#best stp packers

[translgbtq]

FTM Packers: Make Your Life Easy With STP Packer

FTM Packers: Make Your Life Easy With STP Packer

FTM Packers are soft, realistic, and affordable. Trans beginners would like to have non-functional STP. The reason behind this is packing is easy and wearing the whole day without any internal issues. Non-financial STP Packer means the FTM packing device that doesn’t have any hole for urinating or inserting a rod for play. It can be used only for packing. Packing is made easier by packing…

[mxalmighty]

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[transgenderteensurvivalguide]

Hi, I'm trans (ftm) and in a week I'm leaving for 2 month long camp. I was assigned to sleep in the girls cabins but have switched to th boys. Does anyone have any tips for a trans boy sleeping in the boys cabins for the first time? Also for reference I'm 14 years old.

Lee says:

I would advise you to speak with the camp staff or counselors in advance, if you haven't already, and make sure they understand the situation and fully support having you sleep in the boy's cabin and also do all of the other activities with the boys, if that's what you want.

You don't want to have to deal with any last-minute surprises like finding out they're re-assigned you back to the girl's cabin or plan on having you change in the girl's bathrooms instead of a private gender-neutral or male space after you're at camp, so you gotta get all of the details ironed out in advance.

That includes making sure you've thought about what you're comfortable with in terms of bathrooms, changing spaces, locker rooms, etc, and how you plan to handle things like binding or packing (and cleaning STP packers), how you plan to manage your period if you have a period, and whether you plan on coming out to your bunk-mates (and, by extension, to the whole camp because you can't assume everyone will keep your secrets) if you aren't already out to them.

It isn't safe to wear a binder 24/7 for two months so you presumably will not be binding at night when you're in the boy's cabin which means at some point over the next two months at least one boy in your cabin is likely to see you without the binder as you get ready for bed at night and get out of bed in the morning, even if you try to avoid it. If you don't mind that, or don't bind anyway, then it's not a big deal, but it's something to consider because it can make it harder to stay stealth if that is something you had hoped to do.

Make sure you have a plan for your menstrual supplies if you use any, and bring enough of them to have some back-ups. Think about what is going to make you feel the most comfortable, whether it's pads, tampons, menstrual cups, menstrual discs, period underwear, etc, and then think about the logistics of it-- disposing of used pads or tampons in the men's bathroom or bringing bags so you can wrap it yourself and carry it to another trash to get rid of, how you could discreetly wash a menstrual cup or period underwear in the men's bathroom, and so on. Don't bring anything to camp that you haven't used before-- this isn't the time to bring a single menstrual cup only to find the size you got isn't comfy for you!

Overall, the largest piece of advice that I'd have is to just be yourself, and be friendly to others. Take the opportunity to get to know your fellow cabin mates better if they aren't already your friends-- they could be the ones who either stand up for you and have your back if some other student gives you trouble, or they could end up being the source of trouble if they feel uncomfortable with you and/or are transphobic. You don't need to be best friends with all of them, but don't be a wallflower and ignore them either, and try to be reasonable even when they're not.

You might encounter curiosity or questions from your peers about your gender identity and body. While it's entirely up to you how much you want to share, being prepared with a simple and confident response can help navigate these interactions smoothly.

Respect the privacy and boundaries of your cabin mates, just as you would expect them to respect yours. Establishing mutual respect early on can contribute to a harmonious living environment. Even so, living with other folks means you may have disagreements and friction over things like how messy your space is, how late people stay up, etc, especially when you're living together for two months, so be prepared to stand up for yourself but also remember to try and be a problem-solver and take a minute to cool down before you get into a fight and learn to let some things go.

As always, remember that you have the right to be there and to feel comfortable in your surroundings. If you encounter any challenges or need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted camp counselor or staff member. They are there to support you and ensure that your camp experience is positive and safe. If someone does cause drama or is bullying you or is transphobic etc, don't be afraid to snitch! You gotta take care of you.

