#cotton ceiling

[kthulhu42]

Ahhh, so "Transphobic genital preferences" are acceptable when it comes to their sexuality, but not ours.

Their "discomfort" is beyond reproach. Our discomfort is bigotry.

[diabolical-lesbian]

hi! your kinks are very not for me, but thanks for this post:

748835458295955456/how-do-you-feel-about-trans-girls-because-this

- a "transmasc" according to "gender"-spiritual people / virilized / on-off t, gymrat butch lesbian

political bisexuality enforcers die challenge

I'm an atheist of any religion including anything to do with LGBTQ.

Trans women= They are biological men.

Trans men= They are biological women.

I'm a lesbian and have questionable fantasies but it's all based on the consent I have with my partners.

I live my lesbianity away from anything LGBTQ, I'm not cis, I'm a woman and that's it.

The only ones who really support lesbians, outside of all the misogyny of "trans lesbian women" ( Straight males) and their conversion theory against gay women.

They are the radical feminists. 💗🤘.

Because of my fetishes I don't call myself a feminist, it's impossible to be one.

But TERFs make me feel safe. On Tumblr, Twitter and Reddit there are posts of lesbian rape as a fetish by The Trans Women and their girldick🤢. They call it "dykebreaking" dykebreading" "Dykecorrection' and Orientation play".

And on reddit they have a group called "Dykeconversion".

I'm against all this nastiness of straight men (Trans lesbians" and straight and bisexual women fantasizing about raping lesbians.

[saturns-kiss]

The other day I saw this (very valid) comment that was being replied to after op said that it was transphobic to leave trans ‘women’ out of lesbian spaces.

This is how she replied. Claiming oppression for a valid statement. The replies made me feel sick to my stomach too.

Why is being a lesbian made to be complicated nowadays?

[youknowihadtodoittothem]

"lesbians have to like dick"

who said it: a christian conversion therapist, or a trans rights activist in 2023?

[toxoplasmewsis]

Men: you say you accept me as a women, yet I’m getting no pussy??? 🤨 suspicious!!

[hard--headed--woman]

i am tired of being nice with lesbophobes because maybe they don't know any better or are brainwashed or truly think they are doing the right thing or i don't know what else. i am tired of not saying anything to avoid dramas. if your god said homosexuality is bad well then fuck him and everyone who agrees with this shit. if you like dicks you're not a lesbian. if you have a dick you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a dick you're not a lesbian. "amab nb lesbians" aren't lesbians, they're just straight guys. bi and other mspec lesbians don't exist and are lesbophobic terms. either you are attracted exclusively to biological women while also being a biological woman or you're not and never will be a lesbian. if you decided to be a lesbian because of your political views then you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a crush on a guy you are not a lesbian. if you think lesbianism distances lesbians from womanhood and means we aren't normal women you're a piece of shit. if you think you can become a lesbian or stop being one you are a piece of shit. if you think lesbians just need to find the right man i hope your house will burn with you in it. call lesbians queer and you deserve to be punched. if you think lesbian sex is disgusting go fuck yourself. if you think lesbianism is problematic or sinful in anyway kill yourself. if you think lesbians just need to try dicks kill yourself. if you think lesbians can be attracted to men kill yourself. now you can cry and say i am oppressing you, i don't care. die mad about it

[feeltheoceanholdmeunder]

What a ridiculously homophobic book.

Found in Glasgow Women's Library.

[glitter-soda]

If your movement has the time and resources to dedicate a significant portion of your activism to trying to guilt people into being attracted to you, maybe you’re not as oppressed as you think

[ex-foster]

Trans activists: you clearly haven't met a trans person before

Me, who aged out of foster care and had a mother who said I wasn't "allowed" to be a lesbian: You mean trans people like Riley J Dennis who suggests that lesbians are bigots because they are same sex attracted? Or do you mean "trans" people I actually met like one trans identified man from one of those LGBT ("if your family doesn't accept you, we will" 🌈) meet and greets where he asked me a bunch of weird questions like if I'd do "girl things" with him like take him shopping for girl clothes or get his nails done and then he started jacking off? You mean like trans people like him?

Or do you mean trans people like the other trans identied man I know who mocks rape victims and thinks that sex work is work? You mean like those people? 🙄

[kthulhu42]

Apart from how offensive this is:

Definitions are important. Words have a meaning. When we can decide things like lesbian, gay, woman, man, have no real definition and mean whatever anyone wants them to mean, they no longer mean anything to anyone and we lost the ability to communicate clearly with each other and eventually will need NEW words that mean what lesbian, gay, woman, man all used to mean.

