#fight eds

[sillystringpony]

SUPPORT MY RUN TO FIGHT EATING DISORDERS, BECAUSE FUCK ANOREXIA! 🥊🥊🥊

I'M DOUBTFUL I'LL REACH MY $1K AUD GOAL BY THE RUN BUT THAT ISN'T ANY REASON TO STOP TRYING RIGHT?! 💪💪

ANY AMOUNT HELPS THE CAUSE, but if you really cannot donate, interactions and reblogs go a long way <3

MORE INFO BELOW CUT.

ON THE 19TH, I AM RUNNING 12KM WITH HBF RUN FOR A REASON, AND I'VE BEEN FUNDRAISING FOR THE BUTTERFLY FOUNDATION, A GROUP FOCUSED ON PREVENTING EDS, AS WELL AS SUPPORTING THOSE LIVING WITH EDS.

But... Why?

Since age 12, I've been living with disordered eating, and this past year I've been caught in a severe cycle of restrictive to binge/purging anorexia. When I heard about HBF run for a reason, I wanted to take it on: not only to raise money for an extremely important foundation, but also as a challenge to myself. I have been training... Not only physically, but mentally, to prepare myself for this run. 12km might not seem like a huge deal, but to someone who's lost most of their physical strength to illness, doing this run is going to be my Mount Everest.

What is the Butterfly Foundation?

The Butterfly Foundation is an Australian organisation dedicated to supporting Australians impact by all types of eating disorders from all walks of life. Their primary service is their helplines, and I cannot stress how important these are. EDs are a socially isolating experience, and in more cases than not, people with an ED will completely socially isolate themselves, meaning that in moments of crisis, they might not have anyone to go to. Raising funds will allow the Butterfly Foundation to keep itself up and running, and to keep providing the lifesaving support that it has been providing to people like me.

I can't donate, but I really want to help :(

It's okay, I understand, and I love you. Sharing this blog post and/or my fundraising page is a HUGE help, and it still means the world.

PR0ANA AND PR0MIA, please DNI. I understand what you're going through, I've been where you are and I'm not going to lecture you or act like my opinion will change yours, but this is not the right place for interactions. Thank you <3

[hootgrowlhootgrowl]

completely obsessed with the fact that ed and fang missed the entire cursed suit plot bc they were out fishing the whole day

[a-very-sparkly-nerd]

Annabeth: *tries to sacrifice herself for Percy*

Percy:

Percy:

Percy: *jumps off the St. Louis Arch*

[captain-flint]

stede: [being bossy and assertive] ed: [new kink unlocked 🔓]

[anadeathblogxx]

Ja bo szkola i bedzie latwiej unikac jedzenia :

Ja bo szkola i bezsennosc, wieczne zmeczenie, samotnosc, ciagla nauka, zalamanie przy gorszej ocenie, brak czasu wolnego i czeste epizody depresyjne :

[bizarrelittlemew]

Finally gaining approval and popularity in a world you always craved being a part of vs. watching the other person enjoying the very thing you're trying to escape

One difference:

[rumpled]

[tending-the-hearth]

the pevensie siblings find, when they return to england after being in narnia for so long, that it's not the fact that they're twenty years younger that is the most difficult to adjust to, but the clothes.

not in a "i wore expensive fabrics and jewels and silks and velvets for twenty years and now i have to go back to wearing inexpensive fabric?" way but in a "i spent twenty years wearing layers of comfortable heavy clothes and cloaks and soft fabric that didn't scratch and the feeling of loose clothing is a sensory nightmare" way.

edmund, who is perpetually cold, and always had at least three layers + a cloak on, and who the narnian tailors learned preferred inner linings of velvet because any other fabrics let too much of a chill in, and cloaks made of a study fabric meant strong protection against the elements

lucy, who can feel every little scratch and out of place tag in her clothes, always having narnian clothes fit her just right, made of soft fabric that never scratched her skin, and the narnian tailors knowing exactly what to use, and how to stitch the clothes so no loose threads ever bothered their beloved valiant queen

susan, who hates being restricted by her clothing, who loved the looser, softer-fitting arms of her gowns, because it meant that she could draw her bows faster, and tailors being able to pick which fabrics were the sturdiest and could withstand susan's draw, while still giving her the gentle appearance that perfectly hid her true abilities