All that being said, I don't have a lot of experience with this type of situation myself-- I went to a week of school sleep-away camp in 5th grade and 6th grade but that was before I came out, and the next time I went to a similar sleep-away camp thing was a brief experience in college, so I was a young adult and had been on T and had 2 of my 5 surgeries by that point and I only needed to share a room with my partner. I would like to encourage our followers to add on with more tips if you have relevant experiences and can help anon out! And anon, when you come back from camp, please do share any life-hacks you've picked up with us to help the next young trans camper out!!

Followers, anything to add?

[r0gue-taxidermy]

PACKERS AND PACKING INFORMATION AND REVIEWS:

Cw: prosthetic male genitalia/penises for informational purposes only 

I’m going to start this by first introducing myself so hello I’m Jackson I’m a plus size ftm trans teenager and I’m going to go over the best and easiest way to pack as a trans dude

You may be asking what a packer is? Well a packer is a gender affirming tool that creates or mimics a bulge or a penis which may seem like it’s a thing meant for adults but actually it’s very useful for everyone it helps with dysphoria or even just helps if your wanting to appear more masculine

Another thing that will be mentioned are STPs; STP stands for stand to pee device which do make it possible to as said stand to pee which can go from looking realistic or just being a cup with a tube

so I will be ranking my favorite packers/STPs/packing alternatives and will include where to find and price ranges and packing ability’s. If you have any questions either message me or comment them down below! Starting off strong with number one my favorite packer is

1. STP FREELY:

This is my favorite STP packer it’s 3.5 inches long and is a SOFT packer with a wide brim cup with a lip so no worry about spills or anything made with a skin safe soft silicone , definitely more of an affordable packer + STP it ranges from 45-50$ and it comes in 5 different skin tones! there is a XL Version of this packer that is 5 inches that I have not tried that is 50$ (you can also buy the XL rod which turns this into a pack and play “toy” for around 16$) and both xl and regular come with the option of being circumcised or non circumcised which I think is a neat feature! This packer also requires a harness ! I recommend the cake bandit packing harness it’s comfortable and not too tight. you can find both of these on TransGuySupply.com

Packing ability:9/10 definitely my favorite packer I’ve owned packs very well

Looks:9/10 nice weight, decently realistic but there are definitely better packers on the market but overall a wonderful packer

Stp ability: 10/10 very easy to get used too, big cup with a lip and semi realistic urethra hole

Can’t stress how much I love this packer will buy again

2. EZ bulge:

Here’s a cheap simple packing option for people who want to try out packing as it’s a foam insert made of a thicker foam material that you put In your boxers, these usually range from 5-10$ which isn’t bad the only downside is that they are stiff and if your bigger like me it will rub against your thighs and become uncomfortable and there’s definitely pros and cons for this packer like it’s latex or silicone free but it is kind of stiff and hard to position you can get this packer from transguysupply.com or Etsy!

Packing ability: 7/10 it works but is kind of uncomfortable and if not positioned right can look funny

Looks: 6/10definitely a more discrete option if you don’t get one with a dick imprint

3.HOMEMADE SOCK PACKERS

Omg I can’t express how much these save my life if I’m dyphoric these are a simple, cheap and easy way to pack I can’t express how much I use these on a daily basis, there are plenty of videos on YouTube on how to make these (kade cooks has a good tutorial on YouTube btw)

Packing ability:5/10 definitely a easy packing tool but can look kinda wonky if not made right and may take some trial and error

Looks: 2/10 definitely not a good looking packer but gets the job done

4.FOAM INSERT PACKER

Similar to the EZ bulge this is another foam packer insert but definitely is more comfortable, it’s a thin foam works well with most of the packing jockstraps,briefs, or boxers it’s about 5$ usually. I had one for a couple months then it started falling apart as the first layer of thin fabric came off of back but was a cheap and easy packer and is way more discrete option you can find this packer on transguysupply.com

Packing ability: definitely a solid 6/10 it works well but can fold or bunch up easily if you have bigger thighs

Looks:5/10 decently discrete looks similar to a bra cup

5.PACKER GEAR STP

this was my first ever STP or packer in general and can I say how much I hate this packer very small cup with no lip so spills are a big problem, it is almost physically impossible to use this as a packer this is the stiffest packer I’ve ever had IT WILL MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE YOUR HARD, the urethra and hole of this packer is massive and it’s unrealistic you will piss a stream the size of a no.2 pencil. One of its cons though is that it is the cheapest stp packer I know it’s 15$ and comes in two different skin colors, it is around 4.5 inches and can be found on transguysupply.com

