt insecure about people disliking you for being insecure. Not attractive. You should be thinking about being as attractive as possible. You shouldn't make comments about suicide, even if you're suicidal! Keep those thoughts entirely to yourself. Make sure nobody around you knows you're thinking about this. It would Make Them Uncomfortable. It's better to keep these thoughts in your head where they can fester. Don't post OR talk to friends with complaints about you feeling miserable or depressed. Tbh people who are sad/upset a lot? Kinda a red flag! You are probably miserable because you're a bad person and you've brought this on yourself. If you don't have friends, it's because you're awful to be around. Easy! Solved the problem for you. And no, there is no nuance to this, got it? So, make sure to feel bad about feeling bad, but don't feel bad about it, because, well, that's just gross. And annoying! You might've wanted your brain rotted thoughts to be Peer Reviewed, you might have just needed to vent- you might've been hoping for some comfort, to get things off your chest. Well, don't! Don't talk about thoughts or feelings that are negative with your friends, you'd be burdening them and that's only meant for THERAPY. #SponsoredbyBetterHelp #MentalHealth like, DAMN. that's so helpful. you're so good at helping. I um really liked the part where these are all hard and fast rules that encourage keeping feelings bottled up and keeping your friends at arm's length. That's really funny of you.
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mewnoroma Ā· 5 months ago
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I've seen some individuals say Eigong was obsessed with immortality from the beginning, and while I understand the reasoning behind it I think it really undermines her character. She's not...obsessed at the very start, as shown by this log:
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She has a dream like any other individual, but it's colored by how many people are relying on her in this moment. Failure isn't an option, and we can see how that mindset is what carries her into accepting immortality with how she literally spends centuries trying to rectify her biggest mistake (Tianhuo).
It's also really painful, then, to see her breaking down and questioning why they were even researching immortality in the first place...she forgot what she was doing all those years ago. Hoagh...Eigong the woman you are [gunshot]
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ann7av Ā· 4 months ago
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Every time I watch one of RY's events and see the way she talks about the book my hopes dim a little because The Empyrean has an interesting premise, but I disagree with the execution on such a fundamental level that it's painful.
RY said that by the end of OS the world will expand in a way that will blow our minds and I really hope it does, on the other hand, she also said Violet only has one goal in this book and we can guess it's about Xaden, unfortunately, I don't particularly care about him (I really tried).
Not my book not my monkeys tho, I'll be here drawing the sorrengails regardless
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ask-unpleasant Ā· 11 months ago
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Hey, I just found a weird box that says "Don't touch -Youngpleasant" And I looked in it to see some really gross stuff
hey can we not say this about the singular underage character of mine
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rasairui Ā· 8 months ago
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Post: gender identity is complicated and everyone has their own unique relationship with it. Presentation does not equal gender and not everyone likes strict labels!
Me: Yeah! True! This is great so far please don't turn this into-
Post: I will now use this as an excuse to obsessively list every possible way in which a lesbian ends up with a man. I will equate butches and gnc women to men, completely missing my own point when I said presentation doesn't equal gender. Also being transmasc is always the same as being male aligned btw. I'm going to find a way to fit dissociative identity disorder into this for some reason. I'm also going to be really condescending and talk like no lesbian has ever understood the concept of gender noncomformity, ambiguity and complex relationships to gender. No, I never talk this way about gay men and nblm why do you ask
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nomsfaultau Ā· 10 months ago
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holy smokes have u ever read orv
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only ever read orb
(no what is that)
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haloeffect Ā· 2 months ago
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It’s time to make more gifts for simply everyone
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misanthropicgardener Ā· 3 months ago
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oh i think i figured out how to articulate something???
#posting this in faith that if anybody i know in real life sees this to please not acknowledge it or think about it too deeply#but it is weird having only two very very close long time friends and both are in relationships#and i am very aroace and sex/romance repulsed at that#but i also do really wish for platonic affection like being able to hug or lean on friends very simple things like that#but also touch is weird for me and i never really learned how to not feel gross about it etc#so it is not like i ever would have asked anyways#but it is harder when both are in relationships because people generally get physical affection from their partners#so if i ask ā€˜ā€™hey is it okay if i lean/hug’’ it feels like this massive overstep of boundaries#so it feels like people i know get to have the benefit of friendship and partners and have everything met in that regard#and i probably never will get comfortable with platonic physical affection because its just not really an option#and obviously i have zero desire to seek out new people#so it just kind of leaves me like šŸ§#even if people do initiate like a hug or something i never return it because it feels like i am not allowed#which is my own hang up and always has been since forever#i never got used to physical contact because it wasn’t really for me when i was a kid except for when i was being forced to hug a family#member as greetings and whatnot#anyways these are just some very late night weird thoughts that might be insane mostly i am curious if any other aroace people deal with#this. and i assume the answer is probably because this is the life is a nightmare identity#(half joking the freedom of it is a very nice aspect)#anyways like i said i have always been super weird about touch and i never in a million years would have asked for it or#actively seeked it out anyways#it is just especially weird now due to an additional circumstance
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a-mythologynerd Ā· 1 year ago
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Just finished The Familiar and it was very fun! Definitely captured my imagination and I adore Leigh Bardugo’s historical and modern fantasies. She does such a great job of evoking those themes of injustice and the grey morality of being locked in systems and corrupt power structures. I’ll probably talk more on this later but if you’re a fan of her work (especially the Alex Stern series) I’d give it a read.
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elevatourism Ā· 1 year ago
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Figured out how to word my thoughts on the "DNIs don't work" argument. Like... obviously yes they don't always work 100% of the time, I'd say quite literally nothing does. In regards to stuff like "DNI if you're racist" or whatever I'd very much guess literally no one ever goes "Oh no I'm racist :(" because they can't even fathom their behaviour is a bad thing anyway
But like, about other things that aren't parts of the (fairly nebulous) "general criteria" people set forth, they absolutely can have some use. After that, if they don't work... Well, that's fine? A DNI is just your step one, your sign on the fence. The block button still exists. A DNI has never MEANT to completely replace it. If you expect to completely avoid ever dealing with this or that using one that's just not what you're going to get
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emiliosandozsequence Ā· 2 years ago
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being just Slightly 'more' autistic than the average tumblr user is fucking hard actually
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babymorte Ā· 3 months ago
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When will the great return post be posted, feel like we have to make an event
oh it’s posted
also after this i won’t be answering any asks about my nsfw blog here because i don’t want to get flagged so any asks about it will be ignored šŸ¤
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habitual-creatures Ā· 9 months ago
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(( When I tell you I could make a 9 hour long film documentary about all the weird ass ways I walk when in a HABIT kinshift, I mean I could make a full ass 9 hour long film documentary about all the weird ass ways I walk when in a HABIT kinshift. *cue up "Pretty Girls Walk," and imagine various ways of "bitch- what the fuck are you doing with your spine/arms/legs/head/other body part"* ))
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