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day 48

Kim Dokja: Were you hoping I would be killed?
Yoo Joonghyuk: I thought it would be good.
This rotten companion. I became angrier when I saw that cheeky face. I wanted to run over and strike him in the jaw, but I couldn't.
#its because you're madly in love with him kdj#dont blame yourself#orv#orv spoilers#omniscient reader's viewpoint#omniscient reader#kdj#orv novel#kim dokja#orv kdj#orv kim dokja#orv quotes#orv yjh#yjh#orv yoo joonghyuk#yoo joonghyuk#joongdok
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I just keep feeling the need to advise anyone with mental issues to avoid telling anyone except maybe your therapist about your intrusive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts are often violent and/or sexual in nature and I've seen too many instances where people confide in someone they're close to only for it to later be used against them.
Intrusive thoughts are just that, INTRUSIVE. Having them does not make anyone a bad person and often the reason people feel the need to share is over the guilt these thoughts bring them even though they know they'd never act on it. I just despise the people who have weaponized that kind of information against anyone who dared trust them enough to seek reassurance. Sometimes it is unfortunately just enough to push someone over the edge.
Seek a professional, Don't let others turn your fears against you. It IS NOT your fault.
#mental health#mental illness#not my usual content#but im pissed#for anyone that needs to hear it#dont blame yourself
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I am so so so done with this show. I literally just watched the sneak peeks and I am DYING??????????????!!!!!!!
The only thing holding her up is rage????? Ma'am. Angela Bassett ma'am. How. How are you so good. Like what????
What do you want me to do?? What you do always?????
What the hell is that. Goddamn. What the fuck. Co parenting at its peak.
Also Ryan Guzman's acting is literally so good in this scene?? You can see Eddie's desperation to fix things!!!?
I absolutely know that this episode is going to destroy me tomorrow. I just know.
#911 abc#911 season 7#season finale#bobby nash#athena grant#eddie diaz#evan buckley#what the fuck#what am i gonna do#bobby i love you#please dont die#athena its not your fault#dont blame yourself#eddie you fucked up big time#i love you but you gotta fix it#buck is christopher’s other dad#literally#buck and eddie are christopher's parents
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you wanted zoro to be on whole cake island to fulfil your weird desire to see zoro punish sanji. I wanted zoro on whole cake island because I think he's stupid enough to right place wrong time the plan and accidentally marry Sanji in full view of the whole wedding party in what becomes the most elaborately constructed comedy of errors ever written. we are NOT the same.
#need a fic where zoro genuinely does marry sanji on wci without planning it#type of thing to happen to goofy pre ts zoro#zoro in the same mindset in which he created the usopp sword: well i didn't mean to but i guess this solves the immediate problem#and ofc he just rolls with it#they look at each other after the dust settles like. hey wtf was that. and immediately blame each other#pre relationship AND feelings realisation on both sides#dont get me wrong i love fake relationship that becomes real but hear me out#legal accidental relationship thats extremely convenient and also funny until you pavlov yourself into being in love#vinsmoke sanji#black leg sanji#roronoa zoro#zosan#one piece#sanzo#zoro
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Team 55 post Qualifying 📻
Gaetan: "Okay, P6, P6. That was a bit challenging in a lap for you. P7 Alex, P6 for you."
Carlos: "Yeah, you know there was potential for more there, but with compromise lap and compromise tyres. What was the possibility today, maybe P5?"
James: "Carlos, I was just gonna say, yeah, it would have P5, but really well done under the circumstances. Really impressive laps. And the lap that you did in Q2 it will stay with us all year. And, yeah, really, really impressive driving. Let's go get it far."
Carlos: "Thank you, James, and it was my call to go late, so I took the risk, so I'm not..."
James: "We're doing this together. We're doing this together. It's all about that. Let's talk like that."


#he said#dont blame yourself baby#but honestly williams lets get the race managing figured out plz#carlos radio 📻#team 55 radio 📻#carlos sainz#cs55#gaetan radio 📻#jv radio 📻#imola gp 2025#emilia romagna gp 2025#williams racing#f1
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I know I keep dissing anime!Ciel for not being able to dress himself, like everytime dress up doll scenes come up I keep heckling at the screen, "YOURE 13!!! DRESS YOURSELF" being unable to tie his shoelaces and button his coat and brush his hair properly, sir please
(although I'm heckling to stop myself from delighting in the obvious sebaciel scene pff)
But then at a closer look at his clothes in Yana's art, goddamn I would NOT be able to put all that shit on in under an hour. I'm more empathetic to his plight, alla that needs 2 pairs of hands and an hour at most.