Packing ability: 0/10 it’s trash

Looks: 5/10 it definitely tried to look realistic

Stp ability: 5/10 definitely not the best on the market but for how affordable it is it’s not too bad minus the firm cheap silicone and small cup

6. ANY FEMALE CAMPING URINAL

Such a honorable mention this fuckin thing well these can be found in most camping places, Amazon or anywhere online really. I can’t say I hate them but I can’t say I like them either but definitely work, they look mad dumb honestly and make me dysphoric lowkey but they work as STPs but unlike the other two options on this list this can’t be used as at a urinal but they don’t spill and are easily found and can be used by people who aren’t FtM or transmasc and usually range about 5-20$ online

Packing ability:0/10

Looks:0/10 mad Fucking ugly

Stp ability:10/10 definitely does the job

And that’s the end of my review folks I hope this can help out other trans people

[the-t-boy-king]

STP Tips from your trans big brother

Hey ya'll. I thought I should share some STP tips I have learned over the last couple of months I learned while trying to use my own STP.

Quick trigger warning: I will be showing actual pictures of the STPs I use and they are prosthetic penises so they will look like a penis. If you're uncomfortable with that, please keep scrolling.

So I use a STP Freely and the XL version of it from Tansguy supply Is pictured here:

This one is the uncut version. The shaft is about 4 inches long from the top, 3 inches from the bottom, inside the cup is 3.5 inches, and outside is 4 inches.

This is the Freely XL cut version. The shaft is 5 inches from the top,4.5 inches from the bottom, inside the cup is 3.5 inches, and the outer cup is 4 inches.

Tips for beginners

I'm going to be upfront and say that I'm still learning myself. I have peed with a few times successfully at home. I have not taken it in public yet nor have I used the STP boxers I got yet. . However, I have learned a lot from my trial and error and I want to pass those onto y'all.

To start with, try to find your urethra. I know it can be hard for some due to dysphoria but if you can, try to find it. Knowing where it is can be a big help. When you do find it, try to place the STP in a position where you will being peeing into the shaft rather then the funnel. The shaft is what your aiming for, the funnel is there to catch any pee that doesn't go down the shaft. If your position is too high, it'll spill over the top and the sides, if too low it'll spill from the back. Try to control how fast you're peeing. If you pee too fast, it'll fill up and spill. On some of them, you can cut the hole in which the peeing goes through bigger. The Freely XL has a bigger pee hole so if you pee fast, the XL might help.

I highly recommend starting in the shower naked because you'll pee on yourself and it's a pain to have to keep changing your pants and underwear. Make sure the water is off so you can feel where you're spilling from. Plus it's easier to clean up the mess since you just have to turn on the water. Once you feel confident in peeing the shower, you can move to the toilet naked. You should have a towel down in case you pee on yourself and the floor. Once you got it naked. Try it with boxers. Try to have ones that open in the front so you can poke the shaft through. Again, once you got it with boxers, try wearing both boxers and pants.

Once you're ready to go in public, try to wear dark pants in case you make a mess. Dark pants are the best at hiding wet spots. Also drink lots of water because it will dilute your pee and make it smell less like pee. In public you can start in a stall and work your way up to a urinal.

Packing with STP

STPs can be harder to pack with since they are stiffer than soft packers so they can hold their shape when you need to pee. There's a few ways to pack. I'll add a picture of the different packing ways but I'll also explain them. These apply to both soft packers and STPs.

Packing down is where you take the shaft of the STP and put it down over the balls. This way makes the biggest bulge so unless you're trying to make it really noticeable, i don't recommend this one.

Packing up is where you take the shaft and put it straight up. This way makes the bulge more manageable, but it can be a bit uncomfortable depending on what pants you're wearing.

Packing left/right is taking the shaft and putting it along your hip. I have never done this style, so I can't say if it's good or not.