And the thing is - even the new words that lesbians feel they *have* to use - "Genital preference" or "wlw" or "AFAB4AFAB"

TRAs are getting angry about their usage anyway. Because it's not that "lesbian" or "Gay" are bad words. It's that biological reality and sexuality are by nature "exclusionary".

So don't bother. Use lesbian, gay, man, woman. Your sexual boundaries, your sexuality - they are to be respected. No matter who wants to identify in to your dating pool.

[piss-milkshake]

Obsessed with how TIMs sometimes try to act like there exists a universe in which they have to turn down sexual advances from “TERFs”… they literally invented whole terms like “cotton ceiling” because women not wanting to touch their girldick is such a widespread phenomenon they’ve convinced themselves it’s a form of oppression 🤣

[wordwovencackle]

I never felt so uncomfortable about the voices of other bisexual people until trans rights activists, the majority of whom are bisexual, have become so comfortably homophobic.

There have always been bad apples. But now, when lesbians aren't even allowed their own spaces to talk about being solely attracted to the same sex, I've frequently felt sick to my stomach. There is no reason why those can't exist alongside a shared space for homosexuals and bisexuals, but here we are! I see many bisexuals who are so deprived of talking about their same-sex attraction, experiences, struggles and joy that they are desperate to connect with openly homosexuals but homosexuals are rightfully wary of risking what little they have left. There are barely any lesbian spaces in real life or online left!

I'm sick of bisexuals dictating what homosexuals should or shouldn't be attracted to and yes, I'm also pointing at trans rights activists for being insanely homophobic and going too far by spewing conversion therapy rhetoric like saying someone's sex doesn't matter during sex, or going stealth until clothes come off and traumatising or triggering the other, or lying to trans people in general that their "masculinity" or "feminity" changes their sex or that they can change their sex through surgery, which trickled down to calling homosexuals transphobic at the drop of a hat.

Since when do homosexuals owe you affirmation? Since when do you feel entitled to their spaces? Why did the majority of bisexuals see this happen and just shrug because they aren't monosexual and thus not the target?

"Genital fetishists," are you all daft? A fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs. The attraction towards genitals is intrinsic to sexuality and sexual attraction. I feel like I'm perpetually talking to first graders.

I'm so disgusted with the online bisexual "community" for blindly nodding their heads like spineless, "no infighting please" puppies. Do you think none of this matters? How safe must your life be to not care about others?

As a bisexual, what occurred that made you think you could comment on the experience of monosexuals? And I'm well aware many call themselves "gay," or "lesbian," while being bisexual. If you have a vagina and you would have sex with someone with a penis, you're not a lesbian. If you have a penis and you would have sex with someone with a vagina, you're not gay. If neither of you have the same genitalia, it's not homosexuality.

"Labels don't matter," was for those who weren't sexually awakened and were figuring themselves out. But this is what it has led to: the utter deterioration of homosexual spaces, and it's vile and there should be a lot more shame about it.

I'm glad that in personal relations and daily life, the connection between bisexuals and homosexuals is a bit better. But the physical gay and lesbian spaces we were once proud of are now paradoxically wary of homosexuals for fear of being called transphobic.

And I'm also blaming bisexuals for not being critical. For prioritising fetishes and kinks before sexuality. For not listening to the experiences of people with a sexuality different from their own varied, but not exhaustive, experiences. I'm blaming bisexuals for not standing up for homosexuals.

I'm not ashamed of being bisexual. I've never been ashamed of it and I never will be. I'll post this post and continue like normal - and isn't that a privilege?

I will always love other bisexuals who aren't homophobic. There are plently, but there should be more. And louder.

[awomen]

cotton ceiling rhetoric is particularly vile when you consider how short the history of women's right to refuse is. up until the 70s marital rape was legal in all states and in many places in the world it still is. we have had the right to say No for a very small part of history. and now this group of men comes along, wearing our skins and pretending to be us, and says that wlw should accept dickhavers into our beds? they are no different than their forefathers in the desire to invade and violate women's bodies. patriarchy in a dress is still patriarchy

[radfemsouthy]

I can’t believe lesbian spaces have been usurped by males. I can’t believe the definition of lesbian has changed to include penis havers. I can’t believe lesbians are being called bigoted for not wanting to date & sleep with males.

[forwomenbiwomen]

[marimoes]

Everyone who asks why lesbians like strapons and not penis is just outing themselves as a porn obsessed weirdo. Not all lesbians like strapons, in fact I’d say it’s a minority who use them. Maybe you just think otherwise because you’re a porn addict who’s only interaction with any lesbian ever has been jacking off to them from behind a screen 🤷🏻‍♀️