Although his everyday clothes are simpler. I raise my eyebrow at this, watching the video now, Ciel could put on his socks and coat by himself. I like to think Ciel actually knows how to dress himself in his everyday clothes but just indulges Sebastian.
On the more elaborate sets, thank goodness for Sebastian, to be able to do that everyday (I still think Seb just likes dressing Ciel because that coat is too simple). I mean, he can do all that at superhuman speeds but it feeds my heart that he's taking his time to make his master beautiful



He could just do this ☝️ But he doesnt
#i mean#the maids dressed and bathed me only til i was 10 or 11 but then it was embarrassing when i mentioned this to my friends and they were like#'🤨 you dont do that yourself?'#DAMN SORRY THEN#so like mister ciel phantomhive i dont blame you i think im just taking shots at myself#kuroshitsuji#black butler#sebaciel#book of circus#blue revenge arc#bb manga#m'posts
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hmmm. thinking about how veilguard seems to subscribe more to the more traditional "video game as personal power fulfillment fantasy of heroism" than any other dragon age game, except perhaps origins, though origins does it more artfully.
#da2 certainly is not a power fulfillment fantasy#and inquisition seems like it could be on the surface#but under that surface is the horror of how power corrupts#and rots you from the inside and steals everything from you even yourself#maybe thats not true for a trevelyan#but inquisition at least has the opportunity to be played as either#depending on how the world treats your character as someone they are comfortable with having power#or not#which is a commentary in itself#origins idk#it has never stuck with me the way the other 2 games did so someone else will have to do that analysis#but veilguard is sooooooo hero fantasy fulfillment in comparison#you win in the end#nothing bad ever really happens to you at all#you tell everyone what to do and they listen and love you for it#no one blames you for anything ever#you are always right#you save the day!#compare that to leandra telling hawke their baby brother/sisters gruesome death is their fault#like JHERGJKHERGKJHREG#anyway its not necessarily a bad thing#but its a very... traditional#video game narrative path#that i dont think most of us were expecting or interested in#from a franchise who has deconstructed such things in the past#veilguard critical#mine
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i think you have to beat into your brain that everyone writes differently and that your writing style is something to cherish even in the places it lacks …. it’s valuable enough that it’s all yours.
#uh oh ari’s getting emo abt writing again ……..#dont blame me blame my uterus#BUT IVE … been thinking about this latelyyy T. T it’s too easy to compare yourself to others#like … ahh this person writes dialogue so well. i’m jealous. this person has such a good flow#but i really do think all writing styles should be treasured !!! so it’s hypocritical of me to get mopey lol#i love my writing style despite it all …. even tho my prose does 99% of the lifting#ignore me dash i havent eaten#PDJNDJDB#ari noises ✩
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let’s give it up for joseph woll!!!
#hockey#nhl#nhl hockey#toronto maple leafs#nhl leafs#leafs hockey#nhl goalies#joseph woll#i wish you had a team that scored goals in front of you#you did the best you could#dont blame yourself sweetheart
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i get so irrationally frustrated when i see a jack aubrey that doesn't meet my standards of thickness its stupid
#i blame russell crowe for this /hj#let yourself be free. take my hand. lets give that man and additional 2-4 stone#!! this isnt about anyone in particular this is not a response to anyone or any specific art !!#ive just been thinking about him a lot recently and had a conversation with a friend alright#also. i am very much aware that i too have underdone him when i first drew him#take my hand. it is possible to learn to draw fat people well dont be scared#look a talking muffin
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The unexpected continuation of this post! And just like that one, I had to stop multiple times bc I was laughing too hard at Chara's first face
Based on these glorious dogs
#Chara is the most unphotogenic bastard to ever have graced the underworld. poor lad#“but GG wheres frisk?”#firstly they werent even born yet. this would have taken place when ree and chara were lil babies#and secondly EHEHEEHHUEHEU ooh dont you worry I already have planned a related post with frisk in it#and im already laughing at the thought of it#myart#chara ut#chara dreemurr#chara undertale#asriel dreemurr#ut#undertale#deltarune#and yeah not surprised that chara is having an existencial crisis 24/7#picture it man: you throw yourself down a hole to end with your miserable existence#and instead you get adopted by a loving family of magical goats#also youre royalty now#the lad is going through it and I dont blame them lmao
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i think about characters relationships to religion a normal amount
#gideonposting#i really love thinking about it#how do you tell yourself that god loves you when youve done such horrible things#i also think he'd blame himself for the amulet ruining his life so hard and go “oh god ive performed dark magic im Going To Hell+#Theres No Redemption“#i think the guilt would get him idk#but also maybe im just projecting i love having religious trauma#gideon gleeful#brrd art#brrd's special little boy#chirping#i also totally stole the butterfly bow from pinteresy#i like using butterflies in gideon sketches because i think they fit him I Dont Know#live laugh gideon or whatever
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hi bojan???