You can use normal underwear with STPs, but they have to be tight to keep the packing position. I recommend get STP underwear because they have an o-right to keep the STP in place.

Cleaning

You want to keep STPs clean since you can get a UTI from it, and it can start to smell bad fast. If you're able, give it a quick rinse in the sink. If not, use toilet paper to get the outside and possibly the inside of it dry. You can put it on the top rack of your dishwasher or boil it to sanitize it. You can also use hot water and mild soap to clean it.

That's all the tips I know and learned from others. Good luck and happy pissing!

With love, Miles, your trans big brother.

[genderqueerdykes]

i usually pack with a mr. limpy (and god do i wish it had a different name) which to my knowledge is still one of the most widely available & cheapest good packers on the market, but i also frequently use a nonhuman-looking silicone packer i got from a fantasy adult toy company. to keep my them in place i usually wear packing underwear i got online at transguysupply or wear harness underwear under boxer briefs.

packer info: packers can be made of several kinds of materials. most will require powdering (usually with some kind of starch) after cleaning to make sure they aren't sticky. silicone doesn't have this problem, but tends to be much stiffer than other materials and is more difficult to pack discreetly, though as long as it's ~5in or smaller it's not usually a big deal. if you're using a normal packer, things seem more natural if you shift the shaft to point towards one leg. if you're packing with a STP (stand-to-pee device) it's best to pack "up" towards your stomach instead.

packing info: packing underwear tends to be expensive if it's something you want to use daily. getting or creating a packing pouch (see: new york toy company & DIY tutorials online) you can pin in any underwear is much less expensive and has a similar effect.

it never occurred to me that there are Nonhuman packers and now i realized i definitely do want to get one LOL thank you so much, we really appreciate you taking the time to answer! the information is super helpful, and also we are glad to hear you found something that works for you! you are rad, take care

[rivetgoth]

Well everyone it’s happened, I finally got my student aid in (or at least part of it? I cannot fucking figure out the numbers none of it makes sense but oh well 🖤) and I bought my absurdly expensive prosthetic dick 😋 It’s like allegedly the best STP packer you can get and it’s sooo customizable it has all the options I’d want for my real dick basically. Unfortunately have a feeling I won’t be seeing this thing for MONTHS because this company is known for like upwards of 10-20+ weeks for production wait times but I’m just really excited to have it eventually. I can’t wait to be able to pee standing up and go out with like a hyperrealistic dick in my pants I seriously needdddddddd it. 😭 Being non-op but bottom dysphoric is such a difficult thing to navigate but I do think this is gonna be like. a game changer for me. 

[rainedrops-omo]

Are there any STP brands you’d recommend? I’m also NB and I’d love to try one

pStyle has worked the best for me. There's decent colour options and function is great at its price point. It doesn't have a big learning curve either. Still, prepare for potentially wet pants at times/in the beginning.

pStyle's cons are having to expose more and lack of ability to easily pee into a bottle. I haven't run into the complaints of overflowing or too narrow a spout, however those were the major ones I came across while researching.

Soft/collapsible: I'd only recommend for peeing into a bottle in traffic or similar situations. It might be worth owning one if you're looking for more privacy. Getting a proper seal on those can be really difficult and they have a tendency to overflow, so way more control is required. Sunany was what worked least worst.

I don't have experience with STP packers.

There's so many options out there. Research and practice are key. I hope you find one best suited for you. They really are a gamechanger.

[packer-review]

LAST UPDATED: 12/16/2023

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Oscar (f3 older gramma model)

Chorizo (grammas sausages dickscount)

Tommy STP (Hardline prosthetics)

Adam 2.0 (Prosthesis man)

Bruhworst basic softened (Grammas sausages dickscount)

Packer E01 (exoogen)

Chorizo f3+ (Gramma’s sausages)

Upcoming reviews:

Strokers

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Stps

-JustJoe stp

-Tommy Stp Hardline

Packers

-Frank Gramma’s sausage’s

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-Adam 2.0 Prosthesis man

-Packer E01 Exoogen

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Fantasy

-Beau batbitesart

-Darien kuduvudu

-Mini Dominion Bat bites art

[translgbtq]

