My big boy baby and I had an incredible day today!
We took a bath together and said our new thing needs to be taking showers together. 😭
Then he kept zerberting me on the belly in the tub. 😭😭😭😂🥰
..then, my big boy baby demanded to begin his Early Potty Training/ Elimination Communication.
..and peed in his potty twice, back to back; choosing to speak to me that he needed to pee… 🤭🥰😌✨
How could I not be proud? 11 Months Old. 3 Months premature. 1.5 months without me bc I was banned from seeing him, simply for caring and spending too much time with him. Eating soft solids at 4 Months. Speaking and Signing ASL by 5 Months. Learning to comprehend 4 languages at a time and succeeding.
When I read it, it does seem “advanced”, but I maintain that Big Cato is interested in learning about things that further his independence and autonomy, and that every baby grows at their own pace on purpose.
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Before we get into it i just want to thank you guys again for trusting Scar with your babes! I wishhhhh she could keep them all in and just be with all 18 of them even though i know two in particular that would be like..just let us out of here haha! some relationships never went beyond and you could tell it was just kinda a friend vibe and honestly Scar needs that as well. So even though it pained me to do it..some had to be eliminated just based off of no attraction to her whatsoever. That being said im sure a few of these guys will make some appearances down the line sharing their thoughts and having wee convos with Scar. I cant believe we started this in December and we're just now getting to the first elimination. My least favourite part. Thank you again for participating and sending Scar your loves. I hope that the eliminated babes find their happiness and if you guys ever wanted me to make you a simmie you let me know
NOW.. for the winners of the first rose ceremony. They are in order of highest romance by the first rose ceremony to the lowest. Under the Cut
@duusheen EUGENE
@fl0pera ELIA
@bubblepopsims XENA
@dumplingtrait LAMAR
@lynzishell PRESLEY
@simvanie LUXOR
@plumbewb JULIA
@bakersimmer SOFIA
@shesthespinstersimmer SOREN
@invisiblequeen PARKER
AND my least favourite part is the eliminated. i love each and every one of your babes.they just didnt have any interest in Scar romantically. i do hope that they find their loveys of their lives and if any one of you are okay with coming back a wee bit later for a chit chat with Scar that would be amazing <3
@dandylion240 JOLENE
@agena87 PL
@m0ckest NATALYA
@havenroyals XZAVIER
@riverofjazzsims MAJESTY
@suepixels LEX
@bloomingkyras RUELLE
@beebeesiims MATT
i cant thank you guys enough for staying with me on this bachelorette challenge and for trusting me with your babes. I hope I did your babes justice and i HATE eliminating any babe. But this bc journey man.. the next elimination will be three sims.. then two.. and then one by one. sheesh and ouch.
Love is Embarrassing Continues...
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Thank you so much for that 'degenrate' post. Its worked its way into about every kink community im in, and im.glad to see someone finally say that its fucked, and explain why.
In some ways it's reassuring to read this and know that I'm not the only one who's noticed an uptick in its use lately, though of course that uptick in and of itself is pretty worrisome. Hopefully this legitimately harmful language will be worked back out of our communities once people realize how fucked up it is! That of course means that in any community of appreciable size there will be some bad eggs to kick who refuse to drop it, but given which groups use that language intentionally while knowing its past, that'll be a necessary step in making kink circles safer and more welcoming.
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Trans women talking about misogyny doesn’t mean they hate trans men, cry harder to ur terf friends
good job dipshit youve successfully demonstrated to the class what the strawman fallacy is. how is it that youre able to recognize that trans women talking about transmisogyny isnt an attack on trans men but not vice versa
you really gotta be plugging your ears and ignoring the shit out of trans men if you think that anybody with a brain is arguing what youre accusing us of lmao. which lemme check my Transandromisia List, oh shit
talking over us, erasure of our experiences, purposeful misconstruing to make us out as the Bad Guys (thats you!)
calling us terfs and grouping us in with actual dangerous oppressors (also you!)
othering us in some us vs. them type bullshit (you did that!)
dogg i dunno how to tell you this but youre an s-tier example of why trans men are fed up to the point where theres a brand sparkly new movement that pisses you off. maybe youre pressed cause were trying to dismantle the oppression olympics and you think youre winning. too bad sunshine, nobodys a fucking winner when it comes to any flavor of transphobia. pull your head out of your terminally online ass and go interact with somebody. go think about why trans men discussing their struggles is such a fucking issue for you
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with learning the history of clothing, the more I get a rock in my shoe about manufacturing. like i think a lot about how the way out of capitalism is to go back to an artisan model of society. because things that are well made by hand last so much longer, and it allows for more artistic expression and the evolution of culture.
this is not me trying to romanticize the past or anything, or that automation and manufacturing is all bad, but when one of the things killing the planet is overconsumption and cheaply produced items, then I start to think a lot about how corporations as a whole shouldn't exist and be okay with having less stuff.
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An open letter to the U.S. Senate
Improve disabled American's financial stability with S.4102 - SSI Savings Penalty Elimination Act
In the words of David Goldfarb on behalf of the Arc of the United States, "…we enthusiastically endorse S. 4102, the SSI Savings Penalty Elimination Act, which would raise the amount of savings a Supplemental Security Income (SSI) recipient can keep for the first time in over thirty years. The mission of the Arc is to promote and protect the human rights of people with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD) and actively support their full inclusion and participation in the community throughout their lifetimes.
"SSI provides an extremely modest cash benefit, a maximum of $841 a month in 2022, for certain individuals with disabilities and older adults. In March 2022, nearly 7.6 million people: 4.3 million working-age individuals with disabilities; 1 million children with disabilities; and 2.3 million older adults relied on the program.
"Many individuals with IDD rely on the SSI program. In 2017, SSA estimated that approximately 19% of working-age SSI recipients possessed an intellectual disability. For many people with IDD, SSI is their only source of income without which they could become institutionalized or homeless.
"Unfortunately, the benefit’s low, outdated resource limit of $2,000 for individuals/$3,000 for couples does not allow people to save for emergencies, such as a leaky roof, car repair, or other unexpected expense. To make matters worse, the $2,000 limit does not adjust for inflation every year, and it has remained the same since 1989.
"The SSI Savings Penalty Elimination Act would significantly improve the lives of SSI recipients, including people with IDD, by raising the asset limit to $10,000 per individual/$20,000 per couple. The legislation also adjusts that number for inflation every year, a critical element in 2 today’s inflationary environment. This will allow SSI beneficiaries to use their own savings to address needed emergencies when they arise.
"Thank you again for this critical legislation."
Truly his letter is phenomenal and applicable to many American citizens. I hope you too appreciate his mastery of diction, his compassion for his fellow American, and the truth in his words.
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