#joker out#kris guštin#bojan cvjetićanin#jure maček#nace jordan#i just found this in my footage#i like to believe hes checking out nace and winking at him but you can fill it in yourself#it could also be jure#but i mean were all swooning over nace i dont blame him#mine#mine*
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i know posting fic can be discouraging with how little feedback you get these days, especially in smaller fandoms, but it's so wild to me seeing writers have meltdowns where they threaten not to write/post fic ever again because they're not getting enough comments.
like if you never want to post for a fandom again due to a lack of comments then that is literally your loss first and foremost because you made attention your primary goal when posting your creations. you already forgot what the whole point is.
if you're butthurt it's 'only' your friends paying attention to your fic then you're completely lost. the point of fandom is connecting through creation. why the fuck are you prioritizing the idea of an audience of strangers when the people that love you and met you through fandom are loving what you make?
it's fine and it's more than okay to be disappointed that something you put so much effort on didn't get the reception you hoped. it's understandable to want praise from people that aren't already attached to you. but when you let this absence become central in your fandom existence you're forgetting something.
we're not sharing our creations to become fandom influencers or clout chasers, we're sharing them because we can't help it, because we simply want to summon our ideas into existence. and if other people enjoy that, then that's honestly awesome. if not then, well that's too bad but we still wanted it out there.
just the fact that you posted it is already worth celebrating! a lot of people never gather enough courage to share their creations publicly. god knows for the longest time i didn't. so you should be proud for taking that step. and you should be happy with yourself without needing others to validate that.
#rambling#about writing#i cant emphasize enough that its completely fair to be bummed about lack of interaction#but dont give strangers all the power when it comes to you and your creations#its for you it should always be for you first and foremost and everything else is a bonus#A BONUS#and yeah comparing yourself to the attention artists get is like. futile#its different mediums. itll never work the same way#yes its hard. yes maybe you want to give up#and if you want to do that its fine#but you need to acknowledge its all up to you rather than blaming others#i do know some ppl create whether its art or writing to become big fandom names or whatever#i dont really respect nor care for that#but they can exist for sure. just dont let those types of people define what your fandom experience should be like#and treasure your friends . treasure the friends that want to read what you do .#don't take that willingness to check what you do for granted#anyway this is certainly not about anyone i follow or im in contact with just stuff ive been ruminating with for a long time#after seeing hoards of discourse about the topic
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Rewatching 97 because I just need to get on with it but GAWDDD at this point I'm literally not watching all the rogueneto scenes IT'S SO UNCOOL 💀💀💀💀 ERIK WOULD NOT DO THAT WTF DISNEY
its just really funny in regards to 97 specifically because they never even interact in 92 (or if they do its incredibly sparring) so it's just the most out of nowhere thing possible. like oh we're doing this now ok
#snap chats#ITS THE WAY THEY DONT EVEN WAIT FOR MAGNETO TO UNPACK HIS SUITCASE IN THE X MANSION YK WHAT I MEAN#AS SOON AS HE'S HEADMASTER /NOW/ WE'RE GETTING THIS BACKGROUND LIKE /OH OK ALRIGHT/#OBVIOUSLY it happened in the comics but if we're talking TAS continuity... lol...#biases aside it is simply Very Funny JEALKJERKLEJA#the most awkward part of it is watching gambit get sidelined like king nooooo..... and then he dies vJEALKVJEAKLJ#like ik you two werent dating in 92 either but yall at least had build up.....#listen i get wanting to kill yourself after watching your crush and her ex. Do All That. like multiple times throughout the show#ONE TIME BEING A NAKED HALLUCINATION LIKE listen i do not blame gambit for being so ready to kill himself JVLKESJAELK#I WOULDVE BEEN ON THE NEWS PERSONALLY#i cant deny the humor of it all but at the same time it does stop me from rewatching 97 sometimes#'snap is it that serious' absolutely not its just awkward yk what i mean. i dont have a grander reason other than i cant vibe with them#idk i think i just overall wanted rogue to do more than be in a love triangle plot#maybe its just cause i dont really care for romance plots in general idk...#but then again i liked whatever they were cooking with gambit and rogue in 92... there will-they/won't-they thing.....#like the ep in 97 where she. Goes Rogue... that was cool..... thatd be cool to see more of..#hopefully that's comin in the next season...
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