Best Erect STP Packers: Pack And Play Packers

Best Erect STP Packers: Pack And Play Packers

Finding Erect STP packers? If yes, then you are in the right place. There are some brands that provide Pack N Play packers. We found various STPs. We thought to add all the erect packers on one page. We’ll add various STP packers there. Let’s find one. The content is 18+. So, we suggest those under 18 stay away. The article is based on transgender men’s sexual life. Intro: Erect STP Packer The…

[nvcr]

I want to open donations so I can save to get a better packer/stp and stuff but also, I wouldn't be able to do anything in return except maybe write and even then I'd probably not be able to do that either

[assignedshitatbirth]

Me, the day I found out I was trans: huh I don't understand what a packer is for but I'll try it out because I do not like All Of That

Me, packing for the first time: Oh so this is what it feels like to not be miserable all the time. Wack.

[oleanderblume]

WARNING IM GONNA POST A DIAGRAM OF GENETALS.

So...I designed a Packer.

This is ENTIRELY EXPERIMENTAL I have no idea if this actually works because I've not tried to make anything out of it. It's 100% theoretical.

But anyways, here's the basic concept of my dumb penis idea.

It's a all in one Packer that's supposed to be for folks without bottom surgery in really any form or fashion. Bottom surgery is expensive so a vast majority of ftm and transmasc folks don't have access to that sort of thing. But we like having dicks obvi.

Themain issue I see with almost *every* Packer, is that they 1. Leak and 2. Are too complicated to use for sexy times.

The 3rd thing is specifically about the dysphoria of not being able to y know, cum...when you come. Often times you gotta do a bit of extra stuff that can interrupt the moment especially if you haven't charged your dick or refilled those tiny reservoirs with lube.

Most packers involve shoving rods in them, lube in them, changing out your STP for a pack and play, so on and so forth. It would be phenomenal to not have to do that, right?

So my design is supposed to fix all these problems. Inside the testes and lower half of the shaft is a reservoir full of theoretically a light and easily movable substance. My go to options are oil (because it's lighter than water and still relatively dense) and Oobleck. (Yeah, you know, the mix of cornstarch and water that solidifies with pressure).

Whichever it is, it sits in a small, wide chamber in the balls that, when pressed, shoots into a second, more narrow chamber in the shaft of the penis. And these chambers are sealed with a flexible magnetic strip that can be opened by squeezing the base of the shaft. (Like when you squeeze the ends of two rubber strips together toward the center and it opens like a mouth.) Ideally, it would be simple, discrete, and relatively quick.

Underneath this valve system is a layer of gel that holds the testes, to maintain the shape and feel of balls even while erect. And UNDERNEATH THAT is a tube that runs along the base of the balls (anatomically where an AMAB person's testicular seam would be naturally) and that tube runs from the tip of the glans all the way to the anchor.

Which I what I'm gonna talk about next.

So, one of the most annoying things about packers is that you gotta hold that shit in and up to your junk to keep from leaking, no matter how much a "seal" it has, it's rarely enough. Realmagick has themost form fitting packer out there on the market, but it still doesn't do the best of jobs if you're not actively holding your balls while peeing.

My design amends this issue by having a whole ass insert that functions similarly to a tampon, but does much more. For now it's called the vaginal anchor, but I'm just gonna say anchor for short.

So what does it do? Well...

1. Creates a full seal to prevent leakage.

2. Provides extra support for holding the packerin place

3. Provides simultaneous ejaculation with climax during intercourse

4. Provides extra sensory stimulation during penetrative intercourse

How does it work? Really fucking simple actually. It's nothing more than a silicone suction tube. A small bulb sits at the base of the testicles (this is the *actual* anchor) the bulb itself is hollow and connected to the tube that runs along the base of the whole system. When the penis tip is placed in a cup of lube and the bulb is squeezed, the lube is sucked through and into the bulb. (Alternatively a syringe in combination with the squeeze does the trick too)

While the Packer is on and the bulb is inserted, if one is doing sexy stuff, the bulb presses into the gspot, and when one reaches climax and the pelvic floor naturally contracts, the pressure pushes out the lube, thus creating a realistic and simultaneous ejaculation.