peter, who can't stand anything tight around his neck, who only wore close-collar shirts when he had to, and who the narnian tailors knew to make the shirts a little looser around the neck, making sure that nothing closed too tightly, and making sure that his battle wear, though protective, never felt too constricting

and lucy and susan begin wearing headbands when they're back in england, every single day to mimic the comforting sensation of wearing their crowns that they're desperate to maintain

edmund and peter missing the weight of their shields on their backs, so they carry their school bags around as long as they can just to feel more balanced out as they walk alongside their sisters back home

just all four of them growing so accustomed to the weight of their narnian clothes and gifts and crowns, the lengths and layers of fabric, that when they are back in england, their old clothes are the biggest sensory nightmare to all of them, and they're just desperate to get their comfort back

[stedebonnit]

One thing I haven't stopped thinking about is that scene where Ed and Stede dine and dash and we get that glimpse as they run off giggling. Because really, more than the hopeful reunion, the soft confessions, more than the anger and bitter jabs, that moment was a glimpse into who they'll be as a couple.

Just a couple of chaos gremlins doing whatever the fuck they want and giggling the whole time, because when they're together the rest of the world fades away, its just them and their silly little whims.

[lyoneve]

The new crew member on Hornigold’s ship gets real flirty when he drinks and Izzy has finally stopped pretending to be annoyed by it

Young!edizzy anyone? 👀

[dykedarling]

literally my first thought

[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

[bookshelfdreams]

That is certainly - a statement.

What about Jim, who both metaphorically and literally discovers a path for themself beyond what they were raised to be? What about Pete, who learns to overcome his toxic masculinity, his posturing and self-importance? What about Ed, whose entire story is about deconstructing the performance that is expected of him?

What about, oh, idk, our main fucking character Stede Bonnet, whose arc starts with him literally breaking out from the hetero marriage he was forced into despite never fitting in? Who tries (and initially fails) to build a community where he can be himself? Whose entire story is about discovering his own queerness! He starts out not even able to put a finger on WHY his marriage made him feel so suffocated, and then journeys through s1 until he reaches the emotional climax - "His name is Ed"!

Contrast that with Izzy, who has to be dragged into a supportive community kicking and screaming. Who rejects care and compassion, even at his worst, who has to be forced to accept help. He receives the leg and calls the crew a homophobic slur for it, ffs. Only after that, only when people refuse to let him push them away, is he able to poke his nose into something approaching positive human connections. And that's a powerful narrative, sure, in it's own way; but it's hardly the Ultimate Queer Experience, and it's definitely not the "only queer arc".

And Izzy never lets go of the old ways. He never abandons the Blackbeard-era pirate lifestyle for something more positive, not fully. And that's okay, because ultimately, his arc isn't even about himself.

It's about Ed.

Ed keeps repeating toxic relationship patterns, and Izzy is a part of that. He's linked (on purpose, and I wish it had been done more explicitly) to Ed's father; because Izzy represents the poison that was instilled in Ed from a young age, and that has become so entrenched in his system that he can't imagine a life without it. He keeps Izzy around despite being hurt by him because Izzy is predictable, and in that, is safe, even though he hurts Ed; at least it's a hurt Ed is familiar with and can rely on.

When Izzy slowly changes it's to show that Ed is growing beyond the little voice in his head telling him to reject softness, that he can never be loved, that We're just not these kinds of people. If Izzy can evolve from someone spitting boyfriend at Ed like it's a slur to someone congratulating him on getting laid by that same person, Ed can overcome his inner demons telling him the same thing.

That's the point of Izzy's arc. And this is why he has to die, because Ed can never be truly free as long as Izzy is around. So Izzy goes, quietly, peacefully, and releases Ed of the poison; apologizes to him, tells him I was so wrong, and I am so sorry, because that's what Ed needs to hear to move forward.

And that's such a kind, positive way to end the story of Izzy Hands.

[jakegyllenbaalz]

brad pitt as tyler durden (fight club, 1999)

[squirrelstothenuts]

[bizarrelittlemew]

this has to be a shout-out to the fandom for speculating about the sleeping arrangements aboard the Revenge for over a year