And cleaning the inside is just as easy and refilling. Just soapywater and a similar few squeezes with flush out anything inside.

When not doing sexy stuff, the bulb is supposed to be barely even noticeable, made of soft medical grade silicone.

Cleaning is meant to be as easy as a couple extra steps in the shower~

I haven't quite come up with how to make it attachable in such a way where it involves very little yet, but my ideas are the following.

Adhesives: of course, the front part of the Packer can easily be designed to attach with Adhesives, but ideally I want to make it so it can be worn for extensive periods of time and not potentially cause irritation. Adhesive is definitely going to be a primary option.

Piercings: so, this one is *iffy* because the rate of rejection for piercings and the lack of education I have on them. The idea I have though, is that the wearer could have 2 deep set bar piercings and the silicone Packer will have corresponding openings (its silicone so it's stretchy to a degree) the balls of the piercing (provided the bar is long enough to have some separation from the skin I imagine) are simply poked through the silicone and functionally hold the tab in place.

If piercings are the way one goes, the seam of the Packer that runs around the outer labia can also have optional piercings to connect to, and theoretically the weight is distributed evenly across the anchor and these piercings and also provide physical sensation in correspondence to that weight.

Anyways. I've been thinking about this for days and I'm going on vacation soon so I'll fuck with the idea when I'm off the road. Ftm and trans masc people I would like your opinions on this. If it's something you'd like to have exist, then I'll try and get manufacturers on the idea. That or just sell the design to custom creators for manufacturing(?)

I for one don't really have dysphoria about a vajeen or things being in it. And having a realistic peen definitely outweighs what dysphoria I *do* have over it. Plus like, some people are gay???? All the packers I see are very heterosexual focused and I don't really understand why this concept hasn't been applied previously (if it has I don't knowwhos doing it lol)

So like, if no one is down I still wanna make this shit for me lol.

[the-t-boy-king]

Miles' big packer review!

I'm so sorry this has taken so long for me to do. I've been busy with school and work, and I barely have any time for myself. I'm now taking some time to write this. I try to keep my packers on the cheaper side since A. I'm a broke college student that was only able to afford these and B. good cheap packers are hard to find.

As always, trigger Waring for below the cut. The packers I'm looking at look like a penis so if you don't want to see that move along please!

I'm going to start with just the normal packers since they would be easiest to start with.

Mr. Limpy: 3/5 from trans guy supply (cost: $15)

Mr. Limpy is most people's starter packer. It is cheap so it's good to get if you want to try packing. I like this one. It gives a decent bulge, even the small one. It gets a 3/5 because it is not very durable. If you want it to last a bit, you have to be careful. That being said, I do recomeed getting Mr. Limpy for a starter packer. It's a good starter peen, if you will.

2. Classic Silicone packer from AXOLOM: 4.5/5 (cost: $32 USD)

I'm using the photos from AXOLOM website since it's easier and would show it better than I can. I love this packer. It's a good solid packer. I'm taking off half a point because it is a bit hard to packer with at times. The balls are a bit big so it weighs it down. Depending on what you're using to pack with, you might need to readjust it during the day. The bulge can be a bit big, so if you want it on the bigger side, this is a great pick.

3. Au Naturel packer from AXOLOM; 5/5 ( cost:$29 USD)

This packer is the one I use the most. As you can see, the shaft is longer while the balls are smaller. It gives a really great bulge, not too big and not too small, and it's not awkward to pack with. The back of the packer is smooth making it rest against you in a comfy way. Sometimes it is a bit hard to pack with since it is slimmer, but it's nothing that bugs me enough to take a point off.

STPs

4. Freely STP from Trans Guy Supply 2/5 (cost:$45 USD)

I was really disappointed by this STP. Now, even though I'm giving it a bad review doesn't mean it's a bad STP. I've seen tons of other people who use and like it. It just doesn't work for me. It's a good STP if you can get it to work for you. I couldn't so I'm giving it 2/5. The silicone feels a bit thin on this STP. The bowl doesn't hold up well if you have big thighs like I do. If you pee fast, then you might want to stay away from it. I will say that it is easy to pack with, so that's a win for the Freely. The shaft wasn't long enough for me, but I don't think that's the fault of the STP, I think it's because my jeans are a big on me.

5. Freely XL from Trans Guy Supply 4.5/5 (cost: $50 USD)

I love this one. It works great for me. The shaft is long enough for me to use while wearing jeans, the hole is bigger so people who pee fast can use it without much worry of spilling, the bowl is more firm, and best of all, it works for people with big thighs like me. The only reason why this doesn't get a perfect 5/5 is because it is hard to pack with. STPs in general are hard to pack with because they are more firm than a soft packer. Since the XL is bigger, unless you want to look like you're bricked up all the time, you have to pack up or to the side. I pack up and it can be annoying. If I want to keep it in place, I have to wear a belt. However, ever since I got the XL, I've gotten a lot better at using a STP. I still get spills and overflow at times but I can mostly use it as long as I take my time.

So there we go, a quick review of the packers I have. If anyone has any questions, just shoot me an ask and I'll be happy to answer.

[chaotic-archaeologist]

i know you take sex and relationship questions, do you also take gender related ones?

do you have any advice for someone (trans masc) looking to get into packing? i want to do it but i have no idea where to start 😞

Hi there,

I'll start out by saying that I'm a trans man, but I don't have any experience with packing. I'll give the best advice that I can though! First off, check out this website that has a really good explanation of what packers are.

If you're looking for a place to start, try a sock or two. See how it feels and get a sense of what it's like to move around with something in your underwear. Here's a link to a video on how to make a packer. There are tons of other tutorials if you search "how to make a packer."

If you decide you like it, you could try moving on to slightly more realistic options that you can still make yourself. Here's a link to a tutorial for one of those, and here's a link to a website that has instructions for a lot of different kinds of packers.

There's also a kind of packer called an STP. This stands for Stand To Pee, and it's pretty much exactly what it sounds like-- a packer that allows you to pee while standing up. You can buy them at various different websites like this one. They run the gambit of prices from maybe $40ish all the way up into the hundreds, with various degrees if realism. You can also find instructions for how to make them yourself if you don't have that kind of cash.

Finally there are hard packers, which are essentially the same function as a strap on dildo and are generally used for sex. These are generally sold by sex shops/websites and also run from about $40ish to the hundreds, with various degrees of realism.

A note about hard packers/strap ons: if you are planning on having penetrative sex with one, make sure that it is made from body safe silicone. Many sex toys are made from PVC plastic, which is a known carcinogen and not safe.

I hope that this helps. Feel free to come back with any other questions in the future.

-Reid

[uncanny-tranny]

i got one from transguy supply! speaking of that...

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choosing your stp! go with the smaller. if you want more realistic, i suggest trying to go for one that's a little darker than your actual skin tone! (this makes it a bit more realistic, i think) and also, go for smaller. do NOT go for a large! the reason you dont wanna go for a large is because the regular stps are already *so big*, because it needs to be able to fit! get ready for it to feel heavy too, lol!

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also, more suggestions for using your stp! you gotta pee slower than you normally would. otherwise, it'll end up filling up and spilling! make sure to wash it out as soon as you can, because otherwise that'll just be gross. if you're in a stall, try wiping it out best you can at least!

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just like with a binder, try wearing it at home and getting used to it. i dont have the correct packing gear, so when i can get commissions (like i said before, i dont have a job and i cant get one), i'll be looking online on different sites because transguy supply is often out of my size for the stp packing gear (im a large)

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choosing your packing gear! i dont think i did this with the last one, but! check the dimensions. do *not* get it if it's too small. make sure it specifically states that it's for stps, or else you'll have to pull it down and take out the stp to use it (if it's underwear and not a harness), and you'll only be able to use stalls! (from what i know, i havent ever used a non-stp packer or packing underwear, but i know friends who have.) i suggest lookibg at multiple different sites for it, and looking at the reviews!

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hope this helps, again!

I really appreciate you sharing your experiences! I've definitely heard of them, but I've never ordered from them... again, thank you for sharing, I bet it's going to be super helpful for anybody who is looking into STPs, as there isn't really a whole